Ever been in a sexual situation so intense you cried?
A BDSM event that hurt so much?
A brutal fucking?
How did you feel, both at the time and afterwards.
Have you ever asked or wanted that (I've seen it in profiles occasionally)?
Or have you as Top or Dom made someone cry? Did they want that?
Did it turn you on? Did ypu feel bad.
(I was once fucked so painfully I cried, and it really excited him, kind of vicious spiral. I hated it at the time, but after a few weeks the memory turned me on and became a wank fantasy. The first true sadist I met, learned a lot)
When we were together, my ex lost his Dad.
He initiated it, but after funeral where he'd been out talking and shaking hands all day, hugs from everyone he came home shattered, me too, as I'd been making cups of tea all afternoon...we settled down for sex.
He kinda wouldn't stop talking as he entered me as his brain was firing on all cylinders too. He built rhythm and went quiet.
He came inside me and then burst into tears. Our sex was always really good but I guess his emotions where everywhere. It was more than just a sexual release but also an emotional one.
He'd usually spoon me, but that night he fell asleep in my arms. Woke up in more or less same position. He gave me a cheeky wink, a kiss and a mouthed 'thank you' in the morning.
