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"sexy naked guys give you and erection." So I’m not gay then, must be bi at most | |||
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"sexy naked guys give you and erection." And women are a complete turnoff. | |||
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"sexy naked guys give you and erection." They don’t need to be naked anymore 😆 | |||
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"sexy naked guys give you and erection." I am bi and get that  | |||
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"How do you know if you are gay?" You get hard when you peel and eat a banana | |||
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"How do you know if you are gay?" Imo, when you sign up to a gay website and mainly talk about women....then you're probably one of the gayest on here  | |||
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"sexy naked guys give you and erection. And women are a complete turnoff." Yep, definitely that! | |||
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"From my personal perspective women do nothing for me sexually. Men on the other hand arouse me. Not all men and not necessarily naked. Often attracted to me in their work clothes, sports kit, motorbiking gear etc. The more masculine the better and its not all about cock and arse though they are definitely a big bonus. It's the way I am and always have been." Couldn't have put it better myself | |||
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"I knew I was attracted to men but it took me longer to realise and accept that I wasn't attracted to women. I remember when I was 22 or so, out walking with a lad from my then work on our lunch break. He did a 180 at a girl we passed and made some comment along the lines of 'holy fuck'. I'd been completely oblivious to her. It was something of a light bulb moment for me." That's a good point tbh. When I really started to question and accept my own sexuality and was doing some research on it, a lot of the questions were based on social situations like that . "Who do you notice most when you're on the street" - men ? Women ? Both?. And I'm sorry guys , but if you find yourself staring at bulges in jeans, wondering how big it is..... That's also attraction. When I see a nice pair of tits I don't tell myself...im not attracted to women. | |||
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"I knew I was attracted to men but it took me longer to realise and accept that I wasn't attracted to women. I remember when I was 22 or so, out walking with a lad from my then work on our lunch break. He did a 180 at a girl we passed and made some comment along the lines of 'holy fuck'. I'd been completely oblivious to her. It was something of a light bulb moment for me." Yes, I was similar. | |||
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"sexy naked guys give you and erection." Its not just gay guys that get erections from sexy naked guys, us bisexuals also get hot under the collar seeing horny naked men | |||
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"How do you know if you are gay?" Go to a sauna and test yourself out there | |||
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"How do you know if you are gay?" By knowing that you aren't straight. | |||
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"You fancy men You have sex with men You love Judy Garland & Liza You can’t walk past a bridle shop without looking in the window x" I agree with your first two sentences but the last two are total nonsense. | |||
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"You fancy men You have sex with men You love Judy Garland & Liza You can’t walk past a bridle shop without looking in the window x I agree with your first two sentences but the last two are total nonsense. " I dunno...a bridle shop. Kinky. 🐎 | |||
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"you’ve created a profile on fabguys" No, that’s bi men as well. | |||
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. Enjoy it. Don't deny who you are , especially on fabguys , one of the few safe spaces you can be yourself and say the things you can never say to straight friends. | |||
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"Gay, straight, bi, bi curious.....who gives a shit? If you like cock, you like cock. End of. Who needs a label anyway?" Well said | |||
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"I’m bi as I still love women. I have moved more towards the gay end of the spectrum though. Love kissing a guy, being intimate, having passionate sex not just a quick fuck. I look at guys in the street and fantasize, like I do with women " I am the exact as you x | |||
