FabGuys.com forum: Anal virgins

By *inkyfuckeruk OP Man
1 week ago

Worcester & Bangor

Out of interest who is an anal virgin that actually wants to change this. If so what is holding you back?

I am top but once and a while the fear of missing our or the itch to degrade myself/flip for once.

My issue is I find the idea and practice of plugging and opening on my own so incredibly unsexy that my arse is tighter than the stereotypical poor scotsman so it's a struggle.

So am I alone? Is a ambition for you to change this.

There is a worry I might like it, but is that a bad thing?

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By *excessMan
1 week ago

Sleaford

I made the mistake of having my first experience with the wrong guy, in the wrong environment

It was painful and put me off for a long time.

Having an awareness of preparation, and meeting guys in a relaxed discrete environment was the catalyst for good sex for me.

An experienced top helped, even though I had been meeting guys for many years I was inexperienced in regards to anal.

It comes easily to some I think but if your like me its something you have to work towards.

The rewards for patience are well worth it though😉

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By *inkyfuckeruk OP Man
1 week ago

Worcester & Bangor

"I made the mistake of having my first experience with the wrong guy, in the wrong environment

It was painful and put me off for a long time.

Having an awareness of preparation, and meeting guys in a relaxed discrete environment was the catalyst for good sex for me.

An experienced top helped, even though I had been meeting guys for many years I was inexperienced in regards to anal.

It comes easily to some I think but if your like me its something you have to work towards.

The rewards for patience are well worth it though😉

Same when experimenting in my youth. The thing is a lot of tops either have never been in that position, or don't care and want to hammer it in like a square peg in a round hole.

This made me clench tighter

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By *eyourselfMan
1 week ago

Southend

Loads of reasons have held me back...trust is a HUGE thing for me and it's difficult to give that much trust to someone. I've used toys, including a strapon, but am aware I'm very tight and fear of not being able to take the cock worries me too.

It sounds ridiculous...but I'd need someone experienced with a cock which isn't too big and who has serious patience. Most guys, understandably, just wank to fuck, cum and get out of there!

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By *upertedMan
1 week ago

Nelson

So much you can do to prep for this... you're not in a relationship where empathy and patience are needed. As someone has said...a top just wants to get balls deep, churn your insides and paint it white!

Get a nice toy you're comfortable with open yourself up. Practice practice practice.

I'm on a journey of self discovery with fisting atm. Santa brought me a 14" horse cock dildo. I can take half of it...still practicing on the final 5" past the knot 🪢

My Santa now wants to fist me. 👊

It's gonna take a while..but I'm practicing nearly every day.

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By *assoMan
1 week ago

cumbernauld

And honestly “pain”

Or nervousness thereof

Tried a few times just can’t relax into it

Been fingered loads of times my ex Mrs used to fuck me with a candle but I can’t

A huge part is my age I’m so scared I “make a mess” how unsexy is that

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By *utdoorsGuy666Man
1 week ago

Nottingham

As with others my first experiences were with folks who didn't really care if I got hurt so put me off a long time.

Then I found a friend for a while who was a polar opposite to that and anal was brilliant, slow, sexy and I didn't want it to end.

After a 20 year gap im not sure how id cope now though. Love the idea but also don't find myself sexy so struggle to think someone else would.

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By *reedyformatureMan
1 week ago

Dudley

I am longing to have my first cock inside me but experiences at saunas where guys try to ram it up you with no lube or by spitting on your bum doesn't really turn me on. Would like a nice gentle mature guy to lube me up and gently enter me as we kiss

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By *uton JohnMan
1 week ago

Luton

I was very lucky in that my ex girlfriend taught about anal sex.

She showed me how, using my fingers and lube, to open that hole.

She just to open my hole up then I would then open her hole up.

Got to the stage where one day her fist just popped in. Again you don't make a fist and just push into the hole.

She showed me how to fist.

I then use to fist her pussy .

Getting fisted and sucked off at the sametime is mind blowing. But she did have small hands.

One thing she told me is people who say that their hole is tight forget that when you have a poo think how big that poo is coming out off you.

Good point

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By *inimee1Man
1 week ago

near

Just looking for the right opportunity

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By *nmykneesagainMan
1 week ago

salford

Desperate to have a cock in my virgin arse, always wanted it to be a guy i trust and gentle but new year resolution is just to let anyone fuck my arse

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By *ouseblendMan
1 week ago

Carshalton

Anal virgin here, I really want my first time to be special..... I say special, what I mean is to find a very old grandad to do the honours

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By *assoMan
1 week ago

cumbernauld

I kneel there and it hurts

I do want spunk running down my high,leaking from

My hole mm

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By *ight Willing AssMan
1 week ago

Holiday Inn Gosforth

First guy, just thrust it in me!! I squealed like a pig!! He then tried again a lot softer & slower after about a minute he could do whatever he wanted!!

