FabGuys.com forum: The death of dogging/cruising

Newcastle

I wasnt sure I wanted to post this, as it may get some people's backs up or lead to an inbox of grief. However I also feel I need a rant.

So theres a popular cruising spot up near my home. I wont name it, for reasons im about to discuss. Its currently being monitored by police and is also situated opposite a large store. Its a layby behind some trees, which during the winter have no leaves on.

I've drove past twice today, out of curiosity ive looked through the trees. Both times ive seen men doing some sort of sexual activities. Its not me suspecting that, it was blatantly obvious. Then theres the litter, now I cant blame Doggers for the bottles of piss or all of the rubbish, but tissues, condoms, wrappers, other sex related litter, all spread in the trees and along the sides.

What im getting at, is theres often posts on here complaining dogging is hard, theres no spots, etc, yet people are making it harder for everyone. Why cant people pick up the condom and bin it, dont shag opposite the entrance of a store during opening times, make it a bit more inconspicuous amd discreet.

I love cruising, when its darker and less people around, especially those who may not support what goes on, I get that married guys are limited on time and other factors. But surely we want to protect these spots and not bring it to the attention of the police or authorities like council.

Any ways rant over, probably going to get winged at or someones going to cry about what ive said, but I just cant get my head around why people treat it like shit, but then complain theres no where to go.

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By *roy1701dMan
2 weeks ago

London

Totally agree. I love cruising and the place I go is great except people throw their tissues, condoms and wrappers on the ground when there are bins around. Now it is patrolled by police. It is the second place I have found that has been ruined by others

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By *londebiguyMan
2 weeks ago

near Southport

Totally agree.

People are lazy shites who can't take their rubbish home with them to dispose of it properly.

Destroys the countryside and affects nature.

They're scum.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Sex litter seems to have co- evolved with HIV and safe sex sachets. You seldom saw a nodder in the old days and guys just took a tube of KY on site.

Exhibiting oneself seems to be a product of porn. Guys used to vanish into the undergrowth in my era! Now they think it's erotic to display.

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By *idingcockMan
2 weeks ago

Driffield

A cruising ground near shops is always going to attract Police attention. In the middle of nowhere nobody is going to mind and the Police don’t have the resources to waste. The litter is gross I agree and the condom wrappers won’t rot down.

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By *ortheastFarmer OP Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

The spot in question, has several bins which do get emptied.

But its not just this one spot, theres many the same.

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By *ortheastFarmer OP Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

"A cruising ground near shops is always going to attract Police attention. In the middle of nowhere nobody is going to mind and the Police don’t have the resources to waste. The litter is gross I agree and the condom wrappers won’t rot down. "

When I say store, its one building thats open 8 till 530 and is on the very outskirts of a town, so after it closes, the road isn't to busy and its far enough out the way for the police not to bother much, well never used to anyways

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

I agree. I live near regularly cruised forestry. The layby is amazing for cruising but its peoples behaviour when there.

I've seen a naked fella walking about. Same litter you mention. There is one guy too who I just don't like as he comes right up to your window and looks in whilst grabbing his crotch.

It's intimidating to newbies. Pisses veterans off and just draws unnecessary attention... 🚗 🌳

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

It’s all sorts of shit though. In one lay-by near me it’s condoms, packets, takeaway containers, alcohol boxes and even pillows and blankets. It’s fucking awful, dirty scummy cunts who leave that shit for others to pick up.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"It’s all sorts of shit though. In one lay-by near me it’s condoms, packets, takeaway containers, alcohol boxes and even pillows and blankets. It’s fucking awful, dirty scummy cunts who leave that shit for others to pick up."

Burtree near Darlington is now a fly- tippers drop- off. Shit attracts shit.