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"Gay guys have very little to no attraction to women whatsoever. Bi guys like both although generally lean to one side. The whole "I'm not attracted to men" thing that goes on here is really sad and damaging imo. It's just my observation from online interactions and in person but there is a big correlation between the "I just like to play with a cock " bisexual man and bisexual man who can admit to themselves at least that they are attracted to men. And that's men who are "out" as bisexual. Once that layer of subconscious defense is gone, in my opinion Bi men have far less problems experiencing their attraction to men and admitting it. Most of us went through life hiding that stuff. I remember my first crush on another boy. I couldn't talk to anyone about it , I couldn't risk telling him. I just learned to bury it inside me and hope I didn't say something stupid after a few pints that would get me in trouble. That's how the attraction denial starts. We are afraid. Most of the bi guys on here that "have no attraction to men" , literally have age preferences , body types etc listed on their profile. Guys, not only are you attracted in my opinion but you literally have a preferred "type" of guy. And that's ok. Good for you . Enjoy it. Don't deny who you are , especially on fabguys , one of the few safe spaces you can be yourself and say the things you can never say to straight friends. "Some excellent points, expressed extremely well. I’ve always found this argument “I’m not actually attracted to men just cocks” an utterly fatuous canard, because all the bi men on here certainly make very clear choices of what type of man they are looking for where this cock is attached. | |||
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"Gay guys have very little to no attraction to women whatsoever. Bi guys like both although generally lean to one side. The whole "I'm not attracted to men" thing that goes on here is really sad and damaging imo. It's just my observation from online interactions and in person but there is a big correlation between the "I just like to play with a cock " bisexual man and bisexual man who can admit to themselves at least that they are attracted to men. And that's men who are "out" as bisexual. Once that layer of subconscious defense is gone, in my opinion Bi men have far less problems experiencing their attraction to men and admitting it. Most of us went through life hiding that stuff. I remember my first crush on another boy. I couldn't talk to anyone about it , I couldn't risk telling him. I just learned to bury it inside me and hope I didn't say something stupid after a few pints that would get me in trouble. That's how the attraction denial starts. We are afraid. Most of the bi guys on here that "have no attraction to men" , literally have age preferences , body types etc listed on their profile. Guys, not only are you attracted in my opinion but you literally have a preferred "type" of guy. And that's ok. Good for you . Enjoy it. Don't deny who you are , especially on fabguys , one of the few safe spaces you can be yourself and say the things you can never say to straight friends. "Sorry but what a load of utter shit. Basically saying that anyone who meets men on different terms or for different reasons that you do are “denying who they are”, when quite clearly they are explaining who they are and how they feel but simply not suiting your narrative. Try to understand that lots of guys out there are not “in denial” just different to you. | |||
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"Gay guys have very little to no attraction to women whatsoever. Bi guys like both although generally lean to one side. The whole "I'm not attracted to men" thing that goes on here is really sad and damaging imo. It's just my observation from online interactions and in person but there is a big correlation between the "I just like to play with a cock " bisexual man and bisexual man who can admit to themselves at least that they are attracted to men. And that's men who are "out" as bisexual. Once that layer of subconscious defense is gone, in my opinion Bi men have far less problems experiencing their attraction to men and admitting it. Most of us went through life hiding that stuff. I remember my first crush on another boy. I couldn't talk to anyone about it , I couldn't risk telling him. I just learned to bury it inside me and hope I didn't say something stupid after a few pints that would get me in trouble. That's how the attraction denial starts. We are afraid. Most of the bi guys on here that "have no attraction to men" , literally have age preferences , body types etc listed on their profile. Guys, not only are you attracted in my opinion but you literally have a preferred "type" of guy. And that's ok. Good for you . Enjoy it. Don't deny who you are , especially on fabguys , one of the few safe spaces you can be yourself and say the things you can never say to straight friends.
Sorry but what a load of utter shit.
Basically saying that anyone who meets men on different terms or for different reasons that you do are “denying who they are”, when quite clearly they are explaining who they are and how they feel but simply not suiting your narrative.
