FabGuys.com forum: To reply or not

By *DFmate OP Man
4 weeks ago

Cardiff Bay

When I receive an unsolicited one word message from someone who clearly hasn’t read my profile, I usually delete without replying. Is this ruder than replying no thanks?

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By *ibrum2025Man
4 weeks ago

round the corner

Same here, and asking if I’m ok is really irritating 🤦‍♂️

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

I do it all the time.

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By *omethingExciting41Man
4 weeks ago

Somewhere

I try to reply to most people but one word messages I wouldn't reply to. If you want to chat and have a conversation then I would reply but not one word messages

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By *elfordsubMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

I wouldn't send a message like that but I'd reply

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By *eedsbearmanMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I reply if I wish to, I do not feel compelled to do so for any reason.

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By *ornybisubslutMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

If I get a one word message I generally reply with one word. Mostly it then turns into more of a conversation occasionally they just reply with one word again that’s when I tend to loose interest.

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By *angerEdMan
4 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

"When I receive an unsolicited one word message from someone who clearly hasn’t read my profile, I usually delete without replying. Is this ruder than replying no thanks?"

Not rude at all

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Bargoed

"If I get a one word message I generally reply with one word. Mostly it then turns into more of a conversation occasionally they just reply with one word again that’s when I tend to loose interest. "

Same.

Him "Hi"

Me "Hi"

Him "Hi"

Me.....* silence *

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By *damb00Man
4 weeks ago

Leicestershire

I don’t respond to one word messages

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By *aid2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Swindon

If someone clearly hasn't bothered reading my profile I block them, I have no time for lazy messages from blank profiles.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot

I made a tread the other day on a similar subject. I try and be polite and reply to one word messages as I understand that some people just might not be good at first moves and might be looking for a response that breaks the ice as it were, however more often than not my reply of "hello how are you?" gets met with crickets

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By *4BearsMan
4 weeks ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

Delete/ignore

They usually then send another calling you rude and then block you

Nice of them tofilter themselves out like that

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By *9pleaseMan
4 weeks ago

Southend-on-Sea

Sometimes I'll reply to one word messages purely to act stupid and annoy the sender

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By *amie2018cMan
4 weeks ago

north cambs

I just delete

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Tetbury

Yeah, just delete, its never going to turn into a meeting.

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By *wordfight70Man
4 weeks ago

Baldock

I've been on here well over a decade and I can tell you I am WAY past the point of entertaining one or two word messages now. I'm clear about it on my profile too, so if you can't be arsed reading it then more fool you, and I can't be arsed replying to your lazy "hi" either.

Also, I'm finding people are increasingly aggressive if you do reply with a "no thanks" these days, so I'm finding myself thinking it's not remotely rude to ignore "hi" given what can often come after it.

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By *aremanMan
4 weeks ago

Hingham

If he hasn't read my profile and understood that I delete messages of less than 6 words without replying, then more cunt him. 3 strikes and he's blocked, too.

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By *poolBiTopMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

For the "hi, hey, hello, how're you, how's you" type of messages I'll usually reply with similar, being polite as you would a face to face conversation. Can't say they get answered above messages with a bit more to them.

I have noticed I'm getting more of the "wer u" (sic) and "we're u" messages which for some reason I'm finding more irritating and likely to be deleted or read with without replying.

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By *aney_FoxxTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Feltham

"When I receive an unsolicited one word message from someone who clearly hasn’t read my profile, I usually delete without replying. Is this ruder than replying no thanks?

Not rude at all"

The rudeness is not bothering to read the profile

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By *arsit1Man
4 weeks ago

Lucan

VERY RUDE not to reply

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By *arleyBearMan
4 weeks ago

chester

I try to reply using the same number of words unless it’s a sentence….. I can understand why people just Hi at the start but if it continues….

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By *vsindyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

A place where sheep are warm, or Burnley.

I always try to reply, even if it's to say no thank you.

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By *ickSeekerMan
4 weeks ago

Canterbury

It takes effort and will to reply to one liners, true. On the other hand, they're easy (if clumsy) ways of 'breaking the ice'. Always a gamble...🤦🏽‍♂️

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By *arridMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton

It varies. Sometimes I reply, sometimes I don’t. I’m an unpredictable replyer.

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By *damb00Man
4 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"VERY RUDE not to reply"

No it isn’t, no one owes you a response, especially if you’ve clearly not read their profile

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Usually I ignore after looking at the senders profile. If he is cute, local, can accom or is up for a sauna I might respond but that is very rare

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By *hubsloverMan
4 weeks ago

East/west sussex

he doesnt care too so not to worry.

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

aylestone leic

My standard reply to one word text is.

I'm sorry but I don't reply to one word text. If you want to chat then chat.

After that it's upto them but I will block if they do it again.

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By *ornet99Man
4 weeks ago

stockport

A quick Hiya shows interest . And I will reply if still one word messages then lose interest

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By *ralBiguy63Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

I reply telling them to think of something .ore to say

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By *astDevonGuyMan
4 weeks ago

East Devon

Interesting

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By *arionX2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Near to Mansfield Nottinghamshire

I don’t reply to 1 & 2 word messages….i have it in my profile, but i still get them constantly, which means that they don’t read the profile just look at the pics…xx

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By *omersetsmallguyMan
4 weeks ago

Yeovil

If someone just sends a message like "hi" i usually reply with something like Hi, how's it going" and see if it opens the conversation.

On a separate matter on other sites where there are more Americans how do people respond to "whatsup"? I never really know what to say to that.

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By *ucksitupMan
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I get messages that simply say

“Shame you can’t accom”

What do they think that will do? Suddenly change my situation?

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bangor

I try to answer all my messages, even if they are abusive. lol

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By *inaCD66TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Wimbledon

"I get messages that simply say

“Shame you can’t accom”

What do they think that will do? Suddenly change my situation?"

🤣

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By *ucksitupMan
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"I try to answer all my messages, even if they are abusive. lol "

Any abusive ones get ignored and the sender blocked. Life is too short to engage with them and get wound up. 😀

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot

"I get messages that simply say

“Shame you can’t accom”

What do they think that will do? Suddenly change my situation?"

Some guys don't advertise the fact that they can accom so I guess a message like that just tests the waters as it were.

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