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By *etterbiggerMan
2 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Near me they built a wall from branches and bits of wood to hide behind. Bare compacted soil and condom packets. A give away to the police. Another cruising spot shut down and trees partially cleared. Naked men and sexual activity observed by horse riders on the bridle way to the back of the woods. Stay in the middle and use a bit of common sense

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By *ortheastFarmer OP Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Im not trying to blame all the mess on doggers/guys cruising, nor am I trying to say its every person, like I use the bins or pop it in a bag in the car till I get home or find a bin.

However as someone's said before, theres also a increasing lack of respect for a person there. Ive had a few guys in the past 5/6 months ive said no to, who've tried to be pushy and wouldnt take no for an answer.

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By *elbiMan
2 weeks ago

telford

I will not use mine because of the mess, its a turn off, even for a kinky perv like me.

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By *hubbyGayTraffordMan
2 weeks ago

Stretford

I would agree too. There are a couple of parks that I walk n there are tell tale signs left behind.

Especially when a bin is right near to it too.

Too cold for me to cruise until late Spring .Not good seeing sex litter out n about though.

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By *or one nught onlyMan
2 weeks ago

dundee

Goes to show , men and gay men in particular ,really are just a primitive bunch of monkeys when it comes to the thought of emptying their sacks

Crass not class

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By *ortheastFarmer OP Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Goes to show , men and gay men in particular ,really are just a primitive bunch of monkeys when it comes to the thought of emptying their sacks

Crass not class "

Like anything, it will be the minority spoiling it for the majority.

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By *eefandfurMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A lot of people are willing to ignore sexual activity if it's discreet. Not the first time I've heard of an area being targeted by police, council or locals mainly because of the obvious discarded litter.

Simple, clean up after yourselves! Pigs!

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By *ade crossTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Agree wish guys n gurls would clear up after there fun.

As a tv who cruises it needs to be discreet easy to draw attention to yourself. And yes some guys get pushy thinking your going to fuck all comers.

Respect is needed for the place the people using it and passers by.

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By *ubblebootyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Park Gate

Totally agree. I miss the days of excitement of getting in someone's car to suck them off but lately I've been very cautious

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By *appyhelperMan
2 weeks ago

Durham

Same around me, as a walker the two cruising and dogging spots near me have gone from fairly discreet to totally obvious what goes on there after dusk. Most mornings a selection of used condoms and general filth just strewn on the ground or in the tree branches, barely two foot from the car parks.

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Berkshire

There’s a huge lay-by close to me which is re known for its day time and nighttime activities there are lots of trails and trees, bushes etc where 99.9% of guys go so not to draw attention plus there are bin bags discreetly scattered hanging out for litter. BUT !! and it is a big but, there’s a weird tranny that’s walks up and down the lay-by in full view of everyone wearing a fucking wedding dress day and night !!!!

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By *andomguy321Man
2 weeks ago

reading

"There’s a huge lay-by close to me which is re known for its day time and nighttime activities there are lots of trails and trees, bushes etc where 99.9% of guys go so not to draw attention plus there are bin bags discreetly scattered hanging out for litter. BUT !! and it is a big but, there’s a weird tranny that’s walks up and down the lay-by in full view of everyone wearing a fucking wedding dress day and night !!!!"

Are you sure it's not Sarah Ferguson .... Desperately seeking a new husband.

[She does look dog rough these days]

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By *moothOlderMan
2 weeks ago

LEEDS

Very popular spot near me which sees a lot of action, even this time of year. In summer you almost have to book in! Both myself and my alter ego LaviniaCD are known to visit....

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Berkshire

Are you sure it's not Sarah Ferguson .... Desperately seeking a new husband.

[She does look dog rough these days]"
ha ha it may well be 😂

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By *rMagicFingersMan
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"Goes to show , men and gay men in particular ,really are just a primitive bunch of monkeys when it comes to the thought of emptying their sacks

Crass not class "

Well this gay man doesn't go dogging or cruising, so try not to tar all of us with the same brush.

