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By *amie87h OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Poulton

In my (limited) experience, most guys don’t seem to be completely one way or the other. On a scale of of 0-10 (0 being straight, 10 being gay)… how gay are you?

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By *rancd2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

1

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

11

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By *ottomBarebackBoiMan
3 weeks ago

Brentford

6, I go through phases of feeling straighter than usual, then phases of being a complete cum slut

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By *harlottejayneTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Prestatyn

I am a strong 10

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By *ammiTVTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Inverness

5 x

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By *ottomman100Man
3 weeks ago

rochester

4. But Love in my bum.

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By *asioMan
3 weeks ago

Great Yarmouth

3, I love sucking dick, but love eating pussy more

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By *lan4ffuunnMan
3 weeks ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

8

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By *andomguy321Man
3 weeks ago

reading

When having sex with another man - 10

When having sex with a transman - 3-6

When having sex with a trans woman - 2-5

When having sex with a woman - 0-2

When having a wank 0-10

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By *irefighterukMan
3 weeks ago

hull

2

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By *ollyMan
3 weeks ago

Downham market

8, I used to be a 5 but after meeting some beautiful cds and trans I feel more gay than ever, I'm now in a loving relationship with a fellow lady man, I hope it lasts.

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By *amie87h OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Poulton


"When having sex with another man - 10

When having sex with a transman - 3-6

When having sex with a trans woman - 2-5

When having sex with a woman - 0-2

When having a wank 0-10

"

I like this one.

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By *amie87h OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Poulton


"8, I used to be a 5 but after meeting some beautiful cds and trans I feel more gay than ever, I'm now in a loving relationship with a fellow lady man, I hope it lasts."

One of my ultimate fantasies I think is to be dominated by a tall, well hung trans-woman that loves to fuck a naughty boy.

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By *amie87h OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Poulton


"5 x"

Naughty girl!

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3 weeks ago

4 to 5

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By *ickSeekerMan
3 weeks ago

Canterbury

194

...and still in increasing

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By *arcus51Man
3 weeks ago

Bridgwater

I feel a good 5-6 gay

Lately have felt different about my self and sexualuty with guys. I actual prefer sex more now guys if only I could get it more?? but I still love the intimacy with my wife as a sol mate.

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By *oxleyMan
3 weeks ago

Wetherby

If you are here….. you are gay.

Just accept it, move forward and enjoy your time with men….

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bargoed

Let's think about that, so started thinking about it * a long time ago*. Have only ever had sex with guys, married to another man and we've been together 35 years. Never wanted to have sex with a woman, so I think it's safe to say I'm 100% gay.

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By *evanianMan
3 weeks ago

Sir y Fflint - Gogledd Cymru

Well it's on a sliding scale for me as a bi-guy, generally 4 to 9, although these days, nearing my three score years plus ten, very often it's a CBA situation,...been there done that etc etc! 😅

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By *excessMan
3 weeks ago

Sleaford

I did a Kinsey scale questionnaire and I was a 3 which means equally attracted to guys and women, so bisexual!

No surprise to me 🙂

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By *ralBiguy63Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

Was married for 25yrs, but was Bi, all through, but for the last 20yrs I am Gay 9/10

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By *b20Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

20

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By *ttmblkMan
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

Definitely a 10.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
3 weeks ago

East Devon

10+

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By *ranform71Man
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

When i play with a man solo I'm 100% gay with them.

When I'm playing bisexual I'm 50/50.

When I’m with my wife, I’m totally hers.

If it feels right, the labels don’t matter at all.

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By *hy Cock 2026Man
3 weeks ago

christchurch Dorset

11

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By *hil96Man
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

10 most of the time. Well, all of the time lol x

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By *ad Bod ManMan
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

When I’m on here totally 10 but then off here 7.5

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By *hanclaMan
3 weeks ago

Bridgend area

Probably 10 when I get to live alone this Spring. No female is likely to be interested in an oldie. I love women's tits, even granny ones. Not so keen on the slice, I prefer cocks and balls... Old Crossdressers, femboys and shemales are my favourites. I do appreciate alpha males though. Yeah! Probably 10

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By *irralGuy20Man
3 weeks ago

Wirral

About 3, I dont fancy men - simply like sex with them.

