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"But suck and rim? Is kissing important to others? Gets me really horny, find it difficult not to with guys who dont" That’s why my preference would always be gay guys, they tend also not to get all awkward once they have shot their load 😂 | |||
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"It's part of showing affection to the other person is to hug and kiss always nice to kiss xxx" A lot of bi guys are not here for affection. | |||
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"It's part of showing affection to the other person is to hug and kiss always nice to kiss xxx" I'd say 95% of hook ups on here have bugger all to do with affection | |||
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"It's part of showing affection to the other person is to hug and kiss always nice to kiss xxx I'd say 95% of hook ups on here have bugger all to do with affection" This 👍 | |||
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"I snogged a guys face on Monday. It’s only guys who see it as a gay thing. It’s not? It’s a natural reaction. You’d definitely kiss wives and gf’s when fucking. So what’s the deference. Just saying. " Difference is that i only have any desire to kiss people i fancy physically and so far that has only been women. I meet men for exciting kinky play of the sort women are either no good at or won’t do. Just saying. | |||
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"So, i’m interested to know. All you guys who say kissing is essential; presumably you never get involved in any spontaneous play in clubs, saunas, dark rooms etc etc ? Do you never meet anyone unless you’ve exchanged pictures and established that it’s soneone you fancy ? Basically do you only meet for a date ?" My first point of call is meeting to see if we gel and how they look compared to their pics. (Old pics could have been used or even very different pics to what they look like might have been used etc) personality might clash or the attraction might not be there. If everything is more than 75-80% then I'd probably kiss. | |||
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"So, i’m interested to know. All you guys who say kissing is essential; presumably you never get involved in any spontaneous play in clubs, saunas, dark rooms etc etc ? Do you never meet anyone unless you’ve exchanged pictures and established that it’s soneone you fancy ? Basically do you only meet for a date ?" I've spontaneously kissed in Saunas and Darkrooms.....and much more thereafter. | |||
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"So, i’m interested to know. All you guys who say kissing is essential; presumably you never get involved in any spontaneous play in clubs, saunas, dark rooms etc etc ? Do you never meet anyone unless you’ve exchanged pictures and established that it’s soneone you fancy ? Basically do you only meet for a date ?" I’m absolutely and genuinely fascinated that you seem to think these are binary choices and that kissing is the preserve of some sort of romantic dalliance only and not part of the man on man sex you would have with strangers. One of the very first things I want to do - if I spot a horny man in a club or a sauna or out cruising or in any sexual setting - or indeed if I spot a handsome sexy man on a Fab profile - is to snog his face off. Good kissing is one of the most potent and stimulating aspects of sex. It releases multiple hormones that put you both in the mood, induce relaxation and reduce stress (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, etc.) It increases blood flow into the penis. It also increases saliva production - handy for all that sucking and rimming to come. These chemical reactions of the body stimulate feelings of connection and enhance intimacy. So - why would you not want to kiss passionately in order to have better sex..?! Surely it’s a no-brainer. All of these bi men in these threads who say that they’re not actually attracted to men and don’t kiss and just want to have a bit of “cock fun”… Well, that’s nice… If cock fun is the summit of your ambition, you crack on. Cock fun: scratches an itch, I suppose. But it’s a bit superficial; no intensity… no intimacy. No rush of hormones. Some of us want exhilarating, hormone-jangling, intimate, carnal, mind-fuckingly good sex with other men. Kissing forms part of that. | |||
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"So, i’m interested to know. All you guys who say kissing is essential; presumably you never get involved in any spontaneous play in clubs, saunas, dark rooms etc etc ? Do you never meet anyone unless you’ve exchanged pictures and established that it’s soneone you fancy ? Basically do you only meet for a date ? I’m absolutely and genuinely fascinated that you seem to think these are binary choices and that kissing is the preserve of some sort of romantic dalliance only and not part of the man on man sex you would have with strangers. One of the very first things I want to do - if I spot a horny man in a club or a sauna or out cruising or in any sexual setting - or indeed if I spot a handsome sexy man on a Fab profile - is to snog his face off. Good kissing is one of the most potent and stimulating aspects of sex. It releases multiple hormones that put you both in the mood, induce relaxation and reduce stress (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, etc.) It increases blood flow into the penis. It also increases saliva production - handy for all that sucking and rimming to come. These chemical reactions of the body stimulate feelings of connection and enhance intimacy. So - why would you not want to kiss passionately in order to have better sex..?! Surely it’s a no-brainer. All of these bi men in these threads who say that they’re not actually attracted to men and don’t kiss and just want to have a bit of “cock fun”… Well, that’s nice… If cock fun is the summit of your ambition, you crack on. Cock fun: scratches an itch, I suppose. But it’s a bit superficial; no intensity… no intimacy. No rush of hormones. Some of us want exhilarating, hormone-jangling, intimate, carnal, mind-fuckingly good sex with other men. Kissing forms part of that. " Hallelujah! Gloria in excelsis Deo! Mr _lackbootz, Sir, I do believe it's a topic that we both agree on! Better not make it a habit, though, eh? 😅 | |||
