FabGuys.com forum: If your partner was no longer around

By *3t3r87 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Lichfield

Does anyone else fantasise a scenario where their partner (wife/husband/partner/whatever) was suddenly no longer around - what would you do??

I’d personally go to loads of saunas, meet loads of guys, get lots of toys, etc and spend all my spare time getting lots of cock…

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By *artin1963Man
4 weeks ago

London

Got this with my partner recently diagnosed with Cancer Might be fine, but what if not? Wondering what that journey might be like.

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By *nsuspenders40TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Kent

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By *862EastmidsMan
4 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

If partner left, I would make clear to anyone my bi sexuality and swinging interest

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By *nsuspenders40TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Kent

I would be in my sexy undies all the time and probably dress fully around the house. I would hang my stockings, knickers , suspender belts and girdles etc on the line outside too

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By *MB9Man
4 weeks ago

Northampton

As someone who's partner left just before Christmas I can tell it's made me fully unleash the bi/gay side of me and so far it's pretty cool.

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By *wanseajack2014Man
4 weeks ago

Neath

I would go full our gay. I would not bother with women again. Id seek a gay guy for a full on swinging relationship. Monogamy is not for me so he would need to want to fuck others.

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
4 weeks ago

penzance

I d return to the wilds, living among the trees, no bills, no home except what I build

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By *jh59Man
4 weeks ago

Hinckley

Wife left me summer 2024,I started living as a full time gay,best thing that ever happened

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By *arriedbiMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

"I would go full our gay. I would not bother with women again. Id seek a gay guy for a full on swinging relationship. Monogamy is not for me so he would need to want to fuck others."
I'd come out closet as gay

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By *ivahungMan
4 weeks ago

formby

I would be a complete whore with guys

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By *laything66Man
4 weeks ago

fife

"I would be a complete whore with guys"
me too

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By *ornymwellbiMan
4 weeks ago

Motherwell

I'd be dressed all the time enjoying as much cock as possible

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By *omethingExciting41Man
4 weeks ago

Somewhere

I think we have all thought about this, I'd basically stop wearing clothes, meet up with as many guys and gurls as I wanted to and generally have a lot of fun, I think like many others I would look to have proper relationships with guys or TS

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By *aked MateMan
4 weeks ago

Giltbrook

"I would go full our gay. I would not bother with women again. Id seek a gay guy for a full on swinging relationship. Monogamy is not for me so he would need to want to fuck others."

Yep, that’s exactly how I feel x

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By *hil96Man
4 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Id come straight out as gay, because that is what i consider myself now anyway. X

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By *ardy62Man
4 weeks ago

Weymouth

I would travel further to meet guys as the best ones always are too far away

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By *ig3Man
4 weeks ago

Maldon

Same as above

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By *hisMeMan
4 weeks ago

Forfar, Angus

"I would travel further to meet guys as the best ones always are too far away"

Just message when you'll be here!

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By *ini1440Man
4 weeks ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Just say life would be different 😆 🤣

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By *iny SamTV/TS
4 weeks ago

swindon

Think I would return to being a tv and while I’d keep my family clear would spend a lot of time dressed and having fun.

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By *ackernestMan
4 weeks ago

Chatteris

I have dreamed of what I'd do if she left me which is possible she's found messages on my phone from ther guys which have upset her

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By *atharine WTV/TS
4 weeks ago

southend

I would be Katherine more. Start meeting again and enjoy being me.

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By *uffinfaceMan
4 weeks ago

hengoed

Id be getting fucked on a regular bases if I was a single guy

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By *lutty Sara2020Man
4 weeks ago

stratford on avon

I’d be getting as much cock as possible and start going to saunas

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By *ray_UKMan
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in DY area

I would have sex parties at home, and be a right slut.

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By *ersredMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Install a solid glory hole at home

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By *otsure03Man
4 weeks ago

witney

I would spend a lot of time crossdressing and entertaining men

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
4 weeks ago

West London

I’d be such a slut!