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By *lueEyesKinksterMan
3 weeks ago

Stratford, Alcester, Redditch


"In my (limited) experience, most guys don’t seem to be completely one way or the other. On a scale of of 0-10 (0 being straight, 10 being gay)… how gay are you? "

5 - 8.

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By *ldmanMan
3 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

10

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By *ecretly gayMan
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

6-8 I'd say

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By *rE67Man
3 weeks ago

Hawick


"About 3, I dont fancy men - simply like sex with them."

This, love kissing oral and occasionally taking a nice cock. Has to be older also unsure why though

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By *ndian_BitchMan
3 weeks ago

Leicester

5,

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By *now manMan
3 weeks ago

near

5 I love naked times with both sexies

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By *ammy in Nylon and HeelsTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Cleveland

7, I find myself attracted to cock these days more than pussy.

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By *0yguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cumbria

I do t think you can just put a number on a complex socio-sexual interaction. It’s more complicated and nuanced than that. For a start it all depends on what you mean by “gay”.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

A very proud 10.

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By *arydeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Staffs

Love the company of women, and enjoy looking at sexy women, but only want sex and have with men, so I must be a 10

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By *hil 69Man
3 weeks ago

Scarborough

6

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By *ixer61Man
3 weeks ago

Aycliffe

Many years ago probably 5, now definitely 9

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By *wadbisexualMan
3 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

Only a 2, i don't fancy men, I find the physical sensations of anal play enjoyable, though I'm happy to pleasure myself with toys, i do like sucking cock too, but i don't find men attractive in any way & I've never experienced any romantic feelings for a man.

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

10++++

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By *cunnySucker69Man
3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Probably about 7 or 8, I have only had sex with men in the last 20 odd years but I still like to look at slim women's bottoms when they are wearing tight clothing, previously on was married to a woman, in my youth only boys and men

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By *ouncyMan
3 weeks ago

Bromley

Definitely a 10 here

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By *astguy7Man
3 weeks ago

Ross on Wye

I don't understand the question. I'm confused. I can't even think straight.

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By *aucey04TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bletchingley


"When having sex with another man - 10

When having sex with a transman - 4-9

When having sex with a trans woman - 2-5

When having sex with a woman - 0-2

When having a wank 0-5

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This is me to a 'Tee' Becoming more and more 'gay' - but then i was never 'straight'

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
3 weeks ago

London

10

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By *edServiceMan
3 weeks ago

Hull

On the Kinsey Scale I say I'm comfortably a 4. On your scale I'm a 6/7.

Most of the time if I'm thinking sexual or romantic thoughts, it's about men or androgynous people. That being said I could definitely be in a full on relationship with a woman.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot


"If you are here….. you are gay.

Just accept it, move forward and enjoy your time with men…."

I think you'll find most guys on here are bisexual, so not gay.

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By *amagedgoodsMan
3 weeks ago

Halstead/ Karsiyaka N. Cyprus

9

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By *amie87h OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Poulton


"I don't understand the question. I'm confused. I can't even think straight."

Hahaha!

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By *ackmeoviMan
3 weeks ago

wales

I would say 5 on a perv scale 11

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By *amie87h OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Poulton

Some great comments and replies on here. Love them all! I’d have myself at a 3 or 4 I think as I just couldn’t ever imaging myself becoming romantically involved with a guy.

I do however love the sex and I love to feel like I’m giving myself up to a dominant older guy and becoming submissive - this is such a sexy feeling for me and turns me on massively to have a guys full attention… knowing that he wants to use my body for his pleasure.