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"… Hallelujah! Gloria in excelsis Deo! Mr _lackbootz, Sir, I do believe it's a topic that we both agree on! Better not make it a habit, though, eh? 😅 … " Well it would be impossible for us to disagree on absolutely everything! salutationes festivae tibi tuisque. felicem natalem Christi! | |||
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"So, i’m interested to know. All you guys who say kissing is essential; presumably you never get involved in any spontaneous play in clubs, saunas, dark rooms etc etc ? Do you never meet anyone unless you’ve exchanged pictures and established that it’s soneone you fancy ? Basically do you only meet for a date ? I’m absolutely and genuinely fascinated that you seem to think these are binary choices and that kissing is the preserve of some sort of romantic dalliance only and not part of the man on man sex you would have with strangers. One of the very first things I want to do - if I spot a horny man in a club or a sauna or out cruising or in any sexual setting - or indeed if I spot a handsome sexy man on a Fab profile - is to snog his face off. Good kissing is one of the most potent and stimulating aspects of sex. It releases multiple hormones that put you both in the mood, induce relaxation and reduce stress (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, etc.) It increases blood flow into the penis. It also increases saliva production - handy for all that sucking and rimming to come. These chemical reactions of the body stimulate feelings of connection and enhance intimacy. So - why would you not want to kiss passionately in order to have better sex..?! Surely it’s a no-brainer. All of these bi men in these threads who say that they’re not actually attracted to men and don’t kiss and just want to have a bit of “cock fun”… Well, that’s nice… If cock fun is the summit of your ambition, you crack on. Cock fun: scratches an itch, I suppose. But it’s a bit superficial; no intensity… no intimacy. No rush of hormones. Some of us want exhilarating, hormone-jangling, intimate, carnal, mind-fuckingly good sex with other men. Kissing forms part of that. " Well obviously that’s how it is for you; personally, i’ve yet to meet a man i had the remotest interest in kissing. | |||
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"I don't kiss or rim, not men anyway, I enjoy sucking cock & they can fuck me all day every day, but kiss them... no. " This 👍 | |||
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"Wonder how many gay guys like kissing women " Well, don’t wonder too hard. The answer is Zero. The clue was in “gay”. Gay men are attracted to other men. Bi men are attracted to both men and women. Then there is a special subgroup of Fab Guys bi men who are seem almost to be repulsed by men and are ultra-keen to tell us they have no physical attraction to men… but have “cock fun”. | |||
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"… Well obviously that’s how it is for you; personally, i’ve yet to meet a man i had the remotest interest in kissing… " Well, you did ask the question “So, i’m interested to know…” and then asked whether men who like kissing never get involved in spontaneous sex play or just seek “dates”. Clearly you weren’t actually that interested to know any answers to your questions. Perhaps it punctured your misconceptions. Anyway, when you actually get round to meeting some men, you might find out more. | |||
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"…Find the bi guys who DO kiss. They tend to know what they're doing when they fuck…" 👆 Follow this man’s advice. Choose better quality sex. Then again my friend above knows how to have good sex. | |||
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"Kissing really turns me on and is essential if I'm going to perform! I know some guys won't do it, they're missing out but I respect their choice. " So true - but some of them are so adamant they’re not missing out. It clearly is a mental taboo for so many. “Cock fun” = not gay. “Kissing” = GAY GAY GAY with bells on. | |||
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"… Well obviously that’s how it is for you; personally, i’ve yet to meet a man i had the remotest interest in kissing… Well, you did ask the question “So, i’m interested to know…” and then asked whether men who like kissing never get involved in spontaneous sex play or just seek “dates”. Clearly you weren’t actually that interested to know any answers to your questions. Perhaps it punctured your misconceptions. Anyway, when you actually get round to meeting some men, you might find out more. " I’ve been on here for years and had many meets. Try and get your head round the idea that what you like and how you find it doesn’t necessarily apply to other people. | |||
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"… I’ve been on here for years and had many meets. Try and get your head round the idea that what you like and how you find it doesn’t necessarily apply to other people... " Yeah, yeah. I never presume what applies to me applies to others. You were the one with the flawed prospectus that kissers can’t do spontaneous sex and are just looking for dates because you were applying your own perspective. That didn’t suggest a lot of experience with other men to be frank. But who am I to gainsay an anonymous, unverified man in the Forum. You’ve put down Kissing as an interest so it’s an awful shame you’ve still never met any man you want to kiss. Good luck in your search. | |||
