FabGuys.com forum: Is accommodating a stranger too risky?

By *hancla OP Man
3 weeks ago

Bridgend area

As I can't travel now (no car.) Is it risky secretly inviting a stranger to your house when home alone? My family will be out in work in the day sometimes. I'm in the closet. I'm tempted but apprehensive about the possibility of them coming around when not invited in the future causing all sorts of problems.

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By *imbo2000Man
3 weeks ago

honiton

I met a chap outside a few times until I got a take on him and then invited him to mine,you only have to be around the corner to meet them and they still won’t know where you live struggle to think anyone would invite a stranger in to they’re home ???

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By *ernne67Man
3 weeks ago

Shoeburyness

Ive invited people that i never met before to my place chatted to them first on here .i never had a bad time

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
3 weeks ago

penzance

There is always a risk to be thought about. If you re meeting in secret then a stranger has that knowledge which could present a problem to that secrecy, this, I presume, is your family home. I wouldn t meet someone without knowing them first and trusting them.

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By *DC2000Man
3 weeks ago

Coningsby

I can accommodate and there's always an element of risk. In my situation the risk is slightly lessened but still there. You can only go by your instincts and don't let your dick rule your head! Make sure they have a few fairly recent verifications and look at those that have verified them. Although it's no guarantee, if you go for bisexual at least they might be in the same boat therefore have some empathy.

Main thing is: don't rush to bed someone. Most guys can't accommodate so you'll have plenty of offers.

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By *treyu500Man
3 weeks ago

wickow

I had dozens of guys over when I lived with family and nobody ever called back in uninvited. I've had 100s to my own home and it's never happened.

Even when I stayed with my parents at Xmas I had people over. They have a ring door bell. I just stood in front of it when I let the guy in. If anyone asked , I would have just told them I had a friend over.

I totally understand where you're coming from because I used to worry about that stuff too.

You're thinking worse case scenarios....

Then I "came out" and realised I was silly to think about justifying my actions to anyone. Of course , everyone's situation is different. If you think the stress and risk is too much for you to handle , don't do it.

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By *lan82Man
3 weeks ago

North Hykeham, Lincoln

Once upon a time.. long, LONG ago.. there WAS a time when I could accommodate.. those days are sadly over.. anyway.. there were a couple of times when I may have given my address to a random..

.. not only did they NOT fuck me.. or even SHOW UP..

.. I was broken into.. and NOT in the good way.. once they managed to open a window.. another time the door looked like it had been forced..

Maybe it’s a good thing I can’t host anymore..?

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By *V ShazTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Haydock

50 50 hotels

Or cars..

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By *uffolk420Man
3 weeks ago

Glemsford

Id never go to a persons house that iv not met in a public place first, some strange people out there, cams hidden for vid evidence? Hidden friends wanting a go too?

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By *IPMANMan
3 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

The days when I used to pick up a piece of trade in a bar, a park or the street..then whisk them back to my house are long gone.

I am too old now, but even if I was 20 years younger I would have to be more circumspect than I used to be. Although I only had 2 really bad experiences, I think there are more "freaks" out there than back in my heyday

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

I think based on personal circumstances. I'm single and live alone.

I don't do it often, but have anon meets in the dark in my kitchen. It was in the twinkling light of my tree over the festive season.

Warm. Dry. Private.

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By *lan82Man
3 weeks ago

North Hykeham, Lincoln

Fortunately I’ve never been murdered..

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

If Im having guys in my flat I've never met before I want them to have verifications to let you see there genuine had folk and decent.Would not entertain someone who hides verifications.To many weird folk out there and timewasters on here just want to chat all day.Peoples on for cock fun.No asking a rake of questions to someone with profile like you have to ask where's your likes etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I’ve often did it. The risk is the wife coming home from work, but that’s all part of the fun

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By *ackmeoviMan
3 weeks ago

wales

All my meets have being in the guys home no issues

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By *SArelaxedMan
3 weeks ago

weston s mare

I usually only invite guys who have previously been verified on here . Also I have an audio chat with them first on WhatsApp or Snapchat if possible. I think hearing how they communicate gives some sort of indication of character, though it’s not foolproof. I’ve never had any issues which worried me.