Try to understand that lots of guys out there are not “in denial” just different to you. "Lol it's not a load of BS. And that wasn't the narrative, I showed a correlation. If I'm person (A) and I said I like sucking dick with a preference of 30-60 year old men of an average build. Person b) has the exact same preferences but somehow we are to believe that only person A is attracted to men while person b just likes male sex organs and fluids in his mouth. It's just a silly level of mental gymnastics. Let's call a spade a spade. It's attraction. The gays are not on straight websites , looking to play with womens tits and fanny. Why ? Because they are not attracted. Mind blowing logic I know. I dunno lads, there's free counselling out there. I don't go out of my way to eat food or do activities I dont like. Then repeat the process over and over. | |||
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"When the Littlewoods catalogue arrived, I went straight to the men's underwear section. A well shaped bulge in a yfront and a glimpse of treasure trail in the 1980s was enough to know!" Exactly this. | |||
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"I thought I was straight when I had my first pussy. I thought I was bi when I sucked my first cock but I knew I was gay when I first got fucked. 😊" Describes my gay awakening exactly. | |||
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"Gay guys have very little to no attraction to women whatsoever. Bi guys like both although generally lean to one side. The whole "I'm not attracted to men" thing that goes on here is really sad and damaging imo. It's just my observation from online interactions and in person but there is a big correlation between the "I just like to play with a cock " bisexual man and bisexual man who can admit to themselves at least that they are attracted to men. And that's men who are "out" as bisexual. Once that layer of subconscious defense is gone, in my opinion Bi men have far less problems experiencing their attraction to men and admitting it. Most of us went through life hiding that stuff. I remember my first crush on another boy. I couldn't talk to anyone about it , I couldn't risk telling him. I just learned to bury it inside me and hope I didn't say something stupid after a few pints that would get me in trouble. That's how the attraction denial starts. We are afraid. Most of the bi guys on here that "have no attraction to men" , literally have age preferences , body types etc listed on their profile. Guys, not only are you attracted in my opinion but you literally have a preferred "type" of guy. And that's ok. Good for you . Enjoy it. Don't deny who you are , especially on fabguys , one of the few safe spaces you can be yourself and say the things you can never say to straight friends.
Sorry but what a load of utter shit.
Basically saying that anyone who meets men on different terms or for different reasons that you do are “denying who they are”, when quite clearly they are explaining who they are and how they feel but simply not suiting your narrative.
Try to understand that lots of guys out there are not “in denial” just different to you.
Lol it's not a load of BS. And that wasn't the narrative, I showed a correlation.
If I'm person (A) and I said I like sucking dick with a preference of 30-60 year old men of an average build.
Person b) has the exact same preferences but somehow we are to believe that only person A is attracted to men while person b just likes male sex organs and fluids in his mouth.
It's just a silly level of mental gymnastics. Let's call a spade a spade. It's attraction.
The gays are not on straight websites , looking to play with womens tits and fanny. Why ? Because they are not attracted. Mind blowing logic I know.
I dunno lads, there's free counselling out there.
I don't go out of my way to eat food or do activities I dont like. Then repeat the process over and over. "Simple fact is, person b will far more likely meet, play and then walk away without a backward glance or any further interest, something that many on here complain about even though the guy has indicated that it is most likely what will happen. Call him in denial or anything else you want, he won’t care; he will be walking away most likely looking at women. | |||
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"How do you know if you are gay?" When you have a romantic attraction to the idea of being with a man. Sex is the lesser part of the gay sensibility. Just draws more attention. | |||
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"…If I'm person (A) and I said I like sucking dick with a preference of 30-60 year old men of an average build. Person b) has the exact same preferences but somehow we are to believe that only person A is attracted to men while person b just likes male sex organs and fluids in his mouth. It's just a silly level of mental gymnastics. Let's call a spade a spade. It's attraction. The gays are not on straight websites , looking to play with womens tits and fanny. Why ? Because they are not attracted. Mind blowing logic I know. I dunno lads, there's free counselling out there. I don't go out of my way to eat food or do activities I dont like. Then repeat the process over and over. Simple fact is, person b will far more likely meet, play and then walk away without a backward glance or any further interest, something that many on here complain about even though the guy has indicated that it is most likely what will happen. Call him in denial or anything else you want, he won’t care; he will be walking away most likely looking at women... " Let’s hope he doesn’t trip over then, being so full of himself. 🙄 | |||