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By *enjamin2018Man
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

Depends who I'm with .

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Flaming 10

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By *uckme48Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

A 2 or a 3

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By *lassmanMan
3 weeks ago

notts

Not as gay as my neighbour who goes to netto in a dirndle skirt and fluffy mules

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

There are loads of self-identifying gay men who aren't interested in a romantic relationship with a man, or anyone. Sexuality is usually defined by who your cock (or clit if you're female) gets hard for. Its a base primal instinct. Equally, there are plenty of bi men who have or had romantic relationships with men. That doesn't make them gay, but it is very likely to bring them to the dark side permanently

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By *ade kushTV/TS
3 weeks ago

hooton / Deeside

Sucking dick and taking anal sex with more than 1 cock type of gay

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By *55 ManMan
3 weeks ago

Roscommon

5

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By *ub guy 68Man
3 weeks ago

Keith

6 or 7

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By *ohnnyangerMan
3 weeks ago

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I guess a 10. I never had the slightest desire the other way

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By *arti G xTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chandlers Ford

Gay all the way 10 ❤️

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By *ornybisubslutMan
3 weeks ago

Coventry

Somewhere between 7 to 9. Sometimes a fit women will turn my attention although they generally rather androgynous.

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By *uiseleyBiMan
3 weeks ago

Guiseley

Fancy the pants off of girls but tend to watch more gay porn now than straight porn.

Strong 5-6 for me I’d say

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By *oger_07Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I'm not gay. I'm bi sexual. I like women's but also I like to suck dick

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By *acoffjim300Man
3 weeks ago

Conwy

6-7 but I think I’m becoming more 8-9

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By *enfleetEssexMan
3 weeks ago

Benfleet

Probably 4

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3 weeks ago

1. It’s the excitment of the play that works for me. Physical attraction has never been a thing.

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By *im le2Man
3 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Put it like this I had my first cock 57 years ago . Last cock yesterday.

My first woman 54 years ago and my last woman 54 years ago. So you tell me.

I believe you can't say you don't like something unless you've tried it.

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By *obby53Man
3 weeks ago

Stockport

Can go 0 to 10 in a minute

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By *hiny jacket loverMan
3 weeks ago

Carlisle

9

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By *oseph_xxxMan
3 weeks ago

London

Oh my!!!

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Not as gay as my neighbour who goes to netto in a dirndle skirt and fluffy mules "

That's no gay. It's just weird

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By *lassmanMan
3 weeks ago

notts

😂😂😂😂

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By *bear67Man
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

More than 10. I have always been attracted to masculinity and repelled (sexually, at least) by femininity.

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By *assoMan
3 weeks ago

cumbernauld

I help them out when they’re busy

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By *dam6969Man
3 weeks ago

Aylesbury

I love pussy and to fuck it but have no women to bang however man cock in the meantime will do sucking being fucked any offers are welcome

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By *issy SiMan
3 weeks ago

Horsham

One of the weirdest questions in a long time. How can anyone say "I'm a little bit gay....or only at the weekend "

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By *udi222Man
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

A 2 or 3.

I'm attracted to all sorts of women, enjoy their company and adore having sex with them. However, i'm also physically attracted to a particular type of guy and every now again i get the urge to have fun with a guy in that narrow cohort. I've no interest or attraction to guys outside that cohort.

I'd call myself bi or pansexual if i had to describe my sexual preferences.