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By *urryheathbearMan
3 weeks ago

Camberley

I prefer cam wanks first to explore your tastes esoecially if yiur into kinky fun

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Reason I don't accom is a bad experience in the past. Had one guy back to my place, went to get more towels, leaving him in the bedroom. Discovered afterwards he had helped himself to some money, a watch and a few other bits. Never found the guy again (probably for the best) and never hosted since!

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By *ichy2022Man
3 weeks ago

SE Kent

Have only invited cd/tvs that I have met before either outdoors or at theirs and had lots of illicit fun.

First meet is always away from home.

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By *wansmickMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

A bad experience is one of the reasons I don't accom. That very scenario of someone (who in fairness I thought perfectly ok) turning up for some fun uninvited. It didn't cause a problem but that was more luck than judgement and soured the whole accom for me 👌

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"…struggle to think anyone would invite a stranger in to they’re home ???… "

🙄

Everyone’s a stranger until you’ve actually met them. Work colleagues, family off-shoots, the person who becomes your best friend in life.

This is a peculiarly craven philosophy.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… if you go for bisexual at least they might be in the same boat therefore have some empathy…"

So, gay men don’t do empathy..? OK. 🙄

Furtive married men hooking up with other furtive married men can be as empathetic as they like, but there is obviously lots more scope for disastrous revelation and being compromised. Why some bi men think that gay men have any interest in making their lives complicated is beyond me.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… Then I "came out" and realised I was silly to think about justifying my actions to anyone…"

✅ THE CORRECT ANSWER ✅

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Id never go to a persons house that iv not met in a public place first, some strange people out there, cams hidden for vid evidence? Hidden friends wanting a go too?

Giant vampire bats ready to suck your veins dry? Zombies with baseball bats? Portals to another dimension?

And BREATHE…

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By *astguy7Man
3 weeks ago

Herefordshire

I only meet people in the Gatehouse. My butler is nearby.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I only meet people in the Gatehouse. My butler is nearby."

I thought you assembled them in the Gatehouse, your private portrait artist took etchings and walked them up to the Chateau and you took your pick? (As long as it doesn’t get all too Holbein and Anne of Cleves.)

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Always a risk letting any stranger into your house. Even found that with tradesmen as not all of them can be trusted. Ideally would like to met on neutral territory before inviting them back to mine. Not always possible. So far been lucky.

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By *ruditus gentMan
3 weeks ago

Market Rasen

Yes. I made the mistake of trusting someone and inviting them to my old house. Fortunately I have moved and no longer have contact with that individual.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Do your due diligence and all should be fine. No need for hysterical paranoia. Essentially they are in the same boat as you. Be confident to tell them to fuck off if you feel anything is off, or they're not what you were expecting. Ive had 100s come to my house, some totally anon, and i've had no real trouble other than 1 cunt videoing an anon meet then plastering it over the internet. Due diligence is your friend here.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"…Do your due diligence and all should be fine. No need for hysterical paranoia..."

✅

But sadly so many do not do due diligence.

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By *jh59Man
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

Have accommodated once and I did not enjoy it as I felt on edge all the time

Prefer to visit as I find it more enjoyable and relaxing

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"…Do your due diligence and all should be fine. No need for hysterical paranoia...

✅

But sadly so many do not do due diligence. "

Not all the knives in the draw are sharp. Some are actually spoons.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Have accommodated once and I did not enjoy it as I felt on edge all the time

Prefer to visit as I find it more enjoyable and relaxing "

Why were you on edge all the time..?

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By *idingcockMan
3 weeks ago

Driffield

Darling there’s a risk crossing the road!

