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Medway

Before I retired I used to drop into a local layby on my way too and from work for the chance to get sucked or just mutual wanking

When I retired I thought I'd have more opportunities but I find myself so busy and with the wife permanently working from home now my opportunities are a lot less

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By *u2usemeMan
4 weeks ago

hyde

Same here

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By *ooking4 fun300Man
4 weeks ago

Stevenage

I semi retire soon hope to get more chances to meet

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By *esbackMan
4 weeks ago

currently in Aberdeenshire

Similar here. When working there was always opportunities to be out and about . Much more tricky to get some “me time” now.

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By *acial lover telfordMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

I blow several retired guys but they generally have wives who go away with friends or stay at family and leave the guys home alone for a few days ,adore servicing older guys orally

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By *3versMan
4 weeks ago

glasgow

"Before I retired I used to drop into a local layby on my way too and from work for the chance to get sucked or just mutual wanking

When I retired I thought I'd have more opportunities but I find myself so busy and with the wife permanently working from home now my opportunities are a lot less "

No hobbies that can get you out and about?

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By *um4usenowMan
4 weeks ago

Wymondham

Exactly the same. I retired four years ago expressly to be able to roam and get a lot of cock. I did have cover stories to do this worked out with a good friend of mine. But after six months or so she also decided to retire so we could do things together! That blew that plan out of the water. I do still get meets every now and again, with the help of my aforementioned friend, but they are few and far between.

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By *atalie-suxMan
4 weeks ago

Barry

A big challenge now, is the proliferation of tracking and monitoring devices. Even if you don’t think you are being tracked.. x

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By *eekingcumsMan
4 weeks ago

Stoke/Stafford

Im about to retire and expect the same issue about how to escape.

Perhaps need to get a bloke hobby that let's me get out on my own.

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By *acial lover telfordMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

For those in west midlands the sex cinemas and greenhouse sauna are pretty damn close to the IKEA and retail park complex so you could lose a couple of hours doing that and attending those venues

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By *uck me in Kent OP Man
4 weeks ago

Medway

"Before I retired I used to drop into a local layby on my way too and from work for the chance to get sucked or just mutual wanking

When I retired I thought I'd have more opportunities but I find myself so busy and with the wife permanently working from home now my opportunities are a lot less

No hobbies that can get you out and about?"

I don't fish or play golf. I go to the gym a couple of times a week but time is limited. I don't cycle either

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By *uck me in Kent OP Man
4 weeks ago

Medway

"For those in west midlands the sex cinemas and greenhouse sauna are pretty damn close to the IKEA and retail park complex so you could lose a couple of hours doing that and attending those venues "

Nothing like that here. There is the sauna but I'm wary as I'm well known in the area for some of the support services I'm involved in so can't risk being seen going in or out

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By *uck me in Kent OP Man
4 weeks ago

Medway

"A big challenge now, is the proliferation of tracking and monitoring devices. Even if you don’t think you are being tracked.. x "

She wouldn't know how and doesn't suspect anything I do as untoward

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By *tar33Man
4 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"A big challenge now, is the proliferation of tracking and monitoring devices. Even if you don’t think you are being tracked.. x "

You have to be pretty paranoid to think like that.

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By *ulge1Man
4 weeks ago

nowhere

Enjoying my retirement even better now I’m divorced

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By *eekingcumsMan
4 weeks ago

Stoke/Stafford

"For those in west midlands the sex cinemas and greenhouse sauna are pretty damn close to the IKEA and retail park complex so you could lose a couple of hours doing that and attending those venues "

I'd rather do without sex that go anywhere near IKEA at Walsall.

LOL

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By *tar33Man
4 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I retired a couple of years ago but still work on an ad-hoc basis, always in different places at different times.

I can arrange meets as and when I like, and one day a week I go to the gym in the evening instead of early on. That gives me an opportunity for cruising but otherwise I can go where I want to when I want to, without fear of interrogation.

