FabGuys.com forum: Getting harder

By *inimee1 OP Man
2 weeks ago

im near you now

Is it me or is it a lot more difficult to arrange a meet now on here with genuine guys

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By *autiously_curiousMan
2 weeks ago

Craigavon

Definitely seems to be the running vibe. Think a lot of guys are on the explore if its for them. And it isn't quite, so they talk the talk, have a wank and ghost.

Also a lot more profiles to hard to find guys that you are actually compatible with too. I find most guys I chat to, wirhin an hour I realise they're not being truthful or start talking about creepy stuff

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

Sorting the wheat from the chaff is a lot harder but not impossible.

The world is against us with distance, sexual position, drive or host but I still get a little fun.

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By *iFlyGuyMan
2 weeks ago

Visiting

Now that was a misleading title!!

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By *ennthebigMan
2 weeks ago

Erdington

Too hard. Lots of idiots and time wasters

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

Does seem to be more difficult now (since Covid) a few people I'd met regularly or had an online rapport with seemed to disappear post Covid, I get a lot of attention, but converting that attention in to meets is pretty much impossible, far too many guys now want instant gratification and are not really interested in arranging a meet that is mutually suitable, others talk the talk then go quiet when shit is getting real and there's a real possibility that they will have to go through with it and actually have sex with a man.

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By *aid2TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Swindon

I've been on and off the site for around a decade. It was a lot easier pre COVID. There are still plenty of genuine people on here though, they are just a bit rarer than before. I usually go by someone's veris to tell if they are genuine or not.

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

"I've been on and off the site for around a decade. It was a lot easier pre COVID. There are still plenty of genuine people on here though, they are just a bit rarer than before. I usually go by someone's veris to tell if they are genuine or not. "

I wonder if this is because a lot more people work from home since Covid

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By *rient_topMan
2 weeks ago

Huntingdon

I was never looking to shag my way around the county, so now I pop on and have a look around out of boredom/ curiosity then log off.

I’m lucky in that I’ve found a regular friend and it seems to work for us.

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By *tokerY2OMan
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth

So this isnt a jab at any type on here.

But its a fact that were seeing an increase in girls on here (cds/trans etc) and their admirers.

Also a lot of the married guys from fabswingers came over in the pandemic.

The increase in curious guys has meant not as many meets happen.

When it was mostly gay guys we were more likely to actually meet.

Again that not gatekeeping but just a reality of fabguys these days.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

"So this isnt a jab at any type on here.

But its a fact that were seeing an increase in girls on here (cds/trans etc) and their admirers.

Also a lot of the married guys from fabswingers came over in the pandemic.

The increase in curious guys has meant not as many meets happen.

When it was mostly gay guys we were more likely to actually meet.

Again that not gatekeeping but just a reality of fabguys these days. "

Maybe you are right to some extent, however there's always been people on here that are also on Fabswingers so I don't think that has any real significance.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Finding it harder not sure if its the weather or if there are more dreamers here

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By *raham999Man
2 weeks ago

OX11

Agree with comments on this, since COVID it has changed.

But just requires a little patience generally I find verified meets and on line regularly.

Accomodating is a problem which for me as I am married and also being available at the right time.

But always worth the wait.

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By *illitMan
2 weeks ago

Knaresborough

"Is it me or is it a lot more difficult to arrange a meet now on here with genuine guys "

Seems the norm of late

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2 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

It does seem to be getting a bit more full of time wasters. Had a meet a few months back but he never showed and was supposed to meet someone a few weeks back but he just ghosted me last minute

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By *ensualblokeMan
2 weeks ago

London /Colchester

Its always been tricky- filtering out the bull-shitters and the dreamers on here- I think many guys have found their 'regular' mates now and stick to them.

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

I'm clearly an outlier on this thread, or perhaps guys who are getting meets aren't commenting, but that's not been my experience.

I get more offers than I could possibly attend, mostly due to guys location ( does, I wish we were closer sound familiar) and I'm generally more discerning about who and where I meet.

Fabs been good to to me, in Fact I've had 3 of the best sessions I've ever had in the past 3 or 4 weeks.

Good guys arev still out there🙂

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By *actilePigMan
2 weeks ago

LINCOLN

As above. Have more offers than I could ever possibly accept. Met some incredible men, and continue to do so. Why, as recently as last night I had a wonderful session with a handsome, sexy fella that I met on here. Have no complaints whatsoever.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

Thinking back on an earlier post I made, yes it's got harder but I probably don't help myself, I don't make first moves, I rarely wink unless someone has winked at me and I'm more inclined to decline offers where in the past I'd have gone for it, problem being, post Covid I discovered gay saunas so I can get all the casual, low emotion sex there, for me to meet I need to have a good feeling that it's going to be special.

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By *ornyguy772Man
2 weeks ago

not too far

Definitely, too many like the idea but won’t commit. Ghosting is big, my block list is getting bigger lol. Wish we could have a code or something to show we meet - not just verifications. What currently boils my piss is ‘great profile, what you in to’? Put you glasses on mate or learn to f’ing read

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By *rum39Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Nearly impossible the amount of time and money I’ve wasted is unbelievable

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I seem to have more luck on swingers, though the guys I meet on there don't want anyone knowing they've shagged another bloke, so veris are few and far between. I do get guys comming back for more as well.

