FabGuys.com forum: What is a sissy?

By *ewbiestoke OP Man
1 week ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Is it someone who's made to assume the person of a female in bed?

I'm still pretty new and highly curious.

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By *ildwestheroMan
1 week ago

Llandrindod Wells

When I was a youngster the term sissy or sissy-boy was a major insult like queer or poof was then. It was usually aimed at a boy who was a bit timid and hated sports etc. I think in the context of adult gay/bi men it implies effeminacy, campness, those who crossdress and have a feminine alter ego.

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By *luteus maxMan
1 week ago

Waterlooville at night

I'm getting drawn to cross dressing, but I'm not effeminate or camp. I guess that means I'm not a sissy.

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By *ewbiestoke OP Man
1 week ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I'm not a cross dresser, 18 stone and 6ft 4 ain't never gonna work 😂

But I do feel like I have a sexual feminine alter ego

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By *islut39Man
1 week ago

grantham

🙋🏼‍♀️ me, I’m a sissy ☺️ x

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By *ewbiestoke OP Man
1 week ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I'd love to look like you I can't lie, wow

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
1 week ago

Bangor

"I'm getting drawn to cross dressing, but I'm not effeminate or camp. I guess that means I'm not a sissy."

You don’t have to be effeminate or camp to cross dress xx

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By *lutttyChristineTV/TS
1 week ago

Walsall

As a Sissy I love dressing in sexy lingerie stockings suspenders little panties and a bra mini skirt and heels to meet men to let them use me as their sex doll and cum dump. I love Cock and Cum. Being used by real men. It is taking a submissive role and pleasing superior real men. I love being a sissy!!!

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By *upertedMan
1 week ago

Nelson

I understand being a sissy to be part of chastity.

You focus on your top fella, whilst you solely derive pleasure from your hole only, denying yourself a cock orgasm.

If you do cum from anal in a cage you're the ultimate sissy. 😉

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By *orcsmatMan
1 week ago

Kidderminster

"I'd love to look like you I can't lie, wow "

Yes, looking at her made my cock hard.

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By *ngel50TV/TS
1 week ago

Kinross

I guess I've always been submissive, effeminate and shy, even at school I was like this and now, I like to surrender my all, to a stronger more dominant man

Truth be told im probably more effeminate and submissive than most real women as im a small guy and most females are bigger than me.

I love to dress in all female clothes and do all that a girl does to please her man.

I guess my issues all started from my school days

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By *tephanie9090TV/TS
1 week ago

Bishop

"I understand being a sissy to be part of chastity.

You focus on your top fella, whilst you solely derive pleasure from your hole only, denying yourself a cock orgasm.

If you do cum from anal in a cage you're the ultimate sissy. 😉

Yep, thats Stephanie...

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By *ollyMan
1 week ago

Downham market

I like my sissy side

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By *ollyMan
1 week ago

Downham market

I get pleasure from making a man cum, I have an internal orgasm

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By *ue KingTV/TS
1 week ago

Welwyn

I guess everyone probably identifies a little differently.

For me, it’s a state of mind (or lack of it) It tends to start as soon as I start to get dressed, whether for a meet, club or just some Sue time. I won’t go into my dressing routine but to say by the time I’m submerging myself into a nice hot bubble bath, all thoughts of what’s happening in the world have been replaced by “what colour nail varnish should I wear?

That’s me anyway

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By *issykissyMan
1 week ago

York

I think I'm sissy, never been with a female, thin, loves cock and dressing up.

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By *ohncukMan
1 week ago

dartford

Liking this

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By *achaelHTV/TS
1 week ago

Bosworth

Well i'm neither effeminate or camp

but I do love to wear my panties and stockings

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Linwood

Not sure if I’m a sissy or just a slut lol x

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By *tephanie SomtimesTV/TS
1 week ago

South Derbyshire

"I guess everyone probably identifies a little differently.

For me, it’s a state of mind... "

I would agree with Sue, it's a state of mind rather than what you wear but that does add to the enjoyment of being a sissy.

Angel50, I agree with you, it started at school. I've written elsewhere that in infant school I preferred to play with the girls in the Wendy House rather than kick a ball around with the boys.

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By *ate500TV/TS
1 week ago

Newcastle/Durham

For me a sissy is a man who enjoys a specific type of femininity-based roleplay that is controlled by a more dominant character.

?Basically, it’s a kink where a man adopts a submissive, feminine persona and fucking loves it.

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Its a fetish enjoyed by far more people who want to be a sissy than those who enjoy a sissy's company.

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By *ral AnnieMan
1 week ago

Camberley

"For me a sissy is a man who enjoys a specific type of femininity-based roleplay that is controlled by a more dominant character.

?Basically, it’s a kink where a man adopts a submissive, feminine persona and fucking loves it. "

Exactly…… and I do love it!