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It was only a matter of time before i began to act on those desires. | |||
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"I mean I’d guess if only guys do it for you, me I love everything about women, with guys I just love cock nothing else about a guy turns me on lol" Exactly the same for me | |||
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"…If I'm person (A) and I said I like sucking dick with a preference of 30-60 year old men of an average build. Person b) has the exact same preferences but somehow we are to believe that only person A is attracted to men while person b just likes male sex organs and fluids in his mouth. It's just a silly level of mental gymnastics. Let's call a spade a spade. It's attraction. The gays are not on straight websites , looking to play with womens tits and fanny. Why ? Because they are not attracted. Mind blowing logic I know. I dunno lads, there's free counselling out there. I don't go out of my way to eat food or do activities I dont like. Then repeat the process over and over. Simple fact is, person b will far more likely meet, play and then walk away without a backward glance or any further interest, something that many on here complain about even though the guy has indicated that it is most likely what will happen. Call him in denial or anything else you want, he won’t care; he will be walking away most likely looking at women... Let’s hope he doesn’t trip over then, being so full of himself. 🙄" So. Knowing what you are into and explaining yourself makes a guy “full of himself”. Compared to the “you must be this, you mustn’t be that, send face pictures people and then “ Oh no, you’re not my type !!!! That’s not being full of yourself then ? | |||
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"…If I'm person (A) and I said I like sucking dick with a preference of 30-60 year old men of an average build. Person b) has the exact same preferences but somehow we are to believe that only person A is attracted to men while person b just likes male sex organs and fluids in his mouth. It's just a silly level of mental gymnastics. Let's call a spade a spade. It's attraction. The gays are not on straight websites , looking to play with womens tits and fanny. Why ? Because they are not attracted. Mind blowing logic I know. I dunno lads, there's free counselling out there. I don't go out of my way to eat food or do activities I dont like. Then repeat the process over and over. Simple fact is, person b will far more likely meet, play and then walk away without a backward glance or any further interest, something that many on here complain about even though the guy has indicated that it is most likely what will happen. Call him in denial or anything else you want, he won’t care; he will be walking away most likely looking at women... Let’s hope he doesn’t trip over then, being so full of himself. 🙄 So. Knowing what you are into and explaining yourself makes a guy “full of himself”. Compared to the “you must be this, you mustn’t be that, send face pictures people and then “ Oh no, you’re not my type !!!! That’s not being full of yourself then ? " Oh, you were talking about a third party in the third person earlier - but actually now you indicate you were talking about yourself as the no backwards glancing departee, looking at the women as you go. Well, bully for you! I don’t make any apologies to people like you for being a gay man. Attracted to other men. Thus needing to see what a man looks like to know if I am interested. Yet more lectures on sexuality from some of craven, faceless, closeted bi brethren. 🙄 | |||
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"…If I'm person (A) and I said I like sucking dick with a preference of 30-60 year old men of an average build. Person b) has the exact same preferences but somehow we are to believe that only person A is attracted to men while person b just likes male sex organs and fluids in his mouth. It's just a silly level of mental gymnastics. Let's call a spade a spade. It's attraction. The gays are not on straight websites , looking to play with womens tits and fanny. Why ? Because they are not attracted. Mind blowing logic I know. I dunno lads, there's free counselling out there. I don't go out of my way to eat food or do activities I dont like. Then repeat the process over and over. Simple fact is, person b will far more likely meet, play and then walk away without a backward glance or any further interest, something that many on here complain about even though the guy has indicated that it is most likely what will happen. Call him in denial or anything else you want, he won’t care; he will be walking away most likely looking at women... Let’s hope he doesn’t trip over then, being so full of himself. 