FabGuys.com forum: Who should come first

By *opipu8800 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Especially with anal sex, who do you prefer should come first? The top or the bottom?

Or who should ideally come first?

A gentleman comes last?

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By *uesada guyMan
2 weeks ago

chafford Hundred

I say the top

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By *ornymwellbiMan
2 weeks ago

Motherwell

Both at the same time, on top riding his cock as he wanks you off heaven lol

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By *hubbyman10Man
2 weeks ago

Bloxwich

If he is balls deep in my arse then the top

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By *ayhubbyMan
2 weeks ago

liverpool

Top first bottom if he is allowed

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By *ubtitsMan
2 weeks ago

hyde

I don't cum so the top always

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By *DCambsMan
2 weeks ago

Cambridge

When I'm being fucked, he needs to come first. If I come 1st, I can't tolerate a cock in there so he'll be out. More than happy to continue to satisfy him by other means at that point; I don't switch off because I've come, but I literally cannot tolerate a cock in my ass in the immediate aftermath of me coming. Wish it wasn't so.

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By *EE96Man
2 weeks ago

Folkestone

Always the Top for me.

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I like to cum before he even fucks me, always feels better that way, as well as that, I can often cum again as he's fucking me.

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By *on1507Man
2 weeks ago

GOSPORT

The top so you can feel is cock throb in your ass

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By *urrey_hjTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kingston Upon Thames

"Especially with anal sex, who do you prefer should come first? The top or the bottom?

Or who should ideally come first?

A gentleman comes last?"

Ideally both together but that isn’t always possible and quite difficult in lots of circumstances that I meet in.

If I’m bottom then the top needs to come first as once I blow my load I’m not much use to anyone

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By *ancdomMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I like giving my bottom a handsfree prostate orgasm then flooding his ass afterwards

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By *atth86Man
2 weeks ago

As a bottom, Id say me. Almost entirely because my ass clenches really tight when I cum making my tops orgasm even better

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By *luteus maxMan
2 weeks ago

Waterlooville at night

The guy fucking me. I like to share his orgasm,

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By *6xanderMan
2 weeks ago

Bracknell

Would love to be in a position to answer that question but as long as the top cums in me (mouth or arse) I don’t care that’s what I’m therefore!

Oh god am I starting to realise that I could be a cum dump

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By *allsendlad111Man
2 weeks ago

wallsend

I have to cum second as I lose all interest once I’ve cum

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By *eefandfurMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Depends on the dynamic. If there is an added inference of Top as Dom and Bottom as Sub that would be very different to just the roles of fucker/fuckee.

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By *uby SlippersMan
2 weeks ago

Unless either has been told not to cum then it’s just what ever happens happens….??

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By *alking HeadMan
2 weeks ago

Bolton

"When I'm being fucked, he needs to come first. If I come 1st, I can't tolerate a cock in there so he'll be out. More than happy to continue to satisfy him by other means at that point; I don't switch off because I've come, but I literally cannot tolerate a cock in my ass in the immediate aftermath of me coming. Wish it wasn't so."

It's incredibly sensitive for me too, but I persevere! Just a glutton for punishment. But usually they will come first as I won't touch my cock when I'm getting fucked, but I'm happy for someone else to, or suck it!

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By *os001Man
2 weeks ago

Oxford

Definitely the top.

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By *ewbiestokeMan
2 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

The top, always.

Ideally both at the same time if course but the top.

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By *ridayguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

shortly after each other, blokes seeing other blokes cum tend to cum

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By *ottomguy8919Man
2 weeks ago

Thetford

I don't care if I cum or not as long as the guy I'm having sex with cums I'm happy

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By *umluverxxxTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Hook

"I don't care if I cum or not as long as the guy I'm having sex with cums I'm happy"

Same here x

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By *amantha SwallowsMan
2 weeks ago

Nr Bristol

I say the top but when being fuck I some times cum

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By *arry40Man
2 weeks ago

Bolton travelling

Top should cum first

Great if you cum at the same time though

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By *opipu8800 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Wow, most want the top to cum first. I'm surprised.

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By *ewgingerboyMan
2 weeks ago

Midlands

Im a pleaser, so aslong as they do, im a happy boy!

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By *ray_UKMan
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in DY area

Well im vers, my choice is get fucked first, then I flip fuck and cum.

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By *nchsolentMan
2 weeks ago

Fareham

As a sissy I'm there for the tops enjoyment. If I cum without his permission then I expect to be punished

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By *ustinaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

I struggle to get really hard with cock inside me but I love it so much I'm in no hurry for my partner to cum. I love being fucked in so many different position I can wait until he's finally ready to cum inside me.

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By *ssexBtm39Man
2 weeks ago

Maldon

I want the top to cum first and while he’s still deep in me I’ll cum after, if he lets me 😉

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By *atharine WTV/TS
2 weeks ago

southend

The top should cum first. I want to think that any of the various positions should make it impossible not to explode in me.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

If I get anal regularly I hardly need to cum. The fact I'm taking his cum is enough for me.

