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"You're making the mistake of pairing being penetrated with feminity when there is no connection between the two things at all." Yep. I’m not at all feminine and like a cock in my arse. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " Think some people has misconstrued your point, which as far as I read it is men who like to be penetrated by a hard cock but claim they are still “straight”. If they enjoy being fucked by another man they are at the very least Bi not straight, they are just in denial about their sexuality. The fact you are gay and comfortable with your sexuality and sexual desires is just a contrast between their denial and your acceptance. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me Think some people has misconstrued your point, which as far as I read it is men who like to be penetrated by a hard cock but claim they are still “straight”. If they enjoy being fucked by another man they are at the very least Bi not straight, they are just in denial about their sexuality. The fact you are gay and comfortable with your sexuality and sexual desires is just a contrast between their denial and your acceptance." You would have a point - had the OP not framed it with the word "femininity". In doing so he has assumed the receiver is feminine, as that is how he has accepted he is. He's off the mark by several galaxies. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me Think some people has misconstrued your point, which as far as I read it is men who like to be penetrated by a hard cock but claim they are still “straight”. If they enjoy being fucked by another man they are at the very least Bi not straight, they are just in denial about their sexuality. The fact you are gay and comfortable with your sexuality and sexual desires is just a contrast between their denial and your acceptance." You have misconstrued it. He also refers and links penetration to masculinity Whilst they are at least bi if they like to be penetrated they can still be masculine. A point he gets wrong and you appear to have missed completely. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me Think some people has misconstrued your point, which as far as I read it is men who like to be penetrated by a hard cock but claim they are still “straight”. If they enjoy being fucked by another man they are at the very least Bi not straight, they are just in denial about their sexuality. The fact you are gay and comfortable with your sexuality and sexual desires is just a contrast between their denial and your acceptance." Nope, the OP clearly states he is "feminine in his sexual nature" As a bi versatile guy, I'm attracted to masculinity, and would definitely describe myself as masculine. Whether I'm topping or bottoming, I'm still "masculine in my sexual nature" He's conflating masculinity with heterosexuality. I know many straight guys who are camp as a row of tents, and I'm pleased to say, many masculine gay guys, because they are mainly what I'm attracted to. And men who have sex with men but identify as straight is pretty common and well researched Read " Still straight: sexual flexibility in white men in rural America" by Tony Silva. Interesting stuff. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me Think some people has misconstrued your point, which as far as I read it is men who like to be penetrated by a hard cock but claim they are still “straight”. If they enjoy being fucked by another man they are at the very least Bi not straight, they are just in denial about their sexuality. The fact you are gay and comfortable with your sexuality and sexual desires is just a contrast between their denial and your acceptance. You would have a point - had the OP not framed it with the word "femininity". In doing so he has assumed the receiver is feminine, as that is how he has accepted he is. He's off the mark by several galaxies." What the OP said was “at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me”. The key phrase being “honest enough to admit” regarding their own orientation and nature, which someone who professes to be straight but like to be fucked by a man is not. The latter (at least to me) just hi-lited the difference between someone who is honest with both themselves and others about their sexuality and someone who is not. Perhaps the OP would like to clarify their intent. | |||
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"Never been a fan or being penetrated but enjoy penetrating I'm bi and proud of it Takings isn't a sign of feminism it's what they enjoy " Yes, but neither is having sex with a man (either way) a sign of being “straight” which quite a few on here seem to profess - it (at least to me) says they can’t accept to themselves or others that they are bisexual. | |||
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"The chinese have been poisioning the water hence all the sub fags" Finally! If only they admitted to it. I've been wondering what the problem was for years!! | |||
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"The chinese have been poisioning the water hence all the sub fags" I must drink more water I am a sub fag poof lol | |||