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By *aggonerMan
4 weeks ago

Malvern

I found fewer opportunities to meet since I retired.

I used to be self employed and had plenty of opportunities but not now. She knows my hobbies so no chance there.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Getting proper alone time isn't easy, that's where online chats, wanking etc helps fill that gap kinda

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By *acial lover telfordMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

"For those in west midlands the sex cinemas and greenhouse sauna are pretty damn close to the IKEA and retail park complex so you could lose a couple of hours doing that and attending those venues

I'd rather do without sex that go anywhere near IKEA at Walsall.

LOL"

Lol fair point but just trying to give guys options for sex

I suck at greenhouse and foxy lady and some lovely older guys there x

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By *amplighter1Man
4 weeks ago

ryde

Retired recently and like many here the opportunities for a meet or even a wank have just about dissapeared

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By *marylisMan
4 weeks ago

SHEFFIELD

Take up bird watching or photography, plenty of options for going out on long country walks/drives and coming home with muddy knees isn't suspicious lol

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By *endy CMan
4 weeks ago

Huntingdon

The trick, as plenty have mentioned is 'outside interests'.

And as far as wifie is concerned she will be keen on you finding something soonest. Its a cry from wifie ..."He's under my feet ALL DAY!"

And if your struggling to escape....Then MAKE SURE you ARE under her feet! She will soon be balls out to see you disappear to the golf club for a few hours ... or off to the river bank!

Think about it fellas!!!

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By *ndy61hMan
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

I retired, wife left me 3 months later, meets no problem.

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By *damb00Man
4 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Get a hobby and use it as an excuse

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By *eteNFKMan
4 weeks ago

East Anglia

I’m a month away from fully retiring. I work part time at the mo.

Wife is semi retired and travels between uk and Dubai for work. It’s an ideal arrangement.

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By *oxleyMan
4 weeks ago

Wetherby

"A big challenge now, is the proliferation of tracking and monitoring devices. Even if you don’t think you are being tracked.. x

You have to be pretty paranoid to think like that."

Not at all. I track her when she is out walking the dog - I want my dog back 🤭

I turn mine off when being naughty and claim the signal is poor 😇

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By *urryheathbearMan
4 weeks ago

Camberley

Agree with those who say get a hobby and or work part time. Im a gardener and plan to keep at least 2 days a week for customers.

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By *punklover_69Man
4 weeks ago

Nearby

I'm retired now and have the house to myself a lot of the time. There's nothing I like more then to host complete strangers and swallow their loads. Mostly I get one, quite a few times two, on occasion three in a day. Lucky me.

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By *tar33Man
4 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"Retired recently and like many here the opportunities for a meet or even a wank have just about dissapeared "

Why?

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By *owzerMan
4 weeks ago

Chester.....

"I'm retired now and have the house to myself a lot of the time. There's nothing I like more then to host complete strangers and swallow their loads. Mostly I get one, quite a few times two, on occasion three in a day. Lucky me.

And you don't even have to put your teeth in

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By *PH1956Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester

I feel your pain guys!

In a similar situation no time for meets

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By *tagman6930Man
4 weeks ago

SW London

Once retired, if finding it difficult to get time for fun, join the local men's shed. Going out to go there and actually being there when you've gone out are two different things.

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By *it FingerMan
4 weeks ago

Barnstaple

I retired earlier this year. I seem to have less time because of the hobbies I have. Go figure.

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By *eicguy12399Man
4 weeks ago

haworth

Following this for ideas as retiring soon and moving to Yorkshire currently self employed so plenty time,excuses to get away for bit of fun

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By *oneyboneMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

Same ? Have no time to work crazy

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By *punklover_69Man
4 weeks ago

Nearby

And you don't even have to put your teeth in "

Unerringly accurate statement.

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By *um4usenowMan
4 weeks ago

Wymondham

"A big challenge now, is the proliferation of tracking and monitoring devices. Even if you don’t think you are being tracked.. x

You have to be pretty paranoid to think like that."

