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"If you don’t like her then don’t keep her hanging on it’s not fair on her or you Do what makes you happy " I agree but my friends who don't know about me think I should persist and see what happens. | |||
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"... Would you be prepared to give up you 'gay side' for the right woman? ... " I don't think I could, at least not for long. I'd try of course. | |||
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"... Would you be prepared to give up you 'gay side' for the right woman? ... I don't think I could, at least not for long. I'd try of course." It sounds to me like you know what you want. Why would you give a fuck about what your friends think about your potential relationship. My advise is to persist with taking all forms of dick. You literally said you love cock and are not sexually attracted to that woman. Seems like a no brainer. I have been in this exact situation. I told her I wasn't interested romantically whatsoever . But, if she wanted to fuck, I would. She gave me some spiel that she's not that kinda girl. But, we did end up fucking anyway. And she wasn't a good shag so I stopped meeting her. Men are generally better in bed, imo. What do you want from this woman ? Intimacy ? Company ?. You don't need to string her along for those things. | |||
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"You're bi. You dont fancy her. You're wasting her time as well as yours. Throw her back move on, and hopefully find someone who can embrace your bi side. Good luck." I am worried about wasting her time. Maybe she will sense that I'm not entirely straight. Most of the women I've dated said I am different to other men. They just couldn't quite put their fingers on it. | |||
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"You're bi. You dont fancy her. You're wasting her time as well as yours. Throw her back move on, and hopefully find someone who can embrace your bi side. Good luck. I am worried about wasting her time. Maybe she will sense that I'm not entirely straight. Most of the women I've dated said I am different to other men. They just couldn't quite put their fingers on it." She might fancy that about you. But the problem will always be that you don't fancy her. Perhaps you can be mates instead? There's obviously something there, just not the traditional romantic-sexual chemistry. | |||
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"You're bi. You dont fancy her. You're wasting her time as well as yours. Throw her back move on, and hopefully find someone who can embrace your bi side. Good luck. I am worried about wasting her time. Maybe she will sense that I'm not entirely straight. Most of the women I've dated said I am different to other men. They just couldn't quite put their fingers on it." So just be open and see what she thinks. If she blows it out of the water immediately then you've dodged the bullet of getting into a relationship that ultimately won't satisfy you and will break down. If she accepts this side of you then you have the potential for something good, if you respect her and are honest with her too. | |||
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"My friends, who don't know about me, think I should persist and see what happens." This says it all. Don't listen to your friends. Do what YOU feel is right. | |||
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"I see your a TV/TS have you thought it could be her clothes you're attracted to. " Not in her case but I realise now that in the past with regard to women I've mistook admiration for lust. I remember my then girlfriend bent over the bed in her office uniform her skirt hitched up and her panties to one side. I was fucking her and a bit bored, going soft. I glanced in the mirror and at that point I realised I wanted to be in her place. Bent over the bed getting fucked by a hunky man, dressed like a sexy office girl. | |||
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"You're bi. You dont fancy her. You're wasting her time as well as yours. Throw her back move on, and hopefully find someone who can embrace your bi side. Good luck. I am worried about wasting her time. Maybe she will sense that I'm not entirely straight. Most of the women I've dated said I am different to other men. They just couldn't quite put their fingers on it. So just be open and see what she thinks. If she blows it out of the water immediately then you've dodged the bullet of getting into a relationship that ultimately won't satisfy you and will break down. If she accepts this side of you then you have the potential for something good, if you respect her and are honest with her too." I agree. Tell her everything and see what happens. Easier said than done but trust me, it gets really easy after a couple of times. If she's a decent person, even if she's not interested, she will handle it really well and discreetly and you might have a friend for life  . | |||
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