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"Just read the title of the thread. There is absolutely nothing at odds with being masculine and being penetrated. It is the OP’s first post that introduces (erroneously) the issue of femininity and links it to penetration. Not everyone who likes to be penetrated is feminine and equally not all claim to be masculine. Discussion over. " In fact you could be feminine and a very avid top!! And probably very good at it too. | |||
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"Never been a fan or being penetrated but enjoy penetrating I'm bi and proud of it Takings isn't a sign of feminism it's what they enjoy Yes, but neither is having sex with a man (either way) a sign of being “straight” which quite a few on here seem to profess - it (at least to me) says they can’t accept to themselves or others that they are bisexual." The topic as defined by the title has nothing to do with being straight or otherwise. That misleading issue was introduced in the first post and clouded the original issue/topic. If you want to discuss that then you should also consider that a man can be feminine and still be straight. Being masculine or feminine does not define your sexual preference or your identity as straight/bi/gay. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " I’m masculine and bottom… I don’t get it?? | |||
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"The chinese have been poisioning the water hence all the sub fags" WTF is wrong with you? | |||
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"Some seriously screwy thinking on here, and all started by the ridiculous and bigoted proposition by the threadstarter which boils down to being that only 'feminine' men should take cock and any 'masculine' man who does so is lying to himself. I am personally sick of such idiotic thinking from so many gay men; you really aren't special just because you're gay and you're not gay just because you like cock up your bum. So I do not wholly identify as gay. Largely because the people I am physically attracted to are overwhelmingly women. The only bit of a man I am properly attracted to is a thick, hard, veiny cock but I'd still choose a pussy first to bury my tongue in. I am not at all feminine, I take the biggest cocks I can find up my arse, and I'll marry Scarlet Johansson when she finally gets round to asking me. That's the reality of sexuality; it's not a simple binary 'choice' and those who appear to be upset by this, like our threadstarter, are guilty of exactly the sort of bigotry they'd be the first to whinge about if directed towards them. My advice? Stop worrying about how others identify and sort your own small-mindedness out." You seem to be a very confused individual | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " Sound like the myth straight people have being putting about for years. They seem to think that if a man engaged with sex with another man he is no longer masculine. Especially if he gets penetrated. Obviously neither participants are truly heterosexual. They are either bi or gay, but it does not mean they are in anyway effeminate unless they actually set out to be. What you do sexually is a matter of personal choice and taste. It does not affect who you are at all. | |||
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"Call it what you want but I like it up the bum. " that's the spirit | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me Sound like the myth straight people have being putting about for years. They seem to think that if a man engaged with sex with another man he is no longer masculine. Especially if he gets penetrated. Obviously neither participants are truly heterosexual. They are either bi or gay, but it does not mean they are in anyway effeminate unless they actually set out to be. What you do sexually is a matter of personal choice and taste. It does not affect who you are at all." I agree. Its the old " whos the man and whos the woman" statment they sometimes make. | |||
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"I not only do it for pleasure but for the degregation.I enjoy facing my friends and colleagues with my secret shame which I enjoy so much.I would appreciate any comments on this please." You do what you enjoy. Some guys like the 'degradation' of submitting to another guy. Others might call it making love. To me it is the intimacy and I've always been versatile. Used to be a 'giver' but now prefer to be on the receiving end. It's about giving each other pleasure. | |||
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"I not only do it for pleasure but for the degregation.I enjoy facing my friends and colleagues with my secret shame which I enjoy so much.I would appreciate any comments on this please. You do what you enjoy. Some guys like the 'degradation' of submitting to another guy. Others might call it making love. To me it is the intimacy and I've always been versatile. Used to be a 'giver' but now prefer to be on the receiving end. It's about giving each other pleasure." Yes that's what it's about Pleasure. 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " Heterosexual, no they're not, however being bottom or top does not relate to being masculine or feminine, one size does not fit all, a lot of gay guys are actually quite masculine with typically male interests/hobbies, where as some like me are a lot more effeminate and thus more obviously gay but that doesn't always define their role when it comes to sex. | |||
