FabGuys.com forum: But why not kiss a guy

By *iversucka OP Man
3 weeks ago

Worcester

Seen a post about kissing but would like to know honestly why when having sex with another man you won't kis him ?

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By *damb00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

It’s gay

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By *panky525Man
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I love to kiss. But if the guy has bad breath, bad teeth or just generally poir oral hygiene then it's a no from me.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

For me it was a no-no until that one meet where it wasn't.

I think I wanted it to remain "just sex" and eschew anything resembling romance so didn't kiss on my first few meets. How wrong I was. It heightens every part of it, the foreplay and the fucking.

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By *urvedcockloverMan
3 weeks ago

north lancs

Cos it grosses me out

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By *espectdueMan
3 weeks ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

For me, kissing is for the one I love.

Playing with someone else is different.

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By *ay4121Man
3 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

Love kissing and takes things to another level, that said and as strange as it might be, there are times that I have sucked a guys cock but would have no interest in kissing him.

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By *ick ZuckerMan
3 weeks ago

sheffield

It’s all stubbly

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By *ruemaleMan
3 weeks ago

notts

"I love to kiss. But if the guy has bad breath, bad teeth or just generally poir oral hygiene then it's a no from me."

So agree

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By *arriedbiMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

I love kissing a sexy man X can be so passionate

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By *omyorksMan
3 weeks ago

Nr York

Kissing gets me hard

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By *976BeardedManMan
3 weeks ago

Essex / London

A must

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By *zaac CoxMan
3 weeks ago

FOREST OF DEAN

Kissing other guys is such a turn on for me

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By *ensualblokeMan
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

For many its the 'taboo too far' as its on a different level of intimacy, which is perhaps the reason I love it so much.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

Cos he's not into it, or looks like Shrek.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

No kissie no nookie as far as I'm concerned, I don't meet one trick ponies and guys that don't kiss, simple as that.

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By *arnieMan
3 weeks ago

Lincoln

I enjoy kissing with plenty of tongue action.

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By *enardeMan
3 weeks ago

Barnsley

I’m not physically attracted to me but I like cock sex

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By *udi222Man
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

I have zero interest in kissing guys. It's a personal preference. If it's an issue for anyone then so be it. I'll manage somehow.

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By *ayhartMan
3 weeks ago

chesterfield

Stubble no. Clean and smooth yes

Beard definitely not

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By *stronomiqueMan
3 weeks ago

Fylde

No snog means no fuck...hot passionate snogs means the sex will be incendiary

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By *oreverhereMan
3 weeks ago

chertsey

I think kissing is critical to heightening the sexuality of the moment It demonstrates a commitment to each other and marks the moment when you commit totally to the other guy. When kissing there is no hiding each's desire for the other. Nothing like it!

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By *uriousSwitchMan
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Weird isn't it? I think for many guys, kissing is too intimate when all they really want is the sex

Personally, I'm ambivalent. If I'm horny and into the guy, I love kissing, but often I'm happy just with the sex.

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By *ld4yngfunMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I am happy with a sex meet, but if a guy wants to kiss, I will do so with pleasure.

Not getting any meets at the present time.

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

"It’s gay"

Not necessarily. Been with quite a few married bi guys who are passionate kissers. Perhaps not so keen on kissing after they've cum. I like to carry on kissing and cuddling in that rosy afterglow of sex.

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By *isa220TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Greenock

Love kissing

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By *aceyswallowsTV/TS
3 weeks ago

south oxon

Love forced kissing can’t kiss guy first he has to make that move

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

"It’s gay

I think he's being sarcastic, some on here do think kissing is too gay

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By *aggonerMan
3 weeks ago

Malvern

Kissing is too intimate and I have no interest

For me meets are about sex only.

