FabGuys.com forum: What we regret most

By *hrisk75 OP Man
3 weeks ago

gateshead

They say that you will always regret more the things that you didn’t do than the things that you did…..I’d argue that isn’t always the case…..regrets sexual or otherwise what is your biggest regret a done or not done ?

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By *ncutNovaMan
3 weeks ago

Telford

Honestly? Not joining the army whrn I had the chance!

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By *bbillMan
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Not coming out

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By *excessMan
3 weeks ago

Sleaford

"Honestly? Not joining the army whrn I had the chance! "

Ironically joining the RAF when I did!

5 years I'll never get back

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By *cott5555Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

My biggest regret is starting smoking, I hate it so much and have tried to stop so many times but keep going back to it.

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By *d_rexMan
3 weeks ago

Abergavenny

"My biggest regret is starting smoking, I hate it so much and have tried to stop so many times but keep going back to it. "

This. Mostly smoke free now but it's a fucking nightmare to get off..

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By *andy63Man
3 weeks ago

n yorks

Sucking cock I cant get any lately lol

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By *unlad777Man
3 weeks ago

Cornwall

Biggest regret is not being true to myself.

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By *ranform71Man
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

Not going for cock in my teens. In my forties before my first cock entered me.

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By *amsoonMan
3 weeks ago

stornoway

Biggest regret not being sluttier in my teens

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Not looking after my teeth when I was younger. Spending serious money now to fix that laziness.

Not getting my frenulum removed until my 40s. Years of awkward and unnecessary pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Getting together with another woman after my first devorce. Should have waited and been a cock slut instead.

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By *0yguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Honestly? Not joining the army whrn I had the chance!

Ironically joining the RAF when I did!

5 years I'll never get back

On this theme…. Not joining the navy when I could.

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By *upSamMan
3 weeks ago

Evesham

Not having more cock earlier. Not taking my mates 9 incher

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By *eorgesdadMan
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

Failing to persuade my ex wife to cuckold me with her taking lovers

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By *aulBiBottomMan
3 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

Being oblivious to some of the offers that I've had an opportunity, then realising later what it was too late, and I mean for sex with guys and couples

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By *ldmanMan
3 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

I regret saying "no" to many guys when younger.

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By *eefandfurMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Not being more sexually adventurous at at a younger age.

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By *ig3Man
3 weeks ago

Maldon

Same as above

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By *ike 57Man
3 weeks ago

clonmel

guess we all did

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

My biggest regret was not discovering my bi side till I was in my fifties an other was not joining the army I would have love that

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By *olin1951Man
3 weeks ago

worcester

As John Betjeman said: Not enough sex".

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By *aulBiBottomMan
3 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

"My biggest regret was not discovering my bi side till I was in my fifties an other was not joining the army I would have love that "

Tried to add you on teleguard, your app version doesn't allow apparently, you may need to update your app

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By *astguy7Man
3 weeks ago

Herefordshire

Not buying Bitcoin right at the start. If you had invested £1,000 in Bitcoin in 2010, it would be worth approximately £1.62 billion!

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By *rowserMan
3 weeks ago

East Kent

To echo others above: not picking up on, or choosing to decline, what I now see as clear but nicely subtle sexual overtures from guys when younger.

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By *veregebottomEdinMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Not going for a job as a fireman as i got begged not to do it. Think i wouldve loved it as a job.

Sexually wish i was more brave to try having cock fun sooner and visit a sauna

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By *astDevonGuyMan
3 weeks ago

Seaton

Not going to the loo , when I first got the urge to.

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By *anformeMan
3 weeks ago

notts

Keeping more healthy and also stressing about things

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By *ubtitsMan
3 weeks ago

hyde

Only one the lad who first fucked me had me Friday Saturday Sunday was to sire to take him on Monday I wish he had made me take it .

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By *jh59Man
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

Not coming out earlier living a lie for 40 odd years

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By *onk23Man
3 weeks ago

Rugeley/Lichfield

Have no regrets. Enjoy what you do and enjoy the now.

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By *oug999Man
3 weeks ago

Horncastle

Not swallowing earlier.

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By *oadrunner808Man
3 weeks ago

Hereford

Living my life for what I thought others wanted.

Rather than living the life I wanted.

Marrying way too young to completely the wrong person.

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By *rancd2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Not buying Bitcoin right at the start. If you had invested £1,000 in Bitcoin in 2010, it would be worth approximately £1.62 billion!"

Not investing more in bitcoin when I was advised to, wish I’d done more than the £100 although that did give a big enough return when I sold most of them.

