FabGuys.com forum: All men are secretly bisexual

By *aulBiBottom OP Man
5 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?

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By *rancd2TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

On here they are yes, in real life I’m not quite so sure you are correct.

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By *chupforitMan
5 weeks ago

Peterborough

All the so called straight guy on fabswingers lol.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think most guys do have a bi side. It is whether that side is strong enough to need acted upon that matters. Somes guys keep it under control and stay 'straight', others give in. Then there are gay guys who have no interest in straight porn at all

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By *teelballsMan
5 weeks ago

central london

Plenty of guys in relationships with women like a bit of sex play with other men.

However, do such guys feel the same about the men they meet as they do about women ?

Would they actually want an ongoing passionate relationship with a man ?

Do they desire a man as much as they do women ?

If not, are they actually bisexual or just satisfying a quick sexual urge ?

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Sexuality isnt defined by whether its passionate or not. Plenty here having non-passionate sex with men and women. Thats usually why theyre here 😆

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By *bs4dMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

I think sexually a lot more men (and women) would be bisexual if it was socially the norm. If there was no judgment I think many would indulge.

I do remember seeing straight porn for the first time and being a big confused by all the emphasis on big cocks lol. Like, that’s fun for ME but if you’re here for the women what are you getting from that?! 😏

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By *trongbumMan
5 weeks ago

Norwich

I think there’s also a lot more guys who would be curious. My partner likes to peg guys and vast number of straight guys are instantly interested if she mentions it. I think it’s like a safe (for their own sense of sexuality) gateway to doing something not entirely straight

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By *eefandfurMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

No, not everybody is secretly bi.

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

A crazy theory or just wishful thinking. Face reality. 90% of blokes are totally straight. Yes some of those might be tempted to be bi-curious if the 'gay stigma' didn't still exist. As a gay man I once attempted to 'go straight' in order to conform. My heart just wasn't in it.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

I think claiming all men have a bi side is pushing it a bit far, however I'd bet it's a lot more than the stats would suggest, a lot of men wouldn't admit to being anything other than straight because they are scared that it would be seen as an afront on their masculinity.

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By *3versMan
5 weeks ago

glasgow

Bi guys are definitely bi, the rest of guys are either straight or gay

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By *ybisideMan
5 weeks ago

sheffield

I tend to agree. I think there are very few alpha males who are 100 % heterosexual. I think social conditioning is the most powerful factor. The nuclear family, religion and shame play their parts too.

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By *ishop666Man
5 weeks ago

ls19

Natural selection theory explains the need

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By *needsfunMan
5 weeks ago

Felixstowe

I have know at least 3 guys who said they where straight, did now kiss me or touch me or even want me to be naked, but all three allowed me to suck them to completion, are they bi or gay?

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By *awihMan
5 weeks ago

Aldershot

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?"

You are wrong. You obviously don’t understand what being gay is.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?

You are wrong. You obviously don’t understand what being gay is."

Far too many on here don't understand what being gay is.

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By *ip71Man
5 weeks ago

Darlington

Definitely not.. But however once you err let's say end up with a cock in your hand or wherever.. There's no going back really.. That's a fact I'd say

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By *qounkMan
5 weeks ago

nr holsworthy

I think people are just sexual (i.e. the prefix is in a way, immaterial) and attractions/turn ons are fluid. What turned me on 20 years ago doesn't doesn't necessarily now. But then again, how I experience the world is different to how others experience the world. The labelling is sometimes unhelpful, but also for some helps. Horses for courses and all that. Also, here's a picture of a horse. 🐎

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?"

A lot of straight blokes will happily watch lesbian porn, so your second assertion is flawed.

Before the 19th century people weren't labelled as one thing or another (homosexual, heterosexual, etc), they were just people performing particular sexual acts. It's a shame we can't go back to a system like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I have know at least 3 guys who said they where straight, did now kiss me or touch me or even want me to be naked, but all three allowed me to suck them to completion, are they bi or gay?"

