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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

some people generally shy away from gay or bi blokes, some gay / bi blokes are really good friends..

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By *riefsMan
2 weeks ago

gorey

Absolutely agree with that

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

gay/ bi friends welcome

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By *ick1961Man
2 weeks ago

near herne bay....ish

Not on here they don’t !

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

yes they do but it's ok--each to their own

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

you're gay, your friends accept you for who you are. Anybody else? who cares

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

hehe X

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

great bi / gay conversations on here. Some amazing blokes!

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

best mates experiences X

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By *ranform71Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

I love a conversation about making friends. I’ve got gay friends who treat me better than most of my straight friends do. They’re more honest, have more empathy and emotion. When I have a pint with them, it’s much more fun.

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham


"some people generally shy away from gay or bi blokes, some gay / bi blokes are really good friends.."

This is just silly. You have friends who are gay, (or bi) and that's great, that's a factual statement, thanks for sharing. But who are the people that shy away? What circumstances are they in where they meet gay guys, and shy away from them? How do we identify the gay guys, are they wearing gay badges or are they camp? How many times does this happen and is it the same people always shying away and is it the same gay people always present? Are you saying that these people (still not sure who they are) are homophobic? Are you saying that they are discriminating against these gay people? Are you saying that because the gay people are gay, the shy people are duty bound to be friends with them? Are the gay people better friends and the shy people are missing out? When you say 'some people' do you actually mean straight guys? You do don't you, you mean that straight guys (thank god you at least said 'some') are being homophobic because they don't want to be friends with your gay friends. This is primary school level stupidity which most people get past pretty quickly.

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By *arriedbiMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

I got both gay n lesbian mates and they my bust mates and family get in with em too

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By *ndy61hMan
2 weeks ago

Plymouth

I have a load of bi/gay friends who i see socially on a regular basis. Even go for days out and holidays.

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
2 weeks ago

England

I have sex fun with both gay and bisexual guys. They are as nice.

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By *isexual57Man
2 weeks ago

Staffs

I’d love a sensual friend x

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By *os001Man
2 weeks ago

Oxford

I have a few gay mates but they aren't close friends. Some of that is physical distance or drifted apart naturally.

Open to making new friends though.

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By *eter169Man
2 weeks ago

stoke

I used to have a gay friend who would call on me and we had a great time together, sucking, wanking and he used to love rimming me. Unfortunately he passed away many years ago.

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By *onnyd26Man
2 weeks ago

Mitcham

I tend not to meet bi guys for sex but would happily befriend bi men not a prob that count

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By *uton JohnMan
2 weeks ago

Luton

I had a long term relationship with a man. We started as ne going round his, we leave his wife downstairs, and then he pkay with me. Ended up him fucking me. Then we became sort of friends. We meet in the local and enjoy a good old chat. Was great talking to a bi man away from the bedroom.

But he had a heart attack and passed away. No wasn't with him at the time.....

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire


"some people generally shy away from gay or bi blokes, some gay / bi blokes are really good friends..

This is just silly. You have friends who are gay, (or bi) and that's great, that's a factual statement, thanks for sharing. But who are the people that shy away? What circumstances are they in where they meet gay guys, and shy away from them? How do we identify the gay guys, are they wearing gay badges or are they camp? How many times does this happen and is it the same people always shying away and is it the same gay people always present? Are you saying that these people (still not sure who they are) are homophobic? Are you saying that they are discriminating against these gay people? Are you saying that because the gay people are gay, the shy people are duty bound to be friends with them? Are the gay people better friends and the shy people are missing out? When you say 'some people' do you actually mean straight guys? You do don't you, you mean that straight guys (thank god you at least said 'some') are being homophobic because they don't want to be friends with your gay friends. This is primary school level stupidity which most people get past pretty quickly. "
not sure which question you want answering? I'm just being friendly, are you?

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham


"some people generally shy away from gay or bi blokes, some gay / bi blokes are really good friends..

