FabGuys.com forum: How to talk to your partner about been a CD?

By *ornym37 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Thirsk

ok please help me.

I have been occasionally cross dressing since I was about 11.

Ive kept it secret from my wife all this time ( we have been together since I was 15 ) a long time.

She did find some nickers, a baby doll, suspender and stockings hidden once, she didn't ask, she just told me she had found them, assumed they were trophies from me cheating, they wernt at all, they were mine.

In the last 18 months or so ive been dressing alot more, I have full lingerie, heels, some nice blouses and skirts, a wig, fake breasts and makeup which is all well hidden.

But im getting really upset, I feel I owe it to my wife to let me know and discuss it with her.

I dont want me dieing and then her sorting through all my things and finding everything which is hidden in a suitcase in the loft.

I enjoy feeling sexy when im dressed though I know I could never be convincing, but more than that I just like been dressed.

I need to tell her, but dont know how.

Has Anyone else done this? How did you bring the Subject up and what did you say?

How was your partner / wife when you told them?

Thanks for any replies

By *tockinglovingcdTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Liskeard

I have been with my gf for six years, I introduced being a cd by saying she looked so good in stockings and I might see how I looked.

And it built from there, and from stockings to corsets and so on.

Now she regularly buys lingerie for me from Ann summers ect.

And we share dresses.

(Of which I have more than she does).

I'm lucky that she is very liberal in her views and is non judgemental.