I'd say they're opportunists

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By *lim-bttmMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Not me, I’m totally straight, right? Lol

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

They absolutely were labelled, the were called sodomites amongst other things and it wasn't tolerated and was illegal from the medieval period, all the way up until until 1967

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By *udekeithMan
5 weeks ago

Barrow Uopn Soar

I’m definitely not secretly bi. It has never crossed my mind to do anything sexual with a woman. I’ve seen naked women on nude beaches and they appear not to have cocks.

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By *uffolkbiguy69Man
5 weeks ago

Newmarket

I like to think of sexuality as aspectrum, or a 🌈 if you will, in which everyone can find their own comfortable seat, and that seat may change over time and because of life choices. Whatever we are all happy with really!

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By *evinmanMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Sadly many guys are 100% straight!!

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By *4BearsMan
5 weeks ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

You may be interested in the heavily-bashed topic of Gender Studies, where these questions are genuinely considered

Unless you're just projecting, which I think you might be...

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By *ioralwankcurious1Man
5 weeks ago

northwest

Yep

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

"I like to think of sexuality as aspectrum, or a 🌈 if you will, in which everyone can find their own comfortable seat, and that seat may change over time and because of life choices. Whatever we are all happy with really!"

No, Bisexual can be a spectrum, ie either prefer men but sometimes play with women or at the other end, prefer women and will only do mild play with men, if you are gay, you are not on a spectrum and I'd assume the same applies for straight.

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By *4BearsMan
5 weeks ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

They all sit on the binary sexuality spectrum, with gay/stright at each end and bisexual inbetween

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

They absolutely were labelled, the were called sodomites amongst other things and it wasn't tolerated and was illegal from the medieval period, all the way up until until 1967 "

Sodomy is a particular act, isn't it? Perhaps I didn't explain my point as clearly as I thought.

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By *oxymusicMan
5 weeks ago

Cowbridge

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?"

Not from my experience from straight friends.

They only focus on the woman, never heard a straight talking of the cock as the alluring bit of the shag.

Many friends have said they cannot even watch a guy splatter, esp on the face, as it repulses them.

The act of a sexy lady being fucked is the attraction not the cock in any way for a straight.

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By *i chanceMan
5 weeks ago

Durham

Probably more than will admit to it, but no, not all. I’ve met guys keen to explore having fantasised with porn and chats/pic swaps. But in a real situation they just can’t do it.

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By *evfth2000Man
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

I think that most guys turn bi in their late 40s or mid 50s thats when i went over

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

They absolutely were labelled, the were called sodomites amongst other things and it wasn't tolerated and was illegal from the medieval period, all the way up until until 1967

Sodomy is a particular act, isn't it? Perhaps I didn't explain my point as clearly as I thought. "

It was assumed that if a man was involved in sexual activity with another man then sodomy was involved, men being with men was not tolerated, it was a sin, the odds were stacked against anyone who denied it. It's a myth that homosexuality was tolerated in 'olden times' not even the Romans or the Greeks, yes some famous rich and powerful people from antiquity got away with it, but it generally wasn't tolerated.

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By *ollo007Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract

I know at least one person who wasn't, my best friend of over 30 years who I lost to cancer just over two years ago. Over the years we have wanked to his dad's porn stash together and spit roasted women together (and had each other's sloppy seconds on many occasions). He even fucked my now wife before we were together and she was still married after I jumped quickly into his shower because I'd come straight from work but by the time I jumped in and out he was balls deep in her, we double teamed her in her bed once too. When he learned his cancer was terminal, he complained that he’d probably never have sex again. One night, after a few beers, I told him something private: I had sucked a cock and enjoyed it. He laughed at first, thinking I was joking, but went quiet after seeing my verification on here. “Just when I thought nothing would surprise me!” he said. He asked if my partner knew (she didn’t)and when and why. I told him that if he was ever curious, I’d help him explore, and that it would stay between us.

