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By *ilo Mascino OP   Man
1 week ago

Manc/Yorks/N. Lndn-ish Work UK

I’m attracted to both men… and men who present as women.

I’m just attracted to people I find attractive and don’t worry who, why, where they’re from or age.

If you’re a ‘turn-on’ then youre a ‘turn-on’.

This is not a ‘labels’ debate - it’s about the blurring of the gender lines and not even caring about categorisations.

I’ve had meets where the guy has dressed and presented more as a female throughout the meet.

On rarer occasions, and as part of the continuing play, I’ve also then been with with the same person in male mode. In varying stages of femininity… just knickers, still wearing makeup (better if it’s smudged and run)… right down to just naked.

I’ve aLos experienced feminising from male mode to a more traditionally female state - being it a persona, feminisation or just the thrill of cross dressing.

Is this a rare thing? Is there an easier way to identify those who like to play at both ends of masculinity and femininity?

Are situation like this few and far between? Am I fetishising something that just has to happen in the moment?

Is this a blatant question to try find people who do so I can meet up?!

Hell yes!

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By *oxymusicMan
1 week ago

Cowbridge


"I’m attracted to both men… and men who present as women.

I’m just attracted to people I find attractive and don’t worry who, why, where they’re from or age.

If you’re a ‘turn-on’ then youre a ‘turn-on’.

This is not a ‘labels’ debate - it’s about the blurring of the gender lines and not even caring about categorisations.

I’ve had meets where the guy has dressed and presented more as a female throughout the meet.

On rarer occasions, and as part of the continuing play, I’ve also then been with with the same person in male mode. In varying stages of femininity… just knickers, still wearing makeup (better if it’s smudged and run)… right down to just naked.

I’ve aLos experienced feminising from male mode to a more traditionally female state - being it a persona, feminisation or just the thrill of cross dressing.

Is this a rare thing? Is there an easier way to identify those who like to play at both ends of masculinity and femininity?

Are situation like this few and far between? Am I fetishising something that just has to happen in the moment?

Is this a blatant question to try find people who do so I can meet up?!

Hell yes!"

Dunno

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
1 week ago

mk


"I’m attracted to both men… and men who present as women.

I’m just attracted to people I find attractive and don’t worry who, why, where they’re from or age.

If you’re a ‘turn-on’ then youre a ‘turn-on’.

This is not a ‘labels’ debate - it’s about the blurring of the gender lines and not even caring about categorisations.

I’ve had meets where the guy has dressed and presented more as a female throughout the meet.

On rarer occasions, and as part of the continuing play, I’ve also then been with with the same person in male mode. In varying stages of femininity… just knickers, still wearing makeup (better if it’s smudged and run)… right down to just naked.

I’ve aLos experienced feminising from male mode to a more traditionally female state - being it a persona, feminisation or just the thrill of cross dressing.

Is this a rare thing? Is there an easier way to identify those who like to play at both ends of masculinity and femininity?

Are situation like this few and far between? Am I fetishising something that just has to happen in the moment?

Is this a blatant question to try find people who do so I can meet up?!

Hell yes!

Dunno"

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By *ilo Mascino OP   Man
1 week ago

Manc/Yorks/N. Lndn-ish Work UK

Hardly the discussion I was looking for.

If you’ve got something worth adding - feel free…

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

You fancy what you fancy. So long as nobody is being harmed, why question it?

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By *ilo Mascino OP   Man
1 week ago

Manc/Yorks/N. Lndn-ish Work UK

I was fishing for candidates!!

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

"Is this a rare thing? Is there an easier way to identify those who like to play at both ends of masculinity and femininity?"

Maybe read the profile?

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"I was fishing for candidates!! "

You should have said that then, instead of an essay about your sexual preferences. And put it in the Introductions forum.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

If it works for you don't knock it.

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By *teve811Man
1 week ago

Newport

Attraction is a funny thing! I am attracted to women, but I also like having sex with men and dressing as a woman (not convincing as I get older and cant remove body hair!). but I find it easier to hook up with males on this site, perhaps men are more promiscuous than women or they are less concerned about their reputation? I find that some men and women are very attractive to me, but others are a definite turn off! For instance I like it when either a man or a woman is clean, tidy and well spoken. Body odour, the smell of cigarette smoke or dirt puts me off completely, regardless of sex! Saying that, I get really turned on by sexy feminine underwear, on either sex!

