I've stopped caring cos it is the way of the world.
I've a profile across many apps so not just this one.
It doesn't happen all the time but I can deffo say twice - been let down or ghosted but then messaged by someone else and end up having fun.
I smiled to myself with one guy who just messaged and was like within 3miles of me asking me to bend over for him.
I just said drop by.
He dropped a load in me and as he left commented on how clean I was as he thought this was a spontaneous meet.
So much so he's now become a regular I see at least 3 times a month.
Silver lining and all that... ☁️