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By *opguy11Man
3 weeks ago

frodsham

Not sucking more cock when I was younger

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By *ndy61hMan
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

The guilt of being married 3 times, when i truly should have stayed single.

It messed up their heads and mine.

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By *ub slut SueTV/TS
3 weeks ago

penrith

Not being true to myself when younger and conforming to the expectations of others

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By *utdoorsGuy666Man
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

I shouldn't of gotten married really. Im truly bi and should not have committed to any one person. That said I wouldn't be without my kids.

Sexually there's a few shags I had when younger that I took waaay too many risks with, either from where it was or some weirdo or just straight up risking STDs. Luckily got away with it all.

The one I wish I had done was a mate who found out I was bi and kept edging around the issue for years until I moved away with the army. In later years he told me he actually loved me. He is such a kind and gentle soul as well as being totally gorgeous that I think I would have been happy. I was too busy being self destructive to notice though.

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By *oxleyMan
3 weeks ago

Wetherby

"Have no regrets. Enjoy what you do and enjoy the now. "

What he said 🤭👍👍👍👍😎

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By *uv2b4uMan
3 weeks ago

carlisle

Not taking all the hints from guys in my teens !!! So naive !!!

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By *arehamMan
3 weeks ago

Fareham

Just like the guy above me, I regret not being true to myself and for not admitting I was gay. I had joined the RAF when it was still illegal to be gay. So I hid behind a mask of being married and having children. I love my kids with all my heart and is one of the only things I feel I've done right in my life. I LOVE my wife but I'm NOT IN LOVE with my wife, and I regret not telling her, and giving her the life she could have had with someone else. That's me done.....

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Preston

Starting 🚬 at a young age, I have severe COPD now☹️

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
3 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

My biggest regret is the number of times I walked past the Sauna door and bottled it. I should have gone in much sooner.

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By *oyotaguyMan
3 weeks ago

swaffham

Not accepting I was gay in my teens

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By *mptyspace80Man
3 weeks ago

Cambridge

Not looking for older men when I was 18. Not sure how I would have found them, but I wish I'd tried.

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By *auraTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Rugby

Not having the guts to go through with the cocks I was offered as too afraid it would hurt. Now still a real cock virgin.

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By *hrisk75 OP Man
3 weeks ago

gateshead

Well it seems like most of the regrets are things not done more than things done, suppose it goes to show, live life to the full, you don’t get a second time around.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I literally have only one regret in life and that's not making a move on a girl I knew at uni when we were both listening to music, pretty st0ned and I knew she'd have been receptive but I was thinking honourable thoughts about my mate who she was dating (not for long as it turned out)

I'd heard them fucking and knew she was a right moaner and probably the best fuck I never had.

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By *atasha xxTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bridgwater

Not embracing my feminine side when younger to be honest if I had internet back then would've helped big time x

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By *obbertMan
3 weeks ago

In a world of my own

Biggest regret - Not being more sexually active and exploring gay sex earlier in life?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Not sucking cock when i was 18

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By *ntoniacd40TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Guildford

Wish I had started dressing when I was in my teens

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By *hilmeMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Should of started my bi journey in my teenage years I missed so many years until I took a good cock but not looked back since 💋

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By *ustjack128Man
3 weeks ago

Wickford

Deeply regret cheating on my first wife. She of course divorced me, and quite rightly so, but rarely a day goes by when I think of my stupidity all those years ago, and then sadness sets in.

I’m still paying for that moment of weakness.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

Sixty plus years of cross dressing and promiscuity its fair to say ive dodged a few bullets. Done most if not all of the things I wanted to do sexually, and a few things I shouldn't have.Now 75 and still at it and still getting plenty. So no regrets ive had a blast xx

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By *oxleyMan
3 weeks ago

Wetherby

I hope that there is some private messaging going on….

I have messaged two guys.

If you feel connected - message privately.

That is what this forum is all about 😎

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By *opipu8800Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I regret NOT snogging the guy I first fooled around with.

Not knowing what it would have been like, ugh, very frustrating.

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"My biggest regret is starting smoking, I hate it so much and have tried to stop so many times but keep going back to it. "

After many attempts I finally managed to give up around 15 years ago. Vaping, or e-cigarettes as they were initially known, made it possible.

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By *utcock61Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

no regrets.

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By *nthebuffMan
2 weeks ago

Liskeard

Should have been more sexually active. Haven't done too badly, but was room for improvement

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By *hloxbeautMan
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

Simply not exploring my bi/gay side when younger.

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By *raham999Man
2 weeks ago

OX11

I agree I've tried so many times, tried all sorts of things.

Longest I've gone is 6 months.

