FabGuys.com forum: So many excuses

By *ornyStag70 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Waddesdon

So many excuses people make on this site when it comes to arranging a meet up

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By *tainesMan
5 weeks ago

_taines

It’s all about being able to accommodate

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By *bear67Man
5 weeks ago

Aldershot

Very often it's because you just don't fancy the guy who wants to meet and you're too polite to say so.

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By *kentguyMan
5 weeks ago

Medway

I worry about the number of close family relatives that are rushed into hospital about half an hour before a planned meet, meaning your date has to cancel to be by their side.

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By *itherMan
5 weeks ago

Leeds

"Very often it's because you just don't fancy the guy who wants to meet and you're too polite to say so."
I can take rejection but it thoroughly pisses me off when I give up a day to meet a guy and he doesn't show.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I worry about the number of close family relatives that are rushed into hospital about half an hour before a planned meet, meaning your date has to cancel to be by their side. "

No wonder wait times in A&E are so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"It’s all about being able to accommodate "

That is very true. Random winks or half hearted messages don’t amount to much.

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By *iHubby73TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Durham

I'm always honest and say I am not ready for a meet, and I don't and never will meet at the drop of a hat. It clearly says this on my profile but instill get asked and then get told I'm a time waster. If only they bothered reading my profile.... obviously on top much hurry not to read

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By *akemeMan
5 weeks ago

ayrshire

Must admit I prefer travelling as I know I am going to turn up nothing worse than sitting at home waiting for a tinewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I'm always honest and say I am not ready for a meet, and I don't and never will meet at the drop of a hat. It clearly says this on my profile but instill get asked and then get told I'm a time waster. If only they bothered reading my profile.... obviously on top much hurry not to read "

Thats a big problem on here no one reads your profile just want see your pics

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By *loverfieldMan
5 weeks ago

Dalton-in-Furness, Cumbria

"It’s all about being able to accommodate

That is very true. Random winks or half hearted messages don’t amount to much."

Being able to accommodate doesn't mean you won't have to endure conversations that lead nowhere.

Nor does it stop you from having someone who looks nothing like their picture ring your doorbell.

And you are still at the mercy of snowflakes who haven't got the guts to express what they are into...

Honestly, I sometimes wonder if the guys I interact with have had any life experience in the real world...

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By *raggahboyMan
5 weeks ago

stoke

Definitely

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By *raggahboyMan
5 weeks ago

stoke

Say they can travel but soon as you say ur available it changes to can you pick me up If they want picking up no doubt expect you take them back! Sorry Im not a taxi But i will pick up someone ive met before

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By *ickSeekerMan
5 weeks ago

Canterbury

And don't forget all those mothers who lock themselves out 30 miles away and need their son (my date) spare key; all those unexpected calls to go to the office when you said it was yoir wfh day; and those pesky daughters that have the horrible habit of visiting their dad (unannounced, of course) not once, not twice but three times during the day I was supposed to meet the dad....I despair....

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By *im le2Man
5 weeks ago

aylestone leic

We all have to cancel at times. I get about 40 guys say there coming to my group meets. I know half will be no-shows (cold feet) others will let me know they can't come I don't mind that. Out of 40 guys I'll get 15 show up.

I can tell the guys that will no-show it's disappointing but what can we do.

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By *ubSarahTVTV/TS
5 weeks ago

leicester

Going back a few years, in one day from 3 different people I had a grandmother rushed into hospital, a serious car accident, and my favourite the family of Ukrainian refugees they were going to house suddenly turned up.

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By *ubsissyforuMan
5 weeks ago

nr Bourne lincs

Yes it's amazing the rubbish people come out with

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

I’ve had most of those excuses given.

One even got annoyed when i replied

“Don’t worry. Realised you were going to be a no-show so arranged another meet, had a great time”.

It’s almost like he wanted me to be upset he didn’t turn up. Didn’t get the dopamine hit he hoped for.

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