FabGuys.com forum: Who gets the most out of anal

By *im le2 OP Man
4 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Why do tops think they get the most out of anal sex.

From the very first time a class mate hit my prostate (not that I knew what it was) that very first time I knew I'd be a bottom for life. Yeah I did try topping but didn't enjoy it. And most tops think there in control lol.

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By *lymguy25Man
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

For me personally I get more out of bottoming than the guy on top ever understands. The plain filled pleasure of him entering you, the knowing of submitting to him. The pleasure of knowing that you are pleasuring him and the load being earned. God I need a shag lol

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

I don't think they think that, and if they do they are the type who see sex as nothing more then emptying thier nuts. I'm vers and have been happy to be used that way and I've been top who's used fellas that way. Nothing wrong with that. Sex isn't a recipe from a book, and it's always different depending on the circumstances. If you manage your expectations about what sort of meet it is, you're unlikely to be disappointed.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

The top usually seems to get more than me bottoming

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

"The top usually seems to get more than me bottoming "

Maybe you're actually a top?

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By *ewBrumBiMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Maybe you're actually a top?"

Haha I doubt that

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By *hubbyman10Man
4 weeks ago

Bloxwich

I hope it would be 50/50, I enjoy my hole being used and filled with cum, the top enjoys using my hole to satisfy his need to cum

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By *ull bi for funMan
4 weeks ago

hull

Maybe you're actually a top?

Haha I doubt that "

With an ass like that I would be definitely a bottom

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By *rasshopper200Man
4 weeks ago

kendal

For me it’s become easier to give him the pleasure as I shruggle to get hard to penetrate so I’m a bottom now and love it when he cums inside you so I’d say both get pleasure especially if he’s slow in his movement!!!

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By *ondomhunterMan
4 weeks ago

hastings

Surel thats like asking who gets the most out of straight sex? I would have thought it deoends on the person mood etc etc and must be about even.

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By *ull bi for funMan
4 weeks ago

hull

2 out of my last 5 meets i have had i played the role of being a bottom.

I do love the idea of succumbing to a top and letting him have his wicked way with me, however I don't get the orgasmic feeling at all, especially when I have topped and it's been different for the recipient.

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By *ickSeekerMan
4 weeks ago

Canterbury

I see it as two very different types of pleasure, control and enjoyment, that hopefully complement each other in an ideal, happy encounter. I doubt it happens often though

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By *ardy62Man
4 weeks ago

Weymouth

No better feeling than being topped, such a nice feeling

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By *ere2pleaseuMan
4 weeks ago

Tamworth

The bottom gets the most………. If you had an itch in your ear, what feels better your finger or your ear!????

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

Maybe you're actually a top?

Haha I doubt that "

Gotta say, your tops dont have a lot of skill then. Set your bar higher 😆

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By *aypaisleyMan
4 weeks ago

paisley

If he’s doing it right then both of you

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By *DC2000Man
4 weeks ago

Coningsby

"I see it as two very different types of pleasure, control and enjoyment, that hopefully complement each other in an ideal, happy encounter. I doubt it happens often though

This is how I feel. I rarely bottom but love the feeling of being sub and taken and everything that goes with that experience. As a top I'm experiencing the opposite really: being in control and watching him enjoy being taken and entered. It's a role reversal and both equally enjoyable.

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By *ullmytriggerMan
4 weeks ago

Crewe

I may be in the minority here as a top... But yes I get pleasure for having anal with a guy but I make sure that the bottom has a great pleasurable experience too! However long it takes at times lol

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

"I may be in the minority here as a top... But yes I get pleasure for having anal with a guy but I make sure that the bottom has a great pleasurable experience too! However long it takes at times lol "

This!

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By *ontylad87Man
4 weeks ago

pontefract

As a submissive bottom, I get my pleasure from the top being pleasured! Hearing him moan, groan, enjoying pounding my tight cunt is enough for me

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By *ucksitupMan
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

If both are getting what they want why does one have to be getting more than the other. Surely it's a purely subjective thing.

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By *ough stuffMan
4 weeks ago

Northampton/Fakenham

odd question as it should be mutual with a decent partner. As an experienced top i always want the bottom to be in a state of heaven while I'm fucking, good for-play for him and read the queues, If I can, I’ll wait and cum after he has or be simultaneous when we climax, If he’s an experienced guy he’ll work me too. I do the same as a bottom and ensure I get what I want as well as the top. It makes for electrifying experiences for both!!

