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“Fabbing” etiquette

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By *upois OP   Man
2 days ago

Wisbech

If, Someone photo “Fabs” , would you expect a brief Cheers, even if not for your?

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 days ago

Watford

No

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By *arriedbiMan
2 days ago

Aldershot

No I fab if like pic or vid X don't expect anything if someone does text to thank then that great

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 days ago

Neath

No. That’s needy. Do you reply to every unsolicited email or leaflet you get?

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By *acingfanMan
2 days ago

Huddersfield

No.

But if they fabbed and sent a message saying that life will not have any meaning for them until we have had taken carnal knowledge of each other, I will reply to the message.

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By *ullmytriggerMan
2 days ago

Crewe

Personally I do, as I feel I should show manners and appreciate it. I find it flattering if someone fabbed me tbh.

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By *lue555Man
2 days ago

harrow

No should expect nothing.

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By *atchmo_Jizz!Man
2 days ago

Wolverhampton

No. I’m just showing my appreciation of a picture or video. I don’t need anything in return.

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By *upois OP   Man
2 days ago

Wisbech

Nothing “Needy” about it!

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By *urious katMan
2 days ago

Donegal

I wouldn't expect it but I usually thank someone who takes the time to look and like...

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By *oodpeckerMan
2 days ago

Falkirk

There IS no etiquette.

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By *amjam10Man
2 days ago

essex


"Personally I do, as I feel I should show manners and appreciate it. I find it flattering if someone fabbed me tbh."
totally agree with that

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 days ago

Neath


"Nothing “Needy” about it!"

So you DO expect a reply? Even if you are not at all what they are looking for?

It’s a fab. Not a marriage proposal.

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By *omethingExciting41Man
2 days ago

Somewhere

I'll often use a message of thanks as a way to kick off a conversation

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By *uckmeslow555Man
2 days ago

oakham

I always say thank you

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By *lackbootzMan
2 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"If, Someone photo “Fabs” , would you expect a brief Cheers, even if not for your?"

No. Not for a few Fabs here and there. There’s no obligation to Fab anyone - that’s a choice - it doesn’t necessarily indicate you are interested in the profile more than appreciating that photo - etc etc.

If someone sends me a little deluge of Fabs I usually send a note saying thanks for the appreciation, no matter what I think of the profile in question.

If I see pictures I really like, I will often send a message to that effect. Sometimes you get a nice acknowledgment back. Sometimes it surprises me that more men can’t send an easy thank you which doesn’t have to commit them to anything. You learn that some very fine-looking men are actually timid or have zero politesse.

If someone Fabs a picture that I find attractive or interesting and I don’t otherwise know them, acknowledging that and perhaps messaging my appreciation of their pictures is a useful vehicle to start interaction.

Happy Fabbing!

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By *hilmeMan
2 days ago

Bournemouth

I usually do just to say thanks

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By *atietv1TV/TS
2 days ago

co. Durham

Sending a message sometimes leads to some fun.

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By *exmachineCouple (MM)
2 days ago

kent


"If, Someone photo “Fabs” , would you expect a brief Cheers, even if not for your?"

Not necessarily, but is always appreciated. On the other hand sometimes one sees a lovely profile and tries to fab but there’s some form of a block. Pity, because fabbing to me doesn’t mean I want to be in your breeches, it’s genuine appreciation! But hey ho, respect if that’s their choice!

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By *iHubby73TV/TS
2 days ago

Durham

No, but I often say thanks to people that do, not everyone cos that would take ages, but I dontry

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By *ungandMan
2 days ago

daveyhulme

No I fab a photo or video expect nothing in return

Send a wink these days same reaction or blocked lol

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By *acoffjim300Man
2 days ago

Conwy

No

If I like a pic I’ll fab it x

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By *fcdTV/TS
2 days ago

Southend

If you look up “weird” in the dictionary, this question is cited as an explanation.

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By *ickSeekerMan
2 days ago

Canterbury

I don't think there's an expectation or that generally offence is taken for lack of acknowledgement. I usually fab back one or some of their pics, if any are public. If they aren't public, I leave it at that. There's been a very rare occasion when a generous fellow Fabber has fabbed all or nearly all of my public gallery (a severe case of 'you should have gone to Specsavers!') but I can't reciprocate because they have none. Then I've just sent a brief note or even a simple to thank them.

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By *oodpeckerMan
2 days ago

Falkirk


"Nothing “Needy” about it!

So you DO expect a reply? Even if you are not at all what they are looking for?

It’s a fab. Not a marriage proposal. "

Indeed, and it would be exceptionally needy to expect a reply from the owners of pics which attract thousands of Fabs

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By *upois OP   Man
2 days ago

Wisbech


"If you look up “weird” in the dictionary, this question is cited as an explanation.

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“Weird”, so many answers lol 😂

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By *PH1956Man
2 days ago

Colchester

I always appreciate it when a guy "Fabs" one of my pics. But I don't message him to say so.

But if a guy "Fabs" many pics I'll send a message thanking him. Regardless whether I like his profile or not.

To me, it's being polite.

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By *uxbritMan
2 days ago

hemel hempstead hertfordshire


"If, Someone photo “Fabs” , would you expect a brief Cheers, even if not for your?"

No

What planet are you people on lol

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
2 days ago

Tetbury

Sometimes if they interest me.

If they are miles away or out of my age or have the stupid Sydney uni crap on their profile i just ignore

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By *upertedMan
2 days ago

Nelson

No...its like likes on a Facebook post.

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By *excessMan
2 days ago

Sleaford

No same with winks, it's appreciated but I'm don't generally acknowledge them.

A message I always reply to

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By *hris60sMan
2 days ago

various on business


"If, Someone photo “Fabs” , would you expect a brief Cheers, even if not for your?"

Not at all

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By *damb00Man
2 days ago

Leicestershire

Nope, I don’t message everyone saying thanks when they like my instagram pics or Facebook status

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By *moothOlderMan
2 days ago

LEEDS

If someone FABs a few photos I send a quick Thanks. It's often lead to a worthwhile meet...

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 days ago

Chesterfield

I'll sometimes send a 'thanks for fabbing' message, but I don't expect any response from it. However, it has led to a few meets in the past. In general though, there is no etiquete.

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By *eonsMan
2 days ago

Swindon

I will generally send a thanks message and also enquire if they've been to Specsavers recently.😁

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By *ldmanMan
2 days ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

I usually send a little thank you message.

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By *azadarMan
2 days ago

North Birmingham


"There IS no etiquette."

Exactly. People can choose to thank people if they are attracted or choose not to.

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By *ayCDslut69TV/TS
2 days ago

glasgow

I don't expect a message when i fab pics. It's the same when people fab mine ill only message if i want too meet them

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By *vil GeniusMan
2 days ago

Durham

No. I fab pictures I like and are a turn on. Don't expect an answer. Nice if it happens though

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