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"… I’ve been on here for years and had many meets. Try and get your head round the idea that what you like and how you find it doesn’t necessarily apply to other people... Yeah, yeah. I never presume what applies to me applies to others. You were the one with the flawed prospectus that kissers can’t do spontaneous sex and are just looking for dates because you were applying your own perspective. That didn’t suggest a lot of experience with other men to be frank. But who am I to gainsay an anonymous, unverified man in the Forum. You’ve put down Kissing as an interest so it’s an awful shame you’ve still never met any man you want to kiss. Good luck in your search. " I have never said that kissers cant do spontaneous sex. I asked the question, whether they ever did. Perhaps try reading carefully and understanding what you have actually read. | |||
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"So, i’m interested to know. All you guys who say kissing is essential; presumably you never get involved in any spontaneous play in clubs, saunas, dark rooms etc etc ? Do you never meet anyone unless you’ve exchanged pictures and established that it’s soneone you fancy ? Basically do you only meet for a date ? I’m absolutely and genuinely fascinated that you seem to think these are binary choices and that kissing is the preserve of some sort of romantic dalliance only and not part of the man on man sex you would have with strangers. One of the very first things I want to do - if I spot a horny man in a club or a sauna or out cruising or in any sexual setting - or indeed if I spot a handsome sexy man on a Fab profile - is to snog his face off. Good kissing is one of the most potent and stimulating aspects of sex. It releases multiple hormones that put you both in the mood, induce relaxation and reduce stress (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, etc.) It increases blood flow into the penis. It also increases saliva production - handy for all that sucking and rimming to come. These chemical reactions of the body stimulate feelings of connection and enhance intimacy. So - why would you not want to kiss passionately in order to have better sex..?! Surely it’s a no-brainer. All of these bi men in these threads who say that they’re not actually attracted to men and don’t kiss and just want to have a bit of “cock fun”… Well, that’s nice… If cock fun is the summit of your ambition, you crack on. Cock fun: scratches an itch, I suppose. But it’s a bit superficial; no intensity… no intimacy. No rush of hormones. Some of us want exhilarating, hormone-jangling, intimate, carnal, mind-fuckingly good sex with other men. Kissing forms part of that. " Absolutely could not agree more perfectly argued’ kissing is the first most important step to any intimacy and sometimes a good long snogging session can suffice for me. Respect if a guy doesn’t wan’t to kiss but then most probably we would most probably not progressed to a meet in this case. A sharing cum kiss after further fun can be the crowning glory for me if all are of the same liking!!! | |||
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"… I have never said that kissers cant do spontaneous sex. I asked the question, whether they ever did… " I read your words very carefully. The words “presumably you never get involved in” demonstrated your thinking. As I said - good luck in your search. | |||
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"I’m absolutely and genuinely fascinated that you seem to think these are binary choices and that kissing is the preserve of some sort of romantic dalliance only and not part of the man on man sex you would have with strangers. One of the very first things I want to do - if I spot a horny man in a club or a sauna or out cruising or in any sexual setting - or indeed if I spot a handsome sexy man on a Fab profile - is to snog his face off. Good kissing is one of the most potent and stimulating aspects of sex. It releases multiple hormones that put you both in the mood, induce relaxation and reduce stress (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, etc.) It increases blood flow into the penis. It also increases saliva production - handy for all that sucking and rimming to come. These chemical reactions of the body stimulate feelings of connection and enhance intimacy. So - why would you not want to kiss passionately in order to have better sex..?! Surely it’s a no-brainer. All of these bi men in these threads who say that they’re not actually attracted to men and don’t kiss and just want to have a bit of “cock fun”… Well, that’s nice… If cock fun is the summit of your ambition, you crack on. Cock fun: scratches an itch, I suppose. But it’s a bit superficial; no intensity… no intimacy. No rush of hormones. Some of us want exhilarating, hormone-jangling, intimate, carnal, mind-fuckingly good sex with other men. Kissing forms part of that." 💯 This! ☝️ "Absolutely could not agree more perfectly argued’ kissing is the first most important step to any intimacy and sometimes a good long snogging session can suffice for me. Respect if a guy doesn’t wan’t to kiss but then most probably we would most probably not progressed to a meet in this case." And this! ☝️ Lol Bi, and LOVE kissing another guy! Not interested in meeting with no kissing, it's a HUGE turn on! "A sharing cum kiss after further fun can be the crowning glory for me if all are of the same liking!!! " Can't say I've tried cum kissing though, but definitely open to the idea 😅 | |||
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