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By *aulsmith69TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Maidenhead

I’d be a full time cd and take my time being smooth all over lovely makeup etc

Go to clubs and saunas and see men all the time

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

"I would be a complete whore with guysme too"

Me 3

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

So when my mrs left

I was upset for a while

I trashed the house

I got rid of the dog

I bought a £15k motorbike

Spent £10k on Charlie

And dressed in the clothes she left behind

She’s gonna do her nut when she gets home from work

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

"I’d be such a slut!"

Probably not if you’re arranging the meets off here

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By *uckmeslow555Man
4 weeks ago

oakham

I would spend what time I’ve got left fucking and getting sucked off by as many people as I could

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By *dstefiMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull

Given mine earns about 30% more than me and we manage OK on two incomes but wouldn't make it on either alone, I'd be fucked and not in a good way.

Nice fantasy, not pragmatic though.

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By *nd6969Man
4 weeks ago

Solihull

I’d be a naughty slut

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
4 weeks ago

England

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
4 weeks ago

England

That's what I am doing. Partner sometimes spend the weekend with his other sex buddies. I dont normally join in because he likes only Asian guys whereas I prefer Caucasian guys.

When he's away either working overseas or spending the weekends with others, I usually meet other guys for sex fun. He does not mind, he even encourages me to let him know whether I enjoyed it. Time have changed. We think differently now - nothing wrong having fun with male friends too.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
4 weeks ago

North East

Jack my job in move to the Scottish Highlands and live the rest of my days away from everyone 😁

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By *ichtea284Man
4 weeks ago

Beccles

"I’d be a naughty slut"

Think I may go down the same route

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By *dstefiMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull

"Jack my job in move to the Scottish Highlands and live the rest of my days away from everyone 😁"

Reckon you could have a nice little earner offering roadside BJs/HJs etc beside the NC500, the amount of traffic it gets now

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By *nmykneesagainMan
4 weeks ago

salford

Id be taking cock in my arse and mouth everyday

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
4 weeks ago

barton

I'd be having casual sex at every opportunity

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By *westMan
4 weeks ago

Hull

I don't know why, but the thought of my wife leaving me really turns me on. If she did I would have more cock.

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By *wanseajack2014Man
4 weeks ago

Neath

" Got this with my partner recently diagnosed with Cancer Might be fine, but what if not? Wondering what that journey might be like."

Sorry to hear that

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By *3versMan
4 weeks ago

glasgow

"Does anyone else fantasise a scenario where their partner (wife/husband/partner/whatever) was suddenly no longer around - what would you do??

I’d personally go to loads of saunas, meet loads of guys, get lots of toys, etc and spend all my spare time getting lots of cock…"

Why don't you leave and look after numero uno?

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By *aulBiBottomMan
4 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

"Does anyone else fantasise a scenario where their partner (wife/husband/partner/whatever) was suddenly no longer around - what would you do??

I’d personally go to loads of saunas, meet loads of guys, get lots of toys, etc and spend all my spare time getting lots of cock…"

Every time I've been single between marriage and girlfriends I've gone on a little whore period of my life getting lots of cock and saunas, so amazing bareback sessions with guys and just fun, so yes if I was only single again I'll be back on the route of gay sex

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By *arehamMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

...... to start, I'd feel less guilty. I wouldn't come 'out' either. But in the same breath, I'd never deny it when asked the question. I'd be contempt with just finding that special guy to fall in love with, be loved and have the relationship that currently only exists in my dreams.

A bit cliche I know....

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By *ario456Man
4 weeks ago

newport

Move to spain with a bf and open a gay bnb with redroom for fun

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By *ardforall56Man
4 weeks ago

belfast

Would move to maspalomas and live life to the full.

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By *etterbiggerMan
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"So when my mrs left

I was upset for a while

I trashed the house

I got rid of the dog

I bought a £15k motorbike

Spent £10k on Charlie

And dressed in the clothes she left behind

She’s gonna do her nut when she gets home from work

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By *0yguyMan
4 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Does anyone else fantasise a scenario where their partner (wife/husband/partner/whatever) was suddenly no longer around - what would you do??

