FabGuys.com forum: Dodgy meets, narrow escapes when visiting

By *V PENNY OP TV/TS
4 days ago

Bradford

Always careful, and have been lucky but had a couple of narrow escapes over the years. Always trust your instincts and if your not sure make your excuses and get out before anything unexpected happens. Guys on fab at least have verifications unlike grinder with no history or random texts from toilets ect.

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By *uton JohnMan
4 days ago

Luton

Had a couple.

I go in and the place is a mess. I just sit there still.dressed, ha e a xhat then leave

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By *V PENNY OP TV/TS
4 days ago

Bradford

Had meets arranged with 1 guy and he has asked his mate has been there as well, also always text the address where I'm going to to someone just to be safe.

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By *arvey69Man
4 days ago

Bodmin

"Had meets arranged with 1 guy and he has asked his mate has been there as well, also always text the address where I'm going to to someone just to be safe."

I text and email the date, expected time of return and the address to myself and leave a written note with this information in my house. On my return delete text, email and destroy note.

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By *ustinabitMan
4 days ago

north cork

That's a very wise procedure.

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 days ago

Watford

Even when you've done due diligence things can go tits up. I had an American guy round to fuck me. Unknown to me he filmed the entire thing and then put it on various sites online. I was easily identifiable. Took quite some effort by me to get it removed.

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By *ruditus gentMan
4 days ago

Caistor or thereabouts. Or hereabouts

I met a guy on the other side of Lincoln. Seemed quite pleasant to start, turned up, ok, wasn't what I expected but gave the benefit of the doubt. Took me to this horrid little fuck den that had a bed and a duvet that looked like it had not been washed in a lifetime. Then I realised how much of a cum dump his wife was when he started showing me videos that he takes without permission of anyone fucking his wife. By this time I am fearing for my health, desperatley feeling like I needed a tetanus shot. They are still on Fab Swingers, he is quite a seedy looking guy looking back on it. Funny how you do not notice at the time. Still shudder at that shed.

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By *upertedMan
4 days ago

Nelson

The guys I've met are always 'nice guys' for the most part but I sometimes cannot believe they live in such squalor!

I've visited fellas with no carpet. Had fun directly on a mattress as there is no sheet. I don't judge.

I've a few FwBs who have returned a visit to me...cos my house seems fairly normal.

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By *rmaccMan
4 days ago

Macclesfield

I can't do it. It's an immediate turn off

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By *ouseblendMan
4 days ago

Carshalton

I only meet members verified by recent meets on here, served me well so far but always trust my instincts

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By *ubblebootyTV/TS
4 days ago

Wakefield

"Even when you've done due diligence things can go tits up. I had an American guy round to fuck me. Unknown to me he filmed the entire thing and then put it on various sites online. I was easily identifiable. Took quite some effort by me to get it removed."

That would be my worst fear xx

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By *ull bi for funMan
4 days ago

hull

You often get an idea of what it will be like judging by their postcode. 9/10 times it's an accurate understanding

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By *ndtimeMan
4 days ago

chilworth

Met a guy in Peterborough a long time ago.. seemed ok, pics seemed fine, got there, house absolutely stank of death and decay, he was considerably shorter than advertised and there was handcuff on the 4 corners of the bed.. I left pretty quickly.

He then messaged and asked me to verify him as we had technically met… I declined and pointed out my reasons. He didn’t take that very well

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By *iHubby73TV/TS
4 days ago

Durham

These posts are the exact reason I am so nervous and worried about meeting.

This really hasn't put my mind at rest at all 😢

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By *nyoneaboutMan
4 days ago

chalfont

I don’t meet often but insist on a phone call before a meet at least you can get a gut feeling from a call - not phone sex simply saying I want to see if we’re compatible and talk about likes n dislikes

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By *otsteve10Man
4 days ago

Port Talbot

"These posts are the exact reason I am so nervous and worried about meeting.

This really hasn't put my mind at rest at all 😢"

I was about to write the same thing,I've been on and off here a few years. Been horny as fuck and really wanted to get my first experience done and dusted. This thread has confirmed some of my worst fears. Especially as a married man.

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By *uck me in KentMan
4 days ago

Medway

After a few messages I was given a postcode and was told that when I arrived I would be given the door number etc and to just come in as he would be sitting there naked and wanking.

I arrived was given the door number.

I walked in to find an elderly couple looking quite worried and confused.

When I went back onto the messages I found I had been blocked. There really are some strange people on here

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By *ntoniacd40TV/TS
4 days ago

Guildford

Thought I had a narrow escape yesterday but it turned out to be a nice surprise

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By *orny_banburyMan
4 days ago

Banbury

Agreed a meet off here whilst out on a long drive.