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

"It’s gay

I think he's being sarcastic, some on here do think kissing is too gay"

I realise that. It just amuses me that some guys will happily suck another guy's cock, rim his arse, let him ram his cock up your arse yet insist that is not gay but kissing is

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

"Kissing is too intimate and I have no interest

For me meets are about sex only. "

I'd argue that sex is supposed to be intimate

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By *q oralistMan
3 weeks ago

Torquay

Everyone has their own version of being bi sexual and for many it does not include kissing on the mouth, it's dumb to assume everyone wants to do it

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By *awihMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Kissing is too intimate and I have no interest

For me meets are about sex only. "

So you think that kissing another man is more intimate than letting him penetrate your arse (or the other way around)!!!! I know what I’d consider the more “intimate” act.

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By *aggonerMan
3 weeks ago

Malvern

"Kissing is too intimate and I have no interest

For me meets are about sex only.

So you think that kissing another man is more intimate than letting him penetrate your arse (or the other way around)!!!! I know what I’d consider the more “intimate” act."

Yes.

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By *yberbumMan
3 weeks ago

llansamlet

I don't really like kissing and it's not just men women as will, I do sometimes do it but most of the time I avoid it.

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By *awihMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Kissing is too intimate and I have no interest

For me meets are about sex only.

So you think that kissing another man is more intimate than letting him penetrate your arse (or the other way around)!!!! I know what I’d consider the more “intimate” act.

Yes. "

All I can say is you have a strange idea of intimacy.

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By *dol1Man
3 weeks ago

North Wexford

For me kissing is an essential part of the whole sexual experience, it sets the tone at the start and can really get the juices flowing, and as you go on it’s just a beautiful thing

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Kissing is too intimate and I have no interest

For me meets are about sex only. "

Golly! I bet meeting you blows the socks off… 🙄

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By *izzler123Man
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I must the idea of kissing originally turned me off but it can definitely heighten the sexual pleasure depending on the person you are with ... try it ... you may be surprised!!!

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

"Kissing is too intimate and I have no interest

For me meets are about sex only.

Golly! I bet meeting you blows the socks off… 🙄"

Absolutely useless in bed comes to mind.

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By *edsBlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stotfold

"For me it was a no-no until that one meet where it wasn't.

I think I wanted it to remain "just sex" and eschew anything resembling romance so didn't kiss on my first few meets. How wrong I was. It heightens every part of it, the foreplay and the fucking. "

Similar.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

I wonder how many of these bisexual guys that won't kiss because it's too intimate would apply the same logic if they were having NSA sex with a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I tend to not kiss guys all that much. In my experience I've had many that don't kiss well at all. It's a major, major turn off for me if they kiss bad. So I'd rather not try and keep my horn levels high.

Obviously it's my own preference for I like to be kissed etc... Still

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By *ornymwellbiMan
3 weeks ago

Motherwell

Bi married here absolutely love a good kiss when playing

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By *laretv42TV/TS
3 weeks ago

BRIDGEND

Kissing is foreplay xx

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By *laretv42TV/TS
3 weeks ago

BRIDGEND

I cant understand why someone would kiss suck a cock but not kiss a man on the lips xx

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By *ubbiguyMan
3 weeks ago

guernsey

Same

Kissing when chemistry and attraction is right is hot

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By *erry55112Man
3 weeks ago

man

I’ve always thought this myself as I don’t kiss but take it up the arse. Weird lol

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By *horts66Man
3 weeks ago

cambridge

Kissing can make me cum

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By *idingcockMan
3 weeks ago

Driffield

As a gay man I always thought that bisexual guys who didn’t like to kiss because that was reserved for their wife or girlfriend.

Whatever the reason at my age nothing is going to happen without a damn good snog taking place first.

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By *lokenexdoor2025Man
3 weeks ago

Ludlow

"It’s gay

I think he's being sarcastic, some on here do think kissing is too gay

I realise that. It just amuses me that some guys will happily suck another guy's cock, rim his arse, let him ram his cock up your arse yet insist that is not gay but kissing is

Agree

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By *iganbiguy1963Man
3 weeks ago

Wigan

I love a kiss and a cuddle. If a guy isn't into it. Ok by me.

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By *damb00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"It’s gay

I think he's being sarcastic, some on here do think kissing is too gay"

Correct

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By *eyourselfMan
3 weeks ago

Southend

I can see both sides of it...

For guys who don't want to do it they probably see it as too personal to kiss a guy particularly if they're married.

