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"I’m not fussy if there married but as long as nice cok they can fuck my ass" *they’re | |||
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"I’m not fussy if there married but as long as nice cok they can fuck my ass" You've got a nice arse to fuck slowly and deep  shame I'm not closer i would definitely slide into your petite arse | |||
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"Why do married men fuck a man’s ass is it because there gay or because the wife does not want sex anymore???" I much prefer having my arse fucked while I’m licking my wife’s pussy , she gets really turned on watching me get fucked | |||
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"It's just another sexual act, no need for rhythm or reason, just enjoy it." There's a definite need for rhythm 😉 | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. " The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. " Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? | |||
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"So I have heard lots of guys say they want to fuck a woman up the arse it almost seems the holy grail, but find the thought of fucking a guy abhorrent, what actually is the difference it's the same anatomy??" I'd say being of different genders probably plays a part... | |||
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"Why do married men fuck a man’s ass is it because there gay or because the wife does not want sex anymore???" It's a power thing. And a way to humiliate you. Little do they know but we enjoy it. Not all women like anal sex just like some woman will not swallow. Married guys know us single gay boys will do it. | |||
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"Why do married men fuck a man’s ass is it because there gay or because the wife does not want sex anymore??? It's a power thing. And a way to humiliate you. Little do they know but we enjoy it. Not all women like anal sex just like some woman will not swallow. Married guys know us single gay boys will do it. " I fuck men and i get fucked by men. Its not about humiliation and power in the slightest. It can be humiliation and emasculating for some men. | |||
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"There is no single reason Some are bi Some dont get to fuck thei wives anymore. Some find it easier to meet men than women Loads of different reasons" I agree with that. I usually don't fuck, I like to get fucked in my ass. For me, the reason why I meet men is because my wife won't fuck me haha! | |||
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"I’m not fussy if there married but as long as nice cok they can fuck my ass You've got a nice arse to fuck slowly and deep shame I'm not closer i would definitely slide into your petite arse"that cock of his isn't too bad either. It produces a fair amount of nectar | |||
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"Why do married men fuck a man’s ass is it because there gay or because the wife does not want sex anymore???" Do they? Most of em want a cock up their arse | |||
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"Why do married men fuck a man’s ass is it because there gay or because the wife does not want sex anymore??? Do they? Most of em want a cock up their arse" 100% agree with this ☝🏻 | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? " I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. " Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. | |||
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"Does it matter why? If both parties are enjoying what they are doing - why not?" And I enjoy it.😜 | |||
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"Why do married men fuck a man’s ass is it because there gay or because the wife does not want sex anymore???" Mostly the latter I think, not that it matters really. | |||
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"Why do married men fuck a man’s ass is it because there gay or because the wife does not want sex anymore???" Have you heard of bisexuality? I didn't get married until I was 38, and I was fucking guys from being 18. Because I'm bisexual!! | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society." Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. " Their choice is to deny their base need to fuck more than one person. If nature had intended monogamy it wouldn't have given us a rampant sex drive. We'll agree to disagree shall we? | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. Their choice is to deny their base need to fuck more than one person. If nature had intended monogamy it wouldn't have given us a rampant sex drive. We'll agree to disagree shall we? " There is no agreeing to disagree about it. The drive to have sex is not a need, it's a desire, just another thing that people want because it feels good. People telling themselves they need to have sex is not an excuse for infidelity either. | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. Their choice is to deny their base need to fuck more than one person. If nature had intended monogamy it wouldn't have given us a rampant sex drive. We'll agree to disagree shall we? There is no agreeing to disagree about it. The drive to have sex is not a need, it's a desire, just another thing that people want because it feels good. People telling themselves they need to have sex is not an excuse for infidelity either. " People dont need excuses to do what is perfectly natural and what makes them happy. They need excuses not to and the moralistic "control yourself or you're immoral" melts provide just that. Are you finished taking a sanctimonious moral high ground for no reason at all over half the men on this site or would you like a step ladder to get higher in your idealistic ivory tower? The irony is you are here on a sex hook up site, with a lot of men who may well be married or partnered and unknowingly or knowingly cheating, and it's none of your business. | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. Their choice is to deny their base need to fuck more than one person. If nature had intended monogamy it wouldn't have given us a rampant sex drive. We'll agree to disagree shall