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By *b72Man
3 weeks ago

Moray

There’s probably the same risk inviting someone to your home as there is you going to their home

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

I hate to add to the paranoia so evidently present in this thread, but would like to share my experience as a warning. I met a guy on here with tons of veris, seemed really genuine. After our third meet at mine he confessed how lucky I had been as an out and proud gay man. After our second meet he had broken into my home, placed hidden cameras everywhere, and filmed all my deviant sexual exploits. He had managed to hack into my email address from FG, and said had I been a closeted married man he would have sent copies of said filth to everyone in my contacts. Narnia is indeed a jungle. Stay safe fellas.

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By *idingcockMan
3 weeks ago

Driffield

"I hate to add to the paranoia so evidently present in this thread, but would like to share my experience as a warning. I met a guy on here with tons of veris, seemed really genuine. After our third meet at mine he confessed how lucky I had been as an out and proud gay man. After our second meet he had broken into my home, placed hidden cameras everywhere, and filmed all my deviant sexual exploits. He had managed to hack into my email address from FG, and said had I been a closeted married man he would have sent copies of said filth to everyone in my contacts. Narnia is indeed a jungle. Stay safe fellas. "

A number of criminal offences were committed there; why didn’t you go to the Police?

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By *iley_Starr115TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Meeting a stranger anywhere has it's risks. Personally I prefer to host as I can control the environment

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

A number of criminal offences were committed there; why didn’t you go to the Police? "

He was a great fuck, so just laughed it off and carried on fucking him to be honest.

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By *ruditus gentMan
3 weeks ago

Market Rasen

A number of criminal offences were committed there; why didn’t you go to the Police?

He was a great fuck, so just laughed it off and carried on fucking him to be honest. "

Carried on fucking him even after he broke into your home and filmed you?

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

He was too good a fuck to pass by. The whole affair had a sort of Francis Bacon/George Dyer vibe. Was actually quite horny.

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By *damb00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

A number of criminal offences were committed there; why didn’t you go to the Police?

He was a great fuck, so just laughed it off and carried on fucking him to be honest. "

Jesus, the stuff people come out with on these forums, a guy broke into your house, placed hidden cameras, recorded you have sex, said he would have exposed you, and you just carried on hooking up? 😂

Try make it a little believable

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By *arcus51Man
3 weeks ago

Bridgwater

There is also a risk the guy who is accommodating could or has the potential to set up a secret video with out your knowing, may be add a sedative to a drink at the ready. may be have other friends waiting in another room you never know.

There are so many risks, I've been very lucky that I will only meet a guy who can accommodatevandcthey have been great hosts , can not do it myself as wife at home all day and kids come and go.

I'm thankful and totally respectful to all those guys who do accommodate and allow meets to happen. Any one who abuses the host should be named and shamed

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

You’re denying my reality? You’d get on well with my psychiatrist.

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By *lokenexdoor2025Man
3 weeks ago

Ludlow

A number of criminal offences were committed there; why didn’t you go to the Police?

He was a great fuck, so just laughed it off and carried on fucking him to be honest.

Try make it a little believable"

I thought his story would be great episode for The Night. Manager

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

I implore you to tell my editor that, I’ll cut you in if she says yes.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Perhaps attending some self defense lessons would give some of you guys the confidence to confront if it went wrong? A swift throat punch usuallynsees rhem out of the door. As for allowing yourself to be victim of a crime, and carrying on regardless, either you are utterly, utterly stupid, or he knew that was your dangerous sexual fetish. He might do it to someone else who isnt quite as desperate for the sex as you are.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bargoed

But isn't there an element of risk if you are the person visiting a strangers house? Works both ways.

There has to be an element of trust built up. Difficult when its a few words on a screen bit if for whatever reason you dont feel comfortable then dont go through with it. If the other person is genuine they should understand.

One.of the reasons why I like to chat to people over a few days before arranging a meet and get to know them a bit.

Not ideal for everyone as some just want a quick shag and be done with it.

