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"Looking for another boyfriend on a hook up site will be a challenge. What happens if he’s more into your boyfriend than you? You could become the once a week person in the set up. " Been with him over 7 years now so we know exactly who we are looking for and of course we can take the odd meet meanwhile if we like. I dong do too bad x | |||
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"… Been with him over 7 years now so we know exactly who we are looking for and of course we can take the odd meet meanwhile if we like… " So… it’s not actually “EXCLUSIVE!”…?! Or did you want someone whom you’d insist was only committed to you both - but whilst the two of you can apparently do your own thing…? Have you actually thought this through… | |||
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"… Been with him over 7 years now so we know exactly who we are looking for and of course we can take the odd meet meanwhile if we like… So… it’s not actually “EXCLUSIVE!”…?! Or did you want someone whom you’d insist was only committed to you both - but whilst the two of you can apparently do your own thing…? Have you actually thought this through… " Oh yes it’s thought through and the key word you omitted to include in your quote was “ MEANWHILE” which means as we are looking we can still have the occasional safe sex in a threesome or one on one … but , this is where the exclusive bit comes in. Once we find a nice decent guy to join us then it becomes exclusive to all of us and I disappear from here satisfied and not looking elsewhere. He gets the opportunity to bottom and I get two bottoms … isn’t that cool 😎 | |||
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"… Been with him over 7 years now so we know exactly who we are looking for and of course we can take the odd meet meanwhile if we like… So… it’s not actually “EXCLUSIVE!”…?! Or did you want someone whom you’d insist was only committed to you both - but whilst the two of you can apparently do your own thing…? Have you actually thought this through… Oh yes it’s thought through and the key word you omitted to include in your quote was “ MEANWHILE” which means as we are looking we can still have the occasional safe sex in a threesome or one on one … but , this is where the exclusive bit comes in. Once we find a nice decent guy to join us then it becomes exclusive to all of us and I disappear from here satisfied and not looking elsewhere. He gets the opportunity to bottom and I get two bottoms … isn’t that cool 😎 " So you’re looking for another mature gentleman who will need to find both you and your long term partner equally to his liking, who will be happy to settle into an exclusive sexual threesome with meetings held at your convenience, and whose only sex life is to complement yours as he can’t do anything externally… Well, good luck with that. | |||
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"… Been with him over 7 years now so we know exactly who we are looking for and of course we can take the odd meet meanwhile if we like… So… it’s not actually “EXCLUSIVE!”…?! Or did you want someone whom you’d insist was only committed to you both - but whilst the two of you can apparently do your own thing…? Have you actually thought this through… Oh yes it’s thought through and the key word you omitted to include in your quote was “ MEANWHILE” which means as we are looking we can still have the occasional safe sex in a threesome or one on one … but , this is where the exclusive bit comes in. Once we find a nice decent guy to join us then it becomes exclusive to all of us and I disappear from here satisfied and not looking elsewhere. He gets the opportunity to bottom and I get two bottoms … isn’t that cool 😎 So you’re looking for another mature gentleman who will need to find both you and your long term partner equally to his liking, who will be happy to settle into an exclusive sexual threesome with meetings held at your convenience, and whose only sex life is to complement yours as he can’t do anything externally… Well, good luck with that. " You really don’t need to be too concerned about me at all do you. I have been on this site since it began and I was one of the “ fresh meat brigade” like you. I just decided it was all too shallow and unfulfilling for me. People have different views, opinions, ideas about all of this. I used to have 184 verifications in a previous post and collected partners like Greenshield stamps. You seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this don’t you. It won’t be at our convenience. It will be at everybody’s convenience of course and some guys are happy to have a friendship with a social life and regular sex. You should try not to overthink it and get too upset about this idea. Well, thank you for wishing me good luck at lesst and I wish for you the happy life you had prior to reading my post and hope you continue to ramp up another couple of hundred over the next year or so. I wonder what the record is ? | |||
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"… Been with him over 7 years now so we know exactly who we are looking for and of course we can take the odd meet meanwhile if we like… So… it’s not actually “EXCLUSIVE!”…?! Or did you want someone whom you’d insist was only committed to you both - but whilst the two of you can apparently do your own thing…? Have you actually thought this through… Oh yes it’s thought through and the key word you omitted to include in your quote was “ MEANWHILE” which means as we are looking we can still have the occasional safe sex in a threesome or one on one … but , this is where the exclusive bit comes in. Once we find a nice decent guy to join us then it becomes exclusive to all of us and I disappear from here satisfied and not looking elsewhere. He gets the opportunity to bottom and I get two bottoms … isn’t that cool 😎 So you’re looking for another mature gentleman who will need to find both you and your long term partner equally to his liking, who will be happy to settle into an exclusive sexual threesome with meetings held at your convenience, and whose only sex life is to complement yours as he can’t do anything externally… Well, good luck with that. You really don’t need to be too concerned about me at all do you. I have been on this site since it began and I was one of the “ fresh meat brigade” like you. I just decided it was all too shallow and unfulfilling for me. People have different views, opinions, ideas about all of this. I used to have 184 verifications in a previous post and collected partners like Greenshield stamps. You seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this don’t you. It won’t be at our convenience. It will be at everybody’s convenience of course and some guys are happy to have a friendship with a social life and regular sex. You should try not to overthink it and get too upset about this idea. Well, thank you for wishing me good luck at lesst and I wish for you the happy life you had prior to reading my post and hope you continue to ramp up another couple of hundred over the next year or so. I wonder what the record is ?" At what point did you become so sneeringly dismissive and judgmental about other people and how they have their sex?! Will this cynicism be offered to putative candidates for your new relationship? They won’t want their sexual lives judged so piously by you. You’ve initiated this thread, actively inviting our comments on the new sexual relationship you’re seeking. Good luck. You’re going to need it. What you’re seeking is complex and delicate and will need to find an incredibly fine balance introducing someone into the existing dynamic. A number of us above have voiced doubt about that. I say it as I see it and I’m a realist. There’s no need to get sniffy and make put-downs on my profile because you don’t like what I’m saying. Let’s hope your putative life-time third hasn’t been reading your haughty piety. | |||
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"It seems like a perfect arrangement to me, I only wish I lived closer so that I could apply I hope you find a suitable bottom to slot into your wonderful arrangement " Thanks for the response. It’s Sod’s Law that you are not local. Having looked at your profile it does seem like it could have worked out. As you can see from several responses there are guys who doubt it. Happy to keep in touch if you want to PM me just for chats about your progress x | |||
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"Would be nice to regularly serve a group of older gents. Would be nice to have it scheduled for every week. " It is nice and has worked well, bit the last guy decided he needed more, which is fine. It doesn’t suit everybody x | |||
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