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I really want to dress feminine for my girlfriend x

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By *ayleababe OP   TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Tividale

About 8 months ago my girlfriend found all my sissy outfits and lingerie and obviously she was quite shocked, at first she thought it belonged to a female that I might of been cheating on her with but after admitting to her that it all belonged to me and that I dressed feminine on the rare occasion. She appeared okay about it and never mentioned it since.

Anyway I’ve been thinking lots about it and I really want to dress up and her see me dressed like a female obviously looking sexy.

How do you think I should approach the situation? Has anyone got any advice for personal experience that you could pass on to me xx

Thanks guys for any feedback xx

Kaylea

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

Have the conversation with her. She's your girlfriend, you know her, we dont. She's not dumped you yet so it's looking hopeful. Worst that can happen is she says no.

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By *opster77Man
3 weeks ago

Wantage

If she’s not mentioned it, she’s in denial. The conversation could be a rabbit hole into your sex life and why you dress.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

Assuming you do find her sexy and want to fuck her, frame it as a thing that you enjoy that's like a turbo switch for your sexuality. Dressing doesn't have to be feminising (although your self-description as sissy sounds like that's what you want?), it can be quite empowering for a bloke to feel like he genuinely looks and feels sexy and his true self.

That's how I approach it with my wife anyway. I'm always in skirts, stockings and blouses around her and she likes it and that I'm not just your typical man.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

What's more of an issue really is does she know you're bi and like cock?

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By *issy SiMan
3 weeks ago

Horsham


"About 8 months ago my girlfriend found all my sissy outfits and lingerie and obviously she was quite shocked, at first she thought it belonged to a female that I might of been cheating on her with but after admitting to her that it all belonged to me and that I dressed feminine on the rare occasion. She appeared okay about it and never mentioned it since.

Anyway I’ve been thinking lots about it and I really want to dress up and her see me dressed like a female obviously looking sexy.

How do you think I should approach the situation? Has anyone got any advice for personal experience that you could pass on to me xx

Thanks guys for any feedback xx

Kaylea "

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By *issy SiMan
3 weeks ago

Horsham

Have you told her you've been cheating on her by having sex with men? That might help clear up the situation

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By *ngel50TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Kinross

It would depend on your body shape, if you're a big man, big size 8 or bigger feet then I guess it would be difficult to look effeminate.

If you're a smaller man like myself, small hands, wrists, feet etc and slim effeminate shape then you are half way there.

Grow your hair so that it's at least shoulder length, apply make-up, lipstick and paint both your toenails and fingernails with deep red nail varnish that matches your lipstick.

Ensure you select nice matching lingerie and a nice tight hugging dress or tight short skirt and top

Have fresh breath, sweet smelling perfume and most of all yourself feel effeminate yourself

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By *atexlover50Man
3 weeks ago

Barton upon humber

I love dressing feminine. One day I told my wife my turn on is stockings. She could see that when she wore them. One day I told her I've worn them before. She liked the thought of that. I also said I hate body hair as I shave all my body besides my legs. She said why don't I shave my legs. Which I did. I could see it turned her on as she kept touching them in bed. She said put some stockings on which I did. Her eyes lit up and she was very horny. Now I wear panties and stockings all the time in bed. When not in bed I wear tights and panties. She knows I dress when she is not around which she does not mind me doing. She just does not want to see me fully dressed.

Now we both have started to wear latex. She loves seeing me wearing that. Even started to pegg me and fist me. So in other words if you don't talk to her you will never know where it will lead.

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By *starMan
3 weeks ago

Stroud district

I want to share with my OH, talk about it, pictures, let her see me dressed, but I am restraining myself for fear of the harm it could do to our relationship, or the hurt it might cause her. That last is more important than my feelings or desires I think.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

Given that a lot of women when asked say that they like sexy lingerie for how it makes *them* feel, sensual and sexy and indulgent, rather than just to turn a man on, you'd think more women would be sympathetic to their man doing the same.

I'm very lucky, mine is.

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Have you told her you've been cheating on her by having sex with men? That might help clear up the situation "

That's the most important thing. Even if you are not actively seeking sex with men you are still on a gay/bi sex site. I know some totally straight men like to crossdress and indulge in sexual role play with their wives/girlfriends.

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By *emmaDarlingTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedfordshire


"About 8 months ago my girlfriend found all my sissy outfits and lingerie and obviously she was quite shocked, at first she thought it belonged to a female that I might of been cheating on her with but after admitting to her that it all belonged to me and that I dressed feminine on the rare occasion. She appeared okay about it and never mentioned it since.

Anyway I’ve been thinking lots about it and I really want to dress up and her see me dressed like a female obviously looking sexy.

How do you think I should approach the situation? Has anyone got any advice for personal experience that you could pass on to me xx

Thanks guys for any feedback xx

Kaylea "

Having looked at your profile, do you really want to dress for your girlfriend or for men?

I may be wrong, but to me it seems the latter. Like someone has said, she hasn't said anything because she's blanked it out.

My advice to you is to be totally honest with your girlfriend, because I can almost guarantee that she probably suspects that it's more than just dressing up.

Good luck x

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By *ylonplesureTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Stone (staffs)

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By *ayleababe OP   TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Tividale

Thanks everyone for your replies its been really helpful xxx

Happy new year everyone xxx

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