But not everyone out there is a bad person, there are good ones too.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… There is also a risk the guy who is accommodating could or has the potential to set up a secret video with out your knowing, may be add a sedative to a drink at the ready. may be have other friends waiting in another room you never know… "

And ZOMBIES 🧟 🧟‍♀️ !!!!!!!!! Don’t keep forgetting the ZOMBIES!!!! There could be a legion of the walking undead stripping a corpse behind the door of his flat!!!!!

Oh, and Bubonic Plague. No one wants a bubo when all they wanted was a little cock-sucking.

It’s clearly best to stay at home with a nice cup of Darjeeling and a HobNob and wank in your wife’s panties. Safety First! 👍 ✅

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

"Meeting a stranger anywhere has it's risks. Personally I prefer to host as I can control the environment "

Same here. At least then I know my home is a good, clean and safe environment. I have hidden things like money and bank cards when hosting. I had things go missing once when I had workmen in the house. My stepfather had things 'illegally removed' by his own brother-in-law. So you never know.

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By *damb00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

People are way too paranoid on here

There’s a risk in both hosting and visiting, just use common sense and meet likeminded people

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bargoed

"People are way too paranoid on here

There’s a risk in both hosting and visiting, just use common sense and meet likeminded people "

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… I'm thankful and totally respectful to all those guys who do accommodate and allow meets to happen… "

Well, I did accommodate right up to reading this thread but you guys have completely changed my mind now! It’s terrifying! I’m dicing with death even going to the front door! So count that as one down on the accommodators. Soon the only person who will be prepared to accommodate is that deaf blind child with the whirring blow toy in the charity advert. Their innocence will protect them!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I will only let someone into mine if the have public verification and are verified.

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

"I will only let someone into mine if the have public verification and are verified."

Nearly everyone that encountered Dennis Nilsen said he was a lovely man...just saying.

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By *irsutemaleMan
3 weeks ago

notts

So he broke into your home after a second meet but you met him a third time??

Sounds nonsensical

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By *awsMan
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

When I had my own flat and first started hooking up with guys I use to accommodate, however following a number of unpleasant experiences I soon stopped.

I now live in a house share, but even if I still had my own home I wouldn’t consider inviting guys off these hook up sites! I know it’s probably only a small minority who cause problems, but with my luck I would still get them!!

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By *rickie-dickieMan
3 weeks ago

South Durham

I'd say it's a split risk. The guy visiting doesn't know the guy there isn't an axe murderer either. Drinks could easily be spiked, or cameras positioned around the house to record sexual acts that could later be used for extortion or outing someone.

I agree there's risk though

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By *awsMan
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I think you posted in the wrong section. Try posting this in stories and fantasies!

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By *ightlyfriedMan
3 weeks ago

bourne end

Life itself is a risk... That's why I always wear fresh clean underwear, who knows what that bus will do....

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"…even if I still had my own home I wouldn’t consider inviting guys off these hook up sites! … "

So - if everyone shared your mentality, no one would accommodate anyone else and there would be no meetings and this site would become redundant overnight… 😶

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By *ocky30Man
3 weeks ago

Wellingborough

Many, many years ago when I decided to be true to myself and family and threw open the door to the closet, I moved out of the family home into a flat on my own.

Back then there were no apps, meets were arranged through chatlines or the good old G-dar - some evenings the flat was busier than Kings Cross in rush hour and never a thought about the risks to be honest, it was just the freedom to do what I wanted and with whoever I wanted without worrying who got to know about it. And only once did somebody not make it through the front door.

Fast forward around 25 years and I don't know if it is age or experience or a combination of both, but would I just invite any random to come over now? Hell no!

If we have never met before I'm no longer desperate enough for cock that you get my address.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… Drinks could easily be spiked, or cameras positioned around the house to record sexual acts that could later be used for extortion or outing someone…"

BeJesus! What is it about you lot and secret cameras?! Why do you think you are so interesting and colourful that everyone wants to record you?

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By *astDevonGuyMan
3 weeks ago

East Devon

Some people won’t be content until we are all safely imprisoned in our own cell, living a sanitised life through their virtual reality goggles.