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By *ryan2000Man
3 weeks ago

London colney

10

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By *laze69Man
3 weeks ago

Coventry

5, depends on my mood

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

I presume the question asked here is really how homosexual are you. Gay is often construed as a lifestyle, a set of 'standards' to live up to. Yes I fancy men and would not want to have sex with a woman at all. However I don't lead a perceived gay lifestyle e.g. my taste in clothing, decor, soft-furnishing would probably give Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen and Gok Wan the 'vapors'. I'm not left-wing or anti-religion. Don't speak polari. Quite into sports [playing in the past but now just watching] and certainly don't drool over so-called gay icons.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford


"I presume the question asked here is really how homosexual are you. Gay is often construed as a lifestyle, a set of 'standards' to live up to. Yes I fancy men and would not want to have sex with a woman at all. However I don't lead a perceived gay lifestyle e.g. my taste in clothing, decor, soft-furnishing would probably give Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen and Gok Wan the 'vapors'. I'm not left-wing or anti-religion. Don't speak polari. Quite into sports [playing in the past but now just watching] and certainly don't drool over so-called gay icons. "

What you've described is a cartoon pastiche of your interpretation of 'gay', which hardly exists in the real world, even here in London.

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I presume the question asked here is really how homosexual are you. Gay is often construed as a lifestyle, a set of 'standards' to live up to. Yes I fancy men and would not want to have sex with a woman at all. However I don't lead a perceived gay lifestyle e.g. my taste in clothing, decor, soft-furnishing would probably give Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen and Gok Wan the 'vapors'. I'm not left-wing or anti-religion. Don't speak polari. Quite into sports [playing in the past but now just watching] and certainly don't drool over so-called gay icons.

What you've described is a cartoon pastiche of your interpretation of 'gay', which hardly exists in the real world, even here in London. "

It still exists in the minds of a lot of people especially in more rural areas where being gay is still only grudgingly accepted. It still exists on various television programmes where you get gays depicted as the 'screaming queen' types e.g. that series with Olly Alexander and the film about gays supporting the miners strike [can't remember what they were called] or last years 'I kissed a Boy' programme etc.

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By *regABCMan
3 weeks ago

blackhall

10.i only like sex with guys

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By *elfryMan
3 weeks ago

Rossendale

It has changed as I've got older. Probably 8 now but think it will get higher.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford


"I presume the question asked here is really how homosexual are you. Gay is often construed as a lifestyle, a set of 'standards' to live up to. Yes I fancy men and would not want to have sex with a woman at all. However I don't lead a perceived gay lifestyle e.g. my taste in clothing, decor, soft-furnishing would probably give Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen and Gok Wan the 'vapors'. I'm not left-wing or anti-religion. Don't speak polari. Quite into sports [playing in the past but now just watching] and certainly don't drool over so-called gay icons.

What you've described is a cartoon pastiche of your interpretation of 'gay', which hardly exists in the real world, even here in London.

It still exists in the minds of a lot of people especially in more rural areas where being gay is still only grudgingly accepted. It still exists on various television programmes where you get gays depicted as the 'screaming queen' types e.g. that series with Olly Alexander and the film about gays supporting the miners strike [can't remember what they were called] or last years 'I kissed a Boy' programme etc. "

I dont think it exists in many people's minds either tbh. There are gay people leading perfectly dull lives in every community and every family in the land. People know that the pastiche portrayed as parody on tv doesn't exist. Yes, there are some high camp gay people, but I know plenty of high camp straight people as well. In real life, it's often gay people who perpetuate the pastiche for attention, but straight people will do it as well. Just look at Neal Jones from Strictly as an example, camp as a row of tents. Its not real, and it's not necessarily "gay". Most people know it's not real nor a representative image of most gay people. If anything, media portrays gay people as the same as anyone else because as a general rule we are. Look at Eastenders or Corrie, or gay newsreaders or weather reporters or sport men and women. Some might be better dressed and have nice home furnishings but we're actually just as dull as anyone else 😆

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By *yson30Man
3 weeks ago

horny

Dom needed for dirty call now

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By *andybugger75Man
3 weeks ago

Staying in Colnbrook

I started at 0 but would say I’m definitely nearer an 8 now.

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By *iss_BlackTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Zero

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By *autiously_curiousMan
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

Maybe 3 or 4? I enjoy a horny naked cock play session once a month if I can get it.

But I don't really want to kiss guys, I don't like gay porn, not into kinks, and would say I find women more attractive in general.