I’d personally go to loads of saunas, meet loads of guys, get lots of toys, etc and spend all my spare time getting lots of cock…"

I’d probably start by re-laying my patio after the excavation.

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By *1983Man
4 weeks ago

Kidderminster

If this were to happen, I would be trying to get as much cock as I can. I would probably go to saunas and probably be ok to accom too.

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By *opcock58Man
4 weeks ago

Helston

I would die with some horrid gay disease

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By *egselevenMan
4 weeks ago

burnley

mm id be dressed more and more and having sex as much as i can x

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By *haron4465TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Hull

As much as i would miss her i yhink it would be my last straight relationship,it would be time for me as in sharon to live the life id like not full time en femme but when i wanted to be and entertain like minded guys who are into cd,s i have no desire to transition but dress for stress relief and the pure sexual buzz it gives,and the cock i get

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By *ustOneBearMan
4 weeks ago

Neath

I got to find out in 2024.

It’s no bed of roses. I miss the company and the companionship that goes with a relationship.

Being free to have sex and actually getting sex are very different things.

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Estepona Spain Not in

If this did happen and at the moment it could actually happen soon, I'd be Samantha at least 90% of the time and certainly be enjoying as much cock sex as I could get. Initially I would also take up on an offer to move in with a dom guy as his live in TV girlfriend and see how that would work out. Luckily he would me letting me meet other guys as well.

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By *punk loverMan
4 weeks ago

Dunstable

"I would go full our gay. I would not bother with women again. Id seek a gay guy for a full on swinging relationship. Monogamy is not for me so he would need to want to fuck others."

Agreed monogamy is vastly overrated….variety is the spice of life

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By *ontrolhimMan
4 weeks ago

lincoln

I’d be permanently naked whilst at home and I’d never lock the door

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By *ic15Man
4 weeks ago

wroxham

Fucking throat and eating arse 😉

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By *illyboy52Man
4 weeks ago

Copthorne

When my marriage failed, I wasn't ready to get involved with another woman. I had children that we separately cared for, and I didn't want them to feel as if I was looking for a new partner.

I decided to explore what was a bi curiosity, which quickly became a bisexuality. For the next ten years, I spent it having sex exclusively with men. I explored many aspects of MM fun and had a whale of a time.

I'm now in a loving , but non sexual relationship with the woman I live with. When I can, I still enjoy MM fun.

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By *allsdeep75Man
4 weeks ago

dunmow

As a widowed man it’s not all fun and games

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By *eicester-lukeMan
4 weeks ago

leicester

I would be a slut for cock sucking and taking it as much as i can

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By *urrey_hjTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Kingston Upon Thames

"Does anyone else fantasise a scenario where their partner (wife/husband/partner/whatever) was suddenly no longer around - what would you do??

I’d personally go to loads of saunas, meet loads of guys, get lots of toys, etc and spend all my spare time getting lots of cock…"

I would immediately contact a number of my former girlfriends (one of whom is already teed up), buy lots of toys that I have always wanted to try and be constantly active on here and swinging sites.

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By *uminsideme .Man
4 weeks ago

weston s mare

I would come out as gay, i am gay but no one knows, and Id be a regular at a sauna and get as much bare cock as I could and find a regular hung fuck buddy xx

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By *rCurious75Man
4 weeks ago

Ashby de la Zouch

I shag like there was no tomorrow and no limits.

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By *i_Needs_CockMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

I feel that I would become a proper slut, offering myself up as a cum dump for anyone that wanted to use me.

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By *iguy1964Man
4 weeks ago

herongate

"Does anyone else fantasise a scenario where their partner (wife/husband/partner/whatever) was suddenly no longer around - what would you do??