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By *damb00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

A lot of undiagnosed and untreated paranoia in this thread

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By *londebiguyMan
3 weeks ago

near Southport

"As I can't travel now (no car.) Is it risky secretly inviting a stranger to your house when home alone? My family will be out in work in the day sometimes. I'm in the closet. I'm tempted but apprehensive about the possibility of them coming around when not invited in the future causing all sorts of problems."

Go to a sauna

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

Go to a sauna"

Who’s to say there’s not hidden cameras in the sauna?! The drinks at the bar could be drugg£d by unscrupulous staff. Other men might break into your locker and steal personal items to blackmai1 and out you.

It’s really best to stay at home with all the doors firmly locked. Oh, and nail sheets of lead in place around the walls.

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By *ocky30Man
3 weeks ago

Wellingborough

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By *ocky30Man
3 weeks ago

Wellingborough

"Go to a sauna

It’s really best to stay at home with all the doors firmly locked. Oh, and nail sheets of lead in place around the walls. "

I was travelling for work a few years ago and ended up in Sydney for a month. Found a sauna not too far away from where I was staying and in one of the private cubicles there was a camera which was streamed to a couple of the TVs around the area near to it. Often wondered if anybody was watching while I was filling somebody's arse

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By *awsMan
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"…even if I still had my own home I wouldn’t consider inviting guys off these hook up sites! …

So - if everyone shared your mentality, no one would accommodate anyone else and there would be no meetings and this site would become redundant overnight… 😶"

I am explaining my preference not to accommodate and why, which I am quite entitled to do so. That’s my “mentality”.

I would be interested to see if you would still be so eager to accommodate if you had a number of bad experiences? People have their own minds and free will to chose to accommodate or not, I choose not too!

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"…even if I still had my own home I wouldn’t consider inviting guys off these hook up sites! …

So - if everyone shared your mentality, no one would accommodate anyone else and there would be no meetings and this site would become redundant overnight… 😶

I am explaining my preference not to accommodate and why, which I am quite entitled to do so. That’s my “mentality”.

I understood exactly what you meant. You are of course quite entitled to your preferences. The point I’m trying to get you to note is that if everyone else adopted your preferences then there would be zero meets. You do get that, don’t you..?

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By *yespy57Man
3 weeks ago

Hull

"Fortunately I’ve never been murdered.. "

I bet you have - you just never noticed.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… I would be interested to see if you would still be so eager to accommodate if you had a number of bad experiences?… "

I’ve had a variety of experiences over the years. A few people clearly not being honest with their pictures or their ages; a couple who had clearly taken drugs before they arrived and so were not to my mind in complete control of themselves; several not respecting boundaries during play; one who seemed more interested in my house than in me; etc.

These men were very quickly shown to the door, their follies explained to them in no uncertain terms. One with several fingers broken on a very memorable occasion.

I didn’t hide away from the realities of life and work on the basis other people would have to do all the accommodating thereafter. 🙄

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By *amantha111TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Beeston

I did it for years but I didn't realise at the time or take in the factor of people just randomly turning up when they've had a drink or having a personal crisis and expected me to be the emotional buffer for everyone, it backfired biggggg time lol but I did have good hearted intentions but I was also in my snowflake phase, but I enabled it but once I owned up to my own ignorance, I figured I had to learn actual discernment and accountability and my own boundaries, online if you can see the same pattern, it's up to each of us to have self agency, pretty much goes for all life actually lol. Have fun though, some awesome peeps on here

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By *ighway expressMan
3 weeks ago

Campbeltown

"I’ve often did it. The risk is the wife coming home from work, but that’s all part of the fun"

Uh oh.....looks like the wife might have come home .......😳

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By *regABCMan
3 weeks ago

blackhall

I've accimodated guys at home and jad them.pop.in when lasding it's ok but they oy do it when they are horny lol

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By *ighway expressMan
3 weeks ago

Campbeltown

Me, I booby trap the house like Macauley Culkin in Home Alone . My favourite is to throw marbles down the stairs while they're trying to run up after me, and then let the cannon off while they try to push the door open .....