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By *ottom 069Man
4 weeks ago

near Newquay

Good question. I think both guys get equal pleasure.

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By *nyonethereMan
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

The top gets the pleasure of cumming but the faggot is always the winner, he gets the pleasure of being fucked ,the humiliation which we all crave and of course the sensation of having another man's cum running down her legs as she was home

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

This post has sorted the sub sissies from the men if nothing else 😆

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By *miecdTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

I love being bottom just know he’s inside me never cum from it but enjoy pleasing him

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By *arionX2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Near to Mansfield Nottinghamshire

"Good question. I think both guys get equal pleasure. "

I agree…X

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By *bonybucksMan
4 weeks ago

High Wycombe

As a bottom I never got an orgasm from cock in me. So I’d say the tops got more of the fun. I don’t bother with full on sex now

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By *erry_bottomMan
4 weeks ago

Derry

This post is making me horny for A cock in my hole lol

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By *ughes77Man
4 weeks ago

London

It's just like giving blowjobs. I get a massive amount of pleasure knowing that my lips, tongue, and fingers are giving my man what is simply one of the best and intense feelings he could get. It makes me proud to have willing holes to offer in that way.

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By *awihMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

"odd question as it should be mutual with a decent partner. As an experienced top i always want the bottom to be in a state of heaven while I'm fucking, good for-play for him and read the queues, If I can, I’ll wait and cum after he has or be simultaneous when we climax, If he’s an experienced guy he’ll work me too. I do the same as a bottom and ensure I get what I want as well as the top. It makes for electrifying experiences for both!!"

Which is the way it should be. You both get equal pleasure from the experience. The form of the pleasure will be different for the top and the bottom but you both feel equally satisfied by it.

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By *tokerY2OMan
4 weeks ago

Bournemouth

If the top is good, the bottom.

If the top is crap, the top.

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By *rossoverTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Hinckley

For me being bottom feels amazing, especially if the top hits the right spot 😍

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
4 weeks ago

London

From my experience, it is actually the bottoms who are in control.

But not simply any bottoms. It must be EXPERT BOTTOMS with ANAL POWER.

I know how to entertain dicks. After all the foreplay, and when the men are ready to fuck, I will position my butt at the right angle, then push out my anal sphincter muscle to grip and take in his hard dick. This eases penetration. As he fucked me, I will push my anal muscles in and out, contract and relax, grip, massage his dick all with my anal muscles, all thectime controlling his dick till he spunked up. A guy mumbled nice hole in the midst of fucking me.

Honestly some guys told me my anus is better than a vagina. I told them I always believe my anus is a vagina since young.

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By *hef3105Man
4 weeks ago

york

I have been fucked a few times if it is done right the ogasimic feelings are amazing and you get aftershocks too ,if done wrong it's just pain

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By *lasbiMan
4 weeks ago

I agree it’s probably 50-50. That why we chose the position we do?

I’m bottom, not because I don’t like topping, I just don’t last as long as I would like. Having said that, I don’t mind if the guy topping me cums quick but that’s probably coz I get “feel good” out of knowing he’s had pleasure.

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By *lim_sportyMan
4 weeks ago

stevenage

"Why do tops think they get the most out of anal sex.

You make two wild ascertains. I very rarely btm and as a top I neither assumed the top was in control nor got the most out of it.

Sounds like you may be carrying some baggage.

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By *asyman321Man
4 weeks ago

north east

We are all different in that respect. As long asboth enjoy I’d what’s important

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bangor

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bangor

I certainly love receiving anal as it is the natural environment for me, as Susan

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By *amagedgoodsMan
4 weeks ago

Halstead/ Karsiyaka N. Cyprus

The feeling of taking that cock is totally amazing

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By *ubwirralTV/TS
4 weeks ago

West Kirby

I came hands free being fucked. An amazing experiance. He carried on an i actually got hard again x

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By *ubwirralTV/TS
4 weeks ago

West Kirby

I was bent over his bed and was getting a good fuck from behind. He wasn't long but by God he's the thickest I've ever taken. Every thrust of his cock in me felt magic and I could feel my orgasm building and cock get more sensitive as my whole body started to tingle. Then it happened. I just started cumming and it was like a river, continual, not spurts. I was shaking, moaning in pleasure and my cum was just flowing out

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By *arl17Man
4 weeks ago

Portugal

"I don't think they think that, and if they do they are the type who see sex as nothing more then emptying thier nuts. I'm vers and have been happy to be used that way and I've been top who's used fellas that way. Nothing wrong with that. Sex isn't a recipe from a book, and it's always different depending on the circumstances. If you manage your expectations about what sort of meet it is, you're unlikely to be disappointed. "

This...

