FabGuys.com forum: Do I or Don't I?

By *ordSquiffy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Pulborough

Question for the group. I've recently seen a profile on here of someone I've known and been good friends with for over thirty years. Over the past couple of years I've wondered if he's had bi leanings. He's talked about his dwindled to nothing sex life at home, and knows I'm in the same marital boat. Do I make contact with him (direct, not from here) and gently let him know I've seen his profile? I'm starting to fantasise about having fun with him. What do we think?

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By *3versMan
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Will you be able to handle the rejection if he says no?

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By *ordSquiffy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Pulborough

"Will you be able to handle the rejection if he says no?"

Oh sure, there would be no hard feelings on my part. I guess I don't want to embarrass him.

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By *ackfull1Man
4 weeks ago

E mids/Anglia

Why not broach the subject on here? That way you can remain anonymous. If he rejects it, you can both retreat gracefully without risking your actual friendship. If he’s up for it you can reveal your identity and share orgasms galore.

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By *oxleyMan
4 weeks ago

Wetherby

Agreed

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By *ewbie23400Man
4 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Id message on here too

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By *ick ZuckerMan
4 weeks ago

sheffield

If he sees this thread he’d have to be pretty dim not to put 2&2 together!

On a serious note it will change the dynamics of your friendship massively. If you value it as it is I’d leave it as it is.

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By *C0606Man
4 weeks ago

watford

I would block and leave well alone

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By *ordSquiffy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Pulborough

I did consider that. I figure it might be worth the risk.

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By *awihMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Will you be able to handle the rejection if he says no?"

Or the end of a long standing friendship if he is scared off by the advance.

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By *aulBiBottomMan
4 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

"Question for the group. I've recently seen a profile on here of someone I've known and been good friends with for over thirty years. Over the past couple of years I've wondered if he's had bi leanings. He's talked about his dwindled to nothing sex life at home, and knows I'm in the same marital boat. Do I make contact with him (direct, not from here) and gently let him know I've seen his profile? I'm starting to fantasise about having fun with him. What do we think?"

Absolutely, have an amazing time

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By *excessMan
4 weeks ago

Sleaford

Personally, I wouldn't risk losing a friend for the sake of a wank.

I value my social friendships too much

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By *nicMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

If he has been telling you about his sex life n that and other personal things Then maybe he is dropping a hint maybe he has seen your profile too Take it easy be careful and accept his predicament

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By *oddess_MelissaTV/TS
4 weeks ago

I should leave him blissfully unaware x

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By *isexual57Man
4 weeks ago

Staffs

I would contact him on here first it could end up in an ideal situation. Friends first and lovers in secret x

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By *tan hardyMan
4 weeks ago

North Tyneside

If you go for a drink with him sort of drop your bisexual into the conversation .. see what his reaction is

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Bargoed

I'd send a wink and see if he responds. If you message just something simple like, "fancy seeing you here".

He might appreciate someone to chat to in a non sexual way.

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By *hyna HutchMan
4 weeks ago

valleys

Have a think about it when you're not horny. That lid can't be closed once opened.

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By *ull btmMan
4 weeks ago

hull

Oh id leave this well alone. Would be a big no from me.

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By *ackredMan
4 weeks ago

wirral

Definitely follow him up

Enjoy x

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By *obbie300Man
4 weeks ago

BANGOR Co Down

"I'd send a wink and see if he responds. If you message just something simple like, "fancy seeing you here".

He might appreciate someone to chat to in a non sexual way."
Agree,good answer,could chat on here as if separate from face to face then both can walk away if want to without embarrassnent or then chat face to face about it ,both in same boat

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By *ncutNovaMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

Risk ruining a good friendship over something that could not be a good experience or miss out on the experience to keep a strong friendship?

That's what you should be asking youself.

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By *cunnySucker69Man
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Send him a wink and see if he responds

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By *fcdTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Southend

I had a friend I’d know for maybe ten years before we worked out we were both on the same page. We became each others regulars for years until he moved away so anything’s possible.

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By *allsdeep75Man
4 weeks ago

dunmow

I would go for it if you think your his type

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Pop him on block and you both get on with your lives with the friendship intact. Friendship is more important than this. Now you know his leaning, you can explore gently and sensibly in real life. You could ruin his fun on this site simply by revealing you are here.

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By *opipu8800Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

The risk is you might lose a friend. That's a big risk.

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By *hisMeMan
4 weeks ago

Forfar, Angus

"The risk is you might lose a friend. That's a big risk."

Good friends are hard to come by...

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

If was me

I would contact him on here a just string out a chat

Then a few messages in i would ask him how he would react if he found someone he knows on here !

His response will tell you how to proceed

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