FabGuys.com forum: Can host but won't...

By *ullmytrigger OP Man
3 weeks ago

Crewe

Hi everybody,

Just wondering if there are guys out there that say they can't host on their profile but they can but choose not too because maybe they want to get to know the guy before meeting?

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By *tephanieTVbtmTV/TS
3 weeks ago

skewen

"Hi everybody,

Just wondering if there are guys out there that say they can't host on their profile but they can but choose not too because maybe they want to get to know the guy before meeting? "

I’m sure there are loads of us

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Makes perfect sense.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Oh yes! I had a bad experience some years ago when I had some stuff taken by a guy I had hosted. NEVER AGAIN!

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By *amie2018cMan
3 weeks ago

north cambs

Well after a couple of bad experiences hosting I’m more careful in vetting who crosses my threshold

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Too many guys have unrealistic expectations so I'm way more choosy.

I'm online so fucking what doesn't mean I'm available.

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
3 weeks ago

cockermouth

I just don't, because it's my safe place and no one comes in it

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By *lim_sportyMan
3 weeks ago

stevenage

"I just don't, because it's my safe place and no one comes in it"

I've heard this one a number of times and I think it's the main reason. Which is fine, however we feel comfortable.

For me I'm much more comfortable hosting in my space than someone's else's.

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By *im le2Man
3 weeks ago

aylestone leic

A couple of my str8 mates can accom but prefer to use my place. I don't mind because I get to watch.

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By *hil96Man
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Be the safe thing to do, untill you get to know them.

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By *ondonjeansMan
3 weeks ago

Australia / London WC1

Many of us who accommodate take the view that it's a privilege not a right to come into our home. And it's our rules, in my case that includes showing pics and meeting in a neutral public location nearby so we can both change our minds. Then if it's one of the large number of no-shows, a complete stranger doesn't know precisely where I live.

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By *amie2018cMan
3 weeks ago

north cambs

"Many of us who accommodate take the view that it's a privilege not a right to come into our home. And it's our rules, in my case that includes showing pics and meeting in a neutral public location nearby so we can both change our minds. Then if it's one of the large number of no-shows, a complete stranger doesn't know precisely where I live."

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

It perfectly feasible to get to know a guy before inviting them into your home. It can take weeks or it can take 5 minutes. Due diligence is the most important factor in risk assessment, and all the ticks needs to be green. Those who could host, but won't, should understand their choice is limiting only them, nobody else. If that choice doesn't work for the other guy, they will just move on to the next person.

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By *ickSeekerMan
2 weeks ago

Canterbury

Definitely, and so it should be! 🏠 🚶🏽‍♂️

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By *anDadBodMan
2 weeks ago

Speke

would never host a guy off here until i got to know them and that is after meeting them somewhere in public first.

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By *annabe-SlutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Colchester

Yep. I could host but worry about neighbours mainly, I do get tempted now and then though

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By *enayrshMan
2 weeks ago

ayr

I’ve hosted when I’m alone a couple of times.

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By *lowSubMan
2 weeks ago

Northampton

I would love to host but I live in a terrace with v thin walls and I like to scream... Can host when neighbours are away... Few times I have have been great with no trouble unless I begged for it..😜

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I’ve hosted on the rare occasions I’ve had the house to myself and I know I’m not going to be disturbed and so far, touch wood, I’ve not invited any trouble into my home. But it’s a risk, inviting complete strangers to the house.

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By *andy XXXMan
2 weeks ago

Staveley

Sadly constraints

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By *jw58Man
2 weeks ago

Newport

Yes sometimes people assume just because I'm single, retired and have my own place they can just invite themselves around any time and I'll be here ever ready .

As many have said it's my home and I can be as choosy as I want.

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By *os001Man
2 weeks ago

Oxford

Just because I can host, doesn't mean I'm always available to and agree with some of the other comments, I won't invite someone round within minutes of messaging.

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