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"Don't worry folks, it's just Carla's time of the month when she gets all broody and wants her man fanny to be flooded with hot masculine sperm" Is Carla the only gay in the village? | |||
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"So is masculine drinking beers, watching football, fixing cars and getting into scrapes, but feminine is cooking, cleaning, looking after the other half and raising kids? I’ve done all of those, so what am I. I really don’t see all this masculine/feminine shit really holding much water these days tbh." Same here apart from football, can't stand it, but yeah all the other things, I've striped and rebuilt car engines, built model airplanes including radio control, may have got in to the odd scrap when younger, I certainly drink beer go fishing, I cook, I clean and I've raised a child as a single parent (for some of her life) but guess what girls are quite capable of doing everything I've listed. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me Think some people has misconstrued your point, which as far as I read it is men who like to be penetrated by a hard cock but claim they are still “straight”. If they enjoy being fucked by another man they are at the very least Bi not straight, they are just in denial about their sexuality. The fact you are gay and comfortable with your sexuality and sexual desires is just a contrast between their denial and your acceptance." Well from all the education I have had on the subject the last I heard was as always It subjective to the guy If he isn’t attracted to the same sec he’s not gay Guys can separate sex out from emotions So if a guy thinks he’s straight then let him think that your opinion doesn’t matter You might just be irked that he isn’t fitting g into your objective view | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " There should be NO place for this kind of misguided judgement and accusation. The OP simply doesn't have a clue what they are on about. | |||
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"If you are masculine then you are masculine. If you are effeminate then you are effeminate. I've fucked some very masculine guys in the past. I've also heard some cds/tvs are tops. You just cannot generalise." Agree, being masculine or effeminate has for most people no bearing on their role, you can be top, bottom or versatile regardless of traits, a lot of guys become bottom as they get older because they either can't get a proper erection or can't rely on getting one. | |||
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"I don't see any inconsistency between being masculine and sub at all, and I prefer a sub masculine guy , which for me is hairy, inshape , articulate and confident." Sub has nothing to do with being masc or fem, you're trying to bring BDSM in to it, I consider myself fem but I'm certainly not in to sub/dom stuff. | |||
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"My point here is that so many men on this forum pretend to be heterosexual when they love being penetrated by another man's hard penis. Why cant they admit that they are gay and adore the male body. Perhaps I've erred in stating my belief that they have compromised their masculinity by being penetrated, a judgement made on my own feelings of femininity. " The thing is, they're not straight and this site doesn't even have straight as an option when you set your profile up. I think you are referring to those on here that say they're not attracted to men, they just like the sex acts, they don't have to be gay, bisexual is a long recognised sexuality, it's the B in LGBT. As for masculinity or femininity yes, probably a mistake to bring that into your post as it really has little to no bearing on what role someone is, also it's not one size fits all for those of us who are gay, some of us can be straight acting and masculine, some can be very effeminate, many are something in-between. | |||
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"I wonder if any men on here pretend to be Rachel Reeves with her red box " I'm going to raise your taxes and increase child benefits" " WTF???? | |||
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"I think you are referring to those on here that say they're not attracted to men, they just like the sex acts," No, there are people on here who post that they are “Straight but just like Cock”. If they like Cock they are not “Straight” but somewhere on the “Bi Spectrum” (for want of a better phrase). By maintaining that they are “Straight but just like Cock” they are lying to themselves and everyone else, if they were straight they wouldn’t want someone’s cock near them, especially in them. | |||
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"I think you are referring to those on here that say they're not attracted to men, they just like the sex acts, No, there are people on here who post that they are “Straight but just like Cock”. If they like Cock they are not “Straight” but somewhere on the “Bi Spectrum” (for want of a better phrase). By maintaining that they are “Straight but just like Cock” they are lying to themselves and everyone else, if they were straight they wouldn’t want someone’s cock near them, especially in them." Yeah I get that but there's no "Straight" option in the drop down when setting up your profile, just Bisexual, Bi Curious or Gay so at least on here they are one of those options, maybe outside Fabguys they are not out in the real world, however that probably goes for about 90% of the bi guys on here. | |||