At the same time...if you're happy to suck a cock then kissing is surely less personal?!

Personally I never thought I'd like kissing guys but it never fails to get me rock hard.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I'll suck the cocks of most men

I'll fuck the ones I like

The ones I really like might even get to fuck me if I think my hole can take it 😂

But I don't like kissing men, masculine regular men.

Twinks, TVs, Fem boys... anyone who is cute sexy and effeminate I'll kiss all day.

Your regular guy though I've zero interest in being close or intimate with, and I'd consider kissing to be very much that.

Porking and kissing are two very different things...

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

ah go on, give him a snog X

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By *IPMANMan
3 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

Bizarre, I have met men who will deep rim but not kiss

Totally beyond my comprehension..but who cares...at least they cleaned out my chute

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

no snogs = no connection

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By *aid2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Swindon

Personally kissing just doesn't do anything for me. I'm bi and it's the same with men, women and tv/ts. For whatever reason kissing doesn't excite me. I think there is always a better use for a mouth hehe.

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

snog, snog, snog X

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By *ralBiguy63Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

Kissing is essential

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

Would rather have a good snog n cuddle X

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By *autiously_curiousMan
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

Why keep bringing this up. Some guys do, some guys don't. Some guys will, some guys won't. Like most things on here lol!

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By *ucksitupMan
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Everyone has a personal preference. There is no general right or wrong.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"Why keep bringing this up. Some guys do, some guys don't. Some guys will, some guys won't. Like most things on here lol!"

Excellent Racey reference!

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

good snog,mmmm x

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By *londebiguyMan
3 weeks ago

near Southport

Love it.

But I've got to find them attractive and have a connection there

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By *amesmbi47Man
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I have kissed quite a few other trannys and i love it.... When feeling and seeing their lingerie I almost forget that they are men and it gives me such a buzz when I remind myself!!

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By *ayboy1966Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Why keep bringing this up. Some guys do, some guys don't. Some guys will, some guys won't. Like most things on here lol!"

Yeah what he says, that’s life!

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By *artin1963Man
3 weeks ago

London

I would kiss a guy like I would kiss a woman, we are all just people

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I have kissed quite a few other trannys and i love it.... When feeling and seeing their lingerie I almost forget that they are men and it gives me such a buzz when I remind myself!!"

If you enjoy getting lost in the sensations and forgetting that men dressed as women are men, have you ever thought about… having sex with just women..?

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By *ixer61Man
3 weeks ago

Aycliffe

I love a good snog with a guy, it gets me horny as hell

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By *reatballs2017Man
3 weeks ago

Maidenhead

I couldn't get the thought of kissing a man when I was younger as an option but I can't think of sex without it...such a turn on for me these days

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By *att1210Man
3 weeks ago

blackrock

A good kiss while he rides on my lap is what gets me going

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By *rytonTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chatham

Personally I am not attracted to men whatsoever, so don't kiss.

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By *ishchaserMan
3 weeks ago

creswell

Love kissing guys so sexy

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By *acks1964Man
3 weeks ago

Central Scotland

A good snog is all part of the foreplay

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By *im le2Man
3 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Str8 guys will happily fuck you . Let you suck there cock. But kissing is to gay. Honestly I've had guys say it.

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By *mizhereMan
3 weeks ago

BUDE and Surrounds 19th hotel

Adore kissing men mmmmm

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

"Str8 guys will happily fuck you . Let you suck there cock. But kissing is to gay. Honestly I've had guys say it. "

All my married fuck buddies kiss, its seems to be something they really relish. If a man told me kissing is too gay so they dont do it, i'd just laugh at them tbh. Then i'd fuck him to remind him just how much he likes gay sex. I think ruling out meeting someone because they dont kiss is a bit daft and self-limiting.

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By *omo2026Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

If a guy wants to kiss thats OK with me if he doesn't and just wants a bj thats cool to

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

In my early days I didn’t kiss, how things change

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

" I think ruling out meeting someone because they dont kiss is a bit daft and self-limiting. "

How is it daft or limiting? I personally can pass on one trick ponies ie those who only want to do anal or those that only do oral, they don't interest me, as far as I'm concerned sex should be intimate and intimate involves kissing, ruling people out because they don't fit my criteria is not limiting myself.

