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"genuine question, isn't bb saved until you get a level of trust?" Not necessarily I find it exciting men breeding me | |||
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"Yes my sentiments exactly it’s the ones that hit me up saying they want fuck me bareback but with no mention of BB on their profiles, you know they’re time wasters, just saying what they think you want to hear. " So unless bareback is mentioned on their profile, when they say they will fuck you bareback, you assume they are timewasters? That's a very odd conclusion to make. Maybe you just attract a lot of timewasters, but if someone says they will fuck you bareback, believe them, regardless of what is and isn't on the profile. Ditto, if someone has Safe Sex on their profile, it's foolish to assume they dont also bareback. | |||
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"I don’t. That’s why I state it in my profile for clarity " That’s good and I respect your choice | |||
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"That’s fair enough, I’m certainly not criticising your right to be cautious I guess my initial thread introduction should have indicated, I was talking more of one night stands. " I would never bb on a first meet. Not against it if I know the guy but not randoms in the sauna or one night stands | |||
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"Yes please, fill me up " few years ago took five men one after another while in a swing in a sauna lol | |||
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"unsafe sex when safe sex is possible..?" It sounds like he had a great time. Nobody can recommend that you have unsafe sex with any more than they can recommend you have safe sex. He's made a decision which was right for him at the time. I'd do it, but then again I haven't had a condom anywhere near me in decades, and based on my own experience, dont live in a state of fear. I feel much safer with guys who are sexually responsible, than I do with guys who rubber up. I am responsible for my sexual health, nobody else. I'd question what has happened to them to lead them to insist on using condoms. In fact, I'd ignore them entirely. | |||
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"It was something I always fantasised about, so when the opportunity arose, I took, it must admit about our way through, I wondered what I was doing by that time I was on my back with two loads already inside they and another guys cock in my mouth " Lust does tend to throw thought out the window. For those who bareback, it doesn't matter either way. The decision was made long before clothes came off 😆 | |||
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"always safe until there's a level of trust X Unless you use condoms for oral and dental dams for rimming, it’s not ‘safe’. You can catch chlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis and hepatitis from oral and rimming. | |||
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"Bare sex is better feel for both. It's up to the individual what they get up to with another guy. " I read interests for BB and infirm them i want breeding | |||
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"always safe until there's a level of trust X Well then I guess lots of us take risks everyday whether it's with a man or woman, the reality is though be about sex is fucking hot and so is oral | |||
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"Just assume everyone does until they say they don't." That’s how I think too lol xx | |||
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"Just assume everyone does until they say they don't. That’s how I think too lol xx " Ive been here 10 years and can count on one hand the number of meets I've declined due to insistence on a rubber. | |||
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"I'd have to have a level of trust, in the same way I wouldn't want to get a girl pregnant, I wouldn't want to get STD's" | |||
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"Happy to do BB but trust is vital for both parties " I agree | |||
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"Most guys will block you if they see BB in your interest. I just not post it or safe sex so it's upto them. If a guy uses a condom it his first and last meet. Never liked the taste or feel of condoms. If I wanted rubber up me I'd use a dildo. " After donkeys years here, I think the opposite is true. Bareback is overwhelming now the normal, and using condoms has become rare, even for those guys who list safe sex. It is very, very rare to come across a guy on here who will strictly only do condom sex. It's a simple "do you?" conversation that needs to happen early. I can count on one hand the number of meets I've rejected due to their insistence on condoms. | |||
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"Only BB , no exceptions " absolutely | |||
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"unsafe sex when safe sex is possible..? It sounds like he had a great time. Nobody can recommend that you have unsafe sex with any more than they can recommend you have safe sex. He's made a decision which was right for him at the time. I'd do it, but then again I haven't had a condom anywhere near me in decades, and based on my own experience, dont live in a state of fear. I feel much safer with guys who are sexually responsible, than I do with guys who rubber up. I am responsible for my sexual health, nobody else. I'd question what has happened to them to lead them to insist on using condoms. In fact, I'd ignore them entirely." not sure why you popped up on here but good luck fella X | |||
