FabGuys.com forum: gay

By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Colchester

Will they know it is you who started this thread?

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

None of mine are either. Shall we form a club

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By *erry3Man
3 weeks ago

Bracknell

I'm secret bi too

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By *enri du lacMan
3 weeks ago

Coventry

"none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post"

Do they know you're not straight?

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By *evanianMan
3 weeks ago

Flintshire

"none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post"

Have you asked them all? They may be really good at hiding it as others on here will probably be too in the wide open world! 😄

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bargoed

"none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post"

But there is also the possibility that you dont know that they are gay/bi in the same way that they dont know about you.

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By *astguy7Man
3 weeks ago

Ross on Wye

It's my big secret too, but I think my husband suspects.

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By *evanianMan
3 weeks ago

Flintshire

"none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post

But there is also the possibility that you dont know that they are gay/bi in the same way that they dont know about you. "

My point exactly!

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By *jw58Man
3 weeks ago

Newport

I'm definitely not gay , but I'm not so sure about my boyfriend !

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

"none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post"

What are they supposed not to appreciate, you haven't said anything, your post is pointless without some context.

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By *etterbiggerMan
2 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post"

I guess you and they will learn to live with it

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By *ickSeekerMan
2 weeks ago

Canterbury

And the irony of it all is that in so many cases, when the gay/bi guy comes out (or is outed) the vast majority within his social and family circle will go: 'we knew [or strongly suspected] all along, mate!' Even your grandma will say: 'You see, darling It wasn't so difficult!? Now, have another cup of tea and turn on the [real] news'.🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *im le2Man
2 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Believe me your friends know. There just waiting for you to make a move.

Do they still go gym play sports with you let you see them naked in the lockers.

Do they go on holidays together and share rooms with the same guy every year.

Who's that str8 mate that every Friday night after six pints thinks it's funny to get naked and run around the pub.

There's no such thing as a totally str8 man.

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By *im le2Man
2 weeks ago

aylestone leic

"none of my mates are gay so won't appreciate this post"

What are your str8 mates doing on fabguys anyway.

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

I have a very strict line I won't cross with my social straight mates.

Not interested in sex with them at all, their my friends.

I keep them, and guys I have sex with totally seperate.

Never been a problem

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

was talking about this with another guy on here. Although I called it "none of my mates are gay", (I mean't I don't really know if I have many real life gay friends and wanted to get some gay/bi friends general opinions from on here)

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By *olyjamorousMan
2 weeks ago

Wrexham

Where in Cheshire are you? I'm in Wrexham.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

such as having gay mates and just mates. I'm a bit lost with this and have appreciated being able to chat without being judged, condescended or belittled on here X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I'm in Winsford.

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By *illmanimp1972Man
2 weeks ago

pitsea

Out loud and proud to everyone.nwver be ashamed of yourself

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By *olyjamorousMan
2 weeks ago

Wrexham

"Out loud and proud to everyone.nwver be ashamed of yourself "

Absolutely. 💯

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By *olyjamorousMan
2 weeks ago

Wrexham

"I'm in Winsford."

Not far to the sauna for you then

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By *omo2026Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I am gay and not out

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

never been but thought about it *blush*

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By *obbertMan
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own

I’m unsure how folks would react if I outwardly said I was gay?

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By *raig_KJMan
2 weeks ago

Southport

"never been but thought about it *blush*"

It’s naked day tomorrow. At Northwich.

Get in and have a look at some man flesh.

It opens at 11am.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

would hope they'd be lovely X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

much as I would love to chill with a bunch o naked blokes and possibly get some relief, I can't do it..

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I'd be a bit worried I'd meet some nobbers who were too pushy

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

no shh X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I would suspect so, though not discussed..

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

no, never asked. Work with loads of gay blokes but never discuss it

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

my point exactly, nice to get an unbiased point of view about sexuality.

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