But I couldn't go back to a purely straight life.

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By *ishop666Man
3 weeks ago

ls19

A chance is great

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By *laything66Man
3 weeks ago

fife

5

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By *ordonkyMan
3 weeks ago

Blackrock READ PROFILE

I'm 10/10 gay but if I need to your wife's pussy to get more dick, I will.

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By *ollywellMan
3 weeks ago

gateshead

What ever happened to old queens who were happy than a sanddancer. And couldnt give a flying feck how gay they were ...

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

10

Never been interested in women

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By *itcianMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool


"If you are here….. you are gay.

Just accept it, move forward and enjoy your time with men…."

Please see this for the only logical answer

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By *umquakeMan
3 weeks ago

Boston

If ( ⁰ ) is straight and ( ⁵ ) is bi, all being equal, then I am probably a ( ³ ).

I crave cock and a mouth full of cum from time to time. I love watching guys wanking and I will kiss some of only to swap the cum.

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By *autiously_curiousMan
3 weeks ago

Craigavon


"If ( ⁰ ) is straight and ( ⁵ ) is bi, all being equal, then I am probably a ( ³ ).

I crave cock and a mouth full of cum from time to time. I love watching guys wanking and I will kiss some of only to swap the cum."

I would say by its definition bi is anything from 1 to 9 lol!

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By *andsomellMan
3 weeks ago

Wembley

10,just like men's company,and love have sex with nice hung guys are

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By *lokenexdoor2025Man
3 weeks ago

Ludlow


"I presume the question asked here is really how homosexual are you. Gay is often construed as a lifestyle, a set of 'standards' to live up to. Yes I fancy men and would not want to have sex with a woman at all. However I don't lead a perceived gay lifestyle e.g. my taste in clothing, decor, soft-furnishing would probably give Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen and Gok Wan the 'vapors'. I'm not left-wing or anti-religion. Don't speak polari. Quite into sports [playing in the past but now just watching] and certainly don't drool over so-called gay icons. "

Same. as a lifetime queer, I’m a bloke who likes blokes and a proud 10++++

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By *lokenexdoor2025Man
3 weeks ago

Ludlow


"What ever happened to old queens who were happy than a sanddancer. And couldnt give a flying feck how gay they were ..."

We are still here and queer!

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By *arriedhungbottomMan
3 weeks ago

dartford

3

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By *unguy2429Man
3 weeks ago

worthing

7

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By *ddy86Man
3 weeks ago

Abram

I honestly don't know. Whatever number 'likes sucking cock and wants to be fucked by one, but doesn't find guys remotely attractive' is.

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By *tevejbMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

9.7

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I presume the question asked here is really how homosexual are you. Gay is often construed as a lifestyle, a set of 'standards' to live up to. Yes I fancy men and would not want to have sex with a woman at all. However I don't lead a perceived gay lifestyle e.g. my taste in clothing, decor, soft-furnishing would probably give Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen and Gok Wan the 'vapors'. I'm not left-wing or anti-religion. Don't speak polari. Quite into sports [playing in the past but now just watching] and certainly don't drool over so-called gay icons.

What you've described is a cartoon pastiche of your interpretation of 'gay', which hardly exists in the real world, even here in London.

It still exists in the minds of a lot of people especially in more rural areas where being gay is still only grudgingly accepted. It still exists on various television programmes where you get gays depicted as the 'screaming queen' types e.g. that series with Olly Alexander and the film about gays supporting the miners strike [can't remember what they were called] or last years 'I kissed a Boy' programme etc.