🙄 So. Knowing what you are into and explaining yourself makes a guy “full of himself”. Compared to the “you must be this, you mustn’t be that, send face pictures people and then “ Oh no, you’re not my type !!!! That’s not being full of yourself then ? Oh, you were talking about a third party in the third person earlier - but actually now you indicate you were talking about yourself as the no backwards glancing departee, looking at the women as you go. Well, bully for you! I don’t make any apologies to people like you for being a gay man. Attracted to other men. Thus needing to see what a man looks like to know if I am interested. Yet more lectures on sexuality from some of craven, faceless, closeted bi brethren. 🙄" Lectures indeed. Also I think it's humorous that someone above thinks Person (A) is less likely to walk away without a second glance. This is a website for sex with men. I confidently make the claim that an "out" bi or gay man would far more consistently walk away without a second glance. I have been blocked on apps before they even leave the room lol. Its often a very emotionless culture. The only difference between Person A and b from my perspective is that person A has access to what person B doesn't. And that's the option to have a second glance. The freedom to meet whomever he wants (mutually) and with a more open schedule. Person A doesn't have to navigate a series of social secrets to have a meet. They don't need to wait for family members to be out of town or find reasons to go missing for an hour (not judging btw). They just find a man they FIND ATTRACTIVE and have sex with them (like person b does). It's No strings attached. They very fucking rarely glance back lol. Person B doesn't have that option or freedom. Which is what makes it even more attractive. The heart wants what it can't have. I will sound a bit full of myself now but I have had clingy guys after meets who begin to present almost stalkerish behaviour. The majority of them have been closeted men who have issues admitting they like men. I have tried to help them in the past and it never ends well. Why help them? Because I understand them. Because many "out" gay/bi men were once them. We know how they think, the things they tell themselves like "I'm not attracted , I just like men's penises inside me ".
I think it's totally possible that a man can have a few sexual fumbles with another man and not be that into it.
But to deny attraction altogether while actively joining a GAY website and engaging in sex with only men. I'm calling BS. You're only fooling yourselves while patting each other on the back.
It's actually very sad to listen to the excuses and mental gymnastics on here. It's almost as if the narrative on fabguys is that being gay/bi is a bad thing.....on a gay website.
So yeh, I'm quite vocal about it. It might help someone in the comments but most likely I'll just hit a nerve and piss most of you off. I'm fine with that too.
But that's my opinion based on life experience and well... common sense. As I said originally , Actively seeking dick? You're attracted to Dick. Let's call a spade a spade.
If you don't like it, too bad. Mental gymnastics your way around it like everything else. Or as all the guys say when they break the rules a talk about women on this gay website. "Don't read it and move on". | |||
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"How do you know if you are gay?" The answer isn’t straightforward as it’s not always black and white. I knew I was gay when I would look at a man and I’d feel attraction, I’d fantasise about him touching me or me touching him. If a guy I like talks to me I get butterflies. The first time I was intimate with a man all I wanted to do was please him nothing else mattered to me. I sucked his cock with an eagerness I have never had with a woman ever I focused solely on his pleasure and I wanted him with a desire I’d never felt with women. I knew then i was definitely gay | |||
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"… If you don't like it, too bad. Mental gymnastics your way around it like everything else. Or as all the guys say when they break the rules a talk about women on this gay website. "Don't read it and move on"... " The title of the thread is “How do u know if you are gay?” If I read a thread title that said “How do you know if you are a TV?”, I’d think, but I’m not a TV, so a discussion on that would be irrelevant to me. I’d move on. Perhaps it might be enlightening, but I’d be a bystander. Apparently a number of men above have come to a thread titled “How do u know if you are gay?” and have not moved on, are not mere bystanders, but active participants in order to tell us that, actually, they’re definitely not gay, but most definitely, definitely bisexual… [That in itself would have the psychologist writing “DENIAL” in big letters on his notepad.] I’m still looking for that bisexual profile that says happily “I don’t care what you look like: you can be any age, size, shape - you’re just a mere cock to me” and a series of happy verifications from various ogres because, actually, they were just cocks to him. But I haven’t found it. Because… Everyone seems to be a bit more selective than that. It’s an amazing level of denial. Selective bisexual men - looking for types that are specific to their attraction - whilst haughtily and disdainfully claiming that have zero attraction to other men. It manages to combine hubris with a fascinating edge of homophobia. We meet it again and again in the Forum. | |||
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"How do you know if you are gay?" .. You use a pizza cutter to cut your pizza..also you prefer various toppings.  | |||
