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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more." I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more." Hard to argue with this, I'm bi and just here for the fucks ') | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently" Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. | |||
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"Just sex for me too. Not into kissing guys but love cock. Happy to meet for sex but don’t need anything else. I know that’s shallow but it’s just how I feel" Which is why some of us who are looking for something that could go a bit further if things work out wanted to be able to exclude or include Bi spectrum in search results a few months ago. It was amazing how many Bi’s were up in arms over that and were calling us “biphobic”. After all filters in searches are only there to help narrow the result set to better match what you are looking for. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further." I think it's precisely that last part "letting go". I suspect that there's a correlation with not being publicly out and not seeing men as viable partners. The deeper reasoning behind it probably varies from person to person. Personally, I don't see it any different to a relationship with a woman. Its only the type of relationship that changes for me as I've only ever been monogamous with women and the majority of gay relationships have a degree of openness. Of course , some might just simply prefer relationships with women. My X gf had a man's personality anyway  . | |||
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"If the worst happened and I lost my wife, I could give serious headspace to the idea of a proper relationship with a man. I've nothing against it in principle but most of the gay men's meet sites, this one included, seem to be more oriented to hookups than LTRs, and maybe it's just a perception thing on my part but hookup culture seems far more a thing in the gay world than in the cis-het one " Obviously hookup culture has been more common in the gay world (although I'd say it's probably fairly even with younger people now) I think it's not always entirely true. It makes it a lot easier when dealing with d/l bi guys to just say it's sex as a gay man, rather than freak then the fuck out with confronting anything like that! | |||
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"What puts you off a relationship with a man?" That you can’t have sex with other men | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more." No one wants to be in a relationship in the beginning but then they fell into it . This has nothing to do with being bi or gay . | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further." Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. | |||
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"I'd much prefer a relationship now or at least sex that feels like it means something, even if only in the moment, clumsily working my way through sex acts with a guy that prefers women and only see's me as a cock and a hole is getting boring. " Tend to agree. You can have good on-off sex with a guy--especially a bi guy--but once its over he's getting dressed with the proverbial shy goodbye and/or 'we must do this again sometime' which probably means he won't if a better offer comes up. However much you enjoyed the moment it can leave you feeling used and empty. A relationship would be much nicer | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. " And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex." Maybe an anonymous hook up site with loads of guys looking for casual sex isn’t the place for you. Have you tried a dating agency ? | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex." Yes, the attitude of some of the Bi guys just make you feel like you are being used and that you are only there for their enjoyment. Personally unless you are getting your needs met in a meet as well I’d say don’t bother with them, why should you feel used just so they can have their jollies. | |||
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"Interesting discussion with the guy I have met for the last couple of Saturdays. For us it is just sex, neither one of us is remotely interested in a relationship with a guy. Only have relationships with women. Any others out there where it is just sex and you could never be in a relationship with a man?" Yep, with guys its all about sex and nothing else ........... may be we'll go for a pint afterwards | |||
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"Interesting discussion with the guy I have met for the last couple of Saturdays. For us it is just sex, neither one of us is remotely interested in a relationship with a guy. Only have relationships with women. Any others out there where it is just sex and you could never be in a relationship with a man? Yep, with guys it’s all about sex and nothing else ........... may be we'll go for a pint afterwards " With a lot of Bi guys yes, but some Gay guys want something a bit more out of life. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex. Yes, the attitude of some of the Bi guys just make you feel like you are being used and that you are only there for their enjoyment. Personally unless you are getting your needs met in a meet as well I’d say don’t bother with them, why should you feel used just so they can have their jollies." The main point is with 99% of them they have a wife or partner at home. We just exist as a sexual outlet. I'm not going to turn down good sex often, but it does just end up feeling pretty cheap. But then again loads of them want to talk about their wives on here, so I guess intimacy comes cheap anyway. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex. Maybe an anonymous hook up site with loads of guys looking for casual sex isn’t the place for you. Have you tried a dating agency ?" Well the same argument could also be used that if you just want a shag why not use an a professional site (there are ones that cater for different tastes depending on what you want). But I suspect the arguments for both sides would be similar. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex. Maybe an anonymous hook up site with loads of guys looking for casual sex isn’t the place for you. Have you tried a dating agency ? Well the same argument could also be used that if you just want a shag why not use an a professional site (there are ones that cater for different tastes depending on what you want). But I suspect the arguments for both sides would be similar." Don’t get that. Surely most guys are on here because they want an anonymous hook up and that is exactly what the site is geared towards. Those who want professional services surely wil be looking elsewhere already. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex. Maybe an anonymous hook up site with loads of guys looking for casual sex isn’t the place for you. Have you tried a dating agency ? Well the same argument could also be used that if you just want a shag why not use an a professional site (there are ones that cater for different tastes depending on what you want). But I suspect the arguments for both sides would be similar. Don’t get that. Surely most guys are on here because they want an anonymous hook up and that is exactly what the site is geared towards. Those who want professional services surely wil be looking elsewhere already." All dating websites are purely hookup places these days anyway. Going on any dating website I'll find the same anonymous photos of bodies as here, including married folks. So why shouldn't a space like this also end up with relationships being formed? No ones trying to date you, but most relationships start out as just fucking | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further. Perhaps it’s because they just like a bit of casual sex play and have no more attraction to the guy than the friend they play golf with or go down the pub with. And this is why some of us wish there was some way to filter bi guys like you. I'm happy you get your fun, but as a gay man it's pretty hollow for sex. Maybe an anonymous hook up site with loads of guys looking for casual sex isn’t the place for you. Have you tried a dating agency ? Well the same argument could also be used that if you just want a shag why not use an a professional site (there are ones that cater for different tastes depending on what you want). But I suspect the arguments for both sides would be similar. Don’t get that. Surely most guys are on here because they want an anonymous hook up and that is exactly what the site is geared towards. Those who want professional services surely wil be looking elsewhere already. All dating websites are purely hookup places these days anyway. Going on any dating website I'll find the same anonymous photos of bodies as here, including married folks. So why shouldn't a space like this also end up with relationships being formed? No ones trying to date you, but most relationships start out as just fucking" Exactly. dating sites are as bad as here, but at least here you expect it. I am not against hook ups I just want something out of them, mutual wanking or giving blow jobs whilst the host has straight porn on the telly or guys that just want me to drop my pants and bend over is just not doing it for me. | |||
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"So why shouldn't a space like this also end up with relationships being formed? No ones trying to date you, but most relationships start out as just fucking" Don’t disagree with that at all, the issue I have is the “attitude” of some of the Bi men on here who only meet men until they get what they want - the attitude is “I only have sex with men, not a relationship”. Yes, most relationships start out as lust, but so many Bi men (and there seems to be a lot less Gay men now) have the attitude that means there is no chance of anything further developing, and as some other people have pointed out once the Bi man has had their satisfaction that’s it, doesn’t matter if the other party has been satisfied or not - this makes people feel used. | |||
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"Interesting discussion with the guy I have met for the last couple of Saturdays. For us it is just sex, neither one of us is remotely interested in a relationship with a guy. Only have relationships with women. Any others out there where it is just sex and you could never be in a relationship with a man?" Lots | |||
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"Just sex for me too. Not into kissing guys but love cock. Happy to meet for sex but don’t need anything else. I know that’s shallow but it’s just how I feel" This is me too. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more. I often wonder what the block is. All men regardless of sexuality invest emotional attachments into other men via friendship. Throw the sex in and it doesn't function that differently Perhaps it is because they are frightened of “letting go” and of going that bit further." In my opinion this is what makes most bi men not very good in bed, they are not willing to invest anything in to sex, it's just a means for them to empty their balls, they can't seem to make it that little bit more special even in the moment, I mean come on, make an effort to go from mediocre to amazing, it's not that difficult and it doesn't mean suddenly we're in love. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small." Wow 🙄 | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Wow 🙄" yeah, wow, I mean why would we look for hook ups with married men or any man that would rather be with a woman over gay men, the level of delulu in that post is off the scale. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small." A bit judgmental. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small." Actually I think it is more a case of the other way around, many of the Bi men on here just want a gay guy so that they can get their rocks off because their wife/gf isn’t giving them anything. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Actually I think it is more a case of the other way around, many of the Bi men on here just want a gay guy so that they can get their rocks off because their wife/gf isn’t giving them anything." Absolutely  | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Actually I think it is more a case of the other way around, many of the Bi men on here just want a gay guy so that they can get their rocks off because their wife/gf isn’t giving them anything." Honestly, this is a pretty ridiculous discussion since neither you nor I really know the facts. No one has done any research or has any stats to back it up. If I were in your shoes, I’d just let it go because who really cares if we’re bi, gay, or trans? Labels are personal. You’re proud of being gay, and that’s great, but it’s up to me to decide who I am and who I want to sleep with. If you’re not interested in bi guys, then what’s the issue? Go find some gay guys and have a good time. Just don’t spin us a tale and pass it off as the truth. Honestly, your comment is what pulled me into this thread because I thought what you said about bi guys was just too much and totally ridiculous. | |||