I’d personally go to loads of saunas, meet loads of guys, get lots of toys, etc and spend all my spare time getting lots of cock…"

Exactly what you just said lol xx

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By *uck me in KentMan
4 weeks ago

Medway

Think I'd stay as I am enjoying both cock and pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I’d be able to accommodate Easily but most of all love to go to T girl clubs

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By *lokenexdoor2025Man
4 weeks ago

Ludlow

"So when my mrs left

I was upset for a while

I trashed the house

I got rid of the dog

I bought a £15k motorbike

Spent £10k on Charlie

And dressed in the clothes she left behind

She’s gonna do her nut when she gets home from work

Best post of the day 🤣

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By *lokenexdoor2025Man
4 weeks ago

Ludlow

"Does anyone else fantasise a scenario where their partner (wife/husband/partner/whatever) was suddenly no longer around - what would you do??

I’d personally go to loads of saunas, meet loads of guys, get lots of toys, etc and spend all my spare time getting lots of cock…

I’d probably start by re-laying my patio after the excavation."

🤣🤣🤣

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By *ornymwellbiMan
4 weeks ago

Motherwell

Be constantly dressed in bra panties dress tights heels enjoying as much cock as possible

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By *earlyrichTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in time

I wasn't a CD when my ex wife and I split up, (some time ago now).

Single and live alone, I dress how and when I like.

Now filled one of her wardrobes with my own girly clothes, had several meets with another CD.

I haven't worn mens pants for 367 days (and counting), I sleep in satin nighties every night.

There are times when I miss her and what we had...ho hum

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By *ew0792Man
4 weeks ago

Loughborough

I would meet lots more guys off here and have lots of fun. Travelling to meet further away

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By *arti G xTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chandlers Ford

I'd love a partner

I live alone so l can dress whenever l choose when at home & would still like to do that if had a partner, finding one who is comfortable with that isn't always easy

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By *ottomguy8919Man
4 weeks ago

Thetford

I would definitely be having a lot of gay sex

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By *aniel sykesMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

I would go on prep, have vaccinations for gonorrhea, hepatitis, mpox and hpv, then go to saunas and lie in slings inviting breeding, and kneel for bukkake. And tour the country on one nighters and car meets.

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By *ucker4you80Man
4 weeks ago

Chippenham

Maybe stop fantasising and get on with real life, it's far more rewarding.

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By *ick ZuckerMan
4 weeks ago

sheffield

I would invite Eastern European girls to live rent free in my house in exchange for maid duties and sex.

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By *ondon BiTV/TS
4 weeks ago

woking

I would start to dress full time and think about transitioning.

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By *ixer61Man
4 weeks ago

Aycliffe

I'd probably arrange holidays to gay resorts all over the place

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I would dress every day invite my girlfriends around and of course men and be shagged stupid xx

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By *atex-PlayerMan
4 weeks ago

Sudbury

I would put myself out for ownership. Starting with three months, total ownership outside of work time. Told what to wear, kept in chastity and doing as I am instructed without question.

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By *lackbootzMan
4 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I would die with some horrid gay disease "

What’s a “horrid gay disease”..?

Am I suddenly transported back to the 1980s..?!

Are you a Sun headline writer talking about Rock Hudson..?

Thoroughly distasteful.

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By *amiZMan
4 weeks ago

norwich

No more relationships, fuck buddies, play times and just think about me!

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By *cunnySucker69Man
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I had this situation when my wife left, problem was that she left me with our three sons. As I was limited to times when she had the boys I opted meet women

I only have one son living with me now so I have more time to meet but the problem I have now is accommodating as I don't often know when he will be home and most men near me cannot accommodate.

Over the 20 odd years since she left I have met men for sex, more so before COVID, men meeting since then has slowed down a lot, many on here only want to talk while they play with themselves

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By *hilmeMan
4 weeks ago

Bournemouth

My partner passed away,so free to do as I please but oddly I still don't have loads of meetings, guess I'm too fussy 😕

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By *-skinMan
4 weeks ago

Weymouth

Be like a kid in a sweet shop lol xxx

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By *wadbisexualMan
4 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

I'd probably do just the same as you

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