Trying now to cut down at least.

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By *ornybiCoolMan
2 weeks ago

Abingdon - on- Thames

"Not being more sexually adventurous at at a younger age.

Same here . Not knowing when others made passes that I should have taken the chance . Too shy.

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By *ezzadMan
2 weeks ago

horncastle

Having a relationship with 20yo cos he was a twat

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By *arcus BezzantMan
2 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

Choosing not to go to college in 1984, to do a NC in Business Studies, I went for a clerical YTS scheme instead, because I wanted real work experience.

I've no idea if I'd have spent my life doing cushy office jobs instead of unskilled low wage work that I have, but it's a recurrent thought.

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By *MB9Man
2 weeks ago

Northampton

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By *hototed54Man
2 weeks ago

leeds

Regrets, I’ve had a few but then again too few to mention

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By *MB9Man
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Not punching my Dad in the face when I was a teenager. Things would've been a lot better if I had.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

I have put relationships on the back burner and prioritised work.

That did take me overseas for 12yrs with a kinda celebrity lifestyle.

Just turned 50. I am alone but not lonely. Love my peace and being able to have a naked coffee in the conservatory when the heating is on! ☕️

My only regret would be a life partner to share things with. Happy tho til they come along...

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By *weetpee9853Man
2 weeks ago

Exeter

Not being honest to my feelungs when younger being gay

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By *ndyjohnMan
2 weeks ago

West Kirby

Not recognising my gay desires as real and not a passing phase. Trying to make up for it now !

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Eating that 'malteser' on the floor

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By *anleybeatonMan
2 weeks ago

london

not getting into kink a lot earlier I judged as "seedy" and "sick" when I was younger but ibn fact with the right person it's a real sexual high

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By *ishop666Man
2 weeks ago

ls19

Honestly

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By *op KatMan
2 weeks ago

Lochmaben

Getting divorced from my first wife she is single again after he died wish I could speak to her again

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By *estafellaMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

Moi, je regret rien. If you did what you thought was right at the time, then that's all we can ask of you. Hindsight is a wonderful thing. Yes, there are many things I would change if I could go back in time, but I have no emotional sense of regret. The good, the bad and the ugly all brought me to where I am now, in a happy place, and I wouldn't change that for anything.

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By *hirleyCDTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Watford

Not getting fucked when i had the chance at young age

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By *evanianMan
2 weeks ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru

Regrets? Not a single one, life is what it is and far too short!

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By *eam Bi MatureMan
2 weeks ago

Leamington

Marrying the wrong one too soon and not parting ways soon enough.

Missing out on the offer of an afternoon threesome from a mother and daughter that frequented the pub I worked in

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By *eekingcumsMan
2 weeks ago

Stoke/Stafford

Not letting that guy with a MONSTER size cock fuck me.

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By *20ash1234Man
2 weeks ago

carlisle

Sexual regret is not approaching my former work colleague back in 2006 when I found out he was gay, little did I know he thought the same about me.

We have missed out on a lot, now we live 400 miles apart so only meet a couple of times a year, dammit.

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By *hickenmcnuggetsMan
2 weeks ago

Coxlodge, Newcastle upon Tyne

Any regrets in life, I’ve generally compensated for over the years, so I really don’t have many at this point

Maybe I regret not going to certain gay venues/bars etc (and embracing my bisexuality in general) so much sooner, eg in my twenties.

But I was pretty shy back then. So it’s tricky to say whether that was much of a “mistake” given the person I was at the time, TBH

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By *hamp69Man
2 weeks ago

Thanet

Having sexual affairs with loads of women before and when married and not going with like minded guys for sex.

Life would have been alot less complicated!

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I’ve two. First, was not joining the Royal Marines when it’s all I ever wanted to do growing up.

Second. When the first man made a pass at me back in my late teens, that I didn’t take his offer up. He was the first man I was attracted to.

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By *atyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Wisbech

I regret losing touch with my first BF...but MANY years later, we bumped into eachother and are back enjoying ourselves whenever we can...we live about 200 miles apart, but I visit the area where he lives 5 or 6 times a year, usually for around 5 days or more each time.

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

I regret my desperate attempt to 'straighten' myself out in my 20s as it led to about 5 sex-free years. However on the plus side my son would not have been born so perhaps not that big a regret.

I regret leaving the army after 12 years. Should have stayed on.

More recently regret selling my lovely bungalow on a whim around 5 years ago. Felt bored, trapped and isolated with lockdown. Should have stuck it out.

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By *onnyd26Man
2 weeks ago

Mitcham

Wish i had of gotten into kink earlier feel like i skippwd my best years

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