He laughed again, saying he’d never considered it and that it did the opposite to turning him on. Less than six months later, he passed away, and it never affected our friendship he never mentioned it again.

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By *ulge1Man
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Be surprised as I was to find that most married men do like cock and I can verify that lol. And I wasn’t the only one one in the family as I found out.

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By *eicester-lukeMan
5 weeks ago

leicester

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?"
damn is this a stoner thought lol it does make sense

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By *V ShazTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Haydock

Freuds theory is all humans are bisexuals at birth..

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

They absolutely were labelled, the were called sodomites amongst other things and it wasn't tolerated and was illegal from the medieval period, all the way up until until 1967

Sodomy is a particular act, isn't it? Perhaps I didn't explain my point as clearly as I thought.

I don't think that's true. It was tolerated in Roman society, within the confines of a very strict class system - Roman men were permitted to occupy the active role with men of a lesser class position (sl@ves, for example) who took the passive role. It became unacceptable with the growing influence of Christianity.

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

all men have the potential and benevolence X

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

although they can be sometimes openly bisexual..

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

or exclusively gay

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By *ndrewfunMan
5 weeks ago

London

I love making and watching cocks cum. I’m not physically attracted to men. I’m attracted to cock. Females I am attracted to.

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I love making and watching cocks cum. I’m not physically attracted to men. I’m attracted to cock. Females I am attracted to. "
nice to see a guy cum

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By *lueoscarMan
5 weeks ago

alfreton/chesterfield

On the flip inside i am only into men but funnily I do like to watch men eating and fingering pussy on porn films, I've no desire to try it myself I'm more likely to be rimming a nice clean bumhole of a man.

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By *aceyisback2Man
5 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Agree men are definitely bi curious or genuine

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By *ishop666Man
5 weeks ago

ls19

Iam both happy to engage

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By *rum39Man
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

Why do we have to put a label on everything. Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself

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By *oxymusicMan
5 weeks ago

Cowbridge

"I love making and watching cocks cum. I’m not physically attracted to men. I’m attracted to cock. Females I am attracted to. "

I empathise with this fully.

I can see how someone like Clint Eastwood was a very handsome man in his prime but I couldn’t lust after him.

But a sexy beautiful woman, easy!

I never look at a fella whilst out & about, it’s weird.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

"Why do we have to put a label on everything. Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself "

Because the right to have those labels recognised and legally protected was a long and hard fight.

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

I’m not bi.

Never have been. Never will.

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By *dstefiMan
5 weeks ago

Solihull

I think a lot of men are hetero-romantic, as in feeling that women are their natural partners and getting the warm and fuzzies for them, while still harbouring lust for gay sex.

I know I'm in that category; I'm married to a woman I absolutely adore and have really strong feels for, but put an erect cock in front of me and I want it bad. But not so bad that I have to have it 24/7/365. My last gay meet was last summer and I definitely go through phases of needing cock but ultimately can take it or leave it.

It's a bit like chocolate really

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By *orruptedandlies1Man
5 weeks ago

leeds

Pretty much

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By *awihMan
5 weeks ago

Aldershot

They absolutely were labelled, the were called sodomites amongst other things and it wasn't tolerated and was illegal from the medieval period, all the way up until until 1967 "

And in that period up to the 1800’s you could be executed for it. The death penalty for homosexuality (specifically "buggery") was abolished by the Offences Against the Person Act 1861, which replaced it with life imprisonment. The last execution for homosexual acts in England occurred in 1835.

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By *wej1Man
5 weeks ago

Grantham

Im not bi and its not a secret

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

They absolutely were labelled, the were called sodomites amongst other things and it wasn't tolerated and was illegal from the medieval period, all the way up until until 1967

Although it could be argued that Alan Turing was killed by the state, reported a robbery, the police more interested in his homosexuality, chemical castration using a drug the Nazis used to sterilize Jews, ultimately, took his own life. treated very badly by the state based on an archaic law that should never of still been law in the 20th century.