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

It’s the bi curious guys who will just cum on your carpet without a second thought. Never ever get that with gay men. So I’ve learnt my lesson now. Everything is scotchguarded.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

" It’s the bi curious guys who will just cum on your carpet without a second thought. Never ever get that with gay men. So I’ve learnt my lesson now. Everything is scotchguarded. "

Are you able to put scotch guard over the hidden cameras?

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

They are out of shooting range.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… The whole affair had a sort of Francis Bacon/George Dyer vibe. Was actually quite horny. "

To be frank, considering it was you I’d imagined much more a Frances de la Tour / George Cole vibe.

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By *weddolMan
3 weeks ago

Chester

Over the years I've had one guy who decided he would come back and sit in his car parked outside the house on the off chance I'd invite him in, and one guy who I invited to a friend's house for a 3some decided he would just knock on the door whenever he was passing to see if he could get a bj.

It's low odds but weigh up whether just that one guy could fuck your life up or not.

If these situations arent going to be a problem, then game on. Otherwise give it a miss to play it safe for your circumstances.

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By *actilePigMan
3 weeks ago

LINCOLN

"… The whole affair had a sort of Francis Bacon/George Dyer vibe. Was actually quite horny.

To be frank, considering it was you I’d imagined much more a Frances de la Tour / George Cole vibe. "

I can only assume you’re referring to my love of cashmere overcoats and cigars? Because, if for one second you are implying that I remind you of FdlT, I’m sending those pics I have of you to your mum’s bridge group.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Do the zombies go to the saunas? Asking for a friend...

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… The whole affair had a sort of Francis Bacon/George Dyer vibe. Was actually quite horny.

To be frank, considering it was you I’d imagined much more a Frances de la Tour / George Cole vibe.

Oh Lordy! They’re all so gaga they’ll think I’m Frances de la Tour.

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By *arcus BezzantMan
3 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

Never had a problem, I mean the chances of two psychopaths meeting on a gay site must be pretty slim, and the guys I go for tend to be pretty and slim too, so not usually that tough.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"…Over the years I've had one guy who decided he would come back and sit in his car parked outside the house on the off chance I'd invite him in, and one guy who I invited to a friend's house for a 3some decided he would just knock on the door whenever he was passing to see if he could get a bj…"

Goodness me, don’t you need to a much better job with your choice of men.

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By *eefandfurMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Fewer than 23% of hook-ups result in robbery or murder.

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"I’ve often did it. The risk is the wife coming home from work, but that’s all part of the fun"

12 hours later and the above poster is gone. It's Friday, I wonder if his wife did actually come home early.

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By *ave 6565Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

There’s always going to be a small element of risk , but isn’t that where the excitement comes from , besides the most dangerous thing is the wife coming home early xx

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

A number of criminal offences were committed there; why didn’t you go to the Police?

He was a great fuck, so just laughed it off and carried on fucking him to be honest.

Try make it a little believable"

Some people really have trouble spotting when someone is spinning a yarn.

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By *bonybucksMan
3 weeks ago

High Wycombe

It can be, but as with anything in life, there are risks.

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By *ockey stickMan
3 weeks ago

Hounslow

If it's your family home then no.

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By *ockey stickMan
3 weeks ago

Hounslow

"It can be, but as with anything in life, there are risks. "
even more of a risk, especially in the op's case

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By *arlperksMan
3 weeks ago

nottingham

Every first meet for me was a stranger I just thought go for it

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By *heap charlieMan
3 weeks ago

Ringwood Hampshire

A single person then maybe as long as he doesn't tell you to snort any any white powder.

A couple of either sex absolutely NO

They take pictures of you in action with the girl...then threten you with black mail...

Frustrating as it is

I would not recommend

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

inviting anybody back to your place has always been risky. sometimes take a leap..

