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By *igbiguymike OP   Man
9 hours ago

redditch

But of rant here but just want to see other people’s opinions.

I’ve met a guy quite a few times over the years of being on this site and always had good meets, however over the past few weeks he’s arranged to meet up on a few occasions so I’ve drove over to his only to be told when I pretty much there that he’s not feeling it now,.

Obviously this proper annoyed me so I told him so in a message, which was polite, however to my surprise I’ve got a response back that’s somewhat rude and not in a good way, I’ve gone to reply and he’s blocked me.

Honestly has anyone else had this as it’s starting to make me think this site isn’t worth being on anymore as it’s full of timewasters.

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By *lan82Man
9 hours ago

North Hykeham, Lincoln

I’m afraid that this site is just a huge, steaming pile of excrement nowadays..

All you seem to have is dirty straights talking about pussy..

And any gay men have one foot in the six feet under..

Or already have a boyfriend man friend or plural of these

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By *ucksitupMan
9 hours ago

Shrewsbury


"But of rant here but just want to see other people’s opinions.

I’ve met a guy quite a few times over the years of being on this site and always had good meets, however over the past few weeks he’s arranged to meet up on a few occasions so I’ve drove over to his only to be told when I pretty much there that he’s not feeling it now,.

Obviously this proper annoyed me so I told him so in a message, which was polite, however to my surprise I’ve got a response back that’s somewhat rude and not in a good way, I’ve gone to reply and he’s blocked me.

Honestly has anyone else had this as it’s starting to make me think this site isn’t worth being on anymore as it’s full of timewasters. "

Not sure what opinions you think you will get. The guy is obviously a dick.

You must be very patient/understanding to put up with the cancellations “a few times”. I would have given him the benefit of the doubt the first time but after the second he would have been messaged and blocked.

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By *ustOneBearMan
9 hours ago

Neath

It is annoying. I have a strict no show/ block policy and if someone cancelled on me like that, I’d just block. Men need to realise there are lots more men on here. So cutting out those who are unlikely to meet is a good thing.

I get more meets from here than any other. So I’ve left all the other sites.

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By *erscumdumpMan
9 hours ago

Watford

He's done you a favour. The rubbish takes itself out sometimes.

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By *lackbootzMan
8 hours ago

Hayes, Middx


"I’m afraid that this site is just a huge, steaming pile of excrement nowadays..

All you seem to have is dirty straights talking about pussy..

And any gay men have one foot in the six feet under..

Or already have a boyfriend man friend or plural of these"

You sound fun. I can’t imagine why people aren’t clamouring to knock at your portals of positivity.

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By *3versMan
8 hours ago

glasgow

Ask Phil

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By *igbiguymike OP   Man
8 hours ago

redditch


"Ask Phil"

?

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By *olchBiMan
8 hours ago

Colchester

Yeah I would probably have blocked him the first time, def the second.

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
8 hours ago

FRANCE, no longer in

Don't see that this is anything to do with the site. The site works well, and you've obviously had great fun in the past with this guy because of the site.

What you have now is a guy that has changed personally because of something else in his life. Now it is time to block him and just move on.

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By *ull bi for funMan
8 hours ago

hull


"Ask Phil

?"

He's putting 2 and 2 together looking at your veri's

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By *lackbootzMan
8 hours ago

Hayes, Middx


"But of rant here but just want to see other people’s opinions.

I’ve met a guy quite a few times over the years of being on this site and always had good meets, however over the past few weeks he’s arranged to meet up on a few occasions so I’ve drove over to his only to be told when I pretty much there that he’s not feeling it now,.

Obviously this proper annoyed me so I told him so in a message, which was polite, however to my surprise I’ve got a response back that’s somewhat rude and not in a good way, I’ve gone to reply and he’s blocked me.

Honestly has anyone else had this as it’s starting to make me think this site isn’t worth being on anymore as it’s full of timewasters. "

You state that you’ve met this guy “quite a few times over the years” and “always had good meets”… Well, then clearly he’s not a timewaster! You were happy enough to go back for more, weren’t you?

However in recent times, you’ve gone there and he’s blown you out. Did you message with him to find out exactly what the problem was the first time this happened to you? If not - why not? Did you get reassurance it wouldn’t happen again? How many times have you allowed yourself to go to his for this rigmarole to be repeated? Did you not say to him - there’s no point me coming over if the same thing is going to happen again..? If not - why on earth not?!

Men are often not very accomplished at dealing with emotional choices. Maybe he decided he didn’t want to see you again but wasn’t man enough to say that unequivocally. Blowing you out repeatedly was supposed to make you take the decision to terminate things yourself. Your stroppy message probably allowed him the mechanism to say it’s your fault and block you. Much easier than him saying the truth: I’m not actually fussed with seeing you anymore.

You’ve had some good times with him. But it’s now ended. Move on. Why would that be the catalyst to throw a hissy fit and say that you might strop off the site as it’s not worth being on anymore?! You met him and had good times initially: all from this site. See the positives not the negatives. You can’t expect every man on here to be perfect or a gentleman or be interested in you forever etc.

Honestly sometimes it’s like reading the Letters Page of Girlfriend magazine here c 1960. Users are supposed to be grown men.

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