FabGuys.com forum: Have you been on a gay journey?

By *dstefi OP Man
5 days ago

Solihull

For those who came to this later in life like me, have you found yourself becoming gayer the more you do it?

When I first started I was probably like many bi chaps, a bit frustrated and mainly looking for TV/TS as a woman-substitute but easier. Wouldn't kiss a guy. Didn't want masc or hairy, too gay and not my style.

But my tastes have evolved. I chose to identify as Man rather than TV/TS last year despite loving my lingerie because it seemed more honest (and realistic, I'd never pass) and reflecting my growing attraction to more masculine men. Finally meeting a hairy guy and kissing him and thinking fuck, this feels good and real and no pretence or artifice, just horny male sex. I described it as flipping quite a few gay switches in my head.

I honestly don't know if it was always there inside me or if it's a learnt behaviour and preference. Interested to know others' journeys.

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By *iversbrumMan
5 days ago

Solihull

I’d definitely say that. I’ve always been bi, but didn’t act on it for a very long time. I have more in the past few years and while I still identify as bi/pan, I’m realistically more gay in outlook and sexuality.

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By *3versMan
5 days ago

glasgow

I've been on a train to Brighton

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By *dstefi OP Man
5 days ago

Solihull

"I've been on a train to Brighton"

16 coaches long?

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By *dinburghjayMan
5 days ago

edinburgh

I think most of us have, sexuality is a fluid thing.

I’ve always fancied men and I’ve always fancied girls. just the one i fancy more changes.

I’m probably more in a guy phase right now but i suspect that will change soon enough.

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By *3versMan
5 days ago

glasgow

"I think most of us have, sexuality is a fluid thing.

I’ve always fancied men and I’ve always fancied girls. just the one i fancy more changes.

I’m probably more in a guy phase right now but i suspect that will change soon enough. "

Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed

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By *dstefi OP Man
5 days ago

Solihull

"Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed"

I knew people like that in Hereford, they'd never lived anywhere else. Which baffled me.

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By *3versMan
5 days ago

glasgow

"Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed

I knew people like that in Hereford, they'd never lived anywhere else. Which baffled me. "

Lol, just like a vagina I've never been to Hereford

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By *andomguy321Man
5 days ago

reading

There was that coach trip to the Larry Grayson museum in Nuneaton back in 2005.

Only 53 miles in distance but it took us very nearly 6 hours to get there ..... The coach stopped at every public convenience along the way.

Shut that door!

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By *xtraoneMan
5 days ago

Gloucester

"Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed

I knew people like that in Hereford, they'd never lived anywhere else. Which baffled me. "

I caught the no 33 bus to Hereford last week didn't know it was a gay journey.

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By *bs4dMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

Haha, I wouldn’t say I’ve become gayer but my tastes changed from sexual experiences.

I’ve said it many times on here before, but I was slow to hooking up as a teenager. Inexperienced. Around 18/19 I set up a profile on a hookup site to help me get more experience sexually, so I could hopefully be more comfortable when I found a boyfriend around my age. I was willing to meet anyone who got in touch.

All the guys who reached out were older, chubby, balding, “ugly”…but suddenly I started getting a taste for that. The more guys I hooked up with the more and more that became what I searched out.

It’s still the case all these years later, and all because I wanted to know how to please a future boyfriend!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
5 days ago

Bedford

For as long as I can remember ive been the same .A cross dresser never wanted to be a woman .ive always liked women's fashion makeup etc.Always been bi sexual although i describe myself as pansexual as for my journey through life its been fantastic and that includes the bad times of which there's been many but far more good times in my 75 +years on this earth x

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By *ytradesMan
5 days ago

colchester

I guess the question is fairly apt to me currently.

Im not certain it wasnt the hnh but the other weekend i had probably the most amazing meet an best sex ever! Even over straight sex. Ive started thinking about the person while out in the real world, they wanted to be a person in my life. Yikes!

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By *udgepackMan
5 days ago

Manc

Always been Bi, my sexuality has never changed

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By *lackbootzMan
5 days ago

Hayes, Middx

"Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed

I knew people like that in Hereford, they'd never lived anywhere else. Which baffled me. "

So you’re comparing someone who has a fixed sexuality with insularity of viewpoint..?

What a fucking stupid and offensive comment.

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By *iassloverMan
5 days ago

Rugby

"I've been on a train to Brighton

16 coaches long?"

Oddly enough....

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By *dstefi OP Man
5 days ago

Solihull

"Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed

I knew people like that in Hereford, they'd never lived anywhere else. Which baffled me.

So you’re comparing someone who has a fixed sexuality with insularity of viewpoint..?

What a fucking stupid and offensive comment. "

You're welcome, winding up tossers is my speciality

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By *omo2026Man
5 days ago

Liverpool

I started off enjoying sucking cock and bi then a fella asked to kiss me and wow been gay ever since

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By *eothelionMan
5 days ago

cheshire

Ive found myself on a sort of journey, loved every minute of it. nowhere near enough exploring yet.