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"I think you are referring to those on here that say they're not attracted to men, they just like the sex acts, No, there are people on here who post that they are “Straight but just like Cock”. If they like Cock they are not “Straight” but somewhere on the “Bi Spectrum” (for want of a better phrase). By maintaining that they are “Straight but just like Cock” they are lying to themselves and everyone else, if they were straight they wouldn’t want someone’s cock near them, especially in them." Well said  | |||
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"I've never been interested in being macho, just in touch with my feminine side. Just love the feel of a nice hard cock up me. "I'm a lot happier having come to accept that I'm more femme, wasted far too much of my life trying to be masculine. | |||
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"I think you are referring to those on here that say they're not attracted to men, they just like the sex acts, No, there are people on here who post that they are “Straight but just like Cock”. If they like Cock they are not “Straight” but somewhere on the “Bi Spectrum” (for want of a better phrase). By maintaining that they are “Straight but just like Cock” they are lying to themselves and everyone else, if they were straight they wouldn’t want someone’s cock near them, especially in them. Yeah I get that but there's no "Straight" option in the drop down when setting up your profile, just Bisexual, Bi Curious or Gay so at least on here they are one of those options, maybe outside Fabguys they are not out in the real world, however that probably goes for about 90% of the bi guys on here. " I know there is no “Straight” option in the drop-down list on the profile, that is not what I’m talking about. I have seen it actually typed into forum posts on this site “I’m straight I just like Cock”. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " A broad generalisation. I can camp it up a bit when I want but I'm not feminine in the slightest. Over 6 foot 44 inch chest. I've never faced any homophobia that I couldn't handle. Or a cock that I couldn't handle either come to think of it. | |||
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"I class myself as one of the lads when out and about. But there are times when i just like to be a sissy for a naughty man and lust for cock.... " Can't beat being his sissy bitch and getting your man-pussy feminised, I love it | |||
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"I class myself as one of the lads when out and about. But there are times when i just like to be a sissy for a naughty man and lust for cock.... Can't beat being his sissy bitch and getting your man-pussy feminised, I love it" Man pussy, really? | |||
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" A broad generalisation. I can camp it up a bit when I want but I'm not feminine in the slightest. Over 6 foot 44 inch chest. I've never faced any homophobia that I couldn't handle. Or a cock that I couldn't handle either come to think of it.
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"You're making the mistake of pairing being penetrated with feminity when there is no connection between the two things at all." Very true. For some of us it is liked in our minds, and for me it's acceptance of my fem side. But for others I know that even the suggestion of a female aspect to anal sex would be a big turn off. | |||
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"I'm also masculine in every respect (except when in stockings and a dress!) and happen to adore a hard penis inside me." I'm the same I watch football love going to the pub and love to do lots of so called masculine stuff but love putting on some lingerie on and being fucked I'm bi and proud lol | |||
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"I'm also masculine in every respect (except when in stockings and a dress!) and happen to adore a hard penis inside me. I'm the same I watch football love going to the pub and love to do lots of so called masculine stuff but love putting on some lingerie on and being fucked I'm bi and proud lol " | |||
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"I'm also masculine in every respect (except when in stockings and a dress!) and happen to adore a hard penis inside me. I'm the same I watch football love going to the pub and love to do lots of so called masculine stuff but love putting on some lingerie on and being fucked I'm bi and proud lol "I couldn’t agree more with both these posts. I love dressing and becoming someone else for a while. I turn into a big slut! | |||
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"I am masculine but love being fucked and sucking cocks. Don’t need to be feminine to enjoy that 🥸" Yes, we are all different but I love taking the female role to a dominant power top and let him feel free to treat me like his bitch | |||
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"It s a denial connected to homophobia Carla" Nonsense, I just love being fucked like a woman | |||
