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"The good thing about is ….., you don’t have to do this. So you’re safe" Thanks for the PSA. I was shitting myself over the prospect I might have to be a cum dumpster to get any sex at all. You've definitely put my mind at ease there  | |||
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"Being a sex addict is not generally considered a good thing though lol. " I can't judge anyone for liking sex and like most I'd prefer more than I get, but I dunno, it's the randomness and any cock will do even if you don't know or like the person it's attached to that I don't understand. It is probably my conditioning and upbringing I know. I like to picture myself as a hedonist but I do actually consider meets carefully, not take anything on offer and try to make them meaningful and pleasant rather than reenacting the last days of Sodom
As I said, I know many get turned on by the precise thing that repels me and it wasn't my intention to shame that. | |||
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"Being a sex addict is not generally considered a good thing though lol. I can't judge anyone for liking sex and like most I'd prefer more than I get, but I dunno, it's the randomness and any cock will do even if you don't know or like the person it's attached to that I don't understand. It is probably my conditioning and upbringing I know. I like to picture myself as a hedonist but I do actually consider meets carefully, not take anything on offer and try to make them meaningful and pleasant rather than reenacting the last days of Sodom
As I said, I know many get turned on by the precise thing that repels me and it wasn't my intention to shame that."Well tbf, liking sex isn't the same thing as being a sex addict. And being slutty in good fun is different from being unable to stop yourself. The point of my comment wasn't to shame anyone but just that I find some guys' use of language around it very weird. Yeah sex is great and all but I see a lot of people post about it like they're smackheads or something. Like if they don't get cock up their arse every 12 hours they'll go into withdrawal. Idk, I just find it odd. | |||
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"'Any cock will do' is probably nymphomania, and not sex addiction. I have very specific boundaries, tastes, turn-on's and off's, whereas a nymphomaniac usually has no filter. I enjoy lots of sex with (sometimes) lots of people. Lots of sex with 2, 3, 4 or 5 people is still quite a lot of sex even for a sex addict. 😆 I wouldnt consider myself sleazy in any way, even when I'm having sex with someone i have no feelings about. Who decides how much is too much?" Well there you go. You're just a guy who likes sex. No problem with that. | |||
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"I get what OP is saying, but I think I definitely have my sleazy moments where I really get off on that as well. " We all probably do. I think of this as a shop window so everything is on display and people.can pic and choose, and many are the same. So a bit of sleaze on here isn't representative of the whole person, just as I'm sure the OP isnt always in women's gear. My profile name does represent what I am and what I do though. | |||
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" Particularly with TVs it seems borderline misogynistic and with masculine guys I dunno, just a bit sleazy and creepy. " This in particular, like some of the messages I receive are borderline abusive lol I kinda don’t like it, like yeah don’t get me wrong when the conversations right it’s right but being sent some violent verbose novel of all the heinous things they intend to do to me and calling me names and stuff haha it’s actually just off putting. I know it’s the internet so a level of anonymity probably brings out the worst in people but god damn! Haha | |||
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"I get what OP is saying, but I think I definitely have my sleazy moments where I really get off on that as well. " Yeah I can get sleazy in the moment, or slutty which I prefer as a word, but I just don't like to make it look like that's all I'm about. | |||
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