Also Finding myself doing things i never would of dreamt of doing some time ago. Also wanting to do things i still not sure about yet find them hot

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By *iassloverMan
5 days ago

Rugby

For me it was while I was masturbating I started exploring myself and ended up rubbing my taint, then my hole and enjoying how it felt. I started experimenting with things like drumsticks, old (clean) hairbrush handles in thd shower and enjoying it. Then while looking at some porn and seeing a guy analysing fucking a woman and wondering what it felt like, I started getting the idea and thinking what having fun with guys might be like. It kind of went from there really.

I'm very definitely Bisexual, I love girls and always will. It's only after I hit 38 I started exploring with men as I told my current girlfriend I was bi right at the start and then when we went polyamous I was able to explore.

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
5 days ago

Whitley Bay

I am not sure if it was so much a journey, it was more like the big bang. There was nothing then suddenly there was my sexual existence. I did not have a very conventional introduction to gay sex but it left me in no doubt that I craved cock. I am not romantically attracted tomen but I crave the animalistic experience of being mounted and used by a horny man.

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 days ago

Neath

I’ve never had sex with a woman, always known I was gay. Always found big burly hairy men with facial hair turned me on. Like Brian Blessed in Flash Gordon

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

"Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed

I knew people like that in Hereford, they'd never lived anywhere else. Which baffled me.

Lol, just like a vagina I've never been to Hereford "

It can be a bit chaotic traffic-wise and parking is not easy. But it far more pleasant than a vagina.

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
5 days ago

Wakefield

I've only ever been with women. And don't get me wrong, women are fucking amazing, but I've always been quietly intrigued by men. Just never really acted on it except with occasional gay porn sessions or chatting to guys online.

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By *3versMan
5 days ago

glasgow

"Always been gay, my sexuality has never changed

I knew people like that in Hereford, they'd never lived anywhere else. Which baffled me.

Lol, just like a vagina I've never been to Hereford

It can be a bit chaotic traffic-wise and parking is not easy. But it far more pleasant than a vagina."

I find it's always easier to park in the rear lane

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By *ollyMan
5 days ago

Downham market

I feel like I fancy male and female, Im attracted to the person who gives me affection and sex, mostly men nowadays

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By *ittlefishMan
5 days ago

West Yorkshire

I suppose I have. Played a little as a younger man but never considered being ‘gay’.

Found a girl, settled down and never really looked at a guy again for ages until I started regularly looking at gay porn, fingering and using toys on myself and then earlier this year I literally fell into the arms and the bed of a guy and lost my virginity….and my hang ups.

I still look at women, but not with the same desire as I do men - so I’d say definitely bi, but it wouldn’t take much to see me in a gay relationship

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By *MB9Man
4 days ago

Northampton

I'm very much going through the gayest phase of my life. I adore women and find them sexually attractive but my preference right now is for men. My confidence with men is at it's peak and I'm enjoying every minute. Will it last? Who knows but I'm not gonna die wondering

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By *dol1Man
4 days ago

North Wexford

I am definitely on some sort of journey, I think I’ve been bisexual my whole life but only in the last few years acting on my urges with men. I’ve had a few enjoyable experiences but I still feel I haven’t completely let myself go, I would love to be completely relaxed and at ease to explore so much more with men, hopefully it’s all ahead of me

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By *eedsbearmanMan
4 days ago

Leeds

Always on a gay journey

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By *ust4inchesMan
4 days ago

Shrewsbury

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By *dstefi OP Man
4 days ago

Solihull

"Always on a gay journey"

And is it better to travel than to arrive?

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By *ust4inchesMan
4 days ago

Shrewsbury

"I've been on a train to Brighton

16 coaches long?"

“15 cars and 15 restless riders, 3 conductors and 25 sacks of mail”

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By *udgepackMan
4 days ago

Manc

"I'm very much going through the gayest phase of my life. I adore women and find them sexually attractive but my preference right now is for men. My confidence with men is at it's peak and I'm enjoying every minute. Will it last? Who knows but I'm not gonna die wondering "

Sounds great. Just enjoy the ride

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By *hyna HutchMan
4 days ago

valleys

"...There was that coach trip to the Larry Grayson museum in Nuneaton back in 2005.

Only 53 miles in distance but it took us very nearly 6 hours to get there ..... The coach stopped at every public convenience along the way.

Shut that door!..."

Very good.

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By *amieforfun1973TV/TS
4 days ago

bognor regis

Definitely can relate to this. I’m married and As far as I knew I was straight until internet chat rooms got me more into lingerie, specifically wearing per instructions for men to like

Then technology got better and cam chatting enabled me to follow instructions and show the guys which led to meeting.

The older I’ve got the more into cross dressing I’ve gotten and the more attracted to gay sex I’ve become. Still married still like women but the excitement of meeting a man and submitting to him is very strong

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By *eedmenow2000Man
4 days ago

Aberdeen

The more cock you suck the more cock you crave especially for the cum

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
4 days ago

Linwood

going back to the cottage after the first time i sucked a guy through the glory hole is my journey lol x

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