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"I'd rather play bb with guys who are on prEp, regulary tested and aware of theor sexual health, or Undetectable guys. Most bi-curious or bi married men on here are very much oblivious about sexual health, and I tend to avoid bb with them." If you're on prep whether they are or not on prep is irrelevant, as is their hiv status. However guys on prep do tend to be far more responsible about testing regularly. | |||
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"unsafe sex when safe sex is possible..? It sounds like he had a great time. Nobody can recommend that you have unsafe sex with any more than they can recommend you have safe sex. He's made a decision which was right for him at the time. I'd do it, but then again I haven't had a condom anywhere near me in decades, and based on my own experience, dont live in a state of fear. I feel much safer with guys who are sexually responsible, than I do with guys who rubber up. I am responsible for my sexual health, nobody else. I'd question what has happened to them to lead them to insist on using condoms. In fact, I'd ignore them entirely." I don’t quite believe what I’m reading - this bashing of guys who choose to use condoms is ludicrous - it’s pretty obvious that there are valid and sensible reasons. Get real. | |||
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"I won't do bb and say only safe on my profile and try to avoid guys who do. Guys with bb on their profile say hi. I point out i don't do it and they've got it on their profile. Soo many come back with " i don't do bb". Difficult to trust. " But you’d trust someone who just had safe sex on their profile on the basis you’d just take their word for it…?! 🙄 So you’d avoid someone who you knew sometimes practiced bb even if they were happy to have safe sex with you… …but you’d have safe sex with someone else though you’d actually be ignorant of what they did with any other party and that might include bb… …when ultimately this could be exactly the same person with two different ways of addressing how they have their sex on their profiles. This is a literal demonstration of ‘Ignorance is bliss’. There’s no logic - it’s the safety net of believing something you want to be true. You can only control how you have sex with someone. As you should. You can’t control how person B has sex with person C. This way madness lies. | |||
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"Can I ask please please please guys if you are into bareback then please put it in your interests it makes it so much easier for other bb lovers messages are initially exchanged. " Agree 100% makes life so much easier for those of us who want to be fucked by raw cocks | |||
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"If I want bb at that time, I'll decide. If I don't then it still remains my decision. There is more to sexual pleasure for me than thinking about bb. Your pleasure is yours and my pleasure remains mine. And if we're unable to meet in the middle then why are we here. " | |||
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"Can we assume that the majority who BB are on prep?" Why would you assume that? Its really none of your business and your sexual health is yours alone. | |||
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"Can we assume that the majority who BB are on prep?" That’s not my place to assume, what is my place when making MY choice and MY decision about interactions with MY body is how I look after myself. I take prep and get regularly tested so that I know I can at MY choice and my own free will, have unprotected sex with other men, because I have educated myself and understand any risks involved. For those who think using condoms gives them 100% immunity from catching HIV, let me tell you a true story of a friend of mine, he has never had unprotected anal sex, but has given lots of oral without condoms, 9 years ago he tested positive for HIV. He has assumed that he was fine as long he was made sure condoms were used for anal sex. Another side to that story, we have been friends for 27 years (never done anything with each other), over those years he has had numerous STI’s and I have had 1 case of chlamydia, yet he has always used condoms with anal, but not with oral and I have never used condoms for either. There are risks everywhere in life, I choose to live my life in a way that makes me happiest, it is my choice to let guys fuck me raw and full me with their cum, MY CHOICE, if anyone doesn’t agree with the choices I make to MY life, that is perfectly fine, you are entitled to your opinion, but it’s an opinion I do not need to hear and and opinion that you should keep to yourself To all the guys who are against bareback sex, why are you even entering and reading forum posts about bareback sex if your so against it? | |||
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"Can we assume that the majority who BB are on prep? That’s not my place to assume, what is my place when making MY choice and MY decision about interactions with MY body is how I look after myself. I take prep and get regularly tested so that I know I can at MY choice and my own free will, have unprotected sex with other men, because I have educated myself and understand any risks involved. For those who think using condoms gives them 100% immunity from catching HIV, let me tell you a true story of a friend of mine, he has never had unprotected anal sex, but has given lots of oral without condoms, 9 years ago he tested positive for HIV. He has assumed that he was fine as long he was made sure condoms were used for anal sex. Another side to that story, we have been friends for 27 years (never done anything