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"It s a denial connected to homophobia Carla Nonsense, I just love being fucked like a woman " That's because you like to think of yourself as a woman/wish you were a woman. We ordinary blokes still think of ourselves as being blokes when we are being fucked by another bloke. | |||
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"It s a denial connected to homophobia Carla Nonsense, I just love being fucked like a woman That's because you like to think of yourself as a woman/wish you were a woman. We ordinary blokes still think of ourselves as being blokes when we are being fucked by another bloke." Not sure I completely agree, I consider myself as femme leaning gay, not trans and have never considered it, but quite effeminate, I like a guy to pamper me and sex to feel like making love, I don't want a guy who with fuck my brains out and I sort think that is what Carla means. | |||
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"I’m the straightest guy you’ll meet, but love cock, and been pegged quite a few times and have a selection of anal toys, love the feel of my ass being played with and penetrating " Really? The straightest guys I've ever met wouldn't even contemplate taking cock or any form of intimate contact with men. | |||
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"I’m the straightest guy you’ll meet, but love cock, and been pegged quite a few times and have a selection of anal toys, love the feel of my ass being played with and penetrating " Lol, is this parody? | |||
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"I’m the straightest guy you’ll meet, but love cock, and been pegged quite a few times and have a selection of anal toys, love the feel of my ass being played with and penetrating Lol, is this parody?" Or delusion? | |||
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"I’m the straightest guy you’ll meet, but love cock, and been pegged quite a few times and have a selection of anal toys, love the feel of my ass being played with and penetrating Lol, is this parody? Or delusion?" Behave | |||
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"Let’s not stick so many labels on this…it’s not good for mental health. Can a straight man enjoy the feeling of something inside him? Absolutely. Dose that make him gay ? No. He just likes that feeling of something inside him. Why we making it so stuffy…let’s just enjoy ourselves and not worry how others see themselves. " On the other hand, a man who likes something inside him (another man perhaps) who then proclaims himself straight is just another little bit of homophobia that this gay person doesn’t really appreciate and more specifically in a space that is meant for gay and bisexual men | |||
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"Let’s not stick so many labels on this…it’s not good for mental health. Can a straight man enjoy the feeling of something inside him? Absolutely. Dose that make him gay ? No. He just likes that feeling of something inside him. Why we making it so stuffy…let’s just enjoy ourselves and not worry how others see themselves. On the other hand, a man who likes something inside him (another man perhaps) who then proclaims himself straight is just another little bit of homophobia that this gay person doesn’t really appreciate and more specifically in a space that is meant for gay and bisexual men" Yeah, more "labels don't matter" bullshit from bisexual men. I wear my label with pride because people made sacrifices so our sexuality could become a protected characteristic, the Gay Liberation fought long and hard for the L,G,B and the T. and the fight carried on so we could get some sort of equality. | |||
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"I’m the straightest guy you’ll meet, but love cock, and been pegged quite a few times and have a selection of anal toys, love the feel of my ass being played with and penetrating Really? The straightest guys I've ever met wouldn't even contemplate taking cock or any form of intimate contact with men. " Guess he means that he appears straight to anyone who doesn't know what he likes to do with his pants down. Think I could identify with that. Not a 'straight act' Just how we are. Ordinary blokes into ordinary blokish things except we fuck each other instead of fucking wimmin. | |||
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"I’m the straightest guy you’ll meet, but love cock, and been pegged quite a few times and have a selection of anal toys, love the feel of my ass being played with and penetrating Really? The straightest guys I've ever met wouldn't even contemplate taking cock or any form of intimate contact with men. Guess he means that he appears straight to anyone who doesn't know what he likes to do with his pants down. Think I could identify with that. Not a 'straight act' Just how we are. Ordinary blokes into ordinary blokish things except we fuck each other instead of fucking wimmin." If that's the case it doesn't make him anything special, there are lots of straight acting gay guys one size does not fit all. | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " I find this a bizarre question from a member of a community that seeks inclusion and tolerance from others while simultaneously posing a question that is inherently intolerant or exclusionary toward a specific group's desire. Actually its an excellent example of a stupid question. | |||