I dont think it exists in many people's minds either tbh. There are gay people leading perfectly dull lives in every community and every family in the land. People know that the pastiche portrayed as parody on tv doesn't exist. Yes, there are some high camp gay people, but I know plenty of high camp straight people as well. In real life, it's often gay people who perpetuate the pastiche for attention, but straight people will do it as well. Just look at Neal Jones from Strictly as an example, camp as a row of tents. Its not real, and it's not necessarily "gay". Most people know it's not real nor a representative image of most gay people. If anything, media portrays gay people as the same as anyone else because as a general rule we are. Look at Eastenders or Corrie, or gay newsreaders or weather reporters or sport men and women. Some might be better dressed and have nice home furnishings but we're actually just as dull as anyone else 😆 "

To an extent you may be right. I may be the case in the sophisticated South-East and the cities but still a lot of prejudice or just grudging acceptance out in more rural areas. A lot of straight people still expect us to be effeminate, high camp. Last year's 'I Kissed a Boy' was a serious backward step.

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By *likesausagesMan
3 weeks ago

Wyre Forest

Increasing, currently 5

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm so gay, Julian Clary disowned me

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By *ham59Man
3 weeks ago

Torquay

Currently a strong 8, probably at least a 6 most of the time, but every now and again I'm a big fat zero

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By *ookingandgenuineMan
3 weeks ago

Dumfries

I’m not gay but my boyfriend is lol.

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By *DPhoebe1969TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

5

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Right now 9

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By *uminsideme .Man
3 weeks ago

weston s mare

I reckon im about an 8 as im more gay than bi x

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By *ldergalwaybearMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

10

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By *ldergalwaybearMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

10

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By *aremanMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich area

Kinsey 5, so 8-10.

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By *eonsMan
3 weeks ago

Swindon

Definitely a 10

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By *owestoftBiCdMan
3 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Not at all. Totally bi

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By *antsbibottomMan
3 weeks ago

Farnborough

6

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By *enuineguy321Man
3 weeks ago

monaghan

About 2

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By *oseph_xxxMan
2 weeks ago

London

About 10

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By *os001Man
2 weeks ago

Oxford

No scoring or scaling needed.

Gay.

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By *rowserMan
2 weeks ago

East Kent

About 8, two colours short of the full rainbow...

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By *oseph_xxxMan
2 weeks ago

London


"About 8, two colours short of the full rainbow..."

Nice one, thanks for the support

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By *rowserMan
2 weeks ago

East Kent

You're very welcome, Joseph

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By *WB64Man
2 weeks ago

Liversedge & Hull

I think 9 as a married man I find women attractive but never sexually now that I have experienced guys. Only interested in guys for sex which disappoints the women that I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

5 as still love pussy now and again when i can get it

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By *hiamintyMan
2 weeks ago

rg25

Some days feel more gay than others

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By *oveslutMan
2 weeks ago

hove

Strong 9 wife’s body don’t interest me anymore

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By *adBod1986Man
2 weeks ago

Runcorn

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By *imon_hydeMan
2 weeks ago

Stockport

I enjoy sucking cock, being rimmed and fucking guys. I expect I'm a little gay ')

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By *adBod1986Man
2 weeks ago

Runcorn

Not very. I just like nice dicks and holes and enjoy sex. The plain truth is men are way easier to hook up with. Can't say I ever look at a guy's face and think PHWOAR and I don't like to kiss men and couldn't envisage being in a relationship with a man. I think my liking of dick and ass just stems from too much porn use and my brain evolving from "I want to fuck that ass" to "I want that dick in MY ass" ha. It's hard to explain... but surely I'm not the only one?

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By *veregebottomEdinMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

5 or 6 go through phases where im not interrsted 8n guys then go through a stage where ive got the urge to be fucked by a guy or sucking cock and swallow a load

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By *lebog65Man
2 weeks ago

Port Talbot

4, love sex with men but prefer women

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By *ixer61Man
2 weeks ago

Aycliffe

9, not interested in women any more

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By *ac1774GMan
2 weeks ago

Wakefield

50/50 love cock, but love pussy too

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By *itanic-PhilMan
2 weeks ago

Welling

9 or 10.

Next?