with each other), over those years he has had numerous STI’s and I have had 1 case of chlamydia, yet he has always used condoms with anal, but not with oral and I have never used condoms for either. There are risks everywhere in life, I choose to live my life in a way that makes me happiest, it is my choice to let guys fuck me raw and full me with their cum, MY CHOICE, if anyone doesn’t agree with the choices I make to MY life, that is perfectly fine, you are entitled to your opinion, but it’s an opinion I do not need to hear and and opinion that you should keep to yourself To all the guys who are against bareback sex, why are you even entering and reading forum posts about bareback sex if your so against it? " No offence intended.... Forgive me for my naiivety, I am certainly not against bb sex and I dont know why you assumed that I was.In fact the reverse is true. I am trying to understand the path one takes in making a decision to try it. | |||
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"Can we assume that the majority who BB are on prep? That’s not my place to assume, what is my place when making MY choice and MY decision about interactions with MY body is how I look after myself. I take prep and get regularly tested so that I know I can at MY choice and my own free will, have unprotected sex with other men, because I have educated myself and understand any risks involved. For those who think using condoms gives them 100% immunity from catching HIV, let me tell you a true story of a friend of mine, he has never had unprotected anal sex, but has given lots of oral without condoms, 9 years ago he tested positive for HIV. He has assumed that he was fine as long he was made sure condoms were used for anal sex. Another side to that story, we have been friends for 27 years (never done anything with each other), over those years he has had numerous STI’s and I have had 1 case of chlamydia, yet he has always used condoms with anal, but not with oral and I have never used condoms for either. There are risks everywhere in life, I choose to live my life in a way that makes me happiest, it is my choice to let guys fuck me raw and full me with their cum, MY CHOICE, if anyone doesn’t agree with the choices I make to MY life, that is perfectly fine, you are entitled to your opinion, but it’s an opinion I do not need to hear and and opinion that you should keep to yourself To all the guys who are against bareback sex, why are you even entering and reading forum posts about bareback sex if your so against it? No offence intended.... Forgive me for my naiivety, I am certainly not against bb sex and I dont know why you assumed that I was.In fact the reverse is true. I am trying to understand the path one takes in making a decision to try it. " Thats a decision you make for yourself. If you go with it all you need to do is consider the risks and protect yourself (and possibly a partner) appropriately. Bareback is the norm these days, condoms are the exception. | |||
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"Can we assume that the majority who BB are on prep? That’s not my place to assume, what is my place when making MY choice and MY decision about interactions with MY body is how I look after myself. I take prep and get regularly tested so that I know I can at MY choice and my own free will, have unprotected sex with other men, because I have educated myself and understand any risks involved. For those who think using condoms gives them 100% immunity from catching HIV, let me tell you a true story of a friend of mine, he has never had unprotected anal sex, but has given lots of oral without condoms, 9 years ago he tested positive for HIV. He has assumed that he was fine as long he was made sure condoms were used for anal sex. Another side to that story, we have been friends for 27 years (never done anything with each other), over those years he has had numerous STI’s and I have had 1 case of chlamydia, yet he has always used condoms with anal, but not with oral and I have never used condoms for either. There are risks everywhere in life, I choose to live my life in a way that makes me happiest, it is my choice to let guys fuck me raw and full me with their cum, MY CHOICE, if anyone doesn’t agree with the choices I make to MY life, that is perfectly fine, you are entitled to your opinion, but it’s an opinion I do not need to hear and and opinion that you should keep to yourself To all the guys who are against bareback sex, why are you even entering and reading forum posts about bareback sex if your so against it? No offence intended.... Forgive me for my naiivety, I am certainly not against bb sex and I dont know why you assumed that I was.In fact the reverse is true. I am trying to understand the path one takes in making a decision to try it. Thats a decision you make for yourself. If you go with it all you need to do is consider the risks and protect yourself (and possibly a partner) appropriately. Bareback is the norm these days, condoms are the exception." Sorry I might have gone off on a bit of a broad tangent and taken in all the negative comments further up in the thread. Certainly not intended to offend you mate, I did start with just the intention of answering your comment about assuming the majority are on prep, got a bit sidetracked on the way to posting | |||
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"Can I ask please please please guys if you are into bareback then please put it in your interests it makes it so much easier for other bb lovers messages are initially exchanged. " Its on mine,doesnt get any extra interest as tried here with it off too just to see | |||
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