FabGuys.com forum: How to spot a fake profile

By *asmine300 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Rg10

This has probably been asked before but I have mild learning difficulties therefore I don't spot or notice things as quick as others might.

so I have been talking to a fab member and it feels like we have hit it off pretty well.

conversationally it's slow and laborious but it's certainly wetting my whistle.

the trouble I have is when I reply it may take a week for a response or even longer, so I'm wondering if its a good idea to continue.

we have been talking sporadically for a few months but it's frustrating to me when the other member says one thing but doesn't actually respond.

I felt we were getting somewhere,talking about what we like and what we want from each other but then it feels like I am being ghosted.

what is your opinion on this,sort of thing!.

yes I know I haven't been on here all that long but to let you know I was here before for a decent length excuse the pun.

By *yleLMan
2 weeks ago

Burnley

"This has probably been asked before but I have mild learning difficulties therefore I don't spot or notice things as quick as others might.

so I have been talking to a fab member and it feels like we have hit it off pretty well.

conversationally it's slow and laborious but it's certainly wetting my whistle.

the trouble I have is when I reply it may take a week for a response or even longer, so I'm wondering if its a good idea to continue.

we have been talking sporadically for a few months but it's frustrating to me when the other member says one thing but doesn't actually respond.

I felt we were getting somewhere,talking about what we like and what we want from each other but then it feels like I am being ghosted.

what is your opinion on this,sort of thing!.

yes I know I haven't been on here all that long but to let you know I was here before for a decent length excuse the pun.

The guy either isn't that interested and just goes along with chatting to you occasionally, or its a fake profile, possibly both.

Apologies if that sounds a little harsh.

If he has pics on his profile, is the photography exceptionally good and is he very good looking?

In his profile write up, does he say something like "Looking for my life partner" "Serious Relationship wanted"

Those can be red flags too.