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By *os001Man
5 weeks ago

Oxford

Those of us who are gay, have no interest in women sexually whatsoever ever, so bi wouldn't ever get a look in.

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By *iganbiguy1963Man
5 weeks ago

Wigan

I think most men and women have a secret bi/gay side. I knew at a young age, that I was sexually attracted to men and women

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

bi at most/least

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By *ust4inchesMan
5 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?"

How do you categorise guys who like Lesbian porn?

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?

How do you categorise guys who like Lesbian porn?"
Open minded

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By *wadbisexualMan
5 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

I agree.

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

majority of time sexuality has nothing to do with anything.

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By *al6OMan
5 weeks ago

hornchurch

Im definitely bi ,known I was from a young age but never acted on it until about 15 yrs ago .Wished id had given in to the urges .

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By *oxymusicMan
5 weeks ago

Cowbridge

"majority of time sexuality has nothing to do with anything."

Oh right, so let’s join à gay website looking for women???

Ffs

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By *oxymusicMan
5 weeks ago

Cowbridge

How do you categorise guys who like Lesbian porn?"

Straight 💯.

The girls are gay, not the guy.

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

"majority of time sexuality has nothing to do with anything.

Oh right, so let’s join à gay website looking for women???

Ffs"
not looking for anything just chatting, learning

friends, mates, all welcome X

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By *ridayguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

please don't start your posts with "Oh right, so" !

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By *oxymusicMan
5 weeks ago

Cowbridge

"please don't start your posts with "Oh right, so" !"

Why not? Your website is it???

🤣🤣🤣

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
5 weeks ago

penzance

I have a theory that its natural to both sexes but there's a part of the mind that either acts on it or doesn't and I think its subconscious, could say hidden. I think its down more to circumstance, situations. Take prisons for instance. If a human is isolated for prolonged time, months but more likely years, and they re cut off from the opposite sex then I think something stirs, not necessarily on the sexual side but more companionship, close companionship, a need to feel bonded to something, someone. We are just another species, though we like to think we are a lot more than any other species, and "sexual" activity between same sex is found throughout the natural world, I think its not a secret love of cock or pussy etc, I think its more a need for bonding. The latest discovery in the natural world of such behaviour was amongst male dolphins, rare, as far as is known but has been seen in several locations across the world. Male dolphins going through the intimate movements that would generally lead to full mating. I think its in built, the need to bond, in many species, and that need, in certain circumstances, can take on a more "extreme" or intimate course. If you go back through human history, you ll find many great men, heroes, had "close" same gender "friends", particularly those that were away on campaigns for years at a time. I think its natural, built in but not necessarily sexual, that is more likely to come about in specific, extreme circumstances

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By *ust4inchesMan
5 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?

How do you categorise guys who like Lesbian porn? Open minded"

I’m making the point that there are some guys who only watch Lesbian porn which challenges his theory that all men want to watch cocks.

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By *anDadBodMan
5 weeks ago

Speke

i remember hearing once that the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy was 3 pints.

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"i remember hearing once that the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy was 3 pints."

For many a simple line of flattery does the trick. Us humans are fickle and easily led 😆

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
5 weeks ago

penzance

There are many "things" that may well have been just natural within the human mind, and there was no need for categorisation etc, it was just normal...then along came the church, the religious super powers, that weaved their beliefs into society though, strangely, they were and are often the worst perpertrators for breaking their own laws. There was once an age when human is all we were and likely never thought about it as we just lived..

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By *anDadBodMan
5 weeks ago

Speke

there’s times when i’ve been in the changing room with guys from our fight club and i do occasionally notice them taking a quick glance at the crotch area when i’ve just been in my underwear. just human nature to glance at a guys bulge or genuinely curious about playing with what’s inside?