we? There is no agreeing to disagree about it. The drive to have sex is not a need, it's a desire, just another thing that people want because it feels good. People telling themselves they need to have sex is not an excuse for infidelity either. People dont need excuses to do what is perfectly natural and what makes them happy. They need excuses not to and the moralistic "control yourself or you're immoral" melts provide just that. Are you finished taking a sanctimonious moral high ground for no reason at all over half the men on this site or would you like a step ladder to get higher in your idealistic ivory tower? The irony is you are here on a sex hook up site, with a lot of men who may well be married or partnered and unknowingly or knowingly cheating, and it's none of your business." If a person has chosen to enter into a monogamous relationship then they have made a commitment to be faithful. There is no getting around that. You can't blame the idea of monogamy for it, you can't blame the 'need' for sex, you can't justify infidelity by saying it's natural and makes one happy. If a person does not want to be in a monogamous relationship then they can choose to exit it, just as they chose to enter it. | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. Their choice is to deny their base need to fuck more than one person. If nature had intended monogamy it wouldn't have given us a rampant sex drive. We'll agree to disagree shall we? There is no agreeing to disagree about it. The drive to have sex is not a need, it's a desire, just another thing that people want because it feels good. People telling themselves they need to have sex is not an excuse for infidelity either. People dont need excuses to do what is perfectly natural and what makes them happy. They need excuses not to and the moralistic "control yourself or you're immoral" melts provide just that. Are you finished taking a sanctimonious moral high ground for no reason at all over half the men on this site or would you like a step ladder to get higher in your idealistic ivory tower? The irony is you are here on a sex hook up site, with a lot of men who may well be married or partnered and unknowingly or knowingly cheating, and it's none of your business. If a person has chosen to enter into a monogamous relationship then they have made a commitment to be faithful. There is no getting around that. You can't blame the idea of monogamy for it, you can't blame the 'need' for sex, you can't justify infidelity by saying it's natural and makes one happy. If a person does not want to be in a monogamous relationship then they can choose to exit it, just as they chose to enter it. " Wow, that's an incredibly simplistic and naive take on the dynamics of relationships and human nature. It's like something out of the 1940s. I think its fair to say that the vast majority of people enter into a commitment or marriage with the best intentions, yet these days few marriages won't experience infidelity of some kind. Whether that infidelity is caused by feeble-mindedness, natural lust, change of circumstances or personal growth or any other factor is nobody's business here. People can choose to be unfaithful in secret and remain committed to their partner. Fabguys is not a platform for moral grandstanding in matters of fidelity. If there were no infidelity, this site wouldn't have enough customers to exist and if the notion of monogamy were ditched, we'd all be much more fulfilled. Perpetuating a myth that fidelity and monogamy are one and the same is wrong because they're not. | |||
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"I think that a lot of married men who end up seeing other men have always had feelings, but have toed the line. As time goes on and the wife turns the tap off, temptation arises and his true desires can be explored, whether top or bottom. Plenty of partnered and married gay men also stray, so it it isn’t limited to straight married men 😎" This 👍 | |||
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"There are women who enjoy anal too " But how many of those women are willing to take anal from some married guy? Especially when they can have their pick of [insert dating app here] | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. Their choice is to deny their base need to fuck more than one person. If nature had intended monogamy it wouldn't have given us a rampant sex drive. We'll agree to disagree shall we? There is no agreeing to disagree about it. The drive to have sex is not a need, it's a desire, just another thing that people want because it feels good. People telling themselves they need to have sex is not an excuse for infidelity either. People dont need excuses to do what is perfectly natural and what makes them happy. They need excuses not to and the moralistic "control yourself or you're immoral" melts provide just that. Are you finished taking a sanctimonious moral high ground for no reason at all over half the men on this site or would you like a step ladder to get higher in your idealistic ivory tower? The irony is you are here on a sex hook up site, with a lot of men who may well be married or partnered and unknowingly or knowingly cheating, and it's none of your business. If a person has chosen to enter into a monogamous relationship then they have made a commitment to be faithful. There is no getting around that. You can't blame the idea of monogamy for it, you can't blame the 'need' for sex, you can't justify infidelity by saying it's natural and makes one happy. If a person does not want to be in a monogamous relationship then they can choose to exit it, just as they chose to enter it. Wow, that's an incredibly simplistic and naive take on the dynamics of relationships and human nature. It's like something out of the 1940s. I think its fair to say that the vast majority of people enter into a commitment or marriage with the best intentions, yet these days few marriages won't experience infidelity of some kind. Whether that infidelity is caused by feeble-mindedness, natural lust, change of circumstances or personal growth or any other factor is nobody's business here. People can choose to be unfaithful in secret and remain committed to their partner. Fabguys is not a platform for moral grandstanding in matters of fidelity. If there were no infidelity, this site wouldn't have enough customers to exist and if the notion of monogamy were ditched, we'd all be much more fulfilled. Perpetuating a myth that fidelity and monogamy are one and the same is wrong because they're not. " "People can choose to be unfaithful in secret and remain committed to their partner". Honestly, it's pitiful. If ever there was a statement to summarise how selfish people can be, it's that one right there. The worst thing about it is that it's not just a lack of moral fibre, not just a lack of intelligence, it's the lack of common decency. That has to be the very worst, most despicable of attitudes. Shame on you. | |||
