FabGuys.com forum: Meeting difficulties

By *dol1 OP Man
3 weeks ago

North Wexford

I want to have more meets but circumstances can prevent it from happening. I love sucking & wanking cock but it can be difficult to organise a meet due to timing issues and family commitments and I can’t accommodate. Does anyone else have the same problem? How do you find a work around?

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By *laine69TV/TS
3 weeks ago

peel

Hi it's a very common problem ,with no easy answers

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Preston

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By *ucker4you80Man
3 weeks ago

Chippenham

Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

U have the same problem l use the the excuse of birdwatching ....

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By *ave 6565Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *ave 6565Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Get a motor home great for meets xxx

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I generally have to schedule a day off work, and if the person I'm meeting can't accom either then it's a day rate hotel. I'm not doing it in a car

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By *ucksitupMan
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want. "

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

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By *arridMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton

People use a variety of excuses, travel, days off, illness, meetings, inspections…just use your imagination and plan ahead.

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Ardgay

Encourage your other half to go on holiday or nights away with family and friends.

Obviously someone has to stay at home to look after the dogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I want to have more meets but circumstances can prevent it from happening. I love sucking & wanking cock but it can be difficult to organise a meet due to timing issues and family commitments and I can’t accommodate. Does anyone else have the same problem? How do you find a work around?"

It’s the most frustrating thing ever.

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By *ucker4you80Man
3 weeks ago

Chippenham

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to ….."

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear.

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By *weetpee9853Man
3 weeks ago

Exeter

I have same i say fishing or football

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By *ucksitupMan
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear. "

Is that followed by the one for “Pointless Comments”?

Suggesting someone doesn’t look for a “Practical Solution” gets you my original nomination for dumbest and the latest one for pointless.

You may feel you are stating something that is “true” but in reality it’s just a biased opinion from someone who won’t meet anyone married.

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By *sabellatvTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Abingdon

I, like many, have the same problem.

I do have hobbies and activities that allow me to stay away from home in hotels. I use these opportunities.

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By *ustjack128Man
3 weeks ago

Wickford

Get a hobby your wife has no interest in, eg: walking photography etc. anything to get you out of the house for an hour or two x

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By *iketotry2000Man
3 weeks ago

Rhondda Fawr

I bought a foldup pushbike and go out for rides when weather is fine. Have been able to have meets with that as alibi.

I did have a legit hobby that required me to go out daytimes. I tried to have outdoor fun on way out and back.. plus invented hobby sessions just to create free time for meets or cruising.

Not my idea ..but one contact i have bought himself a set of golf clubs and tells family hes going to play a round lol.

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By *ucker4you80Man
3 weeks ago

Chippenham

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear.

Is that followed by the one for “Pointless Comments”?

Suggesting someone doesn’t look for a “Practical Solution” gets you my original nomination for dumbest and the latest one for pointless.

You may feel you are stating something that is “true” but in reality it’s just a biased opinion from someone who won’t meet anyone married. "

There's no opinion involved here, not sure where you're getting that from.

It's pretty basic; if there is a problem then the options are to negate the cause via a solution with the cause remaining, or remove the cause so no solution is required. Without casting any judgement around, it's probably not difficult to guess at what the root problem is here.

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By *cottishstevexMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Playing golf! Gives u about 4 hours

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By *23456abc1Man
3 weeks ago

Chineham

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear. "

😂😂😂

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

If you can’t accommodate, when you arrange some time alone try a sauna.

Gives you more options less likely to be let down

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

I'd say its not just you it's the way of the world...

When I lived at home my meets were in fields and roadside laybys. Fun and dangerous and a means to an end.

I thought once I get my own place I'd have a base to invite fellas too. It's still as dry as ever.

I do have more meets but I was expecting busloads of fellas to turn up for fun. More like the odd moped. Haha

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By *ucksitupMan
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear.

Is that followed by the one for “Pointless Comments”?

Suggesting someone doesn’t look for a “Practical Solution” gets you my original nomination for dumbest and the latest one for pointless.

You may feel you are stating something that is “true” but in reality it’s just a biased opinion from someone who won’t meet anyone married.

There's no opinion involved here, not sure where you're getting that from.

You may try to hide your opinion but it's clear. You state no married men on your profile and your solution is to remove the problem, which in this case is the fact that the OP is married with a family. You state that he shouldn't seek "Practical solutions" and then suggest what, to the majority of people in his situation, is totally impractical. Such "advice" is a nonsense and can only be the product of your personal bias. Many men on here juggle their sexuality and the fact they have a family. The OP was asking how they cope and didn't need your "one size fits none" approach.

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By *ull bi for funMan
3 weeks ago

hull

Plan plan and plan. Is all i can say.

Most of my meets are for a duration of 30 mins, hardly something to write home about i know, but it works for me.

Don't expect to meet every week, I reckon I get less than 10 a year but mostly due to opportunist meets, I.e leaving work early or also I can very rarely accommodate.

Also, chat and make contacts on here. It's amazing what can happen with pre planning.

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By *hubbyGinger76Man
3 weeks ago

Halesowen

Definitely have the same issue, have yet to find a resolution, have cammed a few times but in person would be better

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By *ucker4you80Man
3 weeks ago

Chippenham

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear.

Is that followed by the one for “Pointless Comments”?

Suggesting someone doesn’t look for a “Practical Solution” gets you my original nomination for dumbest and the latest one for pointless.