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"there’s times when i’ve been in the changing room with guys from our fight club and i do occasionally notice them taking a quick glance at the crotch area when i’ve just been in my underwear. just human nature to glance at a guys bulge or genuinely curious about playing with what’s inside?"

Probably the equivalent of dogs sniffing bums. Figuring out the competition and threats. We're just animals.

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By *ust4inchesMan
5 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I thought the first rule of Fight Club was that “You don’t talk about Fight Club”

🤷‍♂️

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By *r DimpsMan
5 weeks ago

hull

I never thought i would get onto cock, thought it disgusting, then i grew up (eventually),

Only into mutual wanking, frotting, docking, sucking, wanking and sucking, did I mention sucking?

Only ever taken one cumming cock in my mouth, but love dumping a load into a come lovers throat.

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By *r DimpsMan
5 weeks ago

hull

Gladitorial Rome was rife with man on man sex of all kinds, so not new. There is a place in Turkey (aparently, don't destroy me with comments) where you went to get malaria because the heat generated inside your body killed off STD's from having too much cock. Lol.

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
5 weeks ago

England

I think so.

Because I accidentally bumped into my German brother-in-law at a gay sauna. He looked very embarrassed and left abruptly.

I told my sister and she said she knows he is bisexual when they met. She said she doesn't mind, much better than him having sex with other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I thought I was straight at one time as I got older I realised I was bi and the older I get the more gay I feel I love cock more and more as I get older

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By *autiously_curiousMan
5 weeks ago

Craigavon

Think there might be more thsn a little confirmation bias going on here

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By *cott5555Man
5 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Not all but definitely a lot more bi guys out there that don’t admit it.

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By *ipirateMan
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I don't think all guys are bi

But I'd say there is a lot more guys who are bi than would admit to it

And a lot more than that who'd happily be sucked off by another guy but still try to say they were straight

Being a married bi guy myself I do get why the majority of bi guys don't come out

But yeah for me they're is plenty more bi guys out there but not every guy is bi

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By *dstefiMan
5 weeks ago

Solihull

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By *hy-GuyMan
5 weeks ago

Glossop

I don't think you can speak for all men.

Who ever knows what another man is thinking.

As for me, I always considered myself straight but gradually have come to think of myself as bi curious and then fully bisexual

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By *dstefiMan
5 weeks ago

Solihull

I always just take the view that when I'm with a woman I'm straight albeit kinky, but when with a guy it's 100% gay sex: no pretence at femininity or roleplay despite my liking for lingerie, I'm all about the cock and the male body of who I'm with, and I find fem terms like asspussy/bussy/clitty etc childish and demeaning to both sexes. I like a hard cock, in my arse.

I'm happy to kiss a man as it's all part of sex and foreplay.

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By *otsure03Man
5 weeks ago

witney

I am and have proved it a few times lol, seems to be more acceptable for ladies

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By *heerymanMan
5 weeks ago

stoke on trent

As we get older and wives/ gf,s loose interest it becomes the obvious option

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By *ttmn1Man
5 weeks ago

Shoreditch- east London

I don't think I'm in total agreement. However I do love on other site the guys who claim they're 100% straight but then list verifications from TV/TS.

Also the ones that say they're into DVP. Take away the pussy and they're basically dry jumping each other. U can't tell me they don't enjoy the friction and stimulation of their cocks rubbing together. Try telling them if they're getting pleasure from rubbing dicks with each other ain't leaning towards bisexual then what is!

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By *hanclaMan
5 weeks ago

Bridgend area

I dunno. If I watch or search for female porn, I always search for solo or lesbian. I kinda get put off by watching another man enjoying some woman I'd like to fantasies about.

If I watch gay stuff then I enjoy men enjoying each other rather than solo

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By *ubblebootyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Park Gate

I think all men are slightly bi for sure xx

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By *eefandfurMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

When we watch porn we want to see a cock fucking a pussy, we want to see that cock cum, we want to see a cock being wanked and sucked.