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By *arcus51Man
3 weeks ago

Bridgwater

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By *awsMan
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"… I would be interested to see if you would still be so eager to accommodate if you had a number of bad experiences?…

These men were very quickly shown to the door, their follies explained to them in no uncertain terms. One with several fingers broken on a very memorable occasion.

I didn’t hide away from the realities of life and work on the basis other people would have to do all the accommodating thereafter. 🙄"

Good for you!

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By *arcus51Man
3 weeks ago

Bridgwater

A I know some srveral that had issues accomodating a gent I met in 2024 explained how it could not get rid of a guy who came to visit, as he was the host and decided he was not as per his photos so the meet was cancelled immediately in his hallway.

Well the guy refused to leave saying he travelled to get her, after an hour he did leave just before his wife came home with the kids from school.

Another guy I met was who was hosting had his photo taken due to a falling out when meeting again photos not what they should be. Do the guy took a photo of him and threatened to share it around and find him on social medial with all his private messages. He ended up having to go to the police to sort it out.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"A single person then maybe as long as he doesn't tell you to snort any any white powder.

A couple of either sex absolutely NO

They take pictures of you in action with the girl...then threten you with black mail...

Frustrating as it is

I would not recommend "

It’s a known fact that every single man pushes you to snort white powder and every mf couple will black mail you!

And ZOMBIES!!!!! 🧟 🧟‍♀️ 🧟‍♂️

✅ 👍 Meet no one. Be safe and stay at home. Lock all doors. ✅ 👍

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"A I know some srveral that had issues accomodating a gent I met in 2024 explained how it could not get rid of a guy who came to visit, as he was the host and decided he was not as per his photos so the meet was cancelled immediately in his hallway.

Well the guy refused to leave saying he travelled to get her, after an hour he did leave just before his wife came home with the kids from school.

Perfect examples of why people MUST stay at home and NEVER leave the house.

This could happen to you EITHER hosting OR visiting. The only safe option is a full iron deep sea diving suit to protect and anonymise you on your way to the nuclear bunker. Because ZOMBIES are everywhere. Be safe. ✅

These things clearly have nothing to do with the stupid folly and falsehood of dicking about behind a spouse or partner’s back and it’s all because of the ZOMBIES.

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By *im le2Man
3 weeks ago

aylestone leic

I've been having guys round for about 50 years and never had any trouble. Just like you most guys are still in the closet so will not just turn up unannounced. Yes I get ppl text me asking if they can drop in if there passing by but you can always say no or ignore.

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By *illmymouth300Man
2 weeks ago

fleckney

Always a little nervous about giving out address. But if verified i am happy. Unverified just get the street and I keep an eye out for them. Lots do not show up so best way

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By *londebiguyMan
2 weeks ago

near Southport

Well the guy refused to leave saying he travelled to get her, after an hour he did leave just before his wife came home with the kids from school.

Perfect examples of why people MUST stay at home and NEVER leave the house.

These things clearly have nothing to do with the stupid folly and falsehood of dicking about behind a spouse or partner’s back and it’s all because of the ZOMBIES. "

True that.

It was a hot zombie that murdered me the first time and ate my flesh clean off me.

I was much more wary after that I can tell you.

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By *lexieMan
2 weeks ago

Just north of Southampton

"… Drinks could easily be spiked, or cameras positioned around the house to record sexual acts that could later be used for extortion or outing someone…

BeJesus! What is it about you lot and secret cameras?! Why do you think you are so interesting and colourful that everyone wants to record you?"

You really don't know? You shouldn't go out alone if so, d'oh!

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By *ade crossTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chiselhurst

I meet new guys away from the house see if we click see if my inbuilt alarms don't go off. Then if it seems ok invite them back

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By *lexieMan
2 weeks ago

Just north of Southampton

"Go to a sauna

It’s really best to stay at home with all the doors firmly locked. Oh, and nail sheets of lead in place around the walls.

Well, this is an easy one... the cameras belonged to Sydney University! You must have heard of them... Gay Hub Central!

