So here's the thing that makes me say she already knows. Your Mrs is not stupid. She has female intuition, a skill that most men will never understand. I was a psychological counsellor and have worked with countless women, married and otherwise, to work through relationship worries. I dont do this work anymore. Honestly, they're actually not that bothered about your liking for men. Women tend to be far more open minded than men, but they stress about relationships changing, even small changes. They spot everything from how you behave, to what you say, change in routine, how you smell, marks in your underwear, secrecy, spending more time on your phone, spending more time than usual in the bathroom, how you look at men. Women have laser focussed attention on the smallest of changes that most men wouldnt give a second thought to. I was frequently asked "does he think I'm stupid", and my response is nearly always "yes, he probably does but his level of understanding isn't the same as yours". She knows you better than anyone and to her you are her best friend. She might not know the detailed evidence, which is what men tend to pay attention to and the stuff most men assume is needed to be caught out, but to female intuition, what she feels is evidence enough. Youll put so much effort into making sure you cover your tracks that you'll forget about the small things she's already noticed. She's always known. She just chooses to ignore it, but choosing to ignore isn't the same as not knowing. Ive never met a woman who was blindsided when it came into the open, simply because she already suspected. Thinking your Mrs is daft is your Achilles heel.
I've also counselled men who thought they were getting away with it. Deep down most knew they weren't but male psychology convinces us that nothing being said is the same as getting away with it. Its not, but the more we think we are getting away with it the more blase and careless we become, and it drives us to do it more, and then it comes out in a quite obvious way. Men have the world-changing "ive been caught" moment, while women have an "i always knew" response. What's done in darkness always comes to light. Don't be stupid enough to think you don't have an Achilles heel. You do. |