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"When you stop trying to get into a woman's knickers and you start getting into women's knickers. " So you define gayness as the strength of propensity to wear women’s knickers…? No… as you say in a later post, you clearly weren’t given a copy of the “gay rule book”… 🙄 | |||
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"When you stop trying to get into a woman's knickers and you start getting into women's knickers. " Very few gay men, in fact a miniscule minority, dress in women's gear. Many bi men seem to love doing it though. | |||
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"When we look down getting a BJ and realising it's as comfy as crocs " 😆 excellent analogy, however if you're wearing crocs, its most likely you aren't gay. 'Wouldn't be seen dead' springs to mind. | |||
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"I don’t get erect. I don’t fancy men. I get erect, because of the act and intimacy of having sex with men, the same as I do with women. When I’m with a man playing, I turn gay for that moment. Kissing with passion, oral and ultimately penetration. As a bisexual man, I have a choice. I’m very happily married to a wonderful woman. She knows everything I do with men, because I tell her. Every detail. She’s understanding and very supportive. "I could've written that to describe me & my situation - great words. | |||
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"I don’t get erect. I don’t fancy men. I get erect, because of the act and intimacy of having sex with men, the same as I do with women. When I’m with a man playing, I turn gay for that moment. Kissing with passion, oral and ultimately penetration. As a bisexual man, I have a choice. I’m very happily married to a wonderful woman. She knows everything I do with men, because I tell her. Every detail. She’s understanding and very supportive.
I could've written that to describe me & my situation - great words."To say you dont fancy men but get erect when with a man is ignoring the psychology of sexual arousal. You dont have to 'fancy' a man in the same way you fancy the Mrs to have sexual attraction to men. You make choices who meet, the type you go for, what turns you on and off etc. You've already made those selections in your head, perhaps subconsciously, that men do indeed sexually excite you. Whether you call that fancying men or not is up to you. | |||
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"Love being cross dressed and cock in me … only fancy guys when I’m dressed xxx am I gay ??" You’re a confused lesbian. They’re gay, wear dresses and don’t fancy men. | |||
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"sexy naked guys give you and erection." Well, I get horny looking at hard cocks. The rest of the body does nothing for me. With women is different, I'm a boobs man and female body in genera. Go figure. | |||
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"…Well, I get horny looking at hard cocks. The rest of the body does nothing for me..." Have you thought about a castration fetish? That way you can cherish the disembodied cocks whilst stemming your revulsion at those to which they were attached. There was a man who worked at a Hampshire abattoir some years back who kept all the dried bull pizzles he’d illegally and inexpertly lopped off because he got horny looking at them. (Of course he was charged and later sectioned and spent his latter years frothing at the mouth… so he may not be the most sophisticated role model.) | |||
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"…Well, I get horny looking at hard cocks. The rest of the body does nothing for me... Have you thought about a castration fetish? That way you can cherish the disembodied cocks whilst stemming your revulsion at those to which they were attached. There was a man who worked at a Hampshire abattoir some years back who kept all the dried bull pizzles he’d illegally and inexpertly lopped off because he got horny looking at them. (Of course he was charged and later sectioned and spent his latter years frothing at the mouth… so he may not be the most sophisticated role model.) " Revulsion? Where did I say that? I said it does nothing for me. That's very far from revulsion. Care to explain? | |||
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"…Well, I get horny looking at hard cocks. The rest of the body does nothing for me... Have you thought about a castration fetish? That way you can cherish the disembodied cocks whilst stemming your revulsion at those to which they were attached. There was a man who worked at a Hampshire abattoir some years back who kept all the dried bull pizzles he’d illegally and inexpertly lopped off because he got horny looking at them. (Of course he was charged and later sectioned and spent his latter years frothing at the mouth… so he may not be the most sophisticated role model.) Revulsion? Where did I say that? I said it does nothing for me. That's very far from revulsion. Care to explain? " “Look into the cock, look into the cock, the cock, the cock, not around the cock, don't look at the body, look into the cock… you're under! You are not attracted to men in any shape or form: it does nothing for you. Three, two, one… Back in the room!” | |||
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