Taken Anal is great!!

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By *igsdMan
1 week ago

Norwich

Tried it few times several years ago was too tense and tight but couldn’t take it.

I now put a small dildo up there, the thought of me taking cock slowly gentler and raw is a massive turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Anal virgin here just waiting for the right man to come along and take it slow

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By *ub_CandyTV/TS
1 week ago

Telford

Anal virgin too

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By *pookyNerd75Man
1 week ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Anal virgin when it comes to real cock, have tried toys and plugs, do kinda enjoy the feeling, main worry is not being cleaned out enough, and the person not using enough lube.

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By *nalvirginMan
1 week ago

cheshire

Pain is the main fear for me! I have tried small toys and enjoyed it but I was in control, trying a real cock is controlled by someone else! I suppose in a safe private environment I would give it a go providing the cock wasn’t too big and plenty of lube!

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By *shubMan
1 week ago

manningtree

Lost my virginity a year ago and it was an amazing experience. Prepare well and pick the right man !

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By *astsussexmikeMan
1 week ago

Hastings

Would love to, just too tight so far. Anyone with a slim cock local, get in touch.

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By *ockHardMcrCockMan
1 week ago

Bolton

Hi, definitely my case, only came ‘ out ‘ about a year ago, and had some great meets but have always topped, but want a cock up me. One guy fingered my arse so hard I nearly fainted, need someone to be gentle, slow, patient & understanding. I know I can take it as have played with dildo’s, butt plugs etc on my own, guess I get tight at the idea as no problem douching ??

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
1 week ago

West London

I’m an anal virgin but very curious to experience what it would feel like to be fucked one day. It’s something I’d love to try but it’s a big step and I know I’m not ready for that yet, plus I’m enjoying just exploring wank and suck fun for now.

I’ve used toys and have been fucked twice with strap ons which I enjoyed a lot, so maybe one day will decide to try the real thing

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By *halamusMan
7 days ago

Bridgend area

Used toys on myself but never had the real thing due to operation scar next to my precious. I'm embarrassed about the scar

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By *ylons22Man
7 days ago

Wolverley & Dudley

its all about relaxing & being comfortable.

I've been using dildos for several years now but have always been scared, excited and equally nervous about trying the real thing.

a couple of months ago i had a guy offer to fuck me & thought to myself its now or never.

he arrived on the day & dropped his trousers to reveal his cock, probably around 5 inches long but very thick, after some mutual bj fun he put the condom on pushed me on all fours and gently slipeed in until he was balls deep, he then fucked me until he shot his load.

it felt absolutely amazing having him pounding away at my sissy hole & much better than a dildo, we've been meeting up weekly ever since & always look forward to him stretching me open.

the only warning I'd give is that its very addictive & now constantly crave a nice cock to fuck me

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By *irralGuy20Man
7 days ago

Wirral

My 1st experience as a bottom was with one of my best mates, we had agreed to do it when we were away for a upcoming weekend and that gave me time to prepare with butt plugs etc so that when the time came I would hopefully be able to take him easier (he is a quite girthy chap).

When the night came it went perfectly, was it uncomfortable - initially Yes, did it hurt - No but once he was balls deep and using that lube to slide fully inside me I enjoyed one of the best sexual experiences of my life. It is still the most enjoyable anal fucking I have received (although I haven't exactly had many).

There is a short video clip from that 1st time on my profile if anyone is interested in seeing how I took him.

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By *rient_topMan
7 days ago

Huntingdon

Having a patient and understanding partner is key: I have found that the bigger the cock, the more selfish they are.

Basically there’s this assumption that size trumps everything else.

Start by exploring on your own: after a shower, use lubed fingers to explore yourself and see what feels good. As you go in, breathe out to relax. If you hook your finger (as if you were beckoning somene), you should find your prostate, which will feel soft and spongy.

If you enjoy that, then you can try with toys or the real thing, but bear in mind that a cock yields in a different way to silicone

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By *ewbie01Man
7 days ago

Sheffield

Im anal virgin and looking to change that but like most on here I need a top who is going to be patient as im very tight. The thought of pain puts me off.

Also i want to enjoy the experience so don't want it to be rushed but it's finding the right guy at the right time where this can happen

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