That gives us satisfaction and we like watching cocks come and fuck, therefore we'll all buy sexual if not gay fundamentally.

What are your thoughts?

A lot of straight blokes will happily watch lesbian porn, so your second assertion is flawed.

Tell that to the people that got hanged following police raids on so-called "Molly Houses" during the 18th century.

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By *eefandfurMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

They all sit on the binary sexuality spectrum, with gay/stright at each end and bisexual inbetween"

No, outwith bisexuality, it is not a spectrum. The reason that there will always be push-back again the sexuality/gender spectrum hypotheses. Is that we are not willing to replay the outdated debate over the notion that homosexuality is a choice, or that it can be changed. Conversion therapy doesn't work.

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By *ezzadMan
5 weeks ago

horncastle

I’m hoping a couple of ‘straight’ guys in my local give into my requests for getting their cocks out for a BJ

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot

Tell that to the people that got hanged following police raids on so-called "Molly Houses" during the 18th century. "

Yeah, totally deluded to think sex between men was looked on as ok and tolerated, considering it was illegal from early medieval period all the way up to 1967 and men went to the gallows for it as late as the 1830s

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

The idea that watching straight porn and therefore seeing naked men with erect cocks makes you bi is absolutely ridiculous. You can't have straight porn without naked men and cocks. Perhaps the perpetrators of this myth think that straight men would only watch lesbian porn thus avoiding these dreadful nude males.

These days with gays being mentioned and appearing all the time in the press, media, television and films etc. then yes probably more men have wondered what it would be like to be with another man. But the thought is probably as far as it goes.

Discussed this once with a mate/work colleague. He said I had thought about it even though married and had a couple of affairs with women on the side. Said he could imagine kissing another man and even wanking him off in the right circumstances. But the thought of another man putting his cock in his mouth or up his arse, or vice versa, absolutely revolted him.

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By *teelballsMan
5 weeks ago

central london

My view here is that a lot of people who lead “straight “ lives with a partner of the opposite sex, still get excitement and pleasure from indulging in a bit of same sex play. However they have zero interest in forming any sort of passionate ongoing relationship with a member of the same sex. Meet/play/go is what they want and do.

Most likely a lot of these people don’t regard the term “bisexual” as being accurate for how they feel. For them choosing a same sex relationship would never happen. Therefore In the absence of a better term to describe themselves they will regard themselves as straight.

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By *bonybucksMan
5 weeks ago

High Wycombe

Maybe not all

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By *otcleanguyMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester

There is a LOT more male bisexuality these days than 30-40 years ago, largely because MM sex is now widely accepted publicly. Back in the day gay sex had a huge stigma and of course the AIDS epidemic didn't help. So even if men were curious they never tried.

Nowadays, you see gay sex on mainstream TV and movies so men are more inclined to try and do so EARLY - like in their teens. Guys my age didn't have their first go at it until mid 30s. Which is a pity as it's a lot of time lost - gay sex is next level hot

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By *4BearsMan
4 weeks ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

They all sit on the binary sexuality spectrum, with gay/stright at each end and bisexual inbetween

I'm not sure exactly what you're saying

The spectrum doesn't mean that someone chooses to be placed along it or that they will travel it, it just paints a simplified image of binary sexuality

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By *waff1102Man
4 weeks ago

King's Lynn, Norfolk

Absolutely agree, those that deny are missing out not just physically, but it must be affecting them mentally too.

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By *ecky34TV/TS
4 weeks ago

navan

Totally agree

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot

"Absolutely agree, those that deny are missing out not just physically, but it must be affecting them mentally too."

Missing out on what? Are you responding to the opening post or the last post?

