FabGuys.com forum: When sex is just too easy

By *tar33 OP Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I once had a liaison with a cross-dresser, you know the type of thing it was a walk-in where they were ready and waiting, kneeling on the bed with their arse up in the air. It was clear they weren't interested in foreplay or a slow build-up, and although I still managed to fuck them I didn't particularly enjoy myself.

Likewise people who advertise themselves as 'cum -dumps', or who wait in a sling at a sauna for whoever's next. Neither of these situations excite me, in fact I don't enjoy naked days at saunas either when everything is 'up front'.

What I do enjoy is a more erotic encounter, starting off fully clothed, kissing for a while and with a more gradual build up. Does anyone else prefer it this way?

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

Me! The idea of anonymous fuck'n'go is anathema to me. I don't necessarily need sex to be love of my life or romance, but I do like some sort of friendly connection and a bit of a buildup, plenty of foreplay and kissing etc

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By *V ShazTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Haydock

Preference is making love without the word love.. I suppose making out best describes my liking, in a slow sensual way.

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By *dol1Man
3 weeks ago

North Wexford

I really value the intimacy that foreplay brings to making love to a person. I enjoy the mutual pleasure - giving and receiving. I love to be tactile, handsy, lots of touching, kissing and tasting.

If there is no foreplay it wouldn’t work for me.

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By *anDadBodMan
3 weeks ago

Speke

all of the above comments i echo, i get nothing from quickies

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By *starMan
3 weeks ago

Stroud district

I think there's a place for both. Variety is the spice of life. Keeps it fresh and exiting, trying different things.

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By *rMagicFingersMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"IWhat I do enjoy is a more erotic encounter, starting off fully clothed, kissing for a while and with a more gradual build up. Does anyone else prefer it this way?"

Amen to this. I avoid anyone who wants a 'fuck and go' or advertises themselves as a cumdump.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

Love a bit of cum dump either way. Also love a very long session. Variety is the key to happiness for me.

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By *aid2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Swindon

Sometimes a long sensual meet is superb. Sometimes a quickie will do. Both have a place in my sex life.

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By *ip71Man
3 weeks ago

Darlington

Long horny adventurous sessions only here

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By *erry_bottomMan
3 weeks ago

Derry

If im attracted to the person some foreplay is ok but if not id just prefer to get straight to the sex tbh.

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By *ocklover1456Man
3 weeks ago

sheffield

Much prefer long sensual sex but as others have said I’m happy with both. Sensual love making is my preference though

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By *WB and NSAMan
3 weeks ago

London

Likewise. I like some sort of connection with the person. Kissing, foreplay, being interested in the person, their smell (NOT unwashed or dirty), how they react to you, their reciprocation of you.

Without wanting to marry them.

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By *ollyMan
3 weeks ago

Downham market

I agree with you, I want passionate nice sex with someone who likes me as much as I like them

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By *tar33 OP Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"IWhat I do enjoy is a more erotic encounter, starting off fully clothed, kissing for a while and with a more gradual build up. Does anyone else prefer it this way?

Amen to this. I avoid anyone who wants a 'fuck and go' or advertises themselves as a cumdump. "

Likewise bitch, whore and slut, they all put me off as well.

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By *damb00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Fuck and go’s have never interested me

Need some foreplay, good fun, and some kisses after it’s all done

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By *ickSeekerMan
3 weeks ago

Canterbury

Ah, old world seduction, tease, subtle signs and sensual invitation to proximity and to cross the next boundary by consent,the intimacy and complicity...sigh...it all wins hands down, in my book at least 🫠

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
3 weeks ago

North East

"I once had a liaison with a cross-dresser, you know the type of thing it was a walk-in where they were ready and waiting, kneeling on the bed with their arse up in the air. It was clear they weren't interested in foreplay or a slow build-up, and although I still managed to fuck them I didn't particularly enjoy myself.

What I do enjoy is a more erotic encounter, starting off fully clothed, kissing for a while and with a more gradual build up. Does anyone else prefer it this way?"

Yep 👍

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By *t00Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

there's a place for both.

some will just want the easiness of a cum&go scenario to avoid the need for chit-chat or buildup.

others will prefer the one-to-one intimacy and attention

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By *tmguylookingMan
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"there's a place for both.

some will just want the easiness of a cum&go scenario to avoid the need for chit-chat or buildup.

others will prefer the one-to-one intimacy and attention"

Exactly this

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