This is just silly. You have friends who are gay, (or bi) and that's great, that's a factual statement, thanks for sharing. But who are the people that shy away? What circumstances are they in where they meet gay guys, and shy away from them? How do we identify the gay guys, are they wearing gay badges or are they camp? How many times does this happen and is it the same people always shying away and is it the same gay people always present? Are you saying that these people (still not sure who they are) are homophobic? Are you saying that they are discriminating against these gay people? Are you saying that because the gay people are gay, the shy people are duty bound to be friends with them? Are the gay people better friends and the shy people are missing out? When you say 'some people' do you actually mean straight guys? You do don't you, you mean that straight guys (thank god you at least said 'some') are being homophobic because they don't want to be friends with your gay friends. This is primary school level stupidity which most people get past pretty quickly.

not sure which question you want answering? I'm just being friendly, are you?"

You're not being friendly, you're being passive aggressive. It is neither friendly or not friendly to point that out.

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire


"some people generally shy away from gay or bi blokes, some gay / bi blokes are really good friends..

This is just silly. You have friends who are gay, (or bi) and that's great, that's a factual statement, thanks for sharing. But who are the people that shy away? What circumstances are they in where they meet gay guys, and shy away from them? How do we identify the gay guys, are they wearing gay badges or are they camp? How many times does this happen and is it the same people always shying away and is it the same gay people always present? Are you saying that these people (still not sure who they are) are homophobic? Are you saying that they are discriminating against these gay people? Are you saying that because the gay people are gay, the shy people are duty bound to be friends with them? Are the gay people better friends and the shy people are missing out? When you say 'some people' do you actually mean straight guys? You do don't you, you mean that straight guys (thank god you at least said 'some') are being homophobic because they don't want to be friends with your gay friends. This is primary school level stupidity which most people get past pretty quickly.

not sure which question you want answering? I'm just being friendly, are you?

You're not being friendly, you're being passive aggressive. It is neither friendly or not friendly to point that out. "
nah, just being friendly, hence the heading gay/ bi mates"

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire


"some people generally shy away from gay or bi blokes, some gay / bi blokes are really good friends..

This is just silly. You have friends who are gay, (or bi) and that's great, that's a factual statement, thanks for sharing. But who are the people that shy away? What circumstances are they in where they meet gay guys, and shy away from them? How do we identify the gay guys, are they wearing gay badges or are they camp? How many times does this happen and is it the same people always shying away and is it the same gay people always present? Are you saying that these people (still not sure who they are) are homophobic? Are you saying that they are discriminating against these gay people? Are you saying that because the gay people are gay, the shy people are duty bound to be friends with them? Are the gay people better friends and the shy people are missing out? When you say 'some people' do you actually mean straight guys? You do don't you, you mean that straight guys (thank god you at least said 'some') are being homophobic because they don't want to be friends with your gay friends. This is primary school level stupidity which most people get past pretty quickly.

not sure which question you want answering? I'm just being friendly, are you?

You're not being friendly, you're being passive aggressive. It is neither friendly or not friendly to point that out. nah, just being friendly, hence the heading gay/ bi mates" "
if I come across passive/ aggressive, I apologise, never my intention X

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire

the thread was-

some people generally shy away from gay or bi blokes, some gay / bi blokes are really good friends..

Absolutely agree with that

gay/ bi friends welcome

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By *tmguylookingMan
1 week ago

Chesterfield

I'm gay, got lots of gay mates, got lots of straight mates, and quite possibly bi mates too. It makes no difference to me to be fair. However, my best mates, mates that I can confide in are all gay, a small group of us all been mates for nearly 30 years, and the thing thats noticable between us all, the reason that we are all still really good mates... none of us have slept with each other. That's what spoils friendship between gay men.

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire


"I'm gay, got lots of gay mates, got lots of straight mates, and quite possibly bi mates too. It makes no difference to me to be fair. However, my best mates, mates that I can confide in are all gay, a small group of us all been mates for nearly 30 years, and the thing thats noticable between us all, the reason that we are all still really good mates... none of us have slept with each other. That's what spoils friendship between gay men. "
seriously appreciate your reply and honesty. good luck fella X

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By *1234.Man
1 week ago

Bristol

So I've found the opposite I have a lot of straight friends and only one proper friend who is also gay. So the whole bug group of gay friends going on holiday etc has never happened

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

I'm gay. My husband also happens to be gay, funnily enough. Most of my friends are straight (or unknown to me bi, none of my business). I don't think sexuality has anything to do with friendship. I've met enough idiotic gay people who insist on only having a circle of gay friends. Shallow cunts the lot of them.