You may feel you are stating something that is “true” but in reality it’s just a biased opinion from someone who won’t meet anyone married.

There's no opinion involved here, not sure where you're getting that from.

'How they cope"?! Ah yes, let's start a support group for people who have to cope with this unfortunate situation they have been put in. I did not state the the OP shouldn't seek practical solutions, I suggested an alternative. I'm not dictating behaviour to people, just throwing a useful insight out there; obviously people are free to take it or leave it.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chandlers Ford

I can accom as live alone but doesn't mean get more meets, work during the day when quite few guys message then, so it's mainly afternoon/evenings which is when most can't meet, it would be nice to have a regular so could at least schedule meets

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By *wansmickMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm similar, I can't accom and I don't have a car so I rely on public and hotel meets. I do ok I suppose but without being able to accom it's always going to be difficult.

I just learn to enjoy when it does come together and ive had some good meets 👌👌

Make em count when you get them.

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By *ldmagic4uMan
3 weeks ago

Clevedon

Picking up a campervan in 2 weeks, cant wait lol

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By *om51Man
3 weeks ago

edinburgh

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear. "

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By *tephanie9090TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bishop

Thought retirement would give me all the time in the world to be Stephanie and enjoy NSA meets but its been the opposite.

Stepanie only has 3hrs on Tuesday afternoon to be fully en femme.

Soo difficult for her to have any NSA lovers...

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
3 weeks ago

England

I find some free time to visit the saunas, cruise bar at my convenience and always have great sex there not only with one person but in a group. First time fully naked in a group years ago with people watching made me feeling so good, a sense of freedom and felt comfortable with my body.

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By *awihMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Rather than looking at practical solutions, perhaps instead look at the cause of the problem. If you remove the cause then you can have all the meets you want.

And the prize for this year’s dumbest and least helpful answer goes to …..

I'm afraid I can't accept the prize as I'm busy at another award show where I'm receiving the prize for Saying Things Which are True but People don't Like to Hear.

Is that followed by the one for “Pointless Comments”?

Suggesting someone doesn’t look for a “Practical Solution” gets you my original nomination for dumbest and the latest one for pointless.

You may feel you are stating something that is “true” but in reality it’s just a biased opinion from someone who won’t meet anyone married.

There's no opinion involved here, not sure where you're getting that from.

Well I think to be fair, if people want to live a double life, they have to accept the consequences.

If that means it makes them unhappy or unfulfilled they either have to accept that and live with it, or change their situation (which of course has its own consequences) and live with it.

But you can’t just discount either option because you think the suggestion is someone else’s “personal bias”. Each individual needs to make their own personal assessment and decision of which option will give them their best life.

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By *ard8onMan
3 weeks ago

Darwen

I have one day per week on which I can definitely meet. I plan in advance and when it comes off I make the most of it. If it doesn't its not the end if the world

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Ditch the bitch

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By *inaCD66TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Wimbledon

"I can accom as live alone but doesn't mean get more meets, work during the day when quite few guys message then, so it's mainly afternoon/evenings which is when most can't meet, it would be nice to have a regular so could at least schedule meets "

Yep same Here. Bitch aint it. 😉 👄

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
3 weeks ago

penzance

My struggle is work, watch has got worse since the big storm, lots and lots of trees down. I work 7 days, starting early and by the end of the day I m covered in all kinds of crap, sweaty and totally done in..my self employed life was supposed to be easier but in actual fact, you end up working more and take little time off

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By *arydeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Staffs

Since my wife retired too, I don't accommodate but there's always fun to be had at Saunas (Tgirl days only for me) or adult cinemas both warm and safe with no pressure to do anything you don't want.

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By *foruseMan
3 weeks ago

brentwood

It’s best to be able to get away for a night or two if you want un hurried meets. Probably too late to develop a solo hobby like fishing or bird watching but if you can afford it a cheap flat in Spain or even a static caravan in the UK. That way you can always visit alone as it needs maintenance or day or two before you both visit to get it ready.

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By *ucker4you80Man
3 weeks ago

Chippenham

"It’s best to be able to get away for a night or two if you want un hurried meets. Probably too late to develop a solo hobby like fishing or bird watching but if you can afford it a cheap flat in Spain or even a static caravan in the UK. That way you can always visit alone as it needs maintenance or day or two before you both visit to get it ready. "

What the actual hell?! Obviously no one wants to just be honest with the Mrs, I'm sure that would be a difficult thing to do. Probably less difficult than that would be just not meeting men, have a wank instead and then take a hard look at your life choices. But the level of convolution here is just outright ridiculous, to suggest buying a static caravan of a flat in Spain all to have some gay sex?!? Good grief.

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By *ollo007Man
3 weeks ago

Pontefract

"Encourage your other half to go on holiday or nights away with family and friends.

Obviously someone has to stay at home to look after the dogs."
Typically when this happens no one else is free, or it's unverified new profiles with no pictures. I won't meet unverified guys Purley because I'm married and she doesn't know and unfortunately I had a bad experience (ebonymail) in this regard previously.

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By *amie87hMan
3 weeks ago

Poulton

Definitely a “hobby” and a regular guy. I try and get out at all times of the day and night because I like driving and walking and riding motorbikes.

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By *antuinmehotMan
3 weeks ago

ware

I’d love someone local that would dress me as he wanted me dressed. Then use me.

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By *londebiguyMan
3 weeks ago

near Southport

Timing and accommodation issues because you have a partner and/or children?

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By *vionxMan
3 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Yes that’s the same issue I have

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