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"Sounds promising !" interesting- that wasn’t my initial thought. | |||
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"Is she bi?" not that I know of. She’s very conservative. | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative." In which case, did you ask her why she asked? | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked?" Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it. | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it." Kinda random, if she supposedly doesn't know' about your liking for men/cock | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it." If she is anything like my ex-wife (this was over 20 years ago) I would guess that she was subtly trying to confirm her suspicions. Even though I had a mobile my ex would always call my work direct landline every time I was (legitimately) working late with some lame excuse. I always suspected that she was checking that I was actually working late... | |||
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" If she is anything like my ex-wife (this was over 20 years ago) I would guess that she was subtly trying to confirm her suspicions. Even though I had a mobile my ex would always call my work direct landline every time I was (legitimately) working late with some lame excuse. I always suspected that she was checking that I was actually working late..." I wonder this is the most likely but I think if she pushes again I might think about a “why do you ask”. Though that in itself is a giveaway, surely? | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it." If this a genuine post, and she had suspicions, your non/"very low key" response will have confirmed them, IMO  | |||
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" If she is anything like my ex-wife (this was over 20 years ago) I would guess that she was subtly trying to confirm her suspicions. Even though I had a mobile my ex would always call my work direct landline every time I was (legitimately) working late with some lame excuse. I always suspected that she was checking that I was actually working late... I wonder this is the most likely but I think if she pushes again I might think about a “why do you ask”. Though that in itself is a giveaway, surely?" I think that you didn't ask why she asked is more of a giveaway. . | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it. If this a genuine post, and she had suspicions, your non/"very low key" response will have confirmed them, IMO "Yes- it’s a genuine post. I posted because it seemed like the kind of thing many of us may have experienced and want to see how it might have played out for others, or at face value see if there was a different view possible to mine. And it’s chat - it’s the forum lounge. I guess from your viewpoint and that of a couple of others, my way of answering means I’ve basically told her I’m into men. If nothing happens from here, then I guess that’s not a bad thing - she knows, she’s leaving it alone. | |||
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"We now go to Admiral Ackbar for comment..." :D Good point. | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it. If this a genuine post, and she had suspicions, your non/"very low key" response will have confirmed them, IMO
Yes- it’s a genuine post. I posted because it seemed like the kind of thing many of us may have experienced and want to see how it might have played out for others, or at face value see if there was a different view possible to mine.
And it’s chat - it’s the forum lounge.
I guess from your viewpoint and that of a couple of others, my way of answering means I’ve basically told her I’m into men. If nothing happens from here, then I guess that’s not a bad thing - she knows, she’s leaving it alone."It MAY not be so black and white. People have a habit of allowing their fears and suspicions to create a 'non-reality.' It's possible that she read an article somewhere/heard from a colleague/friend about this wonderful gay resort that blew the straight competition out of the water. Unlikely, I know, but the point is that without discussion no one knows  | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it. If this a genuine post, and she had suspicions, your non/"very low key" response will have confirmed them, IMO
Yes- it’s a genuine post. I posted because it seemed like the kind of thing many of us may have experienced and want to see how it might have played out for others, or at face value see if there was a different view possible to mine.
And it’s chat - it’s the forum lounge.
I guess from your viewpoint and that of a couple of others, my way of answering means I’ve basically told her I’m into men. If nothing happens from here, then I guess that’s not a bad thing - she knows, she’s leaving it alone.
"She maybe starting to gather evidence, you'll have to try and not change your behaviour too much. Is your phone locked, Internet browser history on, do you have location tracking? | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it. If this a genuine post, and she had suspicions, your non/"very low key" response will have confirmed them, IMO "You may have a point there. | |||
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" She maybe starting to gather evidence, you'll have to try and not change your behaviour too much. Is your phone locked, Internet browser history on, do you have location tracking? " Yes, good point. | |||
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"All that skintight lycra ... then complaining about saddle-soreness afterwards. Bound to get the wee wife's suspicions up. " Don't forget his shiny helmet | |||
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"Is she bi? not that I know of. She’s very conservative. In which case, did you ask her why she asked? Fair point. No. I feared she suspected so was very low key about it. If this a genuine post, and she had suspicions, your non/"very low key" response will have confirmed them, IMO
Yes- it’s a genuine post. I posted because it seemed like the kind of thing many of us may have experienced and want to see how it might have played out for others, or at face value see if there was a different view possible to mine.
And it’s chat - it’s the forum lounge.
I guess from your viewpoint and that of a couple of others, my way of answering means I’ve basically told her I’m into men. If nothing happens from here, then I guess that’s not a bad thing - she knows, she’s leaving it alone.
It MAY not be so black and white. People have a habit of allowing their fears and suspicions to create a 'non-reality.' It's possible that she read an article somewhere/heard from a colleague/friend about this wonderful gay resort that blew the straight competition out of the water. Unlikely, I know, but the point is that without discussion no one knows "BTW, for the avoidance of doubt, I'm not encouraging you to DO anything, just THINK
G3Vers's post has useful tips if you want to 'clam up!' | |||
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"I think that you didn't ask why she asked is more of a giveaway. ." My feeling too. OP 'should' be / act surprised at such random but precise question if they both are as straight as they both think 🤔. Again, maybe it was all precisely that, a random question. However, I will forever maintain that the women in a bi/gay guy's life always know/suspect strongly🧐 | |||
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