FabGuys.com forum: Question for guys 45+

By *oBarriers76 OP Man
3 weeks ago

withywood

Guys 45+ — real talk: has finding a hookup become more difficult with age, or do you think it’s just dating that’s changed?

What’s been your experience?

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

I dont think so. Yes, things have changed, making hook ups easier. Plus, with age comes confidence and abandonment of insecurities (usually).

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

I find hookups much more easier now than they've ever been.

I can easily host. A lot of younger guys are unable to. I know wbmhat I want and what I like and they love it when I take it from them.

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By *iganbiguy1963Man
3 weeks ago

Wigan

I get a few guys asking for meets. Sadly , they are not local.

I'm 62.

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By *35bMan
3 weeks ago

Shoreham by aea

Much much harder and I’m only just on the cusp of 45

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By *udi222Man
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

Definitely more difficult to get meets.

In my case i'd imagine its because of my very narrow preferences (much younger, athletic, twink types) - there simply aren't many of them who want to meet a middle-aged man.

I try make the most of the few meets i do have but i always feel a bit short of fun.

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By *hs12Man
3 weeks ago

huntingdon nr

I'm 67... and people look at my At age say he must be past it....

Still kiss and rim.and get hard.. ok don't cumm as much I use too

But still horny

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By *0yguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cumbria

There’s more to a man than how hard his cock is.

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

No. It’s gotten easier. I know what I want and I know how to ask for it.

Still get no shows but it’s not gotten worse.

I can always got to a sauna if I want

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By *oBarriers76 OP Man
3 weeks ago

withywood

"No. It’s gotten easier. I know what I want and I know how to ask for it.

Still get no shows but it’s not gotten worse.

I can always got to a sauna if I want

Yeah, I know what I like. But sadly, I'm not pointing any fingers, but you do get the fake profiles. Or real profiles with the wrong pictures, asking for your pictures and time wasters. say they want to meet, but they never show. It's fucking annoying esecially when you pay for the service, and you get wankers like that.

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

"No. It’s gotten easier. I know what I want and I know how to ask for it.

Still get no shows but it’s not gotten worse.

I can always got to a sauna if I want

You get that on all platforms.

It’s not age related.

You take it in your stride and carry on.

At least the block function isn’t limited on here.

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By *oBarriers76 OP Man
3 weeks ago

withywood

"No. It’s gotten easier. I know what I want and I know how to ask for it.

Still get no shows but it’s not gotten worse.

I can always got to a sauna if I want

You get that on all platforms.

It’s not age related.

You take it in your stride and carry on.

At least the block function isn’t limited on here. "

LOL true

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By *ralBiguy63Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

Just the opposite,I’m 65 and guys like older guys

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By *ohnny124Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I don't have a problem meeting guys quite a few guys in their 30s have contacted me but I'm only interested in men over 40xx

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By *im4UMan
3 weeks ago

Sandhurst

I find it a lot more difficult to find men to meet. Obviously I know that being a bottom who can't accommodate doesn't help!

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By *oBarriers76 OP Man
3 weeks ago

withywood

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By *oBarriers76 OP Man
3 weeks ago

withywood

" I don't have a problem meeting guys quite a few guys in their 30s have contacted me but I'm only interested in men over 40xx

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I have changed my outlook on certain age groups, it used to be 30s to 50s, now it's 35 to 55. But that barrier is still an open bracket.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I'm 63 and get a fair bit of interest from guys under 30, but I'm not going anywhere that's my own kids' ages, with the extremely rare exception of exceptional maturity.

A it's just wrong and B generation and culture gap.

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By *PH1956Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester

"I'm 63 and get a fair bit of interest from guys under 30, but I'm not going anywhere that's my own kids' ages, with the extremely rare exception of exceptional maturity.

A it's just wrong and B generation and culture gap."

Completely agree!

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By *ibblefishMan
3 weeks ago

louthish

I have found that I’m in the wilderness now as most guys set 55 as their upper limit

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By *ritstoneMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I have a very healthy gay sex life, it's been fantastic all through my 60s... Best decade ever for me... Though coming out late in life must be a major factor in that statement!

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By *OMPLACIENT GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Hove

"Much much harder and I’m only just on the cusp of 45

Obviously you BAREBACK.