If I'm seeing someone regularly I like to let it build up.

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By *obsdogMan
2 weeks ago

St Austell

I like the top to cum first then he can finish me off later

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

The top should cum first anyway he wants in me

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By *ieranXXXMan
2 weeks ago

Beckingham

I prefer when the top cums first love to cum with a guy's juice already inside me

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By *ibble_ishMan
2 weeks ago

louthish

The top should always come first!

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By *amjam10Man
2 weeks ago

essex

Has to be the top

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By *ohnwest52Man
2 weeks ago

westcork

Top

As he in charge

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By *ive-aloneMan
2 weeks ago

rotherham

Top he's in charge cum where he likes

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By *uton JohnMan
2 weeks ago

Luton

If we are fucking each other I like him to cum first then I fuck him.

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By *wanksMan
2 weeks ago

Bellingham

"Both at the same time, on top riding his cock as he wanks you off heaven lol "

Definitely that way

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By *eedmenow2000Man
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

A real faggot only cum s after his master has had his pleasure and gives the faggot the ok to wank

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By *lder4Me96Man
2 weeks ago

Just both of you keep cumming as much as you want and go again

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By *se_my_assMan
2 weeks ago

Erdington

For me the top everytime. I don't really have to cum myself.

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By *tmboiMan
2 weeks ago

Chichester

"The top so you can feel is cock throb in your ass"
mmmmm im with you on that one! Definitely top must cum first!

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By *irefighterukMan
2 weeks ago

hull

Haven’t taken yet but want some to make me cum with out touching my cock and by just fucking my bum

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By *preadmylegsMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Does it matter?

As a bottom, I love cock in me, whether I have cum or not.

It also appears a few people don't understand the difference between top/bottom and dom/sub.

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By *orcsmatMan
1 week ago

Kidderminster

I should a lot of time getting a guy to cum. I actually don't care if I do not.

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

When I bttm I like him to cum 1st if we're not gonna cum together. When I bttm my orgasm isn't priority, and I'm not fussed if I don't cum. Nice if I do though of course.

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By *ust4inchesMan
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

Always the top first. As a bottom you are there for his pleasure.

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By *ubmanpaulMan
1 week ago

near ripon

I’m bottom I want my man to cum first

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By *av1511Man
1 week ago

Basingstoke

Speaking as a top i will pull out cum then suck him off cums in my mouth then go back to fucking him second time.

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By *icebuttslimMan
1 week ago

here or there

Depends upon the situation. There are a couple of guys I play with in a club who enjoy letting me cum while they are fucking me as they will then stay hard and fuck others later.

But if it's on a one to one basis I would prefer to satisfy the top first as I find that I need some recovery time otherwise.

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
1 week ago

Whitley Bay

I am sub bottom and I don’t cum during a meet. Me cumming is not important, the only thing that matters is that my top cums.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
1 week ago

Chandlers Ford

Always like the Man to cum first

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By *ingslynnMan
1 week ago

Grantham

I always like the man to come first. That excites me

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By *aul_tim2000Man
1 week ago

Grantham

"I have to cum second as I lose all interest once I’ve cum

Me too, once I've cum my libido goes away for a coffee and a nap.

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By *irralGuy20Man
1 week ago

Wirral

"Top first bottom if he is allowed "

This!

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By *ndy61hMan
1 week ago

Plymouth

I'd prefer the person fucking me to cum first, then fuck him and suck him, so he can fuck me again and cum again. I'd be happy just to keep repeating that.

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By *ailou22Man
1 week ago

Milford Haven

The Top should

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By *addies Boy96Man
1 week ago

Rhebogue,Limerick

It only matters if the top cums

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By *amarinMan
1 week ago

St Helens

The chicken?

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Linwood

i cum when im being fucked cant help it x

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By *cunnySucker69Man
1 week ago

Scunthorpe

As a bottom I don't expect to cum

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By *arnyslutMan
1 week ago

Fakenham

"As a bottom I don't expect to cum"

Exactly it's all about the tops pleasure for me

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By *othslutTV/TS
1 week ago

London

I expect a top to cum multiple times before I do

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By *ustOneBearMan
1 week ago

Neath

"I like to cum before he even fucks me, always feels better that way, as well as that, I can often cum again as he's fucking me. "

Exactly. I love the way it hurts.

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By *ekanukMan
1 week ago

Marston Green, Birmingham

i think its the tops 'choice' to decide when / if the bttm cums.

some tops just wanna fuck and unload & dont care if the bottom cums or not.

Others may like to have the bttm cum first for the pleasure their ass tightening on his dick as he fucks them.

And of course others like the bttm to cum at the same time or just after he has come for a share post orgasm experience.