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"Guess he means that he appears straight to anyone who doesn't know what he likes to do with his pants down. Think I could identify with that. Not a 'straight act' Just how we are. Ordinary blokes into ordinary blokish things except we fuck each other instead of fucking wimmin." Agree with that, BUT when someone comes on here and posts in a forum that “I’m Straight I just like cock”, then they are (as I have pointed out before) lying to themselves and everyone one else. If they don’t let people IRL know they are Bi fair enough, but to come onto a site like this and proclaim that you are Straight but like cock, who is going to believe them. And if they lie about that what else are they going to lie to people they meet here about? | |||
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"Guess he means that he appears straight to anyone who doesn't know what he likes to do with his pants down. Think I could identify with that. Not a 'straight act' Just how we are. Ordinary blokes into ordinary blokish things except we fuck each other instead of fucking wimmin. Agree with that, BUT when someone comes on here and posts in a forum that “I’m Straight I just like cock”, then they are (as I have pointed out before) lying to themselves and everyone one else. If they don’t let people IRL know they are Bi fair enough, but to come onto a site like this and proclaim that you are Straight but like cock, who is going to believe them. And if they lie about that what else are they going to lie to people they meet here about? " I agree. Guys claiming to be straight but enjoying another guy's cock are in denial. The fall somewhere in the very wide spectrum of being bisexual. My point was that you cannot necessarily tell a gay or bi man just by talking to him. Example: A lady in her 80s whom I have known for around 40 years, were chatting one day when the subject of sexuality came up. I casually said 'Of course you know I'm gay'. He response ' YOU ARE!!!' followed by 'Well I suppose that answers the question of why no wife or girlfriend'. I don't 'act straight' but probably appear to be. | |||
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"What a bizarre thread " Not half as bizarre or weird like some of the threads on here | |||
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"If a lady gives a strapon to a guys backside then is he gay" I don't think that's a very, 'ahem', hard and fast rule ... Some straight men just gravitate towards being 'bottom' when it comes to purely recreational sex. As many female dominatrices can testify. | |||
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"If a lady gives a strapon to a guys backside then is he gay" Hardly. Straight couples often try different things to spice up their sex life. A world of difference between a woman with a strap-on and an actual man with a real cock. | |||
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"Seriously, is this dumb thread still going?" As an alternative to everyone's particular 'lived experience' on the subject of taking it up the chuff ... AI's response to - 'Why do men pretend they are masculine but love being penetrated?' Was ... 'The apparent contradiction between some men projecting a traditionally masculine image while privately enjoying being anally receptive is primarily explained by societal pressures and rigid traditional masculinity norms. The "masculine" front is often a performance to conform to external expectations, while the desire for penetration stems from a variety of personal psychological and physical needs.' | |||
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"Seriously, is this dumb thread still going? As an alternative to everyone's particular 'lived experience' on the subject of taking it up the chuff ... AI's response to - 'Why do men pretend they are masculine but love being penetrated?' Was ... 'The apparent contradiction between some men projecting a traditionally masculine image while privately enjoying being anally receptive is primarily explained by societal pressures and rigid traditional masculinity norms. The "masculine" front is often a performance to conform to external expectations, while the desire for penetration stems from a variety of personal psychological and physical needs.' " Which adequately demonstrates why AI is bollocks | |||
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"Seriously, is this dumb thread still going? As an alternative to everyone's particular 'lived experience' on the subject of taking it up the chuff ... AI's response to - 'Why do men pretend they are masculine but love being penetrated?' Was ... 'The apparent contradiction between some men projecting a traditionally masculine image while privately enjoying being anally receptive is primarily explained by societal pressures and rigid traditional masculinity norms. The "masculine" front is often a performance to conform to external expectations, while the desire for penetration stems from a variety of personal psychological and physical needs.' Which adequately demonstrates why AI is bollocks" Which part of their answer is demonstrably wrong though? | |||