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By *archcocktailMan
2 weeks ago

March

I get a lot of men wanted to meet at lunch time during the week at my house unfortunately I work and then just disappear, I find sauna for getting my cock sucked and sucking three or four cocks and going to a swinging club on a bi event and meet a couple and suck the husband cock as she watches us .

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

I wouldnt say getting a meet is harder. Sorting the wheat from the chaff is definitely more prevalent these days though. There is a lot of chaff on here!

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By *bear67Man
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

Back in the summer it was easy to get meets but it's so much harder now. Surely it can't just be down to the weather?

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By *inaCD66TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Wimbledon

"Is it me or is it a lot more difficult to arrange a meet now on here with genuine guys "

No.. just takes a bit of digging in their profile. Loads of stand up guys

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

"I seem to have more luck on swingers, though the guys I meet on there don't want anyone knowing they've shagged another bloke, so veris are few and far between. I do get guys comming back for more as well."

I'm on Fabswingers and yes I get a lot of attention however, it's mostly from guys pretending to be straight so they don't put the ladies off, I refuse to have anything to do with fake straights, means I miss out on a few meets but I'm not that desperate for sex.

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By *izzitMan
2 weeks ago

stockport

Any reason you won’t have anything to do with this group?

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

Any reason you won’t have anything to do with this group?"

Because they put straight on their profile. That means a) If they really are straight why are they interested in me? and b) They put straight on their profile to lie to the ladies who they know will be put off if they were honest about their sexuality.

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Never deserate for sex, but when I'm looking, then I'm looking, and why not let a 'straight' guy who's looking let him have his fun too. As long as there's some sort of spark there, then I don't have a problem. Don't forget, I'm using him just as much as he's using me.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

Because they aren't really straight, many of them have profiles on here, they say they're straight so the ladies aren't put off, that's dishonest.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Loads of timewasters on here make it harder to sort out the genuine guys

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By *obbieng56Man
2 weeks ago

London

Is hard because too many dreamers and keyboard wankers most are married and full of it

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Because they aren't really straight, many of them have profiles on here, they say they're straight so the ladies aren't put off, that's dishonest."

Dishonest maybe, but most of the 'bi' guys on here are doing the same thing. I don't really bother with the label anyone wants to put on themselves, if they're up for it, and I'm up for it, then I can't see a problem with it.

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By *rMagicFingersMan
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"I'm clearly an outlier on this thread, or perhaps guys who are getting meets aren't commenting, but that's not been my experience.

I get more offers than I could possibly attend, mostly due to guys location ( does, I wish we were closer sound familiar) and I'm generally more discerning about who and where I meet.

Fabs been good to to me, in Fact I've had 3 of the best sessions I've ever had in the past 3 or 4 weeks.

Good guys arev still out there🙂"

There's only one thing for it: we're going to have to live our sex lives vicariously through yours 😂

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By *9OralSubMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Is it me or is it a lot more difficult to arrange a meet now on here with genuine guys "

Definitely harder mate

Or maybe I'm just picky

But I need. A guy to have a decent cock or it's not worth meeting

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By *ibrum2025Man
2 weeks ago

round the corner

Like getting blood from a stone just lately, easy getting a cock sucker but come on ffs, and dreamer bottoms🙄 must be getting plenty or something 🤷‍♂️

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

True but pretending to be straight just gives me the ick

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

True but pretending to be straight just gives me the ick"

Each to their own mate... lets enjoy the freedom we have whilst we still have it.

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By *aul349Man
2 weeks ago

North of the Tyne

"Also a lot more profiles to hard to find guys that you are actually compatible with too."

I'm finding lots of genuine guys are getting more picky than before. They are unwilling to meet someone who is 80% compatible... This is a hookup site not a dating site...

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"Also a lot more profiles to hard to find guys that you are actually compatible with too.

I'm finding lots of genuine guys are getting more picky than before. They are unwilling to meet someone who is 80% compatible... This is a hookup site not a dating site...

You're bang on right there mate... guys looking for nothing but perfection, and failing to admit that they themselves are actually a compromise for the other guy.

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By *eardedbiblokeMan
2 weeks ago

scunthorpe

It becomes harder with age I find.

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By *XXBlackcatXXXMan
2 weeks ago

NEWBURY

Mmmm i dont find age an issue

This site is is now a bit of a minefield just very challenging navigating around the picture hunters , dreamers , Keyboard wankers , time wasters & married guys ,

None of whom can accommodate & most want to meet during the working week

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By *waff1102Man
2 weeks ago

King's Lynn, Norfolk

"Its always been tricky- filtering out the bull-shitters and the dreamers on here- I think many guys have found their 'regular' mates now and stick to them."
I have a few regular mates and find that works. It's rare for anyone new to pop up and if they do, they are not my type

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By *yleLMan
2 weeks ago

Burnley

"Is it me or is it a lot more difficult to arrange a meet now on here with genuine guys "

Yep its mich harder than it used to be.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

I'm finding lots of genuine guys are getting more picky than before. They are unwilling to meet someone who is 80% compatible... This is a hookup site not a dating site...

It's not about looking for a date, it's about sexual compatibility, for me far too many tops want to use or destroy arse, fuck mouth, basically after rough sex, also there's the sub/dom thing, the daddy thing, guys that won't kiss, guys that just want mutual wanking whilst watching straight porn, guys that want you to travel a 40 mile round trip just for a blow job in the bushes. Being picky just means only choosing guys that want what you want, it doesn't mean looking for love.

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