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By *ojanglesMan
3 weeks ago

mk41

The younger generation fancy the mid 40s etc the 40s fancy the older generations don’t ask me why this is so popular so you’re answer to your question no not really a problem

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By *alm_one4Man
3 weeks ago

RM16

Nudging 64 now, finding it more and more difficult since I left my 50’s.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
3 weeks ago

East Devon

Haven’t really notice a difference, though now I’m older I’ve started to meet guys younger than me.

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

"Much much harder and I’m only just on the cusp of 45

Obviously you BAREBACK."

*Gasp!* (Clutches pearls) swoons.

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By *35bMan
1 day ago

Shoreham by aea

"Much much harder and I’m only just on the cusp of 45

Obviously you BAREBACK."

I have since prep was a thing so some years now. Statement still holds.

(Incidentally Bareback is optional - it’s good to respect others choices)

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By *oodsman2Man
1 day ago

Galashiels

Easier, but then Internet hook up sites weren't a thing in my 20s

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By *ndyfy7Man
1 day ago

Fleetwood

I prefer to meet older guys - at least we can hold a conversation

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By *jh59Man
1 day ago

Hinckley

Prefer guys over 50

But last night met a young Spanish guy off Grindr

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By *mitz2Man
1 day ago

Leicester

There's definitely less Dom tops around as you get older

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By *ensualblokeMan
1 day ago

Colchester/London

I have found things a lot easier as I have got older to be honest. I prefer people around my own age, generally.

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By *otcleanguyMan
1 day ago

Manchester

Quite the opposite for me. Being brown and hairy and average height, when I was in my 30s was HARD to find women interested in casual sex. I was starting my bi journey and at that time only looking for guys my age or younger - and it was DIFFICULT

Fast forward in my 50s I find LOTS of women both my age and PARTICULARLY younger women looking to fuck an older man. And as for guys, now that I'm older I find all men attractive and find LOTS of hot young twinks looking to get fucked

So trust me as you age, it'll get better and better

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By *arlojoeMan
1 day ago

darlington

Just wait until you get past 60!

It seems your cock shrivells up and you lose all sex drive!

No,no, sex is enjoyable at any age,as long as you're fit for it.

The problem is that most older are bottoms as age and BP tablets take their toll.

Just off to get fucked!!

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By *wansmickMan
1 day ago

Belfast

My only hook up problem is I genuinely don't have a car and can't accommodate. Hardly advantages in a meet lol. When I have got picked up Ive had some great fun but as I say lack of easy meets is always going to be a thing.

No probs though I've met some great guys on here : less is more 👌👌👌

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By *otcleanguyMan
1 day ago

Manchester

Close to 60. Still a TOP

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By *ark7219Man
1 day ago

Hatfield

Not had any problems in arranging meets. Not been able to accommodate has been more of an issue

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By *athman45Man
1 day ago

bath

It’s like fishing, nothing then loads lol

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By *hubbyGinger76Man
1 day ago

Halesowen

If I could get out of the house without raising the Mrs' suspicions (I've never gone out much) I've had quite a few offers

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By *uckmeslow555Man
1 day ago

oakham

More offers now I’m a silver fox

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By *teve1966Man
1 day ago

Merseyside

Much easier as I have aged

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By *DPDRTMan
1 day ago

Bristol

Restricts our chances, when guys like the OP has an upper age limit of 55 on his profile, lol.

I've opted for similar by making my lower age limit 40. Boom boom.

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By *westbiMan
1 day ago

Bridport

Depends if you can accommodate.Most of the men iv met were married so difficult for them.Same when I was.

Marriage has it's pluses but some drawbacks.

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By *luteus maxMan
1 day ago

Waterlooville at night

I'm 83, and I'm finding a lot of guys are turned on by the idea of fucking an 83 year old. I guess it helps that I don't use toys, and I don't like fingers or fists in my bum. This means that I'm still tight, and that I appreciate a well oiled cock moving inside me,

I also enjoy being fucked bareback, and that seems to be a preference for most guys. It certainly feels better. I do keep a few condoms for guys who want to wear them, as I still get pleasure from being fucked by a cock in an overcoat.

Age limits can cause disappointments. There are several guys who I'd like to fuck me. but they seem to have upper age limits of 55 or younger. I don't really understand it, as if I'm face down in a darkened environment, then it the sensation that they get from a tight responsive bum hole that should be the priority in my opinion.

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