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By *itrimmedMan
1 week ago

London

Bottom. Only fair that the bottoms cum first...they might not after the top has finished!

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By *orny7419Man
1 week ago

Gloucester

Coming together. Bottom on his back wanking away , as you fuck then shoot he comes too. Then top lick up the mess . Beautiful x

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By *pangleMan
1 week ago

Aberdare

As a bottom I have to serve my top man, as his pleasure is priority, he must cum first.

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By *rittboy68TV/TS
1 week ago

Southend

I just enjoy the sensations & let nature take it's course

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By *oreskinlpoolMan
1 week ago

Love edging to see how long can keep it going

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By *emboitrainerTV/TS
1 week ago

Washington

I like a man to use me and cum as many times as he can before letting me cum. XxxxX

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By *immynichMan
1 week ago

Holmfirth

I am totally sub bottom so it is my purpose to please real men 1st. Then if my top allows it I may be permitted to stroke my little clitty cock to completion but other tops demand that it’s tucked away out of sight during the action then just get up and leave me in a fucked and used condition usually smeared in his cum

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By *emboitrainerTV/TS
1 week ago

Washington

"I expect a top to cum multiple times before I do "

Same babe. XxxxX

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By *arkbibtmMan
1 week ago

West cork area

When I cum my ass gets so sensitive and the pain is too much, I usually have to stop him ...but I'm tight and generally guy will cum first using me

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By *ewgingerboyMan
7 days ago

Midlands

"I expect a top to cum multiple times before I do

Same babe. XxxxX "

Agreed, isnt that the rule? For a good reason lol.

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By *tokerY2OMan
7 days ago

Bournemouth

If im topping a guy i absolutely want him to cum while im fucking him - then the sight if him coming will probably make me shoot my load

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By *enjamin2018Man
7 days ago

Portsmouth

Same for me

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By *ornymwellbiMan
7 days ago

Motherwell

If I'm on top riding I want him to cum first then wank me off all over him or even better we cum together x

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By *uck me in KentMan
7 days ago

Medway

Whoever I'm with man or woman, they will always cum before me because I take ages to cum

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By *umluverxxxTV/TS
7 days ago

Hook

I love tasting and swallowing cum x nothing needed in return

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By *ayd100Man
7 days ago

bb7

Love the top to fill me first

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By *eedmenow2000Man
7 days ago

Aberdeen

A faggot should never cum without permission from the top

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By *hrissy cumslutTV/TS
7 days ago

near yatton

Always the top, or tops cum first.

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By *hiamintyMan
7 days ago

rg25

Always the top, happier if I don’t cum and stay needy tbh

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By *ishMan
7 days ago

illogan

chicken or the egg!!

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By *aturistnudeMan
7 days ago

Hoylake Wirral

Love hands Free too

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By *owerplay823Man
7 days ago

worthing

I always cum second

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By *othslutTV/TS
7 days ago

London

The top. I am just a pleasure vessel for a man to use.

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By *amesjjones2020Man
7 days ago

Leeds

Like most on here. If I’m getting fucked I like the Top to cum first.

I usually lose interest when I cum first.

There was a guy a while back that made me cum sucking my dick before I’d even sucked his or got fucked which was unexpected! He got me to suck him even though I’d lost interest the fucked me till he came on my face (we didn’t fuck that time)

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By *im le2Man
6 days ago

aylestone leic

I'm on my back enjoying him deep inside so he cums first. Then he can either wank or sick me off. Tops are hear to service is bottoms.

Mind you it also depends on my prostate hit it just right and I'm cumming

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By *otsure03Man
6 days ago

witney

Whoever is buried in my bum

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By *uck my bumMan
6 days ago

walsall

Definitely the top or maybe together but

I love the feeling of making a guy cum

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By *ayhubbyMan
6 days ago

liverpool

The top my orgasm is of no importance

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By *iBi FunMan
6 days ago

St Leonard's on Sea

The Top should always cum first . I'm there as a bottom for his pleasure. Me cumming or not doesn't really matter

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By *ridayguyMan
6 days ago

Cheshire

would like the bottom to cum first, shows he's enjoying it..

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By *ebeccaTV/TS
6 days ago

Bromsgrove

Top first for me, feeling him coming inside me soon sets me off anyway xx

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By *al789Man
6 days ago

Wakefield

Top always

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
3 days ago

England

Top

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By *ottom bear48Man
3 days ago

Cradley Heath

Same for me

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By *ontylad87Man
3 days ago

pontefract

The top! My role as a bottom is to please; I’m getting g fuked to please the top, I’m here for his pleasure not mine

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By *wadbisexualMan
3 days ago

Castle Gresley

Top cums first, in fact I rarely cum during a meet, I don't meet so I can cum, I meet to make the top cum.

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By *ayCDslut69TV/TS
3 days ago

glasgow

Top cums first every time its about his pleasure not mine

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