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By *ancsbisexMan
3 weeks ago

Burnley

Surely the idea is for both parties to get something out of the encounter ?

Bottoms like being taken charge of and satisfied, for tops its the being in charge and directing the show and the orgasmic release of cum into or onto the bottom.

Without a cock in charge, then there's not a show...

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By *naris22Man
3 weeks ago

Kidderminster

As a bottom, as long as the top can last a little bit I will end up having some form of prostate orgasm and shaking like a leaf! But I also want the top to really enjoy themselves.

Them declaring how much they enjoy my arse and finishing whilst still in me is the best compliment.

Anal shouldn't be a contest, should be both parties making each other feel amazing

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By *ometomepleaseMan
3 weeks ago

doncaster

I love being a top. I love to be incontrol. I love cumming.

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

"The bottom gets the most………. If you had an itch in your ear, what feels better your finger or your ear!????"

What if both are itching?

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By *ottomcumslut999Man
3 weeks ago

Woburn

"I was bent over his bed and was getting a good fuck from behind. He wasn't long but by God he's the thickest I've ever taken. Every thrust of his cock in me felt magic and I could feel my orgasm building and cock get more sensitive as my whole body started to tingle. Then it happened. I just started cumming and it was like a river, continual, not spurts. I was shaking, moaning in pleasure and my cum was just flowing out"

Oh yes please! 👧🏻🌈😘

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By *fdbi55Man
3 weeks ago

bradford

I've been top and bottom, always enjoyed bottom more ,even when I've fucked a guy n he's returned favor love a guy pounding my ass ,making me cum or withdrawing and cumming in my mouth , still want 2 tops to fuck me one after the other

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By *ichardgeorgeMan
3 weeks ago

sheffield

I’m vers but more bottom, I love to submit to him have him take control, and the pleasure from having a big cock stretch you open is pain and pleasure all rapped up in joy, and I can’t get enough of it,

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By *im le2 OP Man
3 weeks ago

aylestone leic

"Surel thats like asking who gets the most out of straight sex? I would have thought it depends on the person mood etc etc and must be about even."

Woman can just lay back and think of England.

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By *regABCMan
3 weeks ago

blackhall

Both get a lot of pleasure

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By *im le2 OP Man
3 weeks ago

aylestone leic

"The bottom gets the most………. If you had an itch in your ear, what feels better your finger or your ear!????"

Yes but how do you know what pleasure your finger gets from it.

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By *ecretly gayMan
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

Think it's equal but love being bottom, feels amazing

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

I think it's the same for both the top and the bottom...but in different ways.

The top likes the control and taking charge. The clench. The warmth and velvety feel.

The bottom loves relinquishing control. Not clenching on an in or out stroke. That feeling when he's balls deep and thoughts and imagination of how he has disappeared.

Man smells and musk. Stubble. Eek. I gotta go lie down...

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By *B76Man
3 weeks ago

Essex

As a bottom, I love giving myself to my top. The feeling of being pinned down and penetrated makes me feel wonderfully submissive. Also, knowing that I have given my top pleasure is a big turn on.

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By *in and TonicMan
3 weeks ago

cambridgeshire

I love being fucked but it rarely happens - I’m more in demand as a Top!

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

barton

I think i get as much out of it as my partner does he's top im bottom

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

I fuck for hours without cumming. And love it. I’ve been versatile in the past, and I loved being fucked long and hard. But at the risk of sounding like an arrogant cunt, I haven’t found anyone who can fuck me like I fuck. So, personally I get far more pleasure from being a top than I do a bottom. It’s been six years since anyone fucked me properly. Huge muscle bear with a thick cock that fucked me all day, all night and all the morning, giving me load after load. Anyone that can repeat that is willing to make me realise how good bottoming is again. Till then, I’ll just keep fucking cheers.

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