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By *ildwestheroMan
1 week ago

Llandrindod Wells

Life is not all about sex. Some people tell you that a man and a woman cannot just be friends. Totally untrue. Same as a straight man and a gay man can quite easily be friends providing the gay hasn't got the 'hots' for his straight mate. I've had lots of straight mates over the years. Fair enough most haven't known that I was gay but at the same time I didn't fancy them.

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By *i chanceMan
1 week ago

Durham

As usual a lot depends on personalities and personal circumstances. My male friends are all straight, but then again none of them know I’m bi, so maybe they could be gay/bi. I have a few openly gay women friends, two of which I’ve has fun with. Takes all sorts

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By *raggahboyMan
1 week ago

stoke

In my time on fab approx 12 years I've made some great bi.and gay friends many met and long term.

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By *ildwestheroMan
1 week ago

Llandrindod Wells

Sadly some straight guys seem to think gays are after one thing and one thing only. So they are wary of them. I knew two guys who were great friends. One gay one straight. Stupid rumours went around about them and, although they remained friends, their friendship cooled.

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By *ighway expressMan
1 week ago

Campbeltown

My best friends are all straight, and know that I'm gay. When we're together, we're just the lads together, no issues about sexuality, it doesn't matter. We like each other because of the people we are , that's what matters .

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire

nice, am jealous X

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By *orcsmatMan
1 week ago

Kidderminster

The title of this post is an oxymoron.

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By *orruptedandlies1Man
1 week ago

leeds

Would settle for a regular bi mate

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By *noncumdump1969Man
1 week ago

Hersham

Not a problem with me

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By *arridMan
1 week ago

Brighton

I would like a married bi guy friend. Everyone seems so scared.

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By *olmes Chapel funMan
1 week ago

homes chapel

I have a friends who are gay. Lovely Cpl often out with them for drinks. Fany the srse of one of them and he know. Nothing will happen in the flesh as he values the friendship my wife and I have with them. We do have some sexy sms sometimes.

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By *olmes Chapel funMan
1 week ago

homes chapel

I have a friends who are gay. Lovely Cpl often out with them for drinks. Fany the srse of one of them and he know. Nothing will happen in the flesh as he values the friendship my wife and I have with them. We do have some sexy sms sometimes.

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By *ucker4you80Man
1 week ago

Chippenham


"I have a friends who are gay. Lovely Cpl often out with them for drinks. Fany the srse of one of them and he know. Nothing will happen in the flesh as he values the friendship my wife and I have with them. We do have some sexy sms sometimes."

I tried Fany the srse once, never again!

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire

I've got loads of bi/gay mates and had a dabble in the past but Mr right now, just not the right moment

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By *hubbyGayTraffordMan
1 week ago

Stretford


"I've got loads of bi/gay mates and had a dabble in the past but Mr right now, just not the right moment"

Totally with you there with Mr Right Now and Mr ( not-quite ) the right moment.

I had an asexual gay mate who would meet me for walks and coffees and put the world to rights once a fortnight. Would love that again ,we are still in touch , but he lives 200 miles away so not regular contact now.

I think we all need pals as well as sexual frissons!

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire

am intrigued as a friend fella, you sound like a nice bloke X

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By *hubbyGayTraffordMan
1 week ago

Stretford


"am intrigued as a friend fella, you sound like a nice bloke X"

Cheers . I do try to be a nice bloke too x

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire

put good things out there, get good things back X

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By *urious lookMan
1 week ago

Luton

Wouldn't mind some in the area

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire


"Wouldn't mind some in the area "
fingers crossed for you fella X

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By *immy59Man
1 week ago

Lancaster

I'd like to find a nice married bi friends in my area x

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire

it is SOO hidden / frowned upon for blokes to like cock

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By *ridayguy OP   Man
1 week ago

Cheshire

know loads of people may beat me up on this but homophobia is still a big thing.

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