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow

Is it a vegetable?

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Is it a vegetable?"

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *andomguy321Man
1 week ago

reading


"Is it a vegetable?"

Probably a cucumber ... Botanically classified as a fruit, but commonly mistaken for a vegetable.

If only cucumbers could self-identify

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By *damb00Man
1 week ago

Leicestershire

What a load of shite to just say you like masculine men but you also like TV / CDs

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By *vonneTV/TS
1 week ago

Pleasley

I thought the op posed an interesting question and no, I'm not putting myself forward as a 'candidate'.

I personally love dressing as a woman, not only in the act but also for my percieved pyschology of those who it appeals to.

Just as, on occasions, I enjoy the perverseness of enjoying women's panties in male mode along with males who enjoy the same, knowing that their filthy motivations may likely be the same as mine.

Sex, for me at least, is a combination of many things...

Mood, motivation, opportunity etc. but regardless of any of those factors it invariably begins above the waist with a thought which then goes on to fuel more physical reactions.

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By *ilo Mascino OP   Man
1 week ago

Manc/Yorks/N. Lndn-ish Work UK

Maybe also to out people who can’t hold an intellectual conversation.

Literally done with ‘dumb fucks’ years ago

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Maybe also to out people who can’t hold an intellectual conversation.

Literally done with ‘dumb fucks’ years ago"

You didn't want a conversation though did you, you admitted you were fishing. All youve managed to do is tell some people you're exactly the same as a good percentage of people here.

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow


"Is it a vegetable?

Probably a cucumber ... Botanically classified as a fruit, but commonly mistaken for a vegetable.

If only cucumbers could self-identify

"

I feel sorry for the poor cucumbers that think I'm going to be in a nice salad or even in a posh sandwich only to find themselves rammed up some guy's arse

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
1 week ago

Estepona Spain Not in


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I feel sorry for the poor cucumbers that think I'm going to be in a nice salad or even in a posh sandwich only to find themselves rammed up some guy's arse"

An extremely interesting twist on the story. BUT, for how many of us has that poor fruit/vegetable been the go to item to be lubed and riden?

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By *andomguy321Man
1 week ago

reading


"Is it a vegetable?

Probably a cucumber ... Botanically classified as a fruit, but commonly mistaken for a vegetable.

If only cucumbers could self-identify

I feel sorry for the poor cucumbers that think I'm going to be in a nice salad or even in a posh sandwich only to find themselves rammed up some guy's arse"

It's always a shock when the lights suddenly go out

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Could be lubed and ridden and still end up in a sandwich.

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull


"I’m attracted to both men… and men who present as women.

I’m just attracted to people I find attractive and don’t worry who, why, where they’re from or age.

If you’re a ‘turn-on’ then youre a ‘turn-on’. "

If you came to this forum expecting a serious discussion you're doomed

That said, what you describe is very much how I see myself. I don't try to assume any femininity because that doesn't work for me, but I love lingerie and clothing designed to titillate and arouse.

I also used to have a rather pretentious sentence in my profile about existing in the liminal space between masculine and feminine (deleted now because it was a bit bollocks) but I do still partly buy into that idea.

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull

Would have PMed to take the conversation further but oh right, the fabled fabguys preemptive block again, despite having never interacted at all to my recollection.

Ah well, plenty more cod in the barrel or something.

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By *ovesex52TV/TS
1 week ago

nearby


"Is it a vegetable?

Probably a cucumber ... Botanically classified as a fruit, but commonly mistaken for a vegetable.

If only cucumbers could self-identify

"

And what about mushrooms??

Fungi of the world unite!! 💪

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By *tephanieSnowTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Rotherham

I've got "preferred" types which are 1- older dom top guys.

2- younger, slim, smooth, sub and at least reasonably convincing T Girls.

And i prefer petite, pretty. Dark haired women but none of those preferences means i dont see attraction in all manner of other people. I myself am comfortable playing as a guy, as a girl or as any stop along the journey from one to the other

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