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The world of a time waster

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By *illylover OP   Man
2 weeks ago

EH48

I don’t get the opportunity to meet much nowadays and like to try and ensure any meet I organise is as reliable as possible. So here goes my summary of a time waster!

Wednesday - contacted my time waster to a meet up. One agreed for yesterday Saturday.

Thursday - still on he says

Friday - I sent an pm to agree a time for me to contact and confirm my desire to meet during Saturday to get address etc. nowt back.

Yesterday - sent my progress of traveling a distance - no reply. You just get that feeling seeing he hasnt been on for 19 hours as an avoidance tactic.

Checked this morning and he is on and read my PMs then I decide to ask what happened and I find myself blocked.

Hope Santa is more reliable !!

I could name and shame him but if he is reading this from Kinross - you know who you are!!

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By *annyDanielleMan
2 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

If they're offline at the time of meeting i don't bother.

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By *uton JohnMan
2 weeks ago

Luton

If I am off line I still get a email saying I have a message.

But I do agree 80% of men on here are time wasting the genuine guys who are looking for meets.

Have had three today, Sunday, chat starts to sound positive and then bang nothing. But when you then look at their profile you find you have been blocked.

Is it because people get scared and run?

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By *ruemaleMan
2 weeks ago

notts


"I don’t get the opportunity to meet much nowadays and like to try and ensure any meet I organise is as reliable as possible. So here goes my summary of a time waster!

Wednesday - contacted my time waster to a meet up. One agreed for yesterday Saturday.

Thursday - still on he says

Friday - I sent an pm to agree a time for me to contact and confirm my desire to meet during Saturday to get address etc. nowt back.

Yesterday - sent my progress of traveling a distance - no reply. You just get that feeling seeing he hasnt been on for 19 hours as an avoidance tactic.

Checked this morning and he is on and read my PMs then I decide to ask what happened and I find myself blocked.

Hope Santa is more reliable !!

I could name and shame him but if he is reading this from Kinross - you know who you are!! "

If you report him, and you can even though he's blocked you. Admin will warn him about the rules

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Colchester


"I could name and shame him but if he is reading this from Kinross - you know who you are!! "

Report to Admin would be a better choice You can report from a message he sent you, admin will then review xx

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By *hyna HutchMan
2 weeks ago

valleys

He's wanking furiously all through the planning stage, his mind picturing the scenario.

He spunks up prematurely during this.

'good brain kicks in' ....

..... Ahhh... Fuck it.

... Block.

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By *illylover OP   Man
2 weeks ago

EH48


"I could name and shame him but if he is reading this from Kinross - you know who you are!!

Report to Admin would be a better choice You can report from a message he sent you, admin will then review xx"

Thanks I might just do that

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By *illylover OP   Man
2 weeks ago

EH48


"He's wanking furiously all through the planning stage, his mind picturing the scenario.

He spunks up prematurely during this.

'good brain kicks in' ....

..... Ahhh... Fuck it.

... Block. "

Great analogy there lol

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By *tephen_b50Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"If I am off line I still get a email saying I have a message.

But I do agree 80% of men on here are time wasting the genuine guys who are looking for meets.

Have had three today, Sunday, chat starts to sound positive and then bang nothing. But when you then look at their profile you find you have been blocked.

Is it because people get scared and run?"

i think some do - they realise they've talked themselves into a situation they know they won't be able to handle.

Some will be afraid the wife will find out, and get cold feet.

Others will chat and have a wank while they're doing it. Once they've cum they've got what they wanted, and then they have an attack of "wanker's remorse."

i suspect that accounts for most of them. The general impression is that the longer in advance a meeting is arranged, the less likely it is to happen. Many will attempt a feeble excuse, and these have been extensively documented in other threads, but some just find it easier to block.

i do believe that there are some who are just playing games, but my feeling is it's a minority - at least i hope so. i really don't know what they get out of it.

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By *tephen_b50Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"He's wanking furiously all through the planning stage, his mind picturing the scenario.

He spunks up prematurely during this.

'good brain kicks in' ....

..... Ahhh... Fuck it.

... Block. "

Yep: Wanker's Remorse

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By *autiously_curiousMan
2 weeks ago

Craigavon

I never leave unless I have a set address and have spoken to the guy that day. I'd say a good 60% of planned "meets" fall through. Sometimes they are genuine and others not so much.

But there is nothing more frustrating than a meet falling through. Especially when uou only get that window of opportunity once or twice a month

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By *ice WankerMan
2 weeks ago

Lancs

I had one exactly the same from thurs on another app. Messaged me as he liked what he saw and said free sat night til sun lunch.

Offline all day yesterday lol

All these and and sites the same, good job I didn't go out to meet him in his area.

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By *arzaMan
2 weeks ago

devizes

The ones that message and message and when you suggest a meet , just delete everything and vanish

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By *londguymkMan
2 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

Wish there was someone in Milton Keynes to even attempt with 😂 😂

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By *ranform71Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

I have my fair share of time wasters. But the guys who do show up leave throughly happy. It’s par for the course on here.

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By *ubfordom-travellingMan
2 weeks ago

south wales and south west

Had one two last week, one sent me an address and then deleted, other sent address and ghosted

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By *ewBrumBiMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

So you arranged something well in advance, didn't get an address, then set out despite not hearing anything?

The time waster might not be the only problem here...

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By *illylover OP   Man
2 weeks ago

EH48


"So you arranged something well in advance, didn't get an address, then set out despite not hearing anything?

The time waster might not be the only problem here..."

Maybe I didn’t explain clearly enough I was passing by from a trip up north and we agreed I’d pm him for his address during my long journey down.

Why would I travel directly to a meet without an address. Therefore I’m not the problem and if any one does do that then he’ll mend them

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By *awihMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot


"So you arranged something well in advance, didn't get an address, then set out despite not hearing anything?

The time waster might not be the only problem here...

Maybe I didn’t explain clearly enough I was passing by from a trip up north and we agreed I’d pm him for his address during my long journey down.

Why would I travel directly to a meet without an address. Therefore I’m not the problem and if any one does do that then he’ll mend them "

To be fair (and I have double checked your original post) at no point did you say that you were “passing by from a trip up north”, so I can understand peoples confusion about setting out without a destination address. However, that in no way excuses being ignored at the pre-arranged time to confirm and give address details.

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By *en225Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

So am in Mossley hill south Liverpool met a guy in Crosby sort on the coast. At least 40 minute drive without no traffic got there. Parked up he gave me an address which was at least a good start. Rang bell twice NOTHING. Messaged him nothing not online.

Drove 40mins test back home “oh sorry I fell asleep” Never again. That’s why usually don’t prefer to travel too far for a meet. I would just feel so bad if I did that to someone. Maybe I’m just too polite plus thought of a cock in my mouth or nice arse in my face would keep me awake

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By *ranform71Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

Sod’s Law. Another time waster this morning. Shit happens guys. But another guy took his place and it was fun.

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By *punk1975Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

100 % agree there's so many time wasters on here now.i am the same situation with some new work I try and get some fun when I can and fed up arranging things only for them to go offline just before or when I turn up I get an excuse for them not being free now. I get nerves can kick in but just be honest

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By *askia.TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

It has always been bad but seems worse than ever now, I’m just glad that I don’t meet in homes/hotels/car/outside etc. so the impact of these tossers disappearing or not turning up is not as bad for me as for others, still bloody annoying though….

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