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By *ivahungMan
3 weeks ago

formby

If I'm planning to suck his cock and balls then kisses should not be an issue

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

" I think ruling out meeting someone because they dont kiss is a bit daft and self-limiting.

I'm ever so happy for you and your self-limiting check list. Crack on. A deal-breaker for you isn’t for others.

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By *hickenmcnuggetsMan
3 weeks ago

Coxlodge, Newcastle upon Tyne

Love kissing a guy, largely because of how it combines the physical and sentimental/romantic sides of being attracted to men

And the whole “kissing is gay” thing just makes it seem even hotter, TBH. Not that I need the extra help to find it hot anyway, lol

So yeah, I don’t really “get” the whole “I don’t kiss” thing among some guys. I respect their preferences, but it’s a shame a lot of guys seem to deny themselves the pleasure

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By *ig3Man
3 weeks ago

Maldon

Love kissing

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
3 weeks ago

West London

I’ve no real desire to kiss a man, but I’ve got a massive desire to suck his cock

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By *oger_07Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"I’ve no real desire to kiss a man, but I’ve got a massive desire to suck his cock

I'm same.

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By *arionX2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Near to Mansfield Nottinghamshire

I absolutely love it when a man kisses me, either on my lips or on my body, before and during sex…it’s a huge turn on for me..x

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By *tmboi86Man
3 weeks ago

Thornton Cleveleys

I get it some don't like kissing, hugging etc but for me I love a good kiss, pinned against a wall and kissed hard!

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By *ndyfy7Man
3 weeks ago

Fleetwood

"I’m not physically attracted to me but I like cock sex "

How can you have sex with someone you’re not physically attracted to?

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By *illie_2024Man
3 weeks ago

Ivybridge

Love kissing guys

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By *urious44walesMan
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I havent been with a guy yet, but if your going to get naked, play with his cock, maybe suck it or fuck him why on earth would you not kiss??!!

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By *ysteriousesMan
3 weeks ago

Woodbury, Exmouth

"For me, kissing is for the one I love.

Playing with someone else is different. "
Exactly this!

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By *ickSeekerMan
3 weeks ago

Canterbury

I think many see it as a manifestation of emotional engagement that goes counter to their professed 'it's only sex' brief. I can see some logic in that (that's reserved for the one I love/care about; it's a special act of appreciation or connection, etc.) The thing is that for me it's a huge aphrodisiaque. Sometimes a kiss (or even the approximation of lips) can give me an instant hard-on not even a wank or a suck could🫢. We all respond differently🤷🏽‍♂️.

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By *obsdogMan
3 weeks ago

St Austell

I like kissing it's nice. Well as long as he's not trying to eat my face 😂

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By *espectdueMan
3 weeks ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

"For me, kissing is for the one I love.

Playing with someone else is different. Exactly this!"

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By *autiously_curiousMan
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

I really don't get this debate. One of the very first things 2 guys establish is if they top or bottom. When a guy won't top that's accepted. When a guy won't bottom that's accepted. After all guys get pleasure from different practises. Guy who top can bottom but don't enjoy or want to, and vice versa for bottoms...

Why can't that same logic be applied to kissing?

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By *rytonTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chatham

I do not find men attractive so don't kiss. What wrong with thst.

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By *ldderMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

I must be honest never really been into kissing men but I'm sure I'd love to the moment he's about to spurt inside me

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By *anleybeatonMan
3 weeks ago

london

I always thought it was to do with catching herpes

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By *nyonethereMan
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Kissing a man s he shoots his cum deep into my pussy almost makes me cum handsfree, quick few strokes and I'd be shooting everywhere if the man wants me to

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By *IPMANMan
3 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

There's some real hair-splitting answers here

It seems that if you don't kiss it doesn't really count, so you're not cheating on anyone

And you never get pregnant if you fuck standing up

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By *hong loverTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Wilton near Malton

Kissing is a must. Xxx

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