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By *owboy1975Man
2 weeks ago

here

I’ve met a few blokes at their place, but I do struggle with the idea of inviting someone to my home, I have however had a a few blokes come to my work place

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By *hototed54Man
2 weeks ago

leeds

I have been to a few houses of married guys while the wife was out and been married myself makes us kind of in the same boat but their needs to be an element of trust too

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

"I'd say it's a split risk. The guy visiting doesn't know the guy there isn't an axe murderer either. Drinks could easily be spiked, or cameras positioned around the house to record sexual acts that could later be used for extortion or outing someone.

I agree there's risk though

That is the most tedious part of a meet. Arranging all the hidden cameras and getting the lighting right.

Trying to make it sound casual as you reposition them to get clear face pics.

Then there’s the sound recording.

It’s always an idea to clone their phone while they’re there as well and ensure the fingerprint reader on the door handles are active. It’s a full time job

That’s why I guess a lot of people mention they can’t meet at the drop of a hat. These things take time, people!

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By *astDevonGuyMan
2 weeks ago

East Devon

Being doing it for years , no problem or troubles at all.

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By *uvfeetluvcock2Man
2 weeks ago

Sunningdale

I’ve met many guys in their homes and it’s not been an issue with them as I always assure the person and let them know who I am and that I am a genuine meet…in fact most of my meets have been at the persons home and in their bed and it’s up to the person whether they feel I am a threat or not!

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By *edsBlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Stotfold

Like any meet there is an element of risk. I am very careful when I can accom; on saying that I made a mistake inviting a chap who seemed sane and easy going last year and it was an unsatisfactory error. Live and learn, and whilst I prefer regular action, no repeat ever offered to him.

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By *ldHoleBSEMan
2 weeks ago

Bury St Edmunds

I would only accommodate someone I've met and trusted and even then it makes me nervous. My first marriage was ruined because a guy I had accommodated decided he would turn up, I was at work and wife was home. He described our bedroom to her and how he'd made me suck him off on our bed. divorce followed and that's my lesson learnt.

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By *mk.Man
2 weeks ago

newq

Ive always been sceptical about inviting strangers to come over but when horny & they are close by...common sense goes out of the window & my dick takes over! Luckily ive never had any issues!!

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… meet new guys away from the house see if we click see if my inbuilt alarms don't go off… "

Must be a bit disquieting to the others in Gregg’s when you start emitting klaxon screams…

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

I agree there's risk though

That is the most tedious part of a meet. Arranging all the hidden cameras and getting the lighting right.

Trying to make it sound casual as you reposition them to get clear face pics.

Then there’s the sound recording.

It’s always an idea to clone their phone while they’re there as well and ensure the fingerprint reader on the door handles are active. It’s a full time job

That’s why I guess a lot of people mention they can’t meet at the drop of a hat. These things take time, people! "

Getting the married men to say out loud their wives’ names and that of their employers for the hidden microphones can make for such stilted conversation. There’s only so many times you can say “Can you just say that name once again, please?” because they’re mumbling into a HobNob. And I find having to scroll through all the secretly captured video footage so tedious. It can take hours and hours. I’ve ended up employing a full-time film editor just to work up the black mail tapes.

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By *andomguy321Man
2 weeks ago

reading

Not as risky as cruising through some woods at 1am .... and hoping that the half-seen figures lurking about in the darkness are there for the same reason you are.

Crazy when I look back now ... But fuck, it was thrilling!

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By *issy SiMan
2 weeks ago

Horsham

How else are people going to meet. If both parties are unwilling to accommodate thst just leaves cold and miserable outdoors or expensive hotels. And I imagine it's just as risky for the other person walking into someone's house for the first time. They are most likely wanting as much discretion as you

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By *lenheimMan
2 weeks ago

Woodstock

It also works the other way, I went to a guy's house in Gloucester a few years back, whist I nipped to the loo the bastard took £200 from my wallet, So I now never take anything of value to a meet

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By *SArelaxedMan
2 weeks ago

weston s mare

Good thinking. I always am careful with wallets etc

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