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"Maybe it's as simple as it feels good and sex is easy to get nowadays. The concept of monogamy is moronic and unnatural. The concept of monogamy is no such thing, there's nothing wrong with it, plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not monogamy that is the problem, it's people who have no respect for others and take no responsibility for their own actions and commitments, using excuses like 'monogamy is moronic and unnatural' to justify poor choices. Are you suggesting everyone here has "no respect for others" and are making poor choices? What does that make you then? I am saying that infidelity shows a distinct lack of respect for one's spouse and one's own commitment to the partnership willingly entered into. Precisely why monogamy is daft and unnatural. The expectation of one sex partner is unrealistic, reductive and restrictive. If monogamy was achievable, two thirds of the people on here wouldn't need to be here. The real issue is folks inability or unwillingness through nonsense shame, to tell thier other half what makes them happy. Ergo, monogamy is probably making them miserable and ashamed. A notion that causes misery and shame has no place in modern society. Monogamy is not making people miserable and ashamed, people are doing that to themselves, it's not the institution of marriage that is to blame, it's people's inability to show commitment and self-restraint. Some people need to stop blaming anything else for their own choices. Their choice is to deny their base need to fuck more than one person. If nature had intended monogamy it wouldn't have given us a rampant sex drive. We'll agree to disagree shall we? There is no agreeing to disagree about it. The drive to have sex is not a need, it's a desire, just another thing that people want because it feels good. People telling themselves they need to have sex is not an excuse for infidelity either. People dont need excuses to do what is perfectly natural and what makes them happy. They need excuses not to and the moralistic "control yourself or you're immoral" melts provide just that. Are you finished taking a sanctimonious moral high ground for no reason at all over half the men on this site or would you like a step ladder to get higher in your idealistic ivory tower? The irony is you are here on a sex hook up site, with a lot of men who may well be married or partnered and unknowingly or knowingly cheating, and it's none of your business. If a person has chosen to enter into a monogamous relationship then they have made a commitment to be faithful. There is no getting around that. You can't blame the idea of monogamy for it, you can't blame the 'need' for sex, you can't justify infidelity by saying it's natural and makes one happy. If a person does not want to be in a monogamous relationship then they can choose to exit it, just as they chose to enter it. Wow, that's an incredibly simplistic and naive take on the dynamics of relationships and human nature. It's like something out of the 1940s. I think its fair to say that the vast majority of people enter into a commitment or marriage with the best intentions, yet these days few marriages won't experience infidelity of some kind. Whether that infidelity is caused by feeble-mindedness, natural lust, change of circumstances or personal growth or any other factor is nobody's business here. People can choose to be unfaithful in secret and remain committed to their partner. Fabguys is not a platform for moral grandstanding in matters of fidelity. If there were no infidelity, this site wouldn't have enough customers to exist and if the notion of monogamy were ditched, we'd all be much more fulfilled. Perpetuating a myth that fidelity and monogamy are one and the same is wrong because they're not. "People can choose to be unfaithful in secret and remain committed to their partner". Honestly, it's pitiful. If ever there was a statement to summarise how selfish people can be, it's that one right there. The worst thing about it is that it's not just a lack of moral fibre, not just a lack of intelligence, it's the lack of common decency. That has to be the very worst, most despicable of attitudes. Shame on you. " Tell.me, why are you on a sex hook up site with such an outdated, closed and judgemental attitude? How on earth can you engage with, let alone meet with, people who are the polar opposite of your moralistic attitude? Other people's lifestyle choices are nobodys business but their own. Ironically you're here, so you're nobody to judge anyone, or are you simply here to assert your sanctominity by being repulsed by those around you? | |||
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"People can choose to be unfaithful in secret and remain committed to their partner " I'm not judging people, I am judging their actions. But I'll give it a rest now. | |||
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"People can choose to be unfaithful in secret and remain committed to their partner I'm not judging people, I am judging their actions. But I'll give it a rest now. " You must be doing some psychological gymnastics just to be here, surrounded by actions (and people, it's people who do the action after all) you seem to detest. | |||
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"I’ve found most married men are bottom and don’t" That's been my experience too However, I do like a top bi guy, give it to me! | |||
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