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"I don’t use saunas that much but what really gets my goat ( not that I take a goat into a sauna I leave him at home ) What pisses me off is guys going to saunas thinking that a fit male model will come in and sweep them off their flip flops. Basically we are just their for sex you can’t be to picky just take what comes your way or not . They must be so bored and end up going home not having sex and paying £20 odd pounds " No one is obliged to have sex with you and strange though it may seem, I've come across guys that don't go for sex, they enjoy watching others and using the facilities, plus some people use saunas for pre arranged meets so are less likely to play with anyone other than who they are meeting. I can honestly say though, as someone who visits a gay sauna regularly, even as a fat, bald old git, I always get plenty of action, even with guys I would have considered out of my league. | |||
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"I don’t use saunas that much but what really gets my goat ( not that I take a goat into a sauna I leave him at home ) What pisses me off is guys going to saunas thinking that a fit male model will come in and sweep them off their flip flops. Basically we are just their for sex you can’t be to picky just take what comes your way or not . They must be so bored and end up going home not having sex and paying £20 odd pounds No one is obliged to have sex with you and strange though it may seem, I've come across guys that don't go for sex, they enjoy watching others and using the facilities, plus some people use saunas for pre arranged meets so are less likely to play with anyone other than who they are meeting. I can honestly say though, as someone who visits a gay sauna regularly, even as a fat, bald old git, I always get plenty of action, even with guys I would have considered out of my league." 
Quite. One thing i learned very early is that rejection is part of the experience of a sauna visit, and there's no point in getting upset over it. Just go and watch the porn, or chill in the jacuzzi.
Everyone goes for their own reasons, and as long as those reasons are legal and they harm no one, they are nobody's business but their own.
Nobody incurs any obligation by entering the place to accept any opportunities on offer for sexual encounters. They don't owe anything to anyone else. If the OP is unable to accept that, then maybe saunas are not for him. | |||
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Having unrealistic/unjustified expectations might lead to boredom? 🤔
If you can't afford/don't want or expect to pay the admission fees without a guarantee of sex, saunas should probably be avoided | |||
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"I use saunas for the social, the sexual and freedom aspects. Its a great feeling walking round naked, not having to explain yourself - finding guys you connect to - that could be socially or sexually or a bit of both." Exactly | |||
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"I use saunas for the social, the sexual and freedom aspects. Its a great feeling walking round naked, not having to explain yourself - finding guys you connect to - that could be socially or sexually or a bit of both. Exactly" I agree | |||
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"I use sauna sauna at Northwich as only 25 mins away and guaranteed to get fun with a like minded guy who I find a turn on and also good if time restricted when working and married" I love saunas, you are very lucky having one so near. My nearest is approximately 90 minutes drive. | |||
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"I use sauna sauna at Northwich as only 25 mins away and guaranteed to get fun with a like minded guy who I find a turn on and also good if time restricted when working and married" Yep Northwich never fails to produce results, even for me who is hardly a prime specimen! | |||
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"I don’t use saunas that much but what really gets my goat ( not that I take a goat into a sauna I leave him at home ) What pisses me off is guys going to saunas thinking that a fit male model will come in and sweep them off their flip flops. Basically we are just their for sex you can’t be to picky just take what comes your way or not . They must be so bored and end up going home not having sex and paying £20 odd pounds " I'd say its not just saunas. That's why GH and darkrooms are part of gay culture. Many look you up and down as if you're marriage potential, but get a wet set of lips or arsehole on their cock and they're yours! Just gotta go with the flow. When your flip flops do come off...its often kinda good due to expectation. | |||
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"Wish One was closer to me went to pink Broadway years ago had a great time." what about the Bournemouth one ? | |||
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"Wish One was closer to me went to pink Broadway years ago had a great time. what about the Bournemouth one ?" never been. | |||
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"I don’t use saunas that much but what really gets my goat ( not that I take a goat into a sauna I leave him at home ) What pisses me off is guys going to saunas thinking that a fit male model will come in and sweep them off their flip flops. Basically we are just their for sex you can’t be to picky just take what comes your way or not . They must be so bored and end up going home not having sex and paying £20 odd pounds " What does your goat do while your at the sauna? | |||
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"Want to go to a sauna, but I am more interested in wanking/sucking action (both ways) than fucking. Is that acceptable to go and not fix someone or offer yourself up to be fucked? Curious as if I do get to one, don’t want to offend or misread the situations" *fuck not fix - this place needs the ability to edit your own posts 🤦♂️ | |||
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"I don't feel obliged to have sex at a sauna. I turn down offers if I don't like the look of the guy, just as I've been turned down often enough. I'd rather leave having not had sex but with my integrity intact, rather than shag anything that moves." | |||
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"I go to splash in Leicester. I have no expectations. If I get touched, I respond. I don’t care what a guy looks like. I just want fun with cum. " Hopefully I’ll bump into you one day!  | |||
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"Want to go to a sauna, but I am more interested in wanking/sucking action (both ways) than fucking. Is that acceptable to go and not fix someone or offer yourself up to be fucked? Curious as if I do get to one, don’t want to offend or misread the situations" As long as you let a guy who comes onto you what youre after, then its fine. Ive been rebuffed by guys only wanting to watch as well as guys who dont want to use condoms. Horses for courses. Just go and see what happens | |||
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"How do you go about finding more info on these saunas, I assume being in Somerset the nearest is 1 hour from me in Newport. Starting to think seriously now of going to one but how do you find the info and know that saunas has this facility wink wink " Google? | |||
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"How do you go about finding more info on these saunas, I assume being in Somerset the nearest is 1 hour from me in Newport. Starting to think seriously now of going to one but how do you find the info and know that saunas has this facility wink wink " Go onto google maps. Type gay saunas near my location and see what pops up. X | |||
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