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By *istable arse OP   Man
3 weeks ago

kings lynn near QEH

So...lots of folk simply respond , want to try, or love too etc.

Fisting is a lifestyle, not something you can just try.

It requires practice and extended playtimes with experienced players, either top or bottom.

Everyone does start somewhere, but please be careful or you will definitely end up hurt and need to seek medical attention.

This that offer as experienced bottoms usually take time to prepare, and have to clean up afterwards if hosting, don't mess with their time please.

It's not a Dom / sub thing either, often the power or control is with the recipient.

Anyway rant over...have fun, stay safe, and show a little respect to each other, if you can be anything be kind...

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Well said! As a fisting top I have to take my cues from the recipient. He hosts, takes time to prepare himself and deserves the best experience I can give him. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy what we do but it certainly isn't a dom/sub experience

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By *obby_000Man
3 weeks ago

Evesham

These are good posts. I am one of this guys. I like the idea, the though, but know it is in no way possible without a lot of work. Not saying I wouldn't do it, but can imagine it take a lot of time work and trust

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

I love taking a fist,I always make sure I'm as clean as I possibly can be. that said I have a good diet and look after myself .I only douche when I know I'm going to have anal sex be it cock fist or both. I go to the gym minimum 5 times a week and do lots of kegel exercises its important to me as a bottom to make sure I'm in good shape. This I believe Leeds to a pleasurable fisting experience for giver and receiver. Look after your bum and enjoy the fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Tried a few times, but the top pushed too much and put me off. I felt pleasure, but more pain and he didn't stop when I insisted

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By *emboitrainerTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Washington

I've always wanted to try and take a fisting. XxxxX

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By *ravelsALotMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands and North East

I love being fisted, not been fisting top yet though. It took me a while after using big toys to have confidence to try being fisted (although that was properly the second time, first time was something very unusual!)

I have taken fist to about the elbow which is something I never thought I would be able to do. Start with toys and build up body awareness I would say to beginners and find a Top who respects limits and takes their time. Love being fisted and thank all the guys who have fisted me so far and helped me in my experiences - I only use good lube and little brown bottles

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By *orthernlidMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

I've been a fisting top a couple of times but I have big hands and have never met anyone able to take the full fist. I agree though, it takes time, and as the top, its your responsibility to know when to carry on and when to stop! Its fucking horny though, especially fucking a freshly fisted arse 😍

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By *oxleyMan
3 weeks ago

Wetherby

Similar, had an experience fist bottom begging me to try harder, but it became just too difficult.

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By *igby99Man
3 weeks ago

stratford on Avon

Well said OP. I wish people would understand too, that it’s not a quick thing anyone can do. It’s all about connection and trust. 🤗

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By *mitz2Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

I'm still looking for a guy to give me my first stretching

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By *iguyhornMan
3 weeks ago

Bury

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By *iguyhornMan
3 weeks ago

Bury

Well said, I have had my fair share of people who go at it like a bull in a china shop and despite giving the directions and guidance it just ain’t happening and have to stop.

Having spent such a long time preparing as well as the various messaging it’s a bit frustrating. It took me years. It was so worth it but being tactile and going at the pace of the person taking and being able to read where they are at is often a bit of a gift I think.

Happy fisting all

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By *iMarkGregCouple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Rotherham

Mark and I are able to fist each other at the same time.. a fisty nine. Also at the same time we are sucking each others cocks.. the sensation is overwhelming as well as cumming in each others mouths..

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By *YorkieCouple (MM)
3 weeks ago

North East

I take the practice whenever it’s offered

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By *ounce100Man
2 weeks ago

Stroud

I was very fortunate to find a guy (Top Fister)who patiently took his time to prepare my hole to take his fist. I think it was on the 3rd or fourth time before he finally popped my cherry and that was after hours of preparation. A mutual trust is built up over this time and when he finally entered me it was intense, sensual and intoxicating!