You say paranoid, I would say security conscious.

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By *umquakeMan
4 weeks ago

Boston

Tell her you like sucking cock and invite her to come along and watch.

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By *illmymouth300Man
4 weeks ago

fleckney

Same for me

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By *uck me in Kent OP Man
4 weeks ago

Medway

"Tell her you like sucking cock and invite her to come along and watch.

I love a guy with a sense of humour

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By *atthew500Man
4 weeks ago

east yorks/hull

I am retiring early next year and started laying ground bait about getting out more into the city to photograph old buildings before they are knocked down etc. convenient that there is a sauna near the old town areas of hull!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't think anyone should have to make up an excuse to go out and have some me time xx

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By *atthew500Man
4 weeks ago

east yorks/hull

Maybe we shouldnt, but not all in a position to play freely and accom whenever- are you?

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Maybe we shouldnt, but not all in a position to play freely and accom whenever- are you?"
yep my wife knows x

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By *uck me in Kent OP Man
4 weeks ago

Medway

Maybe we shouldnt, but not all in a position to play freely and accom whenever- are you?"

Exactly

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By *ldmanMan
4 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

I have no wife, so do not need anyone's permission to play!

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By *aggonerMan
4 weeks ago

Malvern

As I do the cooking I do the grocery shopping. Fortunately wife doesn’t like shopping so I can make a little extra time but it’s not ideal

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By *odie.LegsMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Goodness I thought this was only my problem This year I have taken fishing back up to make a opportunity to pack the car with fishing gear and go somewhere else for sexy fun

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By *ardy62Man
4 weeks ago

Weymouth

Im ok at the mo as partly retired, wife still full time

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By *aucey04TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bletchingley

Mine works from home 2 days a week so I can still play and can accommodate 3 days a week

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By *uck me in Kent OP Man
4 weeks ago

Medway

"Im ok at the mo as partly retired, wife still full time"

Mines full time but from home. Used to travel into London every day now it's once in a blue moon

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By *IPMANMan
4 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

This is exactly why God invented gay saunas and sex bars

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"Im about to retire and expect the same issue about how to escape.

Perhaps need to get a bloke hobby that let's me get out on my own.

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take up fishing gets you out

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By *westMan
4 weeks ago

Hull

Not retired yet. I keep imagining her leaving me and me having more cock time.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Not sure about retirement. Was eased into it by working virtually part time for the last six months at work. Initially just felt like a holiday at home. Moved to a new house in a new area. Garden a total wilderness plus new places to figure out and explore. Joined a gym and a thing called 'Men's Shed'[totally straight but pleasant for just socialising]. Briefly joined the local LGBT+ but a bit of a disaster as I just did not fit in. Managed a few hook-ups but not as many as I had hoped.

Then covid came along. All social outings ended. Sex hook-ups came to an abrupt halt. Never got back into the swing of things plus have had health issues which sadly plague us as we get older.

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By *luvnylonstockingsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

southsea

Im due to reture feb 2027 ,was put back a year .

My jobs so easy ,im going to keep working ,drop a day for play and just not tell her .

She dosnt know how much i earn ,we have seperate accounts .

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By *orwdMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

The retired wife is a major drag on opportunity far better when she was working. Wish she'd swing..!

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By *loudnineMan
4 weeks ago

Hereford/Powys

It's almost impossible both being retired. Wish I'd done more when I was self employed and could get out and about easily.

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By *ikepetersMan
4 weeks ago

yeovil

Having spent a couple of months at home. I agree its very frustrating

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Retirement has its good points and drawbacks. Befriended a guy. on the old Cottaging.co site. We never met as about 300 miles apart. Phoned each other at least once a week and got on like a house on fire. Perhaps we wouldn't have 'got on' had we met. He was bisexual and married. His wife, who was several years younger, suddenly took early retirement. Our long phonecalls of 'putting the world to right' gradually, and now completely, ceased

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