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"Seriously, is this dumb thread still going? As an alternative to everyone's particular 'lived experience' on the subject of taking it up the chuff ... AI's response to - 'Why do men pretend they are masculine but love being penetrated?' Was ... 'The apparent contradiction between some men projecting a traditionally masculine image while privately enjoying being anally receptive is primarily explained by societal pressures and rigid traditional masculinity norms. The "masculine" front is often a performance to conform to external expectations, while the desire for penetration stems from a variety of personal psychological and physical needs.' Which adequately demonstrates why AI is bollocks Which part of their answer is demonstrably wrong though? " It assumes that the masculinity is a front. It is a generalisation. By saying “their” you assume it is human. Its answer is based on various stereotypes that it has been programmed with and takes no account of genuine feelings urges and desires. It cannot understand how a man can want a cock inside then but still remain masculine. | |||
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"You're making the mistake of pairing being penetrated with feminity when there is no connection between the two things at all." | |||
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"Seriously, is this dumb thread still going? As an alternative to everyone's particular 'lived experience' on the subject of taking it up the chuff ... AI's response to - 'Why do men pretend they are masculine but love being penetrated?' Was ... 'The apparent contradiction between some men projecting a traditionally masculine image while privately enjoying being anally receptive is primarily explained by societal pressures and rigid traditional masculinity norms. The "masculine" front is often a performance to conform to external expectations, while the desire for penetration stems from a variety of personal psychological and physical needs.' Which adequately demonstrates why AI is bollocks Which part of their answer is demonstrably wrong though? It assumes that the masculinity is a front. It is a generalisation. By saying “their” you assume it is human. Its answer is based on various stereotypes that it has been programmed with and takes no account of genuine feelings urges and desires. It cannot understand how a man can want a cock inside then but still remain masculine. " No ... I fully understand that AI isn't a sentient human | |||
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"Seriously, is this dumb thread still going?" You got trouble trying to understand people's points of view? | |||
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"Seriously, is this dumb thread still going? You got trouble trying to understand people's points of view?" No. I just thought the original idea had been proven to be nonsense by the many replies stating that they are masculine but still like it up the bum. | |||
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"Nothing better than a nice hard cock stretching my bum" Or in this 'girl's' case , stretching my pussy | |||
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"Nothing better than a nice hard cock stretching my bum" | |||
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"I love penitrating " Love that inside me | |||
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"Let's get back to basics. Whoever/whatever created men gave us a prostate and nerve ending in our arses that react favourably when being pounded by another man's cock or a dildo or strap-on. Only actually makes you gay/bi if you like another man doing it. Doesn't emasculate you in any way." Agreed! I personally don't get on with the idea of guys calling it a pussy or whatever, it's your arsehole and things in it feel fabulous. Also gay sex doesn't make anyone less masculine; if anything it's more so. | |||
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"I love penitrating " Not enough to check how to spell it 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I love penitrating Not enough to check how to spell it 🤣🤣🤣" Does kind of make it more penis-specific though, as opposed to dildos  | |||
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"Agreed! I personally don't get on with the idea of guys calling it a pussy or whatever, it's your arsehole and things in it feel fabulous. Also gay sex doesn't make anyone less masculine; if anything it's more so. Thing is when you are so used to being fucked and your hole fingered and possibly fisted then your anus very much resembles a vagina in the way that it's almost made for penetration, so with me I like to call my hole , a pussy" Just asked the neighbour's cat and he objects strongly | |||
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"Wait till you have been fisted at a group session, that’s masculine penetration personified. Not for the feminine weak hearted guys. Or getting naked in sweatbox and offering ya hole to a handful of bbc knowing ya gonna be ruined. That’s masculine it takes heart, and I felt it in my heart almost 😂 " Maybe us feminine, weak hearted guys aren't in to that shit anyway. | |||
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"Wait till you have been fisted at a group session, that’s masculine penetration personified. Not for the feminine weak hearted guys. Or getting naked in sweatbox and offering ya hole to a handful of bbc knowing ya gonna be ruined. That’s masculine it takes heart, and I felt it in my heart almost 😂 " If only | |||