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By *owzerMan
1 week ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name

Someone who appears to be homosexual

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By *aid2TV/TS
1 week ago

Swindon

A sissy is a dressed, braindead, cockwhore.

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By *olves404Man
1 week ago

Tipton

As a sissy its my purpose to please men sexually anyway they want and to take the feminine roll in bed as in life

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By *ucy_juicyTV/TS
1 week ago

W Midlands

"A sissy is a dressed, braindead, cockwhore. "

That confirms it, I’m definitely a sissy

Anyone who would like to make sure ?

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

Unattractive!

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By *ucy_juicyTV/TS
1 week ago

W Midlands

"Unattractive!"

It’s an acquired taste for people that is true Sir

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By *emboitrainerTV/TS
1 week ago

Washington

Meeeeee. And I love it. XxxxX

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By *acyjones2TV/TS
1 week ago

Bamber Bridge

"Not sure if I’m a sissy or just a slut lol x"
I'm both .x

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By *weetpee9853Man
1 week ago

Exeter

I meet old school fruend in a pub we were talking as both had our sons wuth us ,i came out said he surprised he throught i was gay as i was bit of a sissy when younger.

All he know how true thdt my wife dont know .

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By *iassloverMan
1 week ago

Rugby

"🙋🏼‍♀️ me, I’m a sissy ☺️ x "

You do look rather amazing in your pictures

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By *arti G xTV/TS
1 week ago

Chandlers Ford

Does it really matter, sissy, fem, as long as your happy with who you are that's what counts

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By *ulio69Man
1 week ago

Thirsk

On another site I was called a sissy lots because I was cuckold, sub and wore panties. I sort of came to just accept it

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By *ountainMan
1 week ago

ipswich

I guess sissy is the opposite of macho.

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By *elly_leKTV/TS
1 week ago

corby

To me sissies like dressing up in female clothes and are very submissive. They like to give up control to someone else. They are often in chastity as this accentuates their submission and that their role is to serve and give pleasure.

I consider myself to be a combination of a sissy and a CD.

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By *essy CumsMan
1 week ago

Epsom

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By *elly_leKTV/TS
1 week ago

corby

"Me"
Get that clitty caged!

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By *ntoniacd40TV/TS
1 week ago

Guildford

100 % sissy

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull

"I'm not a cross dresser, 18 stone and 6ft 4 ain't never gonna work 😂

But I do feel like I have a sexual feminine alter ego "

I'm the opposite, 5'8" and a slim(ish albeit with a dad belly) body that can vaguely pass for feminine in a well posed pic, but although I wear lingerie I feel all-male and pumped up with masculine libido when I do.

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull

"Its a fetish enjoyed by far more people who want to be a sissy than those who enjoy a sissy's company."

Which makes those who appreciate it all the more desirable.

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By *othslutTV/TS
1 week ago

London

"To me sissies like dressing up in female clothes and are very submissive. They like to give up control to someone else. They are often in chastity as this accentuates their submission and that their role is to serve and give pleasure.

I consider myself to be a combination of a sissy and a CD. "

Same here, I’m not always submissive but I can be

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By *ark81777Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

Im visiting my new sissy sub tomorrow who will answer the door caged and fully dressed then will please me as she's told too!

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By *ascha30TV/TS
1 week ago

newcastle

Me too x

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By *ayHaychMan
1 week ago

Near Leeds

"When I was a youngster the term sissy or sissy-boy was a major insult like queer or poof was then. It was usually aimed at a boy who was a bit timid and hated sports etc. I think in the context of adult gay/bi men it implies effeminacy, campness, those who crossdress and have a feminine alter ego."

When I was 19 working in the University as a student helper role, a female manager asked me “Are you a poofter”. Everyone gave her an odd look but me being oblivious to many things in life at that point had no clue what she meant, so I just said “err no”. In hindsight I could have made it very awkward for her by saying yes and talking about some gay sexual escapades

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By *tephanieSnowTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Rotherham

Got a love/hate relationship with the word.

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By *nglosaxon69Man
1 week ago

Norwich

From FL Kinktionary

Sissy

A person of any gender, though primarily masculine-identified, who engages in being feminized as a kink. This can also include being humiliated in order to reach a different emotional or mental state.

A sissy may be submissive to their partner, though a sissy may instead be a bottom who gets their kink fulfilled by a Top. A sissy may also pair with a FemDom.

Controversy

While many people have a sissy kink and play with this dynamic, many others are offended by this term because of the potential for misogyny, reinforcement of gender stereotypes, and potential to trivialize or fetishize transgender individuals.

To address, some people use the term demasculinization instead of feminization to clarify that a sissy is not a female but rather the polar opposite of a stereotypical male. However, this approach does still reinforce traditional gender stereotypes.

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