Hi iv found myself kind of going down a rabbit hole, and I would like to go down it further.
I really want a local Dom, someone who I can grow and explore a bit with, but local to me in my town, and can cope with me having a normal life so won't be able to meet at a drop of a hat and stuff.
Iv tried sites like fetlife ( but that's rubbish so clicky and it's basically messed board with so many rules it's hard to even post )
There's no kind of options on hear to pick from searching and let's be honest most people tick everything .
So any advice welcome, what to look for, good places to look, what kit I should expect to play with, any advice at all, thanks Fabers!