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By *moother1Man
4 weeks ago

Port Talbot

I think for many guys early fumbles with mates when we are all experimenting often those experiences return back to many gents in the middle and later in life when Often sex become pedestrian or partners start to turn off the sex tap, with little of no consideration that a man will be left still needing sex. Often we return to those early experiences. For some like myself sex has been very key throughout my life and particularly playing with older gents throughout my life. The sexual experience is very different to a heterosexual one, gratification comes in many forms, when we will often gain greater satisfaction from playing with bi and gay guys

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By *ioralwankcurious1Man
4 weeks ago

northwest

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I remember my wife fingering me i really got into it and enjoying it as she sucked me . She said oooh your gay side showing .

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By *illybeachboyMan
4 weeks ago

Guernsey

I've met many so called straight men that like to look at cock or play with it. Males are in my opinion more sexually active than the other sex and will grab an opportunity to empty their balls with any willing partner.

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By *edmdMan
4 weeks ago

Woodhall Spa

I thought I was bi but I think I’m more gay xx

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By *avew12345Man
4 weeks ago

Bradford

Totally agree I think personally when it comes to sex we all would given the chance suck a cock or lick a pussy, I don’t find men attractive but love to suck cock and be fucked x

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By *ayboy1966Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Men just like sex, in any way shape or form, the labels shouldn’t matter, but they do! We’re only on this planet once. Let’s just enjoy sex and each other.

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By *awihMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Totally agree I think personally when it comes to sex we all would given the chance suck a cock or lick a pussy, I don’t find men attractive but love to suck cock and be fucked x"

Speak for yourself- no interest in women or rancid Fanny what-so-ever.

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By *dstefiMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull

"Speak for yourself- no interest in women or rancid Fanny what-so-ever."

This speaks volumes. About the misogyny that seems rather too prevalent in the twue male gay subculture.

What makes you think "fanny" is any more "rancid" than a badly maintained cock? Anybody of any gender can have shit personal hygiene.

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By *owzerMan
4 weeks ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name

Women just turn me off 📴

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot

"Speak for yourself- no interest in women or rancid Fanny what-so-ever.

This speaks volumes. About the misogyny that seems rather too prevalent in the twue male gay subculture.

What makes you think "fanny" is any more "rancid" than a badly maintained cock? Anybody of any gender can have shit personal hygiene. "

To be fair I'd guess many straight men would have the same reaction about the thought of sexual contact with another mans cock, may be the choice of wording was a little off but as a gay man I get the sentiment, nothing against women but their reproductive parts do nothing for me.

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By *ndyBristolMan
4 weeks ago

Keynsham

There are quite a few men who are not secretive about their sexuality.

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By *iwiltsMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

I’ve always loved seeing cock and pussy. My first sexual experiences were with males but only had feelings for women. With men it was just sex but as I’ve got older I’ve got much more in to guys.

As the original post said, I enjoyed seeing cocks in porn. Who knows. I just know I love both

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By *arla2000Man
4 weeks ago

Buxton

I know I am and many more are than admit it.

Not sure about all though.

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By *hatsMan
4 weeks ago

south petherton

Yes alot of truth in that

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By *55 ManMan
4 weeks ago

Roscommon

"So here's my theory, all guys secretively buy if not gay.

......"

There's virtually nothing that can be said about "all guys", other than our universal need for oxygen, water and nutrition; which can be equally applied to "all women".

Beyond that, all bets are off.

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By *1000Man
4 weeks ago

Essex

I agree I’m fab bi love the thought of it but never been lucky enough to be in the right place at the right time

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By *ncutNovaMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

Every male has their price.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Still not convinced. I know gays, lesbians and bisexuals have existed since the dawn of man. Also exist in many species of animals. But it has always been a minority thing. Nowadays you can hardly read a story, watch a programme without a same sex couple. In soap-operas the most unlikely formally straight people suddenly become gay. But does it happen in real life? Go back 80 years when homosexuality was barely mentioned. When it was the sin of sins. Did people secretly yearn for their same sex mate? Doubt it ever entered the heads of the vast majority.