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"Always amazed by the number of men on here who loved being penetrated by another man's hard cock but still claim they are still heterosexual and masculine, at least I'm gay and honest enough to admit being feminine in my sexual nature when taking a hard cock inside me " It's people like you that make it difficult for a lot of men to come out. Doesn't make anyone any less of a man because you like to get fucked | |||
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"Who cares? Look at me? I dress as a woman for sex with other men. Some gay men, some straight (ahem) men, some married men. Is it normal? What is normal? Who am I? What am I? Who cares? I am me! Just me! It’s all I want to be, me! Just let it be and let everybody be what they want to be. Damn! The world would be an amazing place if everybody thought like me…haha xx"Hi Sammi , the best and most tolerant statement on this thread So many guys want accept their feminine side, fighting against it all the time, what turmoil in their head, great like you to accept what you are | |||
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"Still think getting fucked is emasculating" You are a victim of Social Conditioning, and should be ashamed of your narrow mindedness. | |||
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"Still think getting fucked is emasculating" It's your opinion for what that's worth, and one not many share apparently. I agree it's just social conditioning, making you think in cliché 1970s stereotypes of taking it up the arse as something for limp-wristed nancy boys. There's absolutely fuck all that's emasculating about taking control, riding a cock and using it like a hot flesh dildo with a guy attached, specially if his fucking action brings you to an eruption of spunk all over him. That's real man on man sex; hard, masculine, powerful, intense and really selfishly pleasurable. | |||
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"Still think getting fucked is emasculating It's your opinion for what that's worth, and one not many share apparently. I agree it's just social conditioning, making you think in cliché 1970s stereotypes of taking it up the arse as something for limp-wristed nancy boys. There's absolutely fuck all that's emasculating about taking control, riding a cock and using it like a hot flesh dildo with a guy attached, specially if his fucking action brings you to an eruption of spunk all over him. That's real man on man sex; hard, masculine, powerful, intense and really selfishly pleasurable." Sounds like a Fiesta letter from the 70s. We have moved on surely.. its 2025 | |||
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"Still think getting fucked is emasculating It's your opinion for what that's worth, and one not many share apparently. I agree it's just social conditioning, making you think in cliché 1970s stereotypes of taking it up the arse as something for limp-wristed nancy boys. There's absolutely fuck all that's emasculating about taking control, riding a cock and using it like a hot flesh dildo with a guy attached, specially if his fucking action brings you to an eruption of spunk all over him. That's real man on man sex; hard, masculine, powerful, intense and really selfishly pleasurable. Sounds like a Fiesta letter from the 70s. We have moved on surely.. its 2025" King of the non-sequitur strikes again! I dunno what the fuck think your words actually mean sometimes. | |||
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"You're making the mistake of pairing being penetrated with feminity when there is no connection between the two things at all." | |||
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"Still think getting fucked is emasculating It's your opinion for what that's worth, and one not many share apparently. I agree it's just social conditioning, making you think in cliché 1970s stereotypes of taking it up the arse as something for limp-wristed nancy boys. There's absolutely fuck all that's emasculating about taking control, riding a cock and using it like a hot flesh dildo with a guy attached, specially if his fucking action brings you to an eruption of spunk all over him. That's real man on man sex; hard, masculine, powerful, intense and really selfishly pleasurable. Sounds like a Fiesta letter from the 70s. We have moved on surely.. its 2025 King of the non-sequitur strikes again! I dunno what the fuck think your words actually mean sometimes." Night school is an option. They do evening classes.. try them | |||
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"I am masculine but enjoy being fucked I don’t act or feel feminine at all but boy do I enjoy taking cock up me xx" I agree | |||
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"Still think getting fucked is emasculating" Only if you're wearing feminine attire, or being pegged by a woman | |||
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"I am masculine but enjoy being fucked I don’t act or feel feminine at all but boy do I enjoy taking cock up me xx I agree " I agree also. Gay men aren’t pretending anything, where man on man sex is concerned. We do it because we like it. We aren’t pretending our anuses are vaginas. Sodomy and Buggery or Anal sex is extremely enjoyable. I take it and sometimes give it like a man. Over the years it’s been a hard won fundamental Gay Right. | |||
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