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"There’s a dom guy I’ve met a few times. Sent me a message yesterday saying that “I would like a long session. To dominate you and fuck you whilst you are bound”. I’ve never been bound before; but I am very curious, and think I’d love it. I like to be submissive whilst sucking and getting fucked. What should I expect from this meet? Anything I should consider first? " As others have mentioned the key to the Dom / sub play that involves restraint is trust and communication are key. You said you have met him a few times which will help, having a talk about haw the restraint will be done would be useful, safe words should be agreed certainly until you are both familiar with each other in restrain play. Bondage is great fun butt can be dangerous hence why I suggest a discussion before Enjoy | |||
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"There’s a dom guy I’ve met a few times. Sent me a message yesterday saying that “I would like a long session. To dominate you and fuck you whilst you are bound”. I’ve never been bound before; but I am very curious, and think I’d love it. I like to be submissive whilst sucking and getting fucked. What should I expect from this meet? Anything I should consider first? " If you don't want to meet him then give him my details because it sounds as horny as fuck! | |||
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"Never understood the safe word thing!!!no means no stop means stop" Unless that's part of agreed cnc. Stressing it's something you both understand, have discussed and agreed with someone you're comfortable with and trust. There are some who will be turned on when saying "no" or "stop" but the guy carries on. The safe word is the stop word. | |||
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"There’s a dom guy I’ve met a few times. Sent me a message yesterday saying that “I would like a long session. To dominate you and fuck you whilst you are bound”. I’ve never been bound before; but I am very curious, and think I’d love it. I like to be submissive whilst sucking and getting fucked. What should I expect from this meet? Anything I should consider first? As others have mentioned the key to the Dom / sub play that involves restraint is trust and communication are key. You said you have met him a few times which will help, having a talk about haw the restraint will be done would be useful, safe words should be agreed certainly until you are both familiar with each other in restrain play. Bondage is great fun butt can be dangerous hence why I suggest a discussion before Enjoy " Adding to the above, in your previous meets when you've said stop has he. Has he been asking if you're okay or picking up and any non verbal signs that you're uncomfortable? To repeat what's been said it's communicating discussing first. Suggest light and loose bandage for a few minutes. You could try putting your hands flat behind your knees then "trap" them kneeling between back of your thigh and calf; you're restricted but can easily get out of that position. Remember, it's only part of your time together. | |||
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"Never understood the safe word thing!!!no means no stop means stop Unless that's part of agreed cnc. Stressing it's something you both understand, have discussed and agreed with someone you're comfortable with and trust. There are some who will be turned on when saying "no" or "stop" but the guy carries on. The safe word is the stop word." Exactly this, “no” and “stop” sometimes come out too easily and can throw people off. Same with being overpowered or restrained. It’s good to have something that is unnatural to say that means unequivocally “I want this to stop” | |||
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"Never understood the safe word thing!!!no means no stop means stop Unless that's part of agreed cnc. Stressing it's something you both understand, have discussed and agreed with someone you're comfortable with and trust. There are some who will be turned on when saying "no" or "stop" but the guy carries on. The safe word is the stop word." Yes.agree. The role play is more intense (depending what you're into) if the top ignores pleas to “stop” or “no”… safe word then gives the safety-net… as does trusting your partner to respect it immediately, or just read your body language. | |||
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"There’s a dom guy I’ve met a few times. Sent me a message yesterday saying that “I would like a long session. To dominate you and fuck you whilst you are bound”. I’ve never been bound before; but I am very curious, and think I’d love it. I like to be submissive whilst sucking and getting fucked. What should I expect from this meet? Anything I should consider first? " I love being restrained helpless as sub... dominated and made to succumb to my master's desires _ccepting he knows best... | |||
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