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"I'm sorry if I come across annoyed in this thread. But so often there's this strange attitude here that this place is purely for mindless sex alone. That everyone is just reduced to body parts and that actual attraction to men is odd and probably disgusting. " That's because this website that is labelled as a gay website on the front page seems to be mostly bi men. Many but not all these bi men seem to claim they fit into the category of "not attracted to men" but just like sex with men. It is what it is. That's for them to figure out personally or maybe they already have and are happy. Only they know. And , at it's foundation, this is a website for hookups - so mindless sex really is on the table lol. But, as for treating each other like pieces of meat. I'm sorry but the gays already do that to each other and have done for a long time. I use hinge to date both men and women. And the majority of gay guys my age have not only never been in a real relationship (or have no clue how to maintain one), but they have no clue how to function outside of sex on first contact. Hinge,a dating app where you can't even send pics - they immediately ask for your number so they can jump to the cock pics. Which wouldn't bother me but why bother going on a dating site....just stick to grindr lol. And of course there's the true stereotype that many gay men place all their self worth into their physique and social life - while judging others for not looking like a Greek god. It was actually what attracted me to fabguys originally when I was closeted myself. The fact that meets were easier, more anonymous and less superficial with regards to looks. So maybe don't take fabguys too seriously. | |||
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" But, as for treating each other like pieces of meat. I'm sorry but the gays already do that to each other and have done for a long time. I use hinge to date both men and women. And the majority of gay guys my age have not only never been in a real relationship (or have no clue how to maintain one), but they have no clue how to function outside of sex on first contact. " Yes gay guys do treat each other like meat and also cheat on their partners, I'm afraid the Bi guys don't have the monopoly on that. However I in my experience sex with gay men feels more intimate and for me I'd rather have sex with a guy that wants to be with a guy above sex with a guy who would rather be having sex with a woman. Don't get me wrong, I've met some lovely bi guys but their idea of good sex in the most part differs a lot from mine, I turned to meets where the guy has straight porn on the telly, I mean what goes through their heads, they are meeting a gay guy and they think straight porn in the background is appropriate? Personally I'd prefer no porn at all and we make our own lol, also all bi guys seem to want to do with me is fuck me, ok fine, it's a hook up site but just fuck, no foreplay, no kissing. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small." How would you know? Seen as your not gay or married? Lol. Its kinda weird to be so angry at the guys your looking to have sex with. Sound like something very wrong with you to be honest | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small." Do not fear! Let me reassure you that, though I am one of those malevolent homosexualistic siren creatures, I am not seeking to lure you into a casual hookup. In fact I think you’re going to be pretty safe full stop. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small." Load of shite, then realised who the poster was and it’s on brand for him | |||
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"I love both sex and polyamory open non-monogamous relationship with different men." How wonderful to see you back commenting in the Forum - and on polyamory too! How did your trip to the monasteries of Dublin go..? What happened to your old profile..? | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Do not fear! Let me reassure you that, though I am one of those malevolent homosexualistic siren creatures, I am not seeking to lure you into a casual hookup. In fact I think you’re going to be pretty safe full stop. " I refrain from consuming food that has an unpleasant odor. It disrupts my daily routine | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Load of shite, then realised who the poster was and it’s on brand for him " How much time did it require for you to read that? Or did someone read it to you? Realising? Never thought you do .. since when ? | |||
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"… I refrain from consuming food that has an unpleasant odor. It disrupts my daily routine… " I’m sure we’re all on tenterhooks to know more about your fascinating daily routine. | |||
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"… I refrain from consuming food that has an unpleasant odor. It disrupts my daily routine… I’m sure we’re all on tenterhooks to know more about your fascinating daily routine. " Not everyone... it was intended for you, merely beneath your unfortunate remark. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Actually I think it is more a case of the other way around, many of the Bi men on here just want a gay guy so that they can get their rocks off because their wife/gf isn’t giving them anything. Absolutely "Absolutely rubbish more like. I have a long term girlfriend who I have regular and great sex with. I’ve met men on here who are in a similar situation (either wife or girlfriend) and are like me, the urge to play with and suck on a cock from time to time becomes overpowering. Regular pussy and occasional cock fun is how we live our lives, you either understand that or you don’t. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Actually I think it is more a case of the other way around, many of the Bi men on here just want a gay guy so that they can get their rocks off because their wife/gf isn’t giving them anything. Absolutely
Absolutely rubbish more like.
I have a long term girlfriend who I have regular and great sex with.