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By *orny t 40Man
4 weeks ago

aintree

Absolutely spot on no one wants to see a tiny cock fuck a pussy

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By *oxleyMan
4 weeks ago

Wetherby

Straight

Gay

🤷‍♂️

I think most men have had or will have thoughts about having a go, so to speak.

Fiddled as a youth, wanted as a young man, eventually took to plunge in my 50’s.

Wow

Wouldn’t go back to sex with a woman, although happily married in a sexless marriage.

Get what I enjoy elsewhere - just difficult to arrange mainly…. 🙈

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By *loverfieldMan
4 weeks ago

Dalton

Do you think that your opinion that "most men are bi" would go down well in religious groups?

People who think most men are bi are usually just trying to make themselves feel better about their own bisexuality. Usually to avoid feeling guilty about cheating on their wife or girlfriend...

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By *avewill1Man
4 weeks ago

melksham

"I think most guys do have a bi side. It is whether that side is strong enough to need acted upon that matters. Somes guys keep it under control and stay 'straight', others give in. Then there are gay guys who have no interest in straight porn at all"
. Think your find the postie. Most guys are straight but as time goes by, woman in many cases turn off. Relieving your frustration is lot easier with another guy. Quick cum and go. No baggage no hassle. Beats a wank

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By *idsmanbi4uMan
4 weeks ago

long eaton

Well psychologist would say guys imagine themselves in situation of guy fucking woman in porn that turns them on howver there is a cock reaction cock envy and guys who respect guys with big cocks I believe that enough exposure to oral porn can make guys want to try it ? But I ain’t no professor of psychology but do like my cock being sucked and sucking others

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By *enior serviceMan
4 weeks ago

Abingdon

I think you're right. Men are omnisexual. Some of us know it and enjoy it and some are either in denial or just too inhibited to make the most of it. Two men having sex together is the most natural thing in the world, in my opinion and the world would be a much better place if more men enjoyed more intimacy with each other.

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By *urple beretMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

100% agree

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"I think you're right. Men are omnisexual. Some of us know it and enjoy it and some are either in denial or just too inhibited to make the most of it. Two men having sex together is the most natural thing in the world, in my opinion and the world would be a much better place if more men enjoyed more intimacy with each other. "

So would you say gay men are omnisexual? I wouldn't.

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By *ardforall56Man
4 weeks ago

belfast

Will agree with you on that.I never met a guy who would turn down a man on man gobble when horny.

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By *DC2000Man
4 weeks ago

Coningsby

This thread proves it's complicated and not as clear as "gay/bi/straight". I've known men who have dipped their toes into the murky waters of mm sex from the safety of their family values and not repeated the experience. Logically, it doesn't mean they're bi, it simply means they were curious up to the point of trying it (and give them a gold star for that!) and proved to themselves that what they thought might work, didn't.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Don't think that most men are bisexual. Most will just shag anything though.

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By *lueEyesKinksterMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I agree. We’re conditioned but given chances in life, it’s just sex, whether with a guy or woman. I love snogging either.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I think it’s easy to let a guy suck you off without being particularly attracted to men meeting on here is easy sex less hassle to be honest

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By *ordSquiffyMan
4 weeks ago

Pulborough

"Be surprised as I was to find that most married men do like cock and I can verify that lol. And I wasn’t the only one one in the family as I found out. "

Yes, I found out my grandad was bi when we cleared his house out after he passed away. His bedside cupboard was full of gay porn magazines and novels. This was late 70s so I guess folks weren't as tolerant then.

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By *edmdMan
4 weeks ago

Woodhall Spa

There are a lot more bi/gay guys than you realise x

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

"Will agree with you on that.I never met a guy who would turn down a man on man gobble when horny."

Yet a lot of we genuinely gay guys have difficulty finding men who will let us 'gobble' even with sites like this and gay cruising areas and venues.

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