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Estepona Spain Not in

Fully agree with the sentiments of the OP. It spoils the opportunity for the rest of us and always ends up with the police having to do something about it.

But then isn't this a sign of the times were so many people just do not care any more and it is all me me and me.

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By *ortheastFarmer OP Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

See this is good, theres places for rubbish and to make it discreet, not at the roadside taking a cock or sucking one off. Mind not sure about the person walking around in a wedding dress, that would raise some eyebrows and get attention thats not needed. However I could be wrong.

However it sounds like a good spot, so i hope it stays tidy and respected, unlike some up my way, which have just been abused.

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By *iassloverMan
2 weeks ago

Rugby

There's a sire not far from me (Or should I say, WAS a site) where they've built loads of huge warehouses on the field. You used to head to the den where it was discreet but now it's a building site.

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Berkshire

However it sounds like a good spot, so i hope it stays tidy and respected, unlike some up my way, which have just been abused. "
pretty much all the cruising / dogging locations around my way have black bin liners etc but as I say the idiot tranny is an absolute nightmare. Although as someone else mentioned earlier it might just be Fergie 😳

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"Goes to show , men and gay men in particular ,really are just a primitive bunch of monkeys when it comes to the thought of emptying their sacks

Crass not class "

I think you'll find not many of the guys cruising are gay. Most will be bi on the way home from work.

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By *inkysoxMan
2 weeks ago

Ingoldmells

I've literally litter picked local to me cruise areas before to try and help keep our activities more discreet. Be good if more guys did the same, obviously it will always happen but we can try and help to make the area more pleasant, and maybe keep the authorities at bay too! "Be a leader not a follower" and clean up after ourselves.

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By *ortheastFarmer OP Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

"I've literally litter picked local to me cruise areas before to try and help keep our activities more discreet. Be good if more guys did the same, obviously it will always happen but we can try and help to make the area more pleasant, and maybe keep the authorities at bay too! "Be a leader not a follower" and clean up after ourselves. "

I have suggested this before and I was the only person who turned up haha.

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By *inkysoxMan
2 weeks ago

Ingoldmells

I have suggested this before and I was the only person who turned up haha. "

Well one is better than none!

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Goes to show , men and gay men in particular ,really are just a primitive bunch of monkeys when it comes to the thought of emptying their sacks

Crass not class "

In my experience, most cruisers are married bi types, and same was true of cottaging in the old days.

Us gay monkeys always had other venues to hook up so cruising was just an option among others.

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By *ortheastFarmer OP Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Goes to show , men and gay men in particular ,really are just a primitive bunch of monkeys when it comes to the thought of emptying their sacks

Crass not class

In my experience, most cruisers are married bi types, and same was true of cottaging in the old days.

Us gay monkeys always had other venues to hook up so cruising was just an option among others.

Im not a fan of the local venue. Ive been twice and just got fed up of people there and left. I agree as I have met alot of married guys there, but theres quite a few who arent and prefer dogging to hosting a stranger at home.

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By *ixer61Man
2 weeks ago

Aycliffe

I've been going to my favourite cruising spot for over 25 years with much success, but I have seen a big change in the folks who go there. It is usually pretty tidy but lately it seems the in thing to hang used condoms, knickers etc from the branches of the bushes. Good advertising for the boys in blue

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"I've been going to my favourite cruising spot for over 25 years with much success, but I have seen a big change in the folks who go there. It is usually pretty tidy but lately it seems the in thing to hang used condoms, knickers etc from the branches of the bushes. Good advertising for the boys in blue

Grim.

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By *ovinglife69Man
2 weeks ago

Southampton

I went to a local cruise area recently. I did not like the rubbish left so I did not stay.

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By *aza1234Man
2 weeks ago

Walsall

I totally agree with all of you guys must clean up after them selfs I love cruising and a few of our local one are being watched and the best one as had its gates welded shut because of guys taking the piss so all you guys out there be more careful of what you are doing clean up after your self and stay safe

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