FabGuys.com forum: At what point

By *hiteSportsSocks OP Man
12 hours ago

Portmarnock

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By *hiteSportsSocks OP Man
12 hours ago

Portmarnock

Curious question from a gay guy, at what point does a guy go from being Bi-curious to Bi?

I know some Bi-curious guys prefer not to kiss another guy, so I wonder is a guy becomes Bi when he kisses another guy for the first time?

Just curious

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By *ewBrumBiMan
12 hours ago

Birmingham

If you've done things with another guy, and haven't decided that it's not for you, then you're no longer curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 hours ago

My view is these titles are rather meaningless. They’re used by people outside the situation wanting ascribe a name to something and put a person in a pigeonhole. For people using these terms I’d suggest they are searching for identity. Something to feel part of. To answer your question I’d say bi curious for as long as it takes to figure out if you like sex and intimacy with both genders. If you do and carry on you’re bi. If you try it out and it’s not for you then you’re not bi curious any longer.

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By *ucksitupMan
12 hours ago

Shrewsbury

Surely bi-curious means they are “curious” about having sexual contact with another person of the same sex.

Once it has happened they are no longer curious (except maybe to do more).

Whether they kiss or not is irrelevant. Why would you think that? Some on here identify as bi-sexual but still don’t kiss.

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By *ecretly gayMan
12 hours ago

Hampshire

I'd say bi when you have had more than one experience and enjoy it

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
11 hours ago

penzance

Does it matter, just do what you want, be who you are and sod the categories, boxes etc

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
11 hours ago

Didcot

"Does it matter, just do what you want, be who you are and sod the categories, boxes etc

Actually it does matter, Bi Curious suggests new or very inexperienced which will put a lot of guys off as these are the people more likely to chicken out when they realise shit is getting real, also if you're bi curious and have a long list of veris you are no longer curious, change your status.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
11 hours ago

Glasgow

Curious until you've tried it. Do it a second time and you are Bi.

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By *pdudeMan
11 hours ago

newtown

"Does it matter, just do what you want, be who you are and sod the categories, boxes etc

Come on they just carnt be arsed to change it...

How many profiles on here say " fill in later " and there veris 5 or 6 years old ...

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By *excessMan
7 hours ago

Sleaford

"Surely bi-curious means they are “curious” about having sexual contact with another person of the same sex.

Once it has happened they are no longer curious (except maybe to do more).

Whether they kiss or not is irrelevant. Why would you think that? Some on here identify as bi-sexual but still don’t kiss. "

Pretty much word for word what I was thinking.

It's not complicated.

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By *higgerMan
6 hours ago

Manchester

Don't remember being Bi-curious just years n years ago opportunity came about suck another guys cock and found i loved it.

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 hours ago

Llandrindod Wells

If you still want more man-on-man sex after a second sex session. After the first you may still be a bit curious and not sure whether you enjoyed it or not. But after the second you should know if it is for you so you stop being curious.

Had sex with a mate whom I'd long fancied when we were both about 20ish. I enjoyed it but, although he thanked me for the experience, he said it had satisfied his curiosity but it just wasn't for him.

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By *obbertMan
5 hours ago

In a world of my own

It’s only another ‘label’ to attached to your personal ‘suitcase’, to allow the user to comfortably to slot themselves’ into thus site, perhaps?

For years I was celibate but gay through and through, there wasn’t a category for that scenario other than ‘gay’.

Hugs Robby

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By *awihMan
5 hours ago

Aldershot

"My view is these titles are rather meaningless. They’re used by people outside the situation wanting ascribe a name to something and put a person in a pigeonhole. For people using these terms I’d suggest they are searching for identity. Something to feel part of. To answer your question I’d say bi curious for as long as it takes to figure out if you like sex and intimacy with both genders. If you do and carry on you’re bi. If you try it out and it’s not for you then you’re not bi curious any longer. "

No, I’d say you are curious until you have tried it a couple of times and made your mind up one way or the other, at which point you are no longer curious.

The problem is people just don’t bother to update their profile.

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