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By *hil 69Man
2 weeks ago

Scarborough

6 or 7

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By *arnsleyscotMan
2 weeks ago

barnsley

Swings from a strong 2

Then I get my urge for cock thats a 7

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By *becksMan
2 weeks ago

ipswich

5

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By *sal paulMan
2 weeks ago

frinton /walton area

1 normal life 5 5 beers 10 little naughty bottle

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By *regABCMan
2 weeks ago

blackhall

Totally

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By *hxpMan
2 weeks ago

london/reading

I seem to get a little gayer every day, probably only between a 6 and 7 but definitely still climbing.

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By *nyonethereMan
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Only kind of sex I have nowadays is with men, I'm a complete faggot now so I suppose I must be a 10

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By *yleLMan
2 weeks ago

Burnley


"In my (limited) experience, most guys don’t seem to be completely one way or the other. On a scale of of 0-10 (0 being straight, 10 being gay)… how gay are you? "

Very happily a 10

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By *airFetishMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon

With all those low scores I’m not surprised that so many men are not that engaged or passionate.

I’ve been 10+ since about the age of 18.

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By *airFetishMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon

To clarify, I’m meaning sexual attraction, lust, enjoyment of sex and all that goes with it.

I’m not meaning club culture, how many drugs I take, fashion choices, gym usage or similar.

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By *loset TVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

bradford

9

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By *unjoMan
2 weeks ago

london

I’m not Gay at all.

I just help out when it’s busy

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By *ustaNormalBlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Strood

Mostly I’m a 2, but when I’m looking at a hard cock in front of my face I’m a 10

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By *urhamstagMan
2 weeks ago

Durham

Without the cage 2/3

With the cage, a slutty 9/10

So current very gay

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By *iind69Man
2 weeks ago

Leicester

Very love dick more than sexy wife

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By *antuinmehotMan
2 weeks ago

ware


"Very love dick more than sexy wife"

Me too( my wife)

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By *oodyMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Definitely gayer the older I have got - just adore cock - love kissing so much before he slides his tongue in my ass and then fucks me slowly

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By *eekeeper1000Man
2 weeks ago

Richmond. North Yorkshire

Ten. Always have been. Always will be.

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By *v-simoneTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bristol

5. Right in the middle. Can’t resist cock, but also can’t resist a slutty female (even though I’ve not had sex with one in about 10 years)

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By *hickenmcnuggetsMan
2 weeks ago

Coxlodge, Newcastle upon Tyne

Probably 6, which is further along the gayness scale than I was 10 or 15 years ago, lol

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By *og606Man
2 weeks ago

spalding

Difficult to be specific. Probably 9 as I've only been with guys for last 8 years or so. Am in a sexless marriage but we share a bed...

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By *evinmanMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

100% gay

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By *sabellatvTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Abingdon

5, seems to be increasing as I get older.

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By *om Tom ABC99Man
2 weeks ago

Murcia

I say 1. My gay friend who has been openly for 40 years says I'm the gayest man he has ever met. My wife wasn't impressed lol. He must have a feeling!

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By *damb00Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

The gayest of them all

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By *hubbyman10Man
2 weeks ago

Bloxwich

8 Still find females attractive but prefer sex with men

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By *ackredMan
2 weeks ago

wirral

10

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By *enior serviceMan
2 weeks ago

Abingdon

I'm not very gay most of the time but these days I'm 100% homosexual all the time!

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By *idsguy81Man
2 weeks ago

mids

5 I like cock and pussy equally

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By *ocknRollerMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Hard to say, I would say I am closer to Bi than I am gay and more straight than I am bi so probably sit around 4 haha

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By *ossc0617Man
2 weeks ago

Abergele


"I'm not very gay most of the time but these days I'm 100% homosexual all the time!"

I'm with you on this, I'm certainly 100% homosexual have no desires for sex with a woman these days always thinking about cock

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By *hy Cock 2026Man
2 weeks ago

christchurch Dorset

12

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Perfect 5 bi

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