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By *ob 51Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

This is true I can't just turn up and fist something. It needs to be prepared and the recipient needs to be something that is used to. I had something the other day ask me to fist it but when chatting it said it had only had 1 finger it it before and was very tight. We never met. Be realistic it is a lifestyle.

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By *issalignedTV/TS
2 weeks ago

London

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By *okhungryMan
2 weeks ago

Ayr

I love getting fisted, not something to be rushed and very pleasuring when it slides on in.

Would love to try fisting someone else too as it really turns me on but also a little apprehensive.

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By *0yguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

I apologise if this upsets……but I find the whole idea revolting. Am I too naive?

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By *istable arse OP   Man
2 weeks ago

kings lynn near QEH


"I apologise if this upsets……but I find the whole idea revolting. Am I too naive?"

Not naive at all. You've been adult and made a choice, we all find things that we like, and others we don't etc....sadly some folk do not accept others choices. I believe it's important to know what you want and be upfront about it, just as you have.

Strangely I've always found the fisting community more friendly and accepting that most, not sure why that is tho.

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By *hrobinsonMan
2 weeks ago

South Shrops


"I apologise if this upsets……but I find the whole idea revolting. Am I too naive?"

Why bother posting that, it's not adding anything to the conversation and just seems closed minded.

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By *avid_glasgowMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

The only time I was a fisting top, the guy was able to accommodate my hand with apparent ease. I was having a good time but also mindful I didn't want to cause injury.

I guess I was comparatively tame because he said "it's alright you're obviously not into it" which is an odd line to hear when your hand is up his ass to the wrist, guess expectations change with practice 😅

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By *ub slut SueTV/TS
2 weeks ago

penrith

I think porn has a lot to do with it… much as I like porn one minute the star walks on set, next minute someone elbow deep. Some folk think this is the norm….

A while back I was practically pushed across a bed as a guy tried to force is hand in. He had told me he was experienced, his method suggested otherwise.

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By *issy jakTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Staines

Speaking as a fistie I think that it is paramount that both parties agree limits and nothing should be rushed, plenty of dialation in foreplay is the best way to start and lubrication always

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By *irenisMan
2 weeks ago

Dundee

Every guy who has fisted me had never done it before but they were all keen to do it.

I had to guide them through the process and it always ends up with both of us having a fantastic orgasm. Only once has it not been perfect. A newbie got carried away and pushed too hard too soon and it was fucking painful but he stopped when told and we carried at a slower pace and it ended wonderfully. I mounted his arm and bent over and took his cock in my mouth and we both came at the same time with his hand deep in my guts and his cock in my mouth. It was one of my best ever orgasms

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By *ottomguy89Man
2 weeks ago

Wexford

Only ever fisted myself and finding someone to trust to do it is hard

Isn’t always taken seriously

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By *oey69xxxMan
2 weeks ago

durham

My Mrs has put 4 fingers in me x

But I’d love her to have a go with a fist

Or better still a bloke who had experience x

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By *andybottom999Man
2 weeks ago

oxford

I lurv being fisted! Such an horny experience. Happy fisting an hungry hole too. Travel only

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By *onywants2Man
2 weeks ago

bispham

Love being fisted

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By *istable arse OP   Man
6 days ago

kings lynn near QEH


"Only ever fisted myself and finding someone to trust to do it is hard

Isn’t always taken seriously "

One of my dreams is to self fist but getting angle and bendy correctly is so difficult, probably best or else my hand would be permanently up there lol

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By *istableMan
5 days ago

Frodsham

Ive been into fisting for years as a bottom or vers. I definitely know when its being done right, as its the best feeling. When someone says id like to have a go, its really off putting. Im prepared to work with a top to learn, as you have to at some stage, but do some research, be patient, its not about push, then just push harder.

Unfortunately, it seems very different to find guys who are serious about fisting and reliable

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
4 days ago

England

Have tried. Nice sensation.

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