I’ve met men on here who are in a similar situation (either wife or girlfriend) and are like me, the urge to play with and suck on a cock from time to time becomes overpowering.
Regular pussy and occasional cock fun is how we live our lives, you either understand that or you don’t. "A typical example of married bisexual men clearly lacking any understanding on how gay men may think, here's a clue, we don't have any desire to have sex with women. | |||
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"Interesting discussion with the guy I have met for the last couple of Saturdays. For us it is just sex, neither one of us is remotely interested in a relationship with a guy. Only have relationships with women. Any others out there where it is just sex and you could never be in a relationship with a man?" You're probably having more of a relationship with this guy than most of the married men here have with their wives | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small." Days pass, Seasons change, But ignorant takes from certain posters Remain the same. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Days pass, Seasons change, But ignorant takes from certain posters Remain the same." What caught my attention is how all these individuals begin to spout nonsense without providing any substantial answers. It makes me wonder how much hatred resides within you that you cannot let go of. Rather than trying to be Shakespeare, please clarify what you are discussing so that people can recognize a hint of intelligence in your thoughts. | |||
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"I'm bi and not married, but honestly, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone. In fact, I feel like a lot of gay guys are trying to lure married men into casual hookups because they're tired of only being with other gay guys. It's kind of funny how many gay folks here act like they're prophets. Nobody has to sleep with a specific type of guy; just do your thing. But hey, don't blame bi people just because your dick is small. Actually I think it is more a case of the other way around, many of the Bi men on here just want a gay guy so that they can get their rocks off because their wife/gf isn’t giving them anything. Absolutely
Absolutely rubbish more like.
I have a long term girlfriend who I have regular and great sex with.
I’ve met men on here who are in a similar situation (either wife or girlfriend) and are like me, the urge to play with and suck on a cock from time to time becomes overpowering.
Regular pussy and occasional cock fun is how we live our lives, you either understand that or you don’t.
A typical example of married bisexual men clearly lacking any understanding on how gay men may think, here's a clue, we don't have any desire to have sex with women. "You are not obligated to associate with bisexual men; do not attempt to fit yourself among intellectuals. They certainly comprehend your interests. | |||
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"Think you will find that most (but not all) Bi men only want someone to fuck/be fucked by and are unable to invest an emotional attachment/relationship with another man. Gay men can invest the emotional attachment/relationship, this can develop with a regular - most relationships start out as lust anyway, but between the right people can develop into more." I agree. However, I would say that while I can have a romantic relationship with a man, mostly it is just sex and lust. About seven years ago I did meet a man I could have had a real relationship with, buy he already had a partner he was committed to. We had the most amazing sex making love to eachother. Seb x | |||
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"A lot of gay men, like myself, would have been happy to lead a 'normal life' like any straight man. Only difference being we would want a husband rather than a wife. I see no problem in two men having a loving, monogamous relationship. It's brilliant that gay men can now be legally married or enter into a civil partnership. I may well have done if I was much younger. We don't all want to hung around bars and cruising places looking for the next one-off fix as enjoyable as it can be." There are many bisexual men who are married to other men, and they prefer having a male partner. This is no different from gay men. | |||
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"A lot of gay men, like myself, would have been happy to lead a 'normal life' like any straight man. Only difference being we would want a husband rather than a wife. I see no problem in two men having a loving, monogamous relationship. It's brilliant that gay men can now be legally married or enter into a civil partnership. I may well have done if I was much younger. We don't all want to hung around bars and cruising places looking for the next one-off fix as enjoyable as it can be. There are many bisexual men who are married to other men, and they prefer having a male partner. This is no different from gay men." No doubt true. Always a little wary of bi men if looking for something more than sex. Not saying that gay husbands don't 'stray' any more than straight husbands. But bi husbands could change 'codes' completely | |||
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"A lot of gay men, like myself, would have been happy to lead a 'normal life' like any straight man. Only difference being we would want a husband rather than a wife. I see no problem in two men having a loving, monogamous relationship. It's brilliant that gay men can now be legally married or enter into a civil partnership. I may well have done if I was much younger. We don't all want to hung around bars and cruising places looking for the next one-off fix as enjoyable as it can be. There are many bisexual men who are married to other men, and they prefer having a male partner. This is no different from gay men. No doubt true. Always a little wary of bi men if looking for something more than sex. Not saying that gay husbands don't 'stray' any more than straight husbands. But bi husbands could change 'codes' completely" Without proper research and statistics, it would be challenging to assert that you are entirely correct. I value your instinct, and I appreciate it. | |||
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