Guy gave me address, I turned up, knocked at the door and a woman answered.

His wife had got home unexpectedly early from work and he’d been in the process of messaging me as I walked to the front door.

My brain melted on the spot, so I still asked if Dan was in. She shouted him, he came to the door and she disappeared off into the house.

We went to his garage, he apologised loads and said he’d tell her I was collecting something he’d sold on eBay.

We actually had a very quick fondle and rub of our cocks together and then I left.

Still laugh to this day thinking about it.

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By *os001Man
4 days ago

Oxford

I've been given a house number that didn't exist before. The street and location were real not too far from me, I Googled it to check it out!

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By *PH1956Man
4 days ago

Colchester

Was given a street and house number. Although the street existed, the house number didn't.

So now I restrict the distance I'm prepared to travel for a meet.

"Once bitten twice shy"

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
4 days ago

Glasgow

Recently met a guy. Nothing like the profile on here. Profile said 'average' reality 'large or superchub'. Profile said verse when all he wanted was a bj

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By *moother1Man
4 days ago

Port Talbot

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By *moother1Man
4 days ago

Port Talbot

Met some loon who asked me to take a look in his garden where he was digging a deep pit at least a couple of meters deep, he wanted me to climb down into the pit with him.. I just turned round walked back through his house and left.

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By *panddown888Man
4 days ago

Chester

I arranged a meet at short notice got there and just got the jitters.

I said to him it’s not going to work, apologised and left.

I’m within my rights to say that right?

My only arranged meet with a guy

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 days ago

Watford

"I arranged a meet at short notice got there and just got the jitters.

I said to him it’s not going to work, apologised and left.

I’m within my rights to say that right?

My only arranged meet with a guy "

Of course!

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By *ade crossTV/TS
4 days ago

chiselhurst

Had few near misses when it comes to violence. Been left waiting in carparks, sent to wrong house that's intresting when your dolled up. But getting less as I learn to spot the time wasters

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By *oasterMan
4 days ago

Swansea

Same here. Thought it was just me being nervous. But thing is it’s me mostly can accom. I do however resist offer when I’m not 100% sure of someone coming to my place.

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By *oasterMan
4 days ago

Swansea

Same here. But not married

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By *inkyexileMan
4 days ago

Near Scarborough

I only ever accommodated at home once, never again. A guy came round, messaged to say he was outside then literally took ten minutes to come to the door. Started off ok then he got lube out and put his finger up my arse which wasn’t something we’d discussed.

I was wearing lingerie and he wanted to dress too so we went up to my bedroom.

He started acting weird (d*unk and or drugs) and i thought if i don’t get him out now this could end badly for me. Luckily he went without a fuss but he was wearing a pair of my hold up stockings that I really liked.

I’d only ever accommodate at home now if it was a regular thing.

I have had a female round that I have an on off FWB thing with but she’s never any bother apart from once when she left and I went straight into the toilet and she had stunk the place out. Proper eye watering.

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By *erbysuckMan
4 days ago

derbyshire

If they carnt live in a clean home then what’s their body hygiene like

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By *erbysuckMan
4 days ago

derbyshire

The minute the camera came out I would of left

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By *erbysuckMan
4 days ago

derbyshire

Name and shame him

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By *erbysuckMan
4 days ago

derbyshire

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By *erbysuckMan
4 days ago

derbyshire

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By *attBDSMMan
4 days ago

East Lancs

This happens quite often to me-post code then door number. I ask them to leave a shoe in the front door. No shoe no go inny

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By *420Man
4 days ago

Bristol

"Met some loon who asked me to take a look in his garden where he was digging a deep pit at least a couple of meters deep, he wanted me to climb down into the pit with him.. I just turned round walked back through his house and left. "

That may be today's winning post.

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By *ntoniacd40TV/TS
4 days ago

Guildford

"This happens quite often to me-post code then door number. I ask them to leave a shoe in the front door. No shoe no go inny"

Great idea

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By *attBDSMMan
4 days ago

East Lancs

I wrote an account of a true encounter in stories on the site forum. Here is the opening passage.

"The directions to the Masters house were precise but nevertheless navigating the rough farm track straddling the Lancashire hills to his magnificent converted farm house proved chalanging for my little Fiat 500. Finally I arrived at an electronic gate which swung open with out any visible sign of human intervention and I found myself in an old farmyard with Master waiting for me by his front door.He looked around 60,strongly built and held himself with a certain poise that suggested he was a man not to be crossed. The gate swung closed behind me and couldn't help feeling a little anxious as it did so. I made my way over to my would be tormentor who shook my hand with a truly powerful grip that belied his years"

I should add that my car was parked round the back of the property, and in a garage at his request.

It was my first visit and I was to be tied naked to a beam and flogged soundly.The guy had zero verificatios. We'll righly or wrongly I went ahead and did everything he asked asked me. After the session was over (quite enjoyable TBF) I left vowing never to return alone. Well since the visit I have met another sub who also survived a meeting with the Master of this remote farmstead so I kinda decided I WILL be having a re visit after all!

But is this all together wise ?

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By *ristolsbMan
4 days ago

Bedminster, Bristol

I met a guy several times at his place until he went complete offline. E was hot but i knew had a few kinks like pup playI'd known him well enough to know his name and address so googled to try getting back together.

Quickly found news reports that he and a group of mates had received long prison sentences for castrating and amputating the cocks of willing guys, and selling the film on the dark web. One was also cannibalising... yeah. Eek

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By *V PENNY OP TV/TS
4 days ago

Bradford

"This happens quite often to me-post code then door number. I ask them to leave a shoe in the front door. No shoe no go inny

Great idea

Good idea to use a shoe or some thing to identify the house, + Google the address so you can see the property and does it exist.I certainly wouldn't go into somewhere where without a signal of some kind. I may have put some people of meeting with my forum post but we don't know who is behind the door. Being a submissive kinky TV looking for dominant guys the potential for things to not go quite the way I want is maybe higher,but always try my best to keep the risk as low as possible. In the end if it doesn't feel right just leave and walk out. Your safety is priority,being on prep, and all the shots don't make a difference if someone wants to do you harm.

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By *up JamieMan
4 days ago

South Shields

I guess I've either been lucky or extremely picky with guys I'd meet with as I've never been to a place that's been a little dusty nevermind some of the horror stories in this thread.

I think I'd be too scared to do anything anymore if something like that happened to me 😅

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By *wansmickMan
4 days ago

Belfast

I always think that if the house is a shithole then their personal cleanliness is equally dodgy so it would be a big no for me and back out the door.luckily I haven't had to retreat quickly yet although I did decline one car meet. FFS if you can't keep the car clean there's something amiss 😞😞😞

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By *hawn1Man
4 days ago

gloucester

Yes I had a close call once supposed to be just me and him went up to his room there were 4 hard cores there quite intimidating especially when they didn’t want me to go, had to basically make a run for it

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By *arridMan
4 days ago

Brighton

It’s surprising how many men choose to live in filth.

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By *3versMan
4 days ago

glasgow

"This happens quite often to me-post code then door number. I ask them to leave a shoe in the front door. No shoe no go inny"

I tell them I'll message when I'm parked up and for them to come to the door - if they don't open the door then I don't bother proceeding, also gives you a heads up if they look like their photos

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By *ay4playMan
4 days ago

Bristol

My worst experience was an early one; in my 20s when I wasn’t sure of my sexuality so mostly hooked up with TVs for quick cum n go meets.

This visit to a TV was a bit different as it being hosted by another fella. No problems arranging, and both looked as advertised… but they were both smoking like chimneys and chatting like they were down the pub, while I was just interested in getting my end away. The fella didn’t really join in, he was mostly voyeur… but it felt like they both were just ignoring me.

I managed to quickly get myself off and get out… but realised on my way home my wallet (which was in my jeans on the floor) had been emptied of cash!!! Only maybe £30 but it did freak me out. Felt conned!

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By *DC2000Man
3 days ago

Coningsby

These posts make interesting reading. I'm the one accommodating most of the time so I'm taking a big risk but nowadays usually see people I've seen before and trust. I've had a few scares over the years but tbh it's usually because they're nothing like their profile description. It's difficult to say "this isn't going to work for me" when they're parked up and now standing in your kitchen (or wherever).

Whether you accommodate or travel, meeting anonymous men on sites like this will always carry an element of risk but we do whatever we can to lessen that risk. Will we stop? No. We put thoughts of Jeffrey Dahmer to the back of our minds and continue to be tempted by the next flattering message.

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By *ere2pleaseuMan
3 days ago

Tamworth

I had a bad meet last year in Kent, we chatted on here for a bit and he invited me over one evening. He told me he was looking for just a bj, I got there and he opened the door with a big smile and welcomed me in.. he showed me into his living room and then he instantly changed he told me to get on my fucking knees and worship his cock. He forced me on my knees, undone his belt and jeans then pulled them down with his underwear and ordered me to kiss his cock. The smell was overpowering and looked like he needed an emergency appointment at the sti clinic. I told him that there’s no way that’s going in my mouth and started to get up off my knees, that’s when he started getting really aggressive and held me down then he informed me I’m not going anywhere until I’ve sucked him hard and then his going to fuck my ass. I told him to fuck off and that I’m going he just laughed. That’s when he found out that I have been training in martial arts for the past 34 years. After a couple of minutes I calmly walked out.

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