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By *erscumdump OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Watford

My usual insomnia wondering mind. Have you ever been ghosted? I recently have for the 1st time. It doesn't bother me but I do wonder what's going on in his head. Top fuck buddy, met dozens of times, great sex with friendly chatty banter after and on Apps. He went silent, stayed offline for weeks, then recently back on with a new profile. He'll know I winked him. Nothing back, not even viewed me. Suspect he might have been getting the dreaded "feels" so maybe he's doing me a favour. Maybe I'll never know but it does seem like a strange modern way for adults to behave.

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By *damb00Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Have you sent him a message?

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By *ammiTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Inverness

Eh, yes.

Many, many times.

His loss. Move on and forget about him x

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By *ornybisubslutMan
2 weeks ago

Coventry

Loads of times it is what it is. I get it’s difficult but sadly there’s little you can do.

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By *uriohornMan
2 weeks ago

Kettering

Twice today so far lol

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By *erscumdump OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Watford

It doesn't bother me at all, and yeah I messaged him but no response. The vacancy was quickly filled.

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By *ooky69Man
2 weeks ago

Heysham la3

Few times recently

Tell you one thing but mean something else. Like how much they love being with you and want to make it a regular thing then just go cold for no reason.

I'm guessing it's cock guilt afterwards as both last , 2 have been not out Bi guys. I'm doing my up most to try and train my brain that it's just meaningless sex from now on. Not a Fwb

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By *actilePigMan
2 weeks ago

LINCOLN

Yeah. Had regular incredible filthy sex with a handsome polar bear when I was in my twenties. He was an ex punk, funny as fuck and I loved his company. He was one of many fuck buddies at the time, he knew it and said he was fine with it. Then one day… nothing. I fronted him on it when I bumped into him in bar one night. I’ll never forget his angry and sad reply “I’m in love with you, you stupid boy”. He walked out and I never saw him or heard from him again. Stewart, if you’re still about, I have wonderful memories of our time together fella, thank you.

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Sort of. Happened a few times but years ago. Met guys. Had a good time. Perhaps even a 2nd or 3rd meet. They've been the ones saying 'Can we do this again' yet never hear anymore and if you leave a message no answer.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Oddest one was a meet from here, went really well, I rode his cock and even went ATM and blew him as I was pretty pleased with my douching skills, and we had a lot of fun in a couple of hours.

Then I had a hissy fit, left here for a few months, rejoined and asked if he'd be interested in meeting again and re-verifying. Added me as a friend again but no response to messaging at all.

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By *umlover68Man
2 weeks ago

Worthing


"Yeah. Had regular incredible filthy sex with a handsome polar bear when I was in my twenties. He was an ex punk, funny as fuck and I loved his company. He was one of many fuck buddies at the time, he knew it and said he was fine with it. Then one day… nothing. I fronted him on it when I bumped into him in bar one night. I’ll never forget his angry and sad reply “I’m in love with you, you stupid boy”. He walked out and I never saw him or heard from him again. Stewart, if you’re still about, I have wonderful memories of our time together fella, thank you. "
I had a similar experience, except with mine, he left town and I never heard from him again. Reconnected with some people I hadn't spoken to in nearly 30 years and when I brought him up they said it was because he was in love with me and couldn't deal with it. If only he had told me a at time instead of trying to be all macho about it

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By *mrmarkMan
2 weeks ago

Tavistock

Yes. Recently.

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By *ssex33Man
2 weeks ago

thurrock Tilbury essex

Yes last night

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Lots of messages from guys being ghosted

Let’s call out the guys who do the ghosting ?

Any brave enough?

Yes I’ve been ghosted a few times!

Can honestly say only 1 of them really got to me

We had met several times then he unfriended me then never replied to several messages then he blocked me

Never did get an explanation why or what I had done

I was pretty gutted at the time

I’ve never ghosted someone who I have actually met and got along with

But guys who I haven’t met who message time and time again eventually I tend to stop responding!

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By *addy7x6Man
2 weeks ago

High Wycombe

Just the opposite - got a msg on here months back. Guy insisted we'd met several times in Aylesbury - he "reminded" me of his address and phone no. Street was in a part if the town I'd never visited, and phone no. not in my phone book.

Not seen his profile either, and no msgs of his saved.

Eventually had to block him.

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By *ublatMan
2 weeks ago

Plymouth

loads of times, usually last a few months. Once they've tried all my gear,they suddenly disappear and never hear from them again

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By *ookhoutMan
2 weeks ago

Somewhere

A couple of times - one guy I met on cottaging we had a great time and we both agreed to meet up again and then within an hour his profile had disappeared.

A local guy I met on here didn’t tell me he was moving out